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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Paulin.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you so much, dear blog. As you guys know,
my husband Hobby and I'm we are a different kind
of couple when we come when it comes down to fighting.
I know sometimes I can take it to hell necklace
for everybody. Everybody gets it, not just Hobby, but the
way we fight is very not traditional and it's almost
kind of silly. But to me it means a lie
and it means something when we fight, because my fights
(00:24):
with him are and I know we've talked about before
where like I got upset once and I cried because
he called me a clown and I was very upset.
I was very very hurt. I was like, I'm not
being a clown, Like I'm actually very serious about the topic.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
And I actually see Hobby with his straight face and
very little emotion calling you.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
A cloud, like stop being a clown, and it is like,
I I can't.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I Also, I have to say I don't have the
I don't think I've ever had the bulls to call
someone i'm dating a clown. Yeah, No, I don't think
i've ever. No I've said I've said, I.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Said, I've said worse right, No, I've said I've said worse.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I've said worse than that, but they may or may
not have earned the title.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
But why else may or may not being a clown
in that moment. But our latest one is he doesn't
believe me about something and it makes me so angry.
And I'm like, can you just admit this?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
And he won't.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I have told him time and time again. I'm like, listen,
you're a hard working man, Like I see you out here,
you aren't working okay, And I was like, but do
you understand that I can out hustle you, so I
run laps around you when it comes to my hustle.
So our latest my husband, who can hustle?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yes, like this are funny. Why is this even an
argument worth having? That's a rhetorical question. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
We've just gotten into a couple of times and I'm like, bro,
like I could run laps around you. My life is
different today. I'm like the primary caregiver for our daughter,
like hobbies, working two jobs, like I am the home
my daughter after I get off the radio, So like,
I get it. But I was like, if we switch
places so quick, do you understand the laps I would
run around you like I am a hustler at heart.
(01:57):
That is who I am. I'm like, you cannot take
it away from me. And I was like, but you
knew me. I was like I was doing this, I
was working there, I was doing I was always going
outside and getting some money. And he's like, that's not true.
He's like, you would be running errands, which is not
wrong to target. You'd be returning stuff. You put your
little dress out and go to the nightclub, then go
to work two hours later and think that you were hustling, Like,
but she were just out, you were outside.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
I don't like that, you know. I like Hobby.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
No, I love him. I love him so much. But
like he's not wrong with that part. Like I would
just go out and like party, yes, but I would
hustle before that, like I would always get some money. Like,
don't get me wrong, Like I'm a hard worker. And
I think he and I don't like align with that
because he sees a different, a softer side of me.
Let's just say I'm in my soft girl era, Like
I'm not like necessarily taking I mean I am taking
care of right, I'm his wife, he takes care of us.
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You have a whole other company.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
What do you say, I don't think that.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Multiply inside her, but it's nothing to him.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I will say this you you you are a very
hard worker, and you are a hustler. Now, you got
a lot of balls in the air. We don't catch
them all. They're sad. I mean we you know, we're
we're real turing, we're spray tanning where ye philanthropising a.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Bag business brings in a lot.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Yeah, I was gonna say, we're not necessarily reaching the
pinnacle of any one particular thing. I mean, we got
a lot of balls in the air, but the world thing,
and we don't always maybe get them all as high
as they can go. But how do we know, Paulina,
you haven't sold a house. Okay, you haven't finished her.
You haven't sold You have to finish your the test
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like you've coming here and been like I'm a real
tour Well we gotta do that. But what I will
say is all of that represents my argument, which is
that you are constantly trying different things, and you are
a hustler, and so I don't I don't know that.
That's also even if you weren't not an argument I'm
willing to have. I'm not willing to tell the person
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unless they are really lazy, which you are not. I
am not willing to tell the person updating that they
don't do enough. And I'm not saying that's what he
would say exactly right, Well, this is not a fight
I'm willing to have. If you want to be the
biggest hustler in the house, then just be the biggest hustler.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Make me the biggest hustler. I want to be hustling daddy, right,
And like that's the thing too. He didn't even know
me back in the day, even before I worked on
this show. Like I was a student full time, working
with the Park diship full time right interning at a
radio station like in Chicago. I was doing it all
and I will Dan if I do, damned if I don't.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I would let you have this one because I think
the evidence is there that you're that you're trying different
things all the time, and uh, and so I would
let you have this is not we're not, We're not.
That's real. And he's a firefighter and he does his thing,
and he's just I'm not getting into the who works
harder argument because I just don't think you know, unless.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
You want to get into.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
That unless there was something where I need to spend
more money than you because of it. I mean I
suppose that you could get into like if if I
don't know, yeah, if it had like a quantifiable like, hey,
we need to go do this because I work harder
than you and I have you know, I don't know,
like maybe we couldn't afford it or that kind of converse.
But like as far as who works harder and who
does more not doing it.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
And I agree with you too, and maybe because he's
like a traditional job, right, like he's a firefighter, he's
like a salary. So I think that's a big argument
in household A lot it's like, well I have this
traditional check or whatever, and then we worked a different industry,
right are we got to hustle? You know? So I
think a lot of people.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
I don't think this is really work, and a lot
of people, honestly, and a lot of people I will
say this much. I would think the argument of you
wanting to be a radio personality and then you getting
a job upstairs in a different department. I mean, everyone
in this room has a hustle story. Kiki, you know,
and Paulina you have. You have very special hustle stories
that were unconventional that led you to where you wanted
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to be. That in itself, with nothing else, represents hustle
to me. You are now on the show, you've been
on the show for a long time. Are you doing
great that that in itself is enough of a hustle
argument for me