September 23, 2025 • 4 mins
Paulina and her husband aren't seeing eye to eye because she wants to get their baby's ears pierced and he does not!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tell them nun. Yeah, they talk better than they excited.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
you're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes you've got one.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Go.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Thank you so much, dear blog. We've discussed this when
my baby Gigi was born. She is a year and
a half years old today as I speak at this moment,
and I'm revisiting something because it's really bothering me and
I really really really want to.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Get my baby's ears pierced.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Okay, I've had my ears piers when I came out
of the womb, like I think I was three days
old when I got my ears piers.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
You can't installed pretty much.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, Martin made sure that was like part of the
package when you get to like select your baby and
stuff and like yeah, when I come with yeah, that.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Was that was the thing I can when you build it, yeah,
get a bear Tesla, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Build a bear Villa Tesla, build your baby.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So like I loved my ears piers, my mom says
I didn't. I don't believe that, because yes, I know
sometimes when the baby's changing out of like a onesie
or something or you're changing your baby's clothes. Sometimes the
earrings get caught in the clothing. I understand these things happen.
I will be very careful. I wouldn't be reckless with
my baby's ears. I'm very aware, but I feel i'm demir.
(01:05):
But my thing is that I'm not releasing eye to
eye with my baby's father, baby daddy, husband, Javier.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
I'm mad so I call him baby's father.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Yes, I love how the last thing that you call
him as your husband, I'm mad right now a lot
of other things that's your husband.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Okay, I'm very upset. So we are budding hens right now.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
We are not well because I want to do when
he doesn't, and I don't understand why, like you got me.
I'm just I'm just why, Like I had mine peers
like a lot of people do, like my mom's polish
when I'm not polish, Like that's like a thing that
we do. It's very common to in Hispanic culture, and
my baby seventy five percent of Mexican like, let's do this,
like this is like a baptism of its own.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
And he won't let.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Me be weird. I think that you want that too.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
I was thinking more of her nose.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I think that's strange. The ears are one thing, okay,
I'll connected to the belly button. That's weird with the
chain you know it gets straight?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Oh too soon?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeah? I think more like a five or six year
old thing to do. Yeah well wait, well what you do?
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Go through that? Make sure that you like where the
dots on her tiny little ears are.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Because my best friend god Love got it done where
her family's from in Mexico where they live, and she
did not like the placement.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
So our little go kaya got three holes in.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Her ears instead.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
You're kidding, yeah, because she was like, can you readjust
so make sure that we figure out she does.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
And she's fine.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Their babies they're resilient, but you got to make sure
that they you like where they put it.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
What is the objection? Like?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
What is his issue? I really don't know. It's just
that she just doesn't want media. We don't need to
do this, and I think we absolutely need to do this.
She's my little daughter, my little angel, and I want
to get our little earrings. She's already got the gold earrings,
the little gold hoops, she got them all Like I
love gold, So I want her to wear.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
It without his blessing.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Okay, so his mother and I are on the same page.
You know, we do hang out often. There might be
a day where we're just out and about. We'll just
walk into a Claire's or maybe not Claire, walk into
the pediatric's office and do it the pediatrician they can.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
We'll just happen to stroll by, you know, for a walk,
and we'll go to the doctor. Sounds like this is planned.
It might be.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
There might be some planning. I really want to do it,
but I know it's not the right thing to do.
Me and Hobby, we have a very honest relationship. We're
very much on the same page about everything, not always
like mentally, but we come to you're very much.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Not on the same relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
But because we meet each other halfway, and I'll give
us that, you know, we're really good at that part.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I don't know this one. I I gotta win this one.
Like I don't win much in my marriage. I'm gonna
be very honest, I don't win much. This is what
I need to win.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
So you're you're just gonna go do it.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Yeah, everybody's on my side, but but why now like,
why do we have to do it now if he
has an objection, because I would have done it like
a year and a half ago. But now I'm revisiting this,
I'm seeing all her little earrings, and I'm like, well,
she has them.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
They were gifted you where she was less traumatic now
and probably less traumatic now than than when you're you know,
thirteen years old.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
I remember mine and I was fine. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
I mean, I know it's no I did it with
a gun and it was completely fine, But I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I mean, I I see both sides.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I see people being able to wait and let the
child make the choice, and I also know it's a
cultural thing. But poor Hobby is gonna Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
It's not gonna be great. Well tell me, like, hey,
I could be taking her to go get a tattoo.
I do not see it. It's like I could be worse.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
It could be correct.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
We're gonna get her, come on, look at the brightset.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
We could be going to Vegas, yes, see, get hammered
and gamble all your money away. Actually he'd probably be
into that. Actually, yeah, I get that.
Tell them nun. Yeah, they talk better than they excited.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
you're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes you've got one.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Go.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Thank you so much, dear blog. We've discussed this when
my baby Gigi was born. She is a year and
a half years old today as I speak at this moment,
and I'm revisiting something because it's really bothering me and
I really really really want to.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Get my baby's ears pierced.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Okay, I've had my ears piers when I came out
of the womb, like I think I was three days
old when I got my ears piers.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
You can't installed pretty much.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, Martin made sure that was like part of the
package when you get to like select your baby and
stuff and like yeah, when I come with yeah, that.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Was that was the thing I can when you build it, yeah,
get a bear Tesla, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Build a bear Villa Tesla, build your baby.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So like I loved my ears piers, my mom says
I didn't. I don't believe that, because yes, I know
sometimes when the baby's changing out of like a onesie
or something or you're changing your baby's clothes. Sometimes the
earrings get caught in the clothing. I understand these things happen.
I will be very careful. I wouldn't be reckless with
my baby's ears. I'm very aware, but I feel i'm demir.
(01:05):
But my thing is that I'm not releasing eye to
eye with my baby's father, baby daddy, husband, Javier.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
I'm mad so I call him baby's father.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Yes, I love how the last thing that you call
him as your husband, I'm mad right now a lot
of other things that's your husband.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Okay, I'm very upset. So we are budding hens right now.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
We are not well because I want to do when
he doesn't, and I don't understand why, like you got me.
I'm just I'm just why, Like I had mine peers
like a lot of people do, like my mom's polish
when I'm not polish, Like that's like a thing that
we do. It's very common to in Hispanic culture, and
my baby seventy five percent of Mexican like, let's do this,
like this is like a baptism of its own.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
And he won't let.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Me be weird. I think that you want that too.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
I was thinking more of her nose.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I think that's strange. The ears are one thing, okay,
I'll connected to the belly button. That's weird with the
chain you know it gets straight?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Oh too soon?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeah? I think more like a five or six year
old thing to do. Yeah well wait, well what you do?
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Go through that? Make sure that you like where the
dots on her tiny little ears are.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Because my best friend god Love got it done where
her family's from in Mexico where they live, and she
did not like the placement.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
So our little go kaya got three holes in.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Her ears instead.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
You're kidding, yeah, because she was like, can you readjust
so make sure that we figure out she does.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
And she's fine.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Their babies they're resilient, but you got to make sure
that they you like where they put it.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
What is the objection? Like?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
What is his issue? I really don't know. It's just
that she just doesn't want media. We don't need to
do this, and I think we absolutely need to do this.
She's my little daughter, my little angel, and I want
to get our little earrings. She's already got the gold earrings,
the little gold hoops, she got them all Like I
love gold, So I want her to wear.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
It without his blessing.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Okay, so his mother and I are on the same page.
You know, we do hang out often. There might be
a day where we're just out and about. We'll just
walk into a Claire's or maybe not Claire, walk into
the pediatric's office and do it the pediatrician they can.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
We'll just happen to stroll by, you know, for a walk,
and we'll go to the doctor. Sounds like this is planned.
It might be.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
There might be some planning. I really want to do it,
but I know it's not the right thing to do.
Me and Hobby, we have a very honest relationship. We're
very much on the same page about everything, not always
like mentally, but we come to you're very much.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Not on the same relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
But because we meet each other halfway, and I'll give
us that, you know, we're really good at that part.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I don't know this one. I I gotta win this one.
Like I don't win much in my marriage. I'm gonna
be very honest, I don't win much. This is what
I need to win.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
So you're you're just gonna go do it.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Yeah, everybody's on my side, but but why now like,
why do we have to do it now if he
has an objection, because I would have done it like
a year and a half ago. But now I'm revisiting this,
I'm seeing all her little earrings, and I'm like, well,
she has them.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
They were gifted you where she was less traumatic now
and probably less traumatic now than than when you're you know,
thirteen years old.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
I remember mine and I was fine. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
I mean, I know it's no I did it with
a gun and it was completely fine, But I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I mean, I I see both sides.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I see people being able to wait and let the
child make the choice, and I also know it's a
cultural thing. But poor Hobby is gonna Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
It's not gonna be great. Well tell me, like, hey,
I could be taking her to go get a tattoo.
I do not see it. It's like I could be worse.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
It could be correct.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
We're gonna get her, come on, look at the brightset.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
We could be going to Vegas, yes, see, get hammered
and gamble all your money away. Actually he'd probably be
into that. Actually, yeah, I get that.
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