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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Fred Show is on. It's stay or go. Hi. Stephanie
is here. Hi Stephanie, good morning. Hi, Good morning Stephanie.
So fair go a little group therapy here. What's going
on with this? Is your your husband, your boyfriend, my boyfriend?

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, I wanted to get some advice from y'all, and also, like, honestly,
I kind of a bone to pick with you.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
Oh is that right? A bone to pick with us?
This would be good? Please you? No, okay, she did
all of you all? Thank you? Get the strap collective.
It's a collective of you. When I hear you, it's
all of us. So what hat what's going on?

Speaker 2 (00:47):
Okay, So my boyfriend and I are expecting a baby.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Congratulations by the way, that's very exciting.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
Thank you. Yeah, it was really exciting. But like he
really upset me the other day and honestly, like I'm
still upset about it, and and I'm just really kind
of shocked by something that he did.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
So he he.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Told me the other day that he gave his ex
heads up that we.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Were expecting, okay, and I just that's exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
Yeah, Yeah, this is why I'm a little upset with
you all. You're like, because like we got into an
argument about it, you know, and and he said, like,
the one of the reasons he did it was because
you all were talking about how it hurt Tom Brady
must be that you have a baby, and we.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Did do that. Yeah, that's that is confirmed. Yeah okay,
so yeah, Wow, we're being brought into arguments now, like
real life arguments exactly my relationship. Well I don't okay,
all right, So so then did he do it or
or is he try was going to do it, or

(02:01):
he asked you if he could do it. No, we
already did it. And then he told me afterwards, okay.
And his justification was one I heard that it was
okay on the Freend Show, which I'm not sure if
that's a solid argument. What was his other points?

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Well, so he said he didn't want her to find
out like everyone else online, like you know, when we
post about it publicly, and and he thought he should know,
she should know advance because they were planning to get
married and they had talked about having a baby, and
so he thought the news might be tough for her,
you know. And so his argument was he was just

(02:38):
trying to be nice and thoughtful.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
I have a few questions one, how long were they together?
And then two how much contact do they still have?
And you know, three are you aware of it? Like
are you is it all on the up and up?
Like it? I mean, he's was transparent enough to tell
you that he's going to contact her about this, but
like what it's kind of the nature of that relationship right.

Speaker 4 (03:03):
Well that I mean, that's why it's so weird because like,
as far as.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
I know, they haven't talked in like two years, Well,
then I don't know that he has an obligation to
inform her of anything for two years. If they haven't
spoken in two years, then I don't. But see, that's
a little different than the Jiselle tom Brady thing because
I assume that Tom Brady and Gazelle have a dialogue
because they still have kids together, So I would imagine
that there's still a dialogue and a day to day thing.

(03:26):
And the whole jiu jitsu thing was a little controversial,
So I don't know that maybe if they thank you,
I've been practicing it from the mirror. So if they
you know, if they have a daily dialogue and they're famous,
which means that anything that either one of them do
is going to get blown up. Then I would think
it would be respectful in that case to say, hey,
by the way, this is going to come out. I

(03:48):
just want you to know. But you guys, as far
as I know, are not famous, so it's not as
though this is going to get blown up. I mean,
this is one person's reaction that he's worried about, ye, and.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
It just seems weird for him to be concerned about
something that.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Was so far in the past. Yeah, because again, maybe
I don't know. Maybe if they broke up three months
ago and it was over not having a kid, and
then now he's got a girlfriend and she's pregnant, I
don't know, and maybe there's a maybe depending on the
nature of the breakup, maybe there's some kind of conversation
to be considerate. But again I don't even know that

(04:25):
it's an old relationship, So I think that it's just
a very different situation than the Tom Brady Gazelle thing
that we were referring to. I mean, I think they
would have to have some form of dialogue already that
you would have to be comfortable with in order for
there to be any need, you know what I mean, Like,
what's the existing tie there isn't one two years Check
the phone. Check the phone right now? You agree with me? Yeah,

(04:50):
I do. We reserve the right to vacillate, reserve the
right to completely change our opinion in this case, though,
I don't think he has any obligation to tell her right. Actually,
if they don't talk, No, and.

Speaker 5 (05:03):
I thought they I thought that they had kids for.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
A minute or something.

Speaker 5 (05:06):
Maybe they had like a child or something they share
a kid. No, there's no tie.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
No, not that I can see again. The kids thing,
it's like, hey, we have a kid together, just say,
you know, I got another one come in and like
we're gonna you know, there's gonna be interaction now between
you know, two kids. Again, if there was some sort
of natural tie, and I can see why you might say, hey,
heads up, you're about to see this on social media
or you might hear about it, or hey, something exciting
is happening for me. But if I am not calling
an ex from three years ago or two years ago

(05:31):
and being like, hey remember me, heads up? Because if anything,
that to me seems a little a little unless it's
some kind of like spike text, you know what I'm saying,
Like this could have been you, but it's not right.
Why are we doing that? Why do you care to
even do that? No, I don't know, Stephanie, I'm with you.
I don't. I don't think that there is any real

(05:52):
need for him to do this. And I kind of
wonder what his motivation is.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
I do because people do that too, right, Like, no, No,
I'm worried too, now, wh I don't.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Mean to worry you. I just think you might want
to dig in a little further as to why he
feels the need to do that. Oh, you should worry.
You should absolutely worry. Come on, I'm just trying to
ease my mind a little bit. I agree with Keky.
Thank you guys. I am shocked you too.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
Well.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
This isising this man of cheating, right, So Kaitlin and
Fred didn't.

Speaker 5 (06:20):
Don't people reach out to you and say I'm getting
married not a baby, but they'll be like, hey, I'm
getting married, Like heads up, it's kind of like given
the same energy.

Speaker 1 (06:27):
I don't like it. Close your things, right, I don't understand,
like what you're trying to do. I had a situation.
I'll let you go, stephan you have the radio on
and uh, and let's take some phone calls on this
and see what people have to say. But good luck
and thank you. I'm sorry that we close to fight,
but thank you for listening and for giving us a
chance to uh honestly to take you aside here, I
think I take you aside. I have a lot of
questions and I think you should be asking them too, right.

(06:48):
Thank you, good dame, and congrats on that. By the way,
Lady worried now wish you should be worried. Should be
plenty for her eight five five, five nine, one one
oh three five. No. I mean that's a weird one
because like, I had someone that came in and out
of my life and we were I thought we were
like good on on like a base level, and we

(07:11):
messed around, and then things got a little weird for like,
I don't know, a few weeks after that, and then
maybe I don't know, maybe six months go by, and
I'm like, I wonder, why was that person weird with
me after this? And like what? And then I go
and look at this person's Instagram and it's the happiest
day of my life and it's her with some guy
with a ring on her finger, and I'm like, that
did not happen in the last six months, like and

(07:33):
I don't know, Like and I was, we were still
having like a bit of a dialogue that then got
really distant. I think in that case, the nice thing
to do would be, like, I very clearly have a
boyfriend and I'm on my way to getting engaged, so
we should not talk anymore. Like I think that would
have been the nice thing to do if you like
the other person and respected a person is just say, hey,
heads up, please stop texting me or stop texting men

(07:53):
under this, under these circumstances, because I'm not We're not
going to do that anymore because I have a boyfriend
and I'm getting engaged. I think that would be a
nice thing to do for someone who you're still actively
or who's still actively reaching out to you, because not
only did I not know about the boyfriend, I certainly
didn't know about the engagement or that there was any
sort of potential for that. So I would have been
cool because she makes the other person feel less stupid,

(08:15):
because then I go look at the thing and I'm like, well,
now I know why it was weird because a person
was unwilling to tell me what was really going on.
So I think that, like, if you still have a
dialogue with someone, then to be intentional and transparent is
the right thing to do. But I'm not going to
call my ex and five years ago and go hahah's sage. Yes,

(08:35):
that's why it's very well. Somebody brought in, right.

Speaker 5 (08:39):
They said that their ex let them know that he's
proposing to his girlfriend because he knew that she still
had feelings for him. I can, I guess kind of
see that, Like what if ex girlfriend has strong feelings
and he wanted to tell her instead of.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
Like the whole bast thing. That's not my responsibility unless
we're still talking, right it was two.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
Years I agree, But I can see the feelings part
if like, let's just say what she really like loved
him and thought this was going to be her.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
I don't know. I'm just double's advocate. I only think
I owe it to people I am currently speaking to
for some reason, and I should not be talking to
people from my past or or people I've hooked up with,
or people who would be emotionally damaged by me getting engaged.
I shouldn't still be talking to those people if I'm
not to get engaged. Hey, Jake, good morning, welcome, Hey.

Speaker 3 (09:24):
Fred Rog, Kaylen, Pauline, Jathon Brown.

Speaker 1 (09:30):
Don't forget Bellahamin Shelly for that man, And of course
I'm so sorry, you know what, and you're forgiven. No,
thank you, what say you?

Speaker 3 (09:40):
Thank you, thank you much appreciated.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
Bred.

Speaker 3 (09:43):
I completely agree with you one hundred percent here. I
think there's definitely some communication issues. I think there might
be some even boundary issues. I would never never I mean,
why reach out to an x their exes for a reason.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know why you have been is
written all over it. He's either still has he either
still has feelings for her, he has a dialogue with her.
I don't know why he feels an obligation. I really don't,
because well again maybe and maybe if they were friends,
maybe they remain friends. Then his new girlfriend should be

(10:17):
well versed on the nature of that relationship and shouldn't
be the least bit surprised that he called her. But
she is. She doesn't know the full extent of what's
going on. Jake, thank you, thank you for doing all
of our names. I love you, but like hey, I'll
take care you love the tangent. Hope you all to
do a live show before you know. We're working on
We're working on it, and we're working on a big
celebrity guests. It won't before the end of the year.

(10:39):
We're celebrity guest, Jake, thank you, have a good day,
Hugh j level celebrity guests and by A I mean
lower case A. But we're working on it. Hey, Maria, Hi,
good morning. I'm Maria. What did you want to say
in starego?

Speaker 5 (10:57):
Well, I mean, it doesn't make sense for him to
get his exa heads up and compare to Tom Brady.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
And Giselle they were not married then they don't have kids.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
I agree, it's the difference now he were married, right, Yeah,
they were.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
Married for years and they have children, and it makes
sense for him.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
And we don't know what Tom Brady did because we
didn't hear. We've the rumors about what Tom. We always
seem to focus on in that relationship. Is that Giselle
and the instructor, that the martial arts instructor. I'm afraid
to say it again, we're involved with something. But I
think you know, just because that was a little bit
blurry and because everybody knew that there was going to
be a big story and because they still have a dialogue.

(11:37):
I can see why she may have gone to him
ahead of time and said this is going to come
out and it's going to feed the bs. But only
those two really know what happened in that relationship. She's
getting a hard time, of course for having a boyfriend
and moving on. But what we don't know is how
long was that relationship over? What did Tom do? If anything?
You know, it doesn't have to be nefarious, but you're right,
totally different situation exactly. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
I was like, he's been over with that girl for
two maybe plus years, and to give her a heads up, it.

Speaker 5 (12:07):
Doesn't make sense.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
He don't need to be calling her. Thank you, Maria,
have a good day. You love you, guys, I love
you too. It's like there's unfinished business there. It's like
he wants her to know. It's like, imagine getting the
best news of your life. You're having a baby, and
the thing that pops in your head is like, oh,
I let me tell my ex what because you still
want that?

Speaker 3 (12:24):
Right?

Speaker 1 (12:25):
Yeah? I don't know. Hey, Colleen, Hi, Hi Colleen, welcome
to the show. So Starago just said, if you're just
tuning in, this woman called and she said that she
and her boyfriend are expecting, and one of the first
things that he thought to do and did was called
his acts of two years ago to let her know
that he was having a baby with another woman. Why
and and the girlfriend's like why and I tend to agree.

(12:49):
And then he brought us into it, saying that we
said that it was okay because of the Tom Brady
and Gazelle thing, which is not the same.

Speaker 4 (12:57):
Yeah, I don't know why they brought you guys into it.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
That's so weird, No, I know, But what do you think?

Speaker 4 (13:03):
I I completely agree with like Rufio and Kiki that
like she should be scared, because that's that's a weird
thing to do, is like go like you get yeah, exactly,
you get the best news of your life, and then
you go and tell your ex like that's that's really weird.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
And it's been two years since they've been together. I
don't know.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
I don't like that.

Speaker 1 (13:24):
I was just I wasn't trying to overly alarm a
pregnant woman. But you know what, I think she should Absolutely,
she should be very worried. Exactly, she should be very worried.
I just want to say, I want to upset her too.
Thank you, Colleen, have a good day. Thank you all right,
love you too. Well, there you go. Problem solved. What
if it's a girl and he names it? Oh dude,

(13:45):
I wouldn't be surprised. Oh my god. Find out what
that woman's name is immediately, the entertainer report after flow
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