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August 5, 2025 12 mins

George is conflicted after his girlfriend stopped sharing her location with him after they got into an argument, he wants to know if this is a red flag. Fred and the crew discuss this relationship drama!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's stay or go. George is here to tell his story. George,
he's the I have a scene on the couch, George,
pets can't be using epotherapy anymore, so we're here. Tell
us what's going on with you and just use your girlfriend. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
So I'm just trying to figure out if this thing
that she does is like a red flag or if
I'm just being paranoid.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Okay, all right, so explain what do you think she's
now doing that could be a red flag? Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
So a while ago, we were at a music festival together,
so we shared our locations with each other so that
like we wouldn't love each other in the crowds and whatever,
and we just never turned it off. And it's been
like fine and helpful to have each other's locations at times.
But now she does this thing where wherever we get
into a fight, she'll turn off her location, so I

(00:53):
can't see where she is anymore.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
It sounds like some people in this room.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Yeah, sure it does.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
I could see two or three of them, all three,
maybe all three.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Nobody's getting my location.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah, I'm the same. We'll say, you guys are funny
locations on you get in a fight. She turns it off,
and then when you make up, she turns it back on.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
Yeah, she'll put it right back on, which I just
think is really shady.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
She not doing anything. She's not doing anything. She's just
trying to get under your skin. She's not doing anything.
If it were every time, if it were not every time,
maybe we're one time, then she disappears for several days
or something. I don't know. It just it just seems petty.
That's all to me. It seems petty. Do you guys
think it means anything more?

Speaker 2 (01:37):
No.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
I think it's a petty move, kind of like when
people get upset and they change their Facebook's relationship status
or they're changed their Facebook name and drop their husband's
last name.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Like she's just acting out. She wants your attention, I think.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Hmm. I mean, do you have any reason to believe
that there's anything more to it?

Speaker 2 (01:52):
No, I mean that's the only thing that I'm concerned about.
I'm like, I don't have her location, so I don't
I have no reason to believe she's cheating or thing.
I just think it looks really shady. But if you're
rest think it's okay.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
I mean, I'm trying to think if she doesn't disappear,
she I mean, I don't know, she doesn't come back
smell like men's cologne. I don't know, new friend, right right,
I mean, she's not wearing some other guy's sweatshirt, you know,
I don't know. I mean, there would be no other
sign except this petty which seems like a petty move

(02:27):
that she's up to something.

Speaker 4 (02:30):
Yeah, okay, well I don't It makes him feel a way, though,
which is not not okay, Like it's it's making him
feel a certain type of way, so he should address
it because.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
It's not it's not cool.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
I think it's fine to say something like, why are
you doing that?

Speaker 3 (02:44):
You know, why are you doing that?

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Right right? I think you're well within your right to
say something like that's petty and annoying. I don't really
want to believe that you're cheating, but it certainly, you know,
it lends that you. It gives that you don't want
me to know where you are for some reason. Why
would you want me to feel that way? I mean,
I think I think it's fair to say something about it,
but I don't know. I don't know that that in

(03:12):
itself means that she's cheating on you. I mean, it's
a little predictable if she is, like every time I
go to the other guy's house, I turn my located
So okay, I don't know. I mean it seems a
little it does. Is that real slick if she's up
to I feel like sometimes the most petty things that
people do is it's clearly not slick, Like if they
were really up to something, they would be a lot

(03:33):
more shady about it.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
Yeah, here's how I feel. You're not owed my location.
So if I'm pissed at you or you're pissed at me,
then I'm turning it off. You don't get that access
to me during this argument.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
I don't even know why people share location to be.
I mean, you don't even know where I am at?

Speaker 3 (03:45):
Yes, I do.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
You know.

Speaker 5 (03:49):
One person does for your safe Okay, well what if
it's not you, then well it doesn't have to be me.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (03:55):
If another woman in his life, your boyfriend's life.

Speaker 3 (03:57):
I think about you like I worry about you.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Oh me, Yeah, Okay, I'm just saying, like, what if
what if someone else knew where your significant others were,
but it was it that that person didn't choose you, George,
I'll let you go. We're gonna talk about you behind
your back now, but you can listen on the radio,
Eyeheart app. And I don't. Honestly, this is a cut
and dry on me. I don't. I don't think it's
a problem. I mean it's a problem, but I don't
think it means if you're if you're wondering if she's

(04:19):
inherently doing something, I don't necessarily think that she is.
So maybe have the chat with it. Thank you? Yea
having a good day? Yeah, I know they have a
problem solved eight five, five, five nine one oh three five.
First of all, you think that's a problem. Second of all,
do you think that people should be sharing? I mean,
do you want people? If I'm in a relationship with you,
am I obligated to share my location with you if
you so desire?

Speaker 4 (04:40):
No?

Speaker 1 (04:41):
If I don't, does it mean I'm up to something?
And then third thing I would wonder is what is
the petty thing that you do when you get into
have an argument with your the person who you love.
What is the petty thing that you do that probably
drives them crazy? Every time? Kiki will start with you, Oh.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
Well, you guys know what I do. Your name gets changed,
you do my phone.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
Okay, so last time you got in a fight with
Big Tim, it changed what little tan little Tim?

Speaker 4 (05:06):
It changed into some words I cannot say on this show.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
And then just is he aware of this or is
it just for you?

Speaker 3 (05:12):
It's just for me. It's just for me.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
So like even turning the location off, it's like a
little petty move just to I don't know, jab you
a little bit. Oh when you call my phone, it
doesn't say like my love, this is you know some
other things?

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Okay, all right, all right, uh Caylin birthday girl.

Speaker 3 (05:29):
I mean I do this location thing.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
So you get you guys are get in to a
fight and you turn the location off, and it's just like, yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Only if I am leaving, you know what I mean.
I'm not like you don't want to change that for you.
Oh my gosh, no no, no, no. I sometimes I
just like need a minute.

Speaker 5 (05:43):
But I I content like we never shared location in
this like ceremonial, like okay here, it is like I
think one time I needed his location or he needed mine,
and then we just never turned it off. So it
was like it's not something that either of us requires.
So in that case, you don't get it. If I
don't want you to get it, okay, lose access to me.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
Very nice. Yeah, I don't know. I don't think that
needs to be a part of a relationship that I don't.
I don't need to know where you are. You don't
need to know where I am. It's the same way
you don't need my email passwords not that deep for
my phone password, you don't need it. You don't need
it because if you really need to be going through
my phone all the time or need to know where
I am at every waking moment, you don't trust me.
And why don't you trust me? Let's talk about that.
Let's work on that.

Speaker 3 (06:21):
Well, there's not a single place that would be though.
If you just I'm sorry, but you don't know about trust,
that's right?

Speaker 1 (06:27):
Then?

Speaker 2 (06:27):
Why? Oh? Really?

Speaker 1 (06:29):
No? You want his location? Why?

Speaker 6 (06:31):
Because I like to just have everyone to know where
they're at.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
You get what I'm saying. I look at my list.

Speaker 6 (06:37):
I got my neighbors, school teacher on here, like I
got everybody on here, and I think it's really fun
to look how everyone you know what they're up to.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
Where it's everybody at are we assembled? Like, to me,
this is very important.

Speaker 6 (06:48):
I don't need to know where any of these people are,
but it's just nice to know, Like, oh, okay, you know
my sister's at home.

Speaker 3 (06:52):
Okay, Lucy's in bowling Brook, Org. What is she doing there?
Actually shouldn't live there, But you know what I mean.
I like to know what is everybody up to?

Speaker 1 (06:58):
It's early. You heard of being bullying.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
I know this is like a nosy thing. I'm just nosy.
I'm like, okay, everybody's chilling, We're good.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
My husband somewhere.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
I don't know where he is. I don't even press it. Yeah,
it's somewhere. It's not trust.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
But you want to go through his phone too. You've
said that many times.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
That's true to check up, like what up to? Like
talking about me?

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Right? What are you up to?

Speaker 3 (07:20):
You know it's not I trust that man with my.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
You don't need his passwords?

Speaker 3 (07:25):
Well, I just know it because I'm nosy again. I'm
just nosy. You guys, I like cheesemay, I like.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
Stuff like that, Like I just what is your what
do you do?

Speaker 2 (07:32):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (07:33):
Boy? So I would never turn my location off.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
He has my location.

Speaker 7 (07:39):
I do not have his I am a recovering addict,
because there was a while there that I did have
his location and I was like checking it far too much.
So I'm good with the current arrangement, but if I
ever turned off my location, that would be.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
It's either both or none. He doesn't bother me.

Speaker 3 (07:59):
I kind of like, no, he don't need my location.
I need Oh my gosh, I'm dating you, like it's literally.

Speaker 4 (08:05):
You're really it's just crazy, yeah, crazy Timothy's location.

Speaker 3 (08:10):
He doesn't need mine because I leave for real, he
doesn't have your location. He does not. Nobody has my life.

Speaker 1 (08:16):
I am not. I'm not doing fifteen minutes one.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
I felt like super privileged that I had.

Speaker 5 (08:23):
There's not a single place that I would ever be
that none of you could know about.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
I don't understand, but like why, like I just I don't.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
Just need one person to have yours. Please.

Speaker 5 (08:33):
It makes me nervous, Like what if there's something happens
to you.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Well, I'm there.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
Anyway, all of our locations, like anytime we leave an event.
She's like, well, I know you're not gonna give me
your location, Keiki, Hey, but I am concerned.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
I'm like, I'll text you.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
He will text you, I turned my read receipts off.
I turn on D and D and he can see
it's on silent, so he knows I'm ignoring him. I
like that. If anything, I mean, I'll unfriend people, unfollow
or oh that's petty, okay, but vacation on and off.

(09:10):
Guy can me too, because.

Speaker 6 (09:11):
I want you to listen to my stories again too.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Maybe I don't look at everybody's stories all the time.
Why why me?

Speaker 3 (09:20):
Though?

Speaker 1 (09:22):
I don't even think that's true.

Speaker 4 (09:24):
We are.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
I don't even think that's true. I think I comment
you guys are far too focused on what I'm doing
on social media.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
I am, I think about it. What about your couch?

Speaker 1 (09:32):
I don't even think I sit there and read. I
don't even think I look at stories on Instagram.

Speaker 3 (09:36):
That's what I'm focused on that couch.

Speaker 1 (09:37):
I look at stories on If I'm watching your stories
on on TikTok, which I am, both of you, then
I don't Maybe I don't need to look at your
stories on Instagram. I mean, I'm sorry, but I like
to know what you're doing. But I don't have to
watch every single I don't have to validate every single thing.
You do.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
I support your craft.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
Not every No, you don't, not every of you watch. No,
you do not. And I don't expect you.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
To run to your stories because it comes up first
for some reason.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
And I'm like, I don't expect that of you. You
don't have to look at me all day long. You
see me all morning. It's not recorded.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
I love and support my friend.

Speaker 7 (10:11):
Oh boy, have you guys noticed that I'm making an
effort to watch your videos that you send me now?

Speaker 6 (10:15):
Yeah, but you don't reply. I guess I just me
talking to myself. I Instagram, sit down.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
Let me. I'll go out to eat or go to
movies without him. He's are all the text that work's
a good one.

Speaker 7 (10:27):
So I won't feed him. That's probably my petty move
is you won't feed him. I won't provide the food. Yeah,
therefore he won't eat. Oh, there's a hunger strike act.
I kind of wish somebody would not feed me so
I could go on a hunger strike. It might help
me with some of my fitness goals. Hey Becky, good morning.

Speaker 8 (10:42):
By good morning.

Speaker 1 (10:43):
Beg you. So what do you do with your fiance?
You turn your location off?

Speaker 8 (10:47):
Well, yeah, so we've been together for well, not my location,
but well no, yeah, my location. I'm sorry, I'm at
work right now. Sorry, my brain's everywhere.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
No.

Speaker 8 (10:56):
So when when he would get mad at me, he
would turn his location off, and then I started doing
the same because I was like, well, if you're gonna
be petty, I'm gonna be petty too. And then I
was like, this is so mentally exhausting to like keep
doing this as like we get mad at each other.
So I tell him, I was like, you know what,
if you need my location, call my best friends, call

(11:16):
my sisters, because they honestly would probably save me before
he would anyways.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
So wow, yeah, that's the most petty thing you do,
though you don't do anything else.

Speaker 8 (11:27):
No, he has an Android and I have an iPhone,
so we have like Life three sixty if anything. So
there's no read receipts, there's no nothing but no never,
never a cheating thing, just you know, nothing that I
shouldn't be doing. It's just I'm not playing this game
fair enough.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
Thank you so much. Have a good day all right,
by bad day by Yeah, we're not doing location, okay,
but I'll unfollow I love But usually that's that's the
last resort like I'll unfollow somebody like if I'm pretty
sure it's done. I don't want to have to do
the crawling back refollow. I don't want to have to
show them. But I'll tell you what's funny is I

(12:06):
do sometimes look at who is who will refollow me,
because you know, it's like shows up in the notifications
or whatever. And sometimes I'm surprised by who re follows
me because I'm like, oh, I didn't realize that we were,
that you had unfollowed me, you know what I mean.
So it's like or like if I dated somebody, uh,
and then they pop back up as a follow I'm like, oh,
how about that? Yeah, I see things must not be

(12:29):
working well for you. Whatever it was that you were doing.

Speaker 8 (12:32):
Oh no.

Speaker 1 (12:34):
And then I go look at their profile of the
person who just re followed me, I said, well, I
thought that that wedding ring that you had on your
left hand was the best day of your life.

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