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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Fresh Show is on, it's stay or go.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
What if somebody text I had my daughter at forty
and I was a better, more patient, more wise more
stable parents. I do believe that I would worry about
my if I had a nineteen year old, I'd worry
about that kid if I had raised it over the
past nineteen years.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Maybe when I'm forty, I won't be as addicted to TikTok,
So maybe doubt.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I don't think TikTok will be here though, you don't
have to worry about Yeah, it's fine my work. I
was talking to somebody the other day who's the person
in their life works at TikTok, and they were pointing
out to me that she got so excited yeah, and
I are they freaking out? And the person's like, well, yes,
But the thing you got to remember is that the
(00:44):
US TikTok contribution, or the US contribution to the TikTok
you know corporation worldwide corporation, is only ten percent nothing.
So if they if they lose the US, they've still
got ninety percent, you know, of their business still, So
it sucks. But like I guess, they're sort of not
inclined to sell the business, because why would we sell
(01:05):
the whole thing just because the United States has decided
that you can't look at it right.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
But more importantly, you know somebody on the inside.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I do all the way in.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I know it's like, what's your call, Shelley having what's
your McCall's phone number.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
We found out a guy we've been trying to book
for years. He's close personal friends with show. But Shelley,
she knew it the whole time and will not endorse it.
Said nothing, not a thing for years. I ain't standing
enough for you. I vounch you for you trying to
get in MoMA podcast. That's my personal friend. What are
you talking about? Hey, Jenna, Hi, good morning, Good morning Jenna.
(01:38):
Welcome to stay or go in the Fred Show. We're
glad you're here. What's going on? Because you know, as
you know, the right thing to do when you're wondering
about a predicament in your life is to call the
Fred Show a morning radio show. Why would you not
do that? But we do have a cross section of
folks who listen. She might get some interesting perspective. So
what's going on in your life and how can we
probably screw it up? And make it worse.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Go ahead, Well, I'm calling about my husband.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
I'm worried. I recently went on a girl's trip to Mexico,
and of course he stayed home, and you know, when
I got home over the next few days, I just
realized that some of my stuff was put away that
usually wouldn't be you know, like my perfume and my
lufah and you know, girl stuff. And I asked him
(02:25):
about it, and he said, oh, you know, when I
was cleaning, I put stuff away. I forgot to take
it back out. But I've never seen him clean that way. Hmm.
Literally yeah, And so I don't know. I mean, I
feel worried, and you know, I've told my friends about it,
and they think it's a red flag, you know, and
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I just wonder if I'm overreacting, or you know, maybe
I could get the opinion of some listeners out there.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
I mean, like, are the pictures of you hanging on
the wall and stuff they've been replaced by, like you know,
the one the stock photos from talk or like you know,
posters from Spencer's or like I mean, is there is
all the evidence of you erased from the house or
just the bathroom, no it was.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
He also did put away some pictures of us, and
I understand you might dust them or something.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
No, that's not good because I was gonna say, maybe
the dude puts some stuff away because like, you know,
he ever done the kind of cleaning that I usually do,
where you like, you don't really move anything, you just
kind of clean around it. So like if you were
to move stuff, then it's like it's like a little
you know, dust pattern around because I'm too lazy to
actually like pick stuff up and whatever. I've done that
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kind of cleaning before. But I've also done the kind
of cleaning where you put everything away and like you
get the gloves out, you know, and you put your
cleaning clothes on, and you really deep clean. That didn't
happen very often, but that is one thing like that
I could understand.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
But if he removed photos of you and.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
He hid your stuff, because the thing is, my question
was going to be, like, do you think if he
was cheating and bringing some woman over, if that's what
you're spec elating, do you think that all evidence of
you was a raised and this person who he brought
over like had no idea that he was married, like
he was truly trying to pose as somebody who was single,
because I guess it wouldn't matter. But also what I'm
saying is hiding the loof and the razor. Does that
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really like it? You know, eradicate your presence in the
house to the point where somebody comes over and doesn't
think he's up to anything.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
Well that the pictures too, though, Like you said, I
noticed that. Also did you check.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
The jam or was the jellybow was a Shakira story?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
I mean have you ever suspected Jenna that he's up
to anything before? Or is this just kind of a
new thing?
Speaker 5 (04:40):
No? No, I never have.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Huh he cheating girl. You have time to get a
hidden camera, teddy bear or something.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Check that ring camera, check your ring camera, and if
you don't have one, check your neighbors ring camera.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Yes, that's true. You gotta hunger out who.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Was at your house, because somebody was definitely in your house.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I do not like the hiding of the pictures. I
don't like now putting stuff away is one thing.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Maybe.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Look I've done that book like I've damn near organized
somebody else's house before, because it drove me crazy. There
was crap everywhere, so I put other people's stuff away
because I don't want to look at it. But I've
also I've not hidden pictures of the two of us together.
Oh my god, my college roommate. I only had one
for one year, my freshman year. He must have hated
me because he was a complete pig and I, you know,
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am very tidy. And he went away for a weekend
and he came back and I didn't realize at the
time how inconsiderate of me it was, but I organized
all his crap too, Like not his closet, but like
I basically made his bed and cleaned up his desk
and like cleaned up his side of the room. And
he came back and he was pissed, and I'm like,
why are you pissed? I cleaned for you, And it's
that's how he wanted to live, and like that's how
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he gets to live if he wants to. And I'm
the idiot that I thought I was being nice because
I just couldn't.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Live like crap everywhere. This is irrelevant. He's cheating, and
I think it's more than just a hookup. I think
he's got like a full sight piece.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
But if that's the case, he's not hiding stuff because
if he has a full side piece, then that woman
knows he's married.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
That was what I was trying to get to. Technically,
they don't have to know that he's married.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
If he has a full on side we can be
changing the pictures with the two of them.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
You know what I'm saying. He's replacing photos doing that, But.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
You're hiding a loofah like someone's there taking a shower and.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
You're cleaning the shower.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I don't want you to sprits around the loof and
get like chemicals on it.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
The pictures, That's where I'm at with this. The pictures.
Is he hid pictures of you.
Speaker 5 (06:32):
All of them, just a few.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Check the other side.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Maybe it's a double sided photo and maybe he's got
him and another woman on the other side.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Look at that.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
I just feel all right, let me take some phocos
on this heavy radio on jenn I. Let's see what
people have to say. But I wish you the best
of Like I'm sorry you're going through this. My suspicion
here the putting stuff away is one thing that the
removing photos of you and not putting them.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Back is that's not a good thing. I don't like
to thank you, Jenna. I have a good day.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Good luck, all right you eight five three five, You
can call him, text the same number, kicking.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
That man is cheating, And you know what, you can't
blame him because he was respectful enough to clean the house,
but you just not.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
He's not sneaky enough.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Sneaky she would have never known you put the loofa back,
You put the razor back like nothing happen.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah, everybody knows.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
You take pictures of the stuff you're moving so that
you can put it back exactly the way that it was. Ever,
everybody knows that old diddy.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
But he's definitely cheating.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
And she can find it in four K if she
just go ahead and look at that ring camera footage,
or look at the neighbor's ring camera.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Yeah, neighbor to the ring camera. The neighbor is that's
the one that is always overlooked. Yeah, on dateline, I
see it all the time, you know all you Oh
you erase your own ring camera footage.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Oh you sleck.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Oh it wasn't working that night, but Old Smith's house
across the street was working just fine. And I saw
you carry out a rug rolled up in the middle
of the night at the old Smith's house right across
the street. What were you doing? Moving rug rolled up?
That looked real heavy at four in the morning. I
don't who was in there? And your wife's missing? Where's
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that rug? That's what I want to know. What do
you think, Caitlin cheating?
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Not cheating? It's not good. I just feel bad for her.
I feel like we're just like, ha ha, he's cheating.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
You know.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
I felt like you called the Frend Show. I know,
solid advice. Come on now, well I think it is
so advice. He's cheating.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I don't like Jason.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
I think, well, the pictures, I'm hung up on that
with you. But like when I got back at a
trip this weekend. When I got back, there was like
stuff rearranged in the shower and I was.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Like, why do you touch that? Like whatever?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
Then I was like, okay, I'm crazy, Like let me
like chill, like I think you're kind of hyper vigilin
when you come back from somewhere, you know, might do
some of that. But he didn't like remove photos or
my clothes or like do you he said no.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Somebody said maybe he hired a cleaning service. That is true.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I mean I have a cleaning person that comes once
a month, that's all I get.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
And throws away everything.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
And every time I come back, I have to spend
and she does a great job, but I have to
spend thirty minutes putting everything back where I had it,
because you know, they don't care. They're just in there
to clean, and they do the actual cleaning you're supposed
to do, like where you pick stuff up and move it,
not the kind of cleaning I do, which is like
blow on stuff, you know, make it less dusty. I
don't know where that dust goes, but certainly it's not
where I could see it anymore.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Hey Kate, good.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Morning, Kate, Kay days Okay, all right, Kate, Mary, Hi Mary,
Hi Mary.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
So what do you think stay or go? You heard
the story? I think she should go.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah, what happened? What happened to you? You have a
similar experience I did.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
I have very similar experience.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
I would leave for the weekend, whether that was a
day or two.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
I would come back.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Some of my belongings are moved, some of the pictures
were out of place.
Speaker 5 (09:52):
You could she was dust around them.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
Happen used, but it wasn't clean, and I actually end
up it happened so many times that I was like,
what's going on?
Speaker 1 (10:00):
And he just said he was cleaning.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
He moved out of place.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
But I had different suspicions, so I started asking some
of my neighbors did they see.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Anyone when I was in there?
Speaker 4 (10:09):
And that's how it started to kind of unravel. So
I definitely think something's going on.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Okay, Mary, I'm sorry that happened to you, but thank
you for the feedback.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Have a good day.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Glad you called. Stephanie. Hi, Stephanie, Hi, Stephanie. You just
heard the story. This woman went on a girl's trip,
came back her stuff had been moved put away. He
said it, well, he was cleaning. And then she realized
some of the pictures of the two of them had
been hidden, which that to me is the red flag,
not necessarily the movement of the stuff, but the but the.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Pictures of the two of you. What are you things
going on? Stair go.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Go?
Speaker 3 (10:46):
That man was not cleanly exactly, he was clean.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
He was cleaning something.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
No, I agree, I agree, and the pictures the pick
here Stephanie again for it.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
I think I think she should let me low. Get
him a little distance, layla.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
See how he acts.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
And I think she starts, I don't know, saying she's
going to the store and whatnot, just keeping herself a
little distance. And see how here we act.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
And I think.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
And like, yes, in a ring camera.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
I ain't trying to advertise. I ain't trying to advertise.
Ruth who got in home cameras.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
For twenty dollars?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Come on, you get in the TikTok shop, Stephanie, you
can Where are you calling from, Stephanie.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
I'm actually currently calling from rally.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
That's right, we got one. We got one. Any you
know what. Let's We're gonna give you the back number.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
You can call anytime you'd anytime there's a contest, you
call myself and you win. Stephanie, have a great day.
Thanks for calling. Please tell everyone you know our little
endeavor into other cities it is. It's going quite well
from what I'm told. But at least we know that
it's on over there. Yeah, because apparently some days it's
(12:18):
not so. I guess only Monday, Wednesday and Friday between.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Wow, we got it onto the Tuesday. That's amazing.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
I guess Trevor's up there with the satellite moving stuff around,
de pointed it in the right direction. Today he actually
has to physically hold it up all morning, which is
really inconvenient, but oh boy. All right, so the consensus
here seems to be this guy's up to something.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Yep, yeah, check that bluetooth in the car. See who
was last connected, check that phone.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
I think I like the idea of saying Kiki that
you I got another girl's trip, boy something coming up,
and then all come back like Saturday morning, Yes, go
get you a hotel down the street, you know, enjoy yourself,
treat yourself, come on, and then the next morning show
all trip I canceled.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Boom. Yeah, let's see what he's up to. That way,
Stephanie got the right idea. Yeah, I think so too,