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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Bread Show is on. It's stay or go.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Okay, Camille's here, Hi, Camille, good morning, Hi, good morning,
and mea welcome to.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Our little group therapy here.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
We are unlicensed, so but we're also free, so you
know whatever. Let's hear about your situation with your boyfriend.
Rodrigo is the guy's name, right, Yes, Okay, what's going
on with this dude?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
So we are best friends with this couple that is
getting married in about a month, and we were both
supposed to be in the wedding, so like we were
really excited about this, and then Rodrigo just recently got
into this huge fight with the groom. Okay, okay, yeah,
(00:47):
so the groom just like not only kicked out Rodrigo
out of the wedding party, but like uninvited him from
the wedding.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Together, like all together.
Speaker 5 (00:57):
So yeah, the problem, like the huge issue is like
I'm still in the bride's wedding party and I'm invited
to the wedding, so like my boyfriend doesn't want me
to go, Like he wants me to like stand by
his side, not go.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
You have to go, like right exactly, yes, I gotta
mean to cut you off. But like you know, I
assume that's that's the crux of the issues. He doesn't
want you to go because he's mad at the groom
and he was uninvited. But yet you, you and the
and the bride, the other the guy's girlfriend or fiance.
You know, you still have a good relationship, right, I mean,
(01:36):
have you guys talked about this.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
We're like really great friends, Like we're like best of friends.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
So I don't want to miss her big day. That
would be awful.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
So it's Camille.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
It's kind of like you guys are like like those
guys have their thing, and but I still love you
and it doesn't affect our friendship, right right. Okay, well,
then the fastest way to burn down your friendship with
this woman is to stand by your stand by your
your is it your boyfriend in this case and this
dumb fight that has nothing to do with you, and
and miss her big day.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
Right.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
No, you have to you have to go, especially if
you're in the wedding. You have to go.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
We're not going to stand by our man this time.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
No, No, that's their deal.
Speaker 6 (02:13):
It is like that's how I feel too, Like I
feel like he is going to cause a bit of
an issue with me about this, but like, I mean,
it's worth It's like even if we break up, like
it's it's not worth ruining this like years long friendship
that I have with this woman.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
We don't have to get into the fight that they
got in. But is do you feel like because it
really doesn't involve you or her and if your friendship
is strong, then fine, but do you do you have
an opinion about the fight, Like would you say that
your boyfriend's wrong or he's wrong or I mean, is
it a valid reasons for this all to be you know,
so explosive?
Speaker 6 (02:46):
The thing is like he I'm not getting any details
about it. It's just like very vague, like I'm not
at the wedding. It's over, like we're not friends anymore,
Like it's exactly yeah yeah, So I just I'm like, Okay,
this is not like this is not vibing with me.
I don't want to just give up my like my
part in the wedding and my my friendship over over
(03:08):
this guy.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
I mean, maybe you can work it out.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
So speculate too much, but to get kicked out of
somebody's wedding, it's almost and then for no one to
be talking about why something shady happened.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
Do they get into like a lot of dumb fights,
like I know some friendships that it's kind of like that,
or is this like their first fight?
Speaker 4 (03:27):
This is like the first time this has ever happened.
Speaker 6 (03:29):
So I'm like, kind of, I mean, we're not in
a we haven't been in a very long relationship.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
It's only been like about a half a year.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
But yeah, that changes.
Speaker 7 (03:40):
I mean obviously, like I would still be in the wedding.
But if I was like it, like I felt like
wronged by a friend of mine and kicked out of
a wedding, it would be hard to see my you know,
partner go to that wedding if I felt like I
really did nothing wrong. But it sounds like he's not
giving you enough information to even know that, So yeah,
you have to be in the wedding.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Well yeah, and Kaylin, the other thing is the six
month thing. If they're only in a six month relationship,
that also says something, because for sure, there's a couple
of possibilities here. What if they what if you missed
you both missed the wedding, you did it only because
you were standing by this dude, and then they make
up later and then it's like, now you burn your
friendship over here because of a fight that was resolved resolved.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Yeah, it's too new of a relationship exactly. Yeah, nope,
I don't want any of that to happen.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
So like what if you break up with my girl
in the aspect.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Like what if the six month relationship, what if you
find out he was in the wrong or what if
you break up or whatever, and now you don't have
a boyfriend and you've you've kind of burned your friend.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Now you have to you have to go for sure?
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Can you possibly help resolve their issues on saying like
you got to get involved because maybe you don't want to.
Speaker 7 (04:45):
But can you somehow help I don't know, like at
least try it one time, right, see if you can help?
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I think, yeah, Like I mean, I'm gonna talk more
to my my my girlfriend and ask like if she
knows what kind of happens, because I don't want to
just go to like her fiance, like that's kind of weird.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
I don't want to just like step on her toes.
Speaker 6 (05:01):
So like I'll see, like usually you know, everybody tells
each other everything in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
I would hope.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
So, so maybe the groom tolds her what happens, and
I guess I could ask her and see if I
could check something, But I'm going to go to this wedding.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
There's no time.
Speaker 8 (05:18):
Yeah, you should be able to ask your man what happened,
you know, he should be able to provide you details,
not to tell you. Yeah, so and if he can't,
that's a huge red flag.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Yeah, it's making me a.
Speaker 6 (05:29):
Little suspect, Like what is like it all kind of
happens around the bachelor rat party, so like.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
So different than what I thought.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
He's a new wrinkle. But eight five five five three
five group therapy. Now, hold on a second, because people
are texting like what if your boyfriend slept with the
bride or something like what if? What if it's something
really nefarious like that, like what if?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
But what do I know that?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
But like why why are neither one of them talking
about what happened?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
That's yeah, yeah, like we would be.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
I would think if I were uninvited from a wedding
and it had nothing, it wasn't something I didn't want
you to know that. I'm gonna come home and tell
You're not gonna believe this I got uninvited for the
wedding and excluded for the wedding party because of this fight.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Why is he not telling you? Why?
Speaker 6 (06:14):
Right?
Speaker 4 (06:16):
Yeah, it's all giving me a bad gut feeling.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
I don't like it.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
You're a going to there winding and leave with another groomsman.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Oh okay, yes, yeah, I mean.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
This is shady.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
He is very shady like to not give her details.
Speaker 8 (06:31):
She feels like she has to go to the bride
to figure out what actually happened.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
He doesn't want you to go, Like, what are you hiding?
Speaker 9 (06:37):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:38):
And I know we love around here in our textures
and callers love to jump to all these wild conclusions.
I don't mean to put stuff in your head that
may or may not be true. But the bottom line is, yeah,
we all seem to agree. You got to go to
the wedding.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Yeah. No, I'm definitely going to go to the wedding.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
But I also feel like I'm might need to hire
a private investigator something about my boyfriend now that I'm like,
all these things are popping up, all the little red
flag check that out.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Okay, Kimi, I wanna take some phone calls. We'll see
what's going on. With the other people have to think,
but follow up with us. Let us know what you
decide to do. Okay, thank you, thank you eight five
five five nine one three five, Hi gena, good morning,
Good mon. Hey, so you say go to the wedding.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Go to the wedding. Okay, She's gonna regret it if
she doesn't go.
Speaker 9 (07:25):
This guy's only been in her life for six months.
If they kicked them out of that wedding and they
had a huge fight, maybe the guy saw something and
know something and they're trying to protect her. She needs
to go to that wedding because our friends they turn
into lifetime from which turn into family. She needs to
go to that wedding.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Sorry, yeah, I think so too. Thank you, Gina, have
a great day.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
You too.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I think so too. I think that she she's got to.
Even if it turns out later that's something bad happened,
she can deal with that then, because let's just let's
just assume that there is among them and has nothing
to do with the bride, and then that is a
friendship that could persist well beyond the relationship. So why
burn the friendship down by not going over this fight?
(08:12):
Even if there's something nefarious going on, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
But I do love some of these theories.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Antonio on the text the boyfriend took the groom to
a didty party, Marie.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Says, I wouldn't go to the wedding. I stand by
my man.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Oh girl, okay, want it?
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Yeah? Right right beside it.
Speaker 10 (08:33):
It depends what you got invested. You know, I'm gonna
have to stand by my man. You wouldn't go, I
mean honestly, I would. I don't know what would Carner, like,
who I go home to every night and who I'm
laying next to, was like, you shouldn't go to that.
It might not go. I would have to think about it.
It would be a plausible possibility for me.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
So you would be willing to jeopardize the friendship over
a six month relationship and you don't even know why.
Speaker 10 (08:57):
Well, you know him full lesbian. So a six month
relationship is like a six year Relationshi.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Okay, So what if what if you're married with kids
by now grandkids?
Speaker 7 (09:07):
What if your boyfriend became best friends with my boyfriend
and we were getting married, you will live there?
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (09:14):
And then obviously you would be in my wedding party
if I ever got married. Yeah, and so what if
Mike was in my boyfriend's wedding party, Yeah, and then
he got kicked out, you would not go to my
wedding hard.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I would have to know the reason why.
Speaker 10 (09:27):
I would have to know why, because he wouldn't if
he like, actually, he actually cares about me. So if
he was like, you can't go somewhere, like it's not
just because of his pride.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Like something to your house to talk.
Speaker 10 (09:39):
Something else is going on.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Hey, Michael, this is not Mike.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
The mechanic, this is not this is not Jason's boyfriend,
Like the mechanic is it calling it just saying you're Michael,
Like you can get by with an alias.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
You're not going Michael, What do you think?
Speaker 11 (09:59):
I kind of feel that the girlfriend found out through
her the groom that something happened at the bachelorette party,
and she's put in a position where she doesn't want
to have to say anything, so she's making him say
something and he doesn't want to say anything.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I don't know what I would think the girlfriend if
she knew something bad happened that involved the boyfriend, that
we would that would all be out there. It sounds
like the two women don't know what the hell's going on,
because if one of them knew, and this would be
a lot clearer.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
I think.
Speaker 11 (10:33):
I just kind of feel like she just doesn't want
to be that person. You know, maybe I would say
something myself, but I think she doesn't want to be
that person.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Well, fair enough, Thank you, Michael, have a great day.
I'm glad you called. Thanks for listening.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Kayla, Hi.
Speaker 12 (10:46):
Hi, I love you guys.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Hey, Cayla, thank you, love you too.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
So what what do you think because this stay or go?
This woman called because she and her boyfriend were both
supposed to be in a wedding standing on each side
of the aisle. The boy boyfriend was uninvited from not
only the wedding, but the wedding party by the groom.
And now these two women, the bride and her friend,
they're still going to be you know, she's still in
the wedding. And whatever the debate is, who goes to
(11:13):
the wedding? Do you cancel? Does the whole couple canceled?
Does one person go? What do you think.
Speaker 12 (11:19):
The definitely needs to go to the wedding, because if
she cancels, if she chooses not to go, that is
her taking her boyfriend's side and she doesn't know, you know,
what even caused a fight. She doesn't want to take
his side if she doesn't even know what his side is,
you know.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
I agree, she needs to know.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
She needs to make an educated decision, but again, unless
it's something really terrible that involves the bride, and I
think you got.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
To go to the wedding, right absolutely, Thank you, Kayla,
have a good day.
Speaker 12 (11:55):
Thanks you too.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I want to know if there was, like you know, I, oh, no,
we need to go to r P Jerry Springer, but
I don't need to know if we need to get.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
More involved in DNA testing. I mean, come on, I wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
Stay with someone if they wouldn't tell me what the
fight was about.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Right yeah, yeah, you want me to stand by you,
but you're not giving me all the information.
Speaker 11 (12:13):
Phone.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
That's your solution to everything. Friendship