Waiting by the Phone: A Trophy!

Tim is confused why his date Roxie won't call him back after having a great first two dates.. Find out why he got ghosted!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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It's the Fread Show. Tim. How you doing, I'm doing well?

Speaker 2 (00:38):
How about you?

Speaker 1 (00:39):
We are great? It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn
about this date. I'm going through your email here. You
went out with Roxy, you met on Tinder and then
what happened? We talk for that.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
We actually went out twice and that don't you know,
mean to get too much into things. But after the
second date we hooked up, which I looked as a
pretty good sign. I thought she was into it, but
you know, she's our ghosted me after that and I'm
here to find out why.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
Okay, yeah, I see what I don't. I don't hear
you bragging about hooking up on the second date. I
think sometimes on a second date that's a good sign, right,
I mean, especially if you get a second date then
you hook up. It's like this is going in the
right direction, except she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah,
all right, we'll call her, we'll see if we can
figure out what's going on and uh and put this

(01:24):
to rest and hopefully we can straighten out whatever the
issue is. Maybe nothing's going on, maybe she's just been
busy or who knows. And if that's the case, we'll
set you up on another date and we'll pay for that. Okay,
I really appreciate that. Part two of waiting by the
phone tm me doing okay, doing good?

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Well, an'ter just to figure out what's going on here?

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna
call rock Sy. We're gonna see what's going on. You guys,
been in a couple of dates. You thought they were successful.
Now she's ghosting you and you want to know why.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
You got it?

Speaker 1 (01:51):
Okay, good luck? Hello? Hi is this Roxy? Yeah, this
is Roxy. It's Fred from the Fred Show. I have
to tell you that we are on the radio right
now and I need your permission to continue with the call.
Is it okay if we keep talking? Yeah, I guess

(02:13):
that's okay. I know it's kind of awkward, but thank you. Yeah,
I know, I know. Thank you so much. We're calling
on behalf of this dude named Tim who I guess
you met you on Tinder and you went on two dates.
Do you recall this guy? Yeah? Yeah, sound excited. We
know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what happened
with this guy? Because he described a couple of really
good dates, he liked you a lot, was hoping to

(02:35):
take you on a third date, says that you're ghosting.
Can we sort of get to the bottom of why.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
It's like I.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
Steel called out, but.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, Tim is
I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we
actually got along really well.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
He was a really nice guy.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
We had gone on a couple of dates and we
had kind of pulled around and stuff. And after one
of the hook up, this is like weird to even
talk about with, Like I told my closest friends, but
he asked to keep my underwear if you call them panties.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Got a lot of problems when I hate that word. Second, yeah,
same the same these So he what like he wanted
them as some kind of a souvenir.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
I don't know what he was gonna do with him
I was, but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah,
and so, I mean that is just kind of how
I felt about the whole situation.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
You're kind of spooked. You're like, I'm not doing this spook.

Speaker 3 (03:39):
I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't
consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I
didn't know.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
What the hell he was gonna do with it.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Yeah, So I was like, no, I'm going to go
ahead and keep the clothing that I Yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
Love the expensive panties, nice ones. I mean, you know
what was going to go if made would you leave
somebody if a guy asked you, yeah, he would. Yeah,
little things to make people happy. You know what if
they were expensive ones? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (04:10):
Why not?

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah? What is an expensive What is an expensive pair
of underwear? I don't know. I don't buy like expensive. Yeah,
Like the expensive ones I have are like in a set,
you know, like pinky or something. Would those be like
thirty bucks for underwear or Tim is here. I always
leave that part out. Tim has been listening to all this, Tim,

(04:31):
what what do you? I mean, Look, you're entitled to
your own freaky but.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
So do you have a box full of them somewhere?
Like that's disgusting? Oh yeah, if I'm not special, it's
nothing like that.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Like what if I hook up with somebody and they
give me their painting, let's me keep it. But if
I'm seeing somebody else, I throw the old ones away.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
That's collection, that would be That would be creepy. Yeah,
no question. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
And also I don't see what the big deal is.
You know, a lot of people are into this sort
of thing. She told me no, and I was totally
cool with it. I didn't freak out or anything like that.
And also, aren't you supposed to not kink? Shame? But
I feel like I'm being very judged right now, and
that's not very cool, not.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Very well a whole. On a second, I mean, I
don't know that we're judging you so much. She's allowed
to judge you because she doesn't have to do what
you asked me to do I'm not into it.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
Oh she does do it, and that like no, And
I respected you saying no. I didn't push the matter.
I just said, hey, by the way, I'm into this one.
Do you mind if I kept it? You said no.
I said, that's.

Speaker 1 (05:32):
Cool, okay.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
At the end of it, you could have just said afterwards, hey,
that really freaking me out. I didn't want to see
you again.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that
I didn't really well it, so you can't let it go.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
I did want to chat about it, and you didn't
want to chat that. But this is my only recourse.
I thought we had something now. I wanted to know
what was going I thought maybe you were.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
You guys, you guys, we talk about this all the time, right,
I mean, you guys have only been out to h
there's no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,
she doesn't she likes you, but she doesn't really, really
really like you to the point where you can bust
out something that's that that she thinks she's abnormal or
uncomfortable with, and that she's just gonna get over it.
Like I understand what you're saying, which is I asked

(06:15):
you for something she said no, and you were cool
about it, and you can communicate, but like, you're not.
I don't think you're there yet. You're still getting to
know each other. She can't get that out of her mind.
She doesn't known anything else about you, she says, wanting
a bunch of other stuff. If I'm dating somebody for
six months and they asked me to do something weird
that's different than two times weird, and I found and

(06:38):
that was that. With my luck, I would ask for
that and get kinky. I'd forget I had them, and
then I would meet the woman of my dreams and
she'd come over and be like, what are these? And
then I'm in trouble. I got this is kind of weird. Roxy.
Any chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot?
It's just not my thing.

Speaker 3 (06:52):
I think we both be better off we found people
that that are mold a little bit better.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
There you go, Well, if you will, Jim, good luck
to you. Tim. Okay, Sorry, thanks,