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May 2, 2025 8 mins

Kyle is confused why his date won't call him back after a perfect date... Find out why he got ghosted!

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Kyle,
good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you, good morning,
How you guys doing doing? Okay?

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Man?

Speaker 1 (00:11):
Waiting by the phone, of course is what this is called.
We're trying to figure out what happened with this woman, Alexi.
So what we need to know is kind of all
the details. Where did you, guys meet? Tell us about
any dates, any date or dates you've been on, and
then kind of where things are now.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Yeah, so we met on the dating apps and.

Speaker 4 (00:30):
I hit her up.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
We had a great conversation online, so I took her
out for drinks and I'm gonna be honest, he is
a total batty, like just dropped it amazing and I
really want to see her again.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
But for some reason, she's not answering and I'm not
sure why.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah. We love a batty, Kyle, We love a batty.
So you too, Yeah, I mean you're perplexed. Man. You
met this woman. Everything was great, you know, the obvious.
So you're attracted to her and you were hoping to
see her again. See where things go, except you can't
get a hold of her. I assume you've reached out
you obviously haven't heard from her, so just no contact nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah, no, I tried texting you or tried calling her,
even tried messing your messaging here again on the on
the app, but nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
All right, Well, let's some We're gonna call Lexi. We're
gonna see if we can get her on the phone.
You'll be on the phone at the same time, and
if we can, we're gonna ask some questions on your behalf.
And the hope is always is that we can straighten
this out whatever's going on. Set you guys up on
another date and pay for it.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
Okay, absolutely, Yeah, that's sounds great to me.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
Let's see what's up in part two of Waiting at
the phone after Sabrina Carpenter back in two minutes. You've
got to hear this Fread Show, s Britta Carpenter. It's
the Fread Show. We're on the radio and the iHeart app.
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Make its a pre set. Hey, Kyle, Yeah, all right,
let's call Lexi. You guys you went out recently. You
you met out one of the dating apps, and she's

(01:55):
a battie. That's your word. She's a battie. You're really
into her, You're very attracted to her. You thought the
date went really well, and you're hoping, you were hoping that,
you know, you'd go out again. You reached out, you
tried to get a hold of her. She's not responding.
She hasn't called you, so you feel like you're being
ghosted and you want to know why.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
Correct.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
All right, let's call Lexi now, good luck, Kyle?

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Hi? Is this Lexi? Yeah, Hi, Lexi, good morning. My
name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the
Morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Can which
that for just a second on the show, would you mind?

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (02:38):
Well, thank you very much for calling on. Behalf of
a gun named Kyle. I guess you met him on
one of the dating apps and you guys recently went out.
Do you remember hanging out with Kyle?

Speaker 2 (02:47):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (02:47):
Yeah, I remember Kyle.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
Okay. Well, you know, our role here is that he
reached out to us and in need, he was into you.
He liked you a lot and enjoyed the date, was
attracted to you. He says, He's reached out sense then,
and you're not responding or or initiating any contact with him.
I mean, what's going on? Why are you ghosting him?

Speaker 5 (03:08):
I have no interest in speaking with Kyle. First of all,
he told me that I would be perfect if I
just had an ass and if I wanted to get
at BBL, he would split the cost with me.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
Oh what a guy. He'd pay for half.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
Wow, bb on that, Hold on it.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
That's quite the investment in someone who you've only gone
out with one time. But you know, normally when you
say you'd be great butt or you are great, but
you know that's well, no, no pun intended, but that's uh,
that's usually not a great way to get someone to
to you know, to endear yourself to someone. So he
actually said that to you, Like you guys are sitting

(03:45):
on a cocktail and he's like, you know what, you'd
be great, except I really need you to be a
little thicker.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
Apparently, And I mean I was just like shocked.

Speaker 5 (03:51):
I don't even remember how I reacted, but like, I
have no interest in That's just disgusting and I'm done.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
I wish I knew someone in the room who could
tell me how much a BBO cost.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
Paulina, Well, that's somebody doesn't answer for you. She definitely
does have an answer. I may have been there.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
I want I thought you said she doesn't answer for you.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
I was like, oh no, no, no, she's stuttering today. I
can answer that question.

Speaker 5 (04:13):
It is expensive, and it depends where you go, which doctor,
and also where you're going to relocate some of the facts.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
I mean, are we talking five, are we talking ten?
We're talking ten and up? Wow, So this dude was
gonna this guy goes on what I mean, I know
we're I'm not focused on the offensive part right now.
We'll get to that. But this guy went on one
date with a woman and was willing to put five
grand into her butt. I mean, is that is that right?
Is that? Do I have that right?

Speaker 3 (04:34):
Lexi? That's apparently what his offer was.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Huh. Well, you know, Kyle is here. I forgot to
mention that. I'm very forgetful, Kyle. You didn't you didn't
tell us about the part of the date where you
critiqued her physique and then offered to enhance it with money.

Speaker 3 (04:51):
Well, that was just a small part of it, I think.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
But yeah, like a small part of what the date.
It was a small part of the date where you
told her she was inadequate.

Speaker 4 (04:59):
No oh no, I didn't. I didn't put it like
that like I said you were. I mean like nobody's perfect.
I said you were almost perfect. Like to me, that's
a compliment.

Speaker 5 (05:09):
Wow, yeah, and that's why you're a douche Like oh no, no, no, no,
I mean yeah no.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
I was like like like you're saying like I'm willing
to put down money, like I think you're like amazing,
and that would just you know, put the cherry on
top and.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
Oh my god, like man.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
Wow, like build a bear. You don't get to like.

Speaker 1 (05:34):
Build a bear. You can't put a little message inside
of her that every time you know, push her and
tuy it goes like I love you.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
That's so crazy. You never comment on a woman's body period.

Speaker 5 (05:43):
Although this is different, okay, because he's he's willing to
pay for it.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
This is why she's got to be smart. So she
takes the money. But you don't see him again.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
I mean in a whole different kind of a whole
different kind of dynamic. If she had said, man, I
wish I had a bigger butt, and then he said,
oh doe she enough to say I'll pay for half
of it. Well that's when you say okay, and you
take his money and then never call him again because
because that I don't know who says that on a
first date. I mean, but in half, right, what am

(06:12):
I to do with the other teek? You have an
imbalanced moody?

Speaker 5 (06:16):
What you gonna have?

Speaker 1 (06:19):
Kyla?

Speaker 3 (06:19):
Did no one teach you like do you?

Speaker 1 (06:21):
I mean, did no one say to you that you
just don't comment on people on women's appearance or really
anybody's No.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
I was just being honest.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
I was just telling her women, right, we don't have
to be honest all the time, especially when we're.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Trying to make compliment a person without critiquing them.

Speaker 5 (06:36):
And I am very confident in my body, so I
don't need you to tell me what I.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
Need to change.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
And you're so close to perfect, LEXI so close, but
if only you know, I mean, come on, man, what
are you doing?

Speaker 3 (06:49):
I was.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
I was complimenting she had a great body, great look,
and it's it'd be like it'd be like if the
roles were reversed, and she was like Oh, you're you're awesome,
You're great.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
I really wish you were taking now, I really wish
you were packing. Kyle. Like, let's say Lexie had said
that to you. You know, you're looking a little bit
a little weak down there in another region. I'll tell
you what, I'll split an enhancement with you. You would
be so offended. That's different. No, not though, it's not
at all. It's not at all. Or what if she

(07:18):
were like, man, you're really great, but your teeth are janky,
I'll buy you half of the visilize your hairline on
a first date or your hairline. You would be so offended.
You would be like, this is oh really.

Speaker 3 (07:29):
It's so offensive. I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
Maybe okay, maybe it's the halfway thing for me, Like
if you're gonna offer to give me a BBA, give
me the full package, is.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
Like it, Come on, man, step your money up if
you're going to be making offers like that.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
And by the way, I actually know in real life
of a situation where a guy, I mean she asked
for it, but he bought her breast enlargement and then
as soon as she healed, then she dumped him and
is dating someone else. He brought her something else too.
That would have been a nice accessory for him to enjoy.
That he also didn't get to take advantage of. So

(08:03):
this is a risk that you take when you you know,
you don't own people, Kyle, Like, not only do not
say that, but if you do that, they owe you nothing.
You do realize that.

Speaker 4 (08:11):
Yeah, no, I was willing to throw money down.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
He was willing to make an investment if you I
mean the stock markets down, so you know, oh my god.
All right, well look I'll ask the question like Sie,
I know the answer, But would you like to go
out with Kyle again? He'll pay for half your BBL
half of it hard path. So that's a no, Kyle.
I'm sorry it's not going to work out. But there
you have it. I mean, over.

Speaker 3 (08:35):
Okay, do you even care?

Speaker 1 (08:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (08:37):
I don't like.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
I mean, it was one date. So now you go downplaying,
You wrote a radio show, you had us a call,
and now you're like whatever.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
Okay, it was inting with you anyways.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
You weren't even that good looking. Here we go, Here
we go with that whole game. LEXI, thank you for
your time, Kyle. Good luck out there, all right?

Speaker 3 (08:57):
Thank you

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