Waiting by the Phone: Bring Your Swim Suit!

Kaia is confused why Ryan won't call her back after a great first date... Find out why she got ghosted!

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the phone. It's the Fread Show. Kaya, good morning, welcome
to the program. How are you hey, I'm doing good.
So what's going on with this guy?

Speaker 1 (00:53):
Ryan?

Speaker 2 (00:53):
We got to know how you met, about any dates
that you've been on and then you know it's waiting
by the phone, so you think you're being ghosted.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
So what's that about? Fill us in?

Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yeah, listen, I had such a good time with Ryan.
So we met at the bar, hung out all night,
played darts, had good food. I feeling we had so
much in common, and I was really happy, honestly to
meet him because I knew he was a real person.
It wasn't like a catfish thing. And I couldn't wait

(01:22):
to get together again. And I haven't heard back since.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
You haven't heard from him.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
So and you look back on this date and everything
seemed normal that you know, good conversation flow and chemistry
was good, and you know you felt you felt like
there was Yeah, I don't know, you thought there was
something there, at least enough that you would see him again.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
Yeah. You couldn't have gone better. It really couldn't have.
So I'm just I'm replaying the night. I'm wondering what
did I say? What could I do? It seemed like
he was enjoying it. I really don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Good chemistry, good conversation, couldn't have gone better?

Speaker 4 (01:54):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:55):
How many times have I heard that?

Speaker 4 (01:57):
I know?

Speaker 1 (01:57):
I know, but let's hey, who knows things have happened?

Speaker 2 (02:01):
Maybe there's some misunderstanding here that we can clarify and
get you guys set up. So we're going to play
a song. Come back in a couple of minutes. Call
this guy Ryan. You'll be on the phone and let's
see what happens. Good luck. Hey, Kaya, you recently went
out with a guy named Ryan. You said a minute
ago the date couldn't have gone better, except you have
not heard from Ryan's tends to date, and you're confused exactly. Yeah,

(02:21):
all right, well I can understand why this is frustrating.
Let's call Ryan right now.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Good luck, Kayak.

Speaker 4 (02:31):
Hello?

Speaker 1 (02:32):
Hi is this Ryan?

Speaker 3 (02:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:35):
Ryan, Hi, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling
for the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio Show, the whole Cruise.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Here. I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now. I would need your permission to
continue with the call, which that for just a couple
of minutes.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
You can hang up anytime. Yes, sure, thank you very much.
Seems like an agreeable guy. Thank you very much. Ryan.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
We're calling on behalf of a woman named Kaya who
reached out to us. Says that she met you and
she said everything went great, but she hasn't heard from
you since to date.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Why is that?

Speaker 2 (03:01):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (03:01):
Simple, She's a swinger. Man, she's a straight up swinger.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
She's a swinger. Yeah, okay, all right. So and that
wasn't something that she disclosed to you off the top.
I mean, how did we learn this?

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Well?

Speaker 5 (03:17):
Okay, so, uh yeah, we talked. You know, things are fine,
you know, it was great actually okay, but like, uh,
she asked if I wanted to hang out at a
friend's place.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
The following weekend. She was like, Hey, you want to
come with me. I'm going to a friend's house.

Speaker 6 (03:36):
You know that's Saturday. And I was like, yeah, sure,
that's great. And you know, I asked her, like, well,
what should I bring? What should I you know, what,
what what should I do? You go go just a
bathing kid, which is when I started asking questions. Okay,
And she tells me her friends have a bunch of

(03:57):
their friend and their boyfriends, her husbands. They go over
and they get it a hot tub together. And I'm
not going to a couple's hot up party.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Okay, Well hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on,
So people don't they can't have like a little pool party,
Like where's swinging? How do we go from bring a
bathing suit so we can hang out in the hot
tub to everyone's doing each other, Like how.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Did we get there?

Speaker 4 (04:19):
They're clearly swingers. This just give me a break, man,
are you on one day? I'm in a bathing suit
with a other salts? I don't know, like, oh, bring your.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Suit whole On a second, I don't know that for sure.
I mean, so wait a minute.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
So I meet someone in a bar and we talk
and have a great night, and then that woman says, hey,
do you want to come? I mean I would be
more concerned about hanging out with a bunch of people.
I didn't like friends, just having to socialize the people.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
I didn't know what.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
I didn't know the person very well. But she says basically,
come to a pool party and we're gonna hang on
the hot tub, and and now we're all just swapping
Like when when how do we jump from there to there?

Speaker 6 (04:57):
It's obvious, man, I mean, come on, man, it's like
it's such a difficult like what what do you think
happened in the hot tub?

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Did you ask her? Did you say, like, hey, what
kind of party is this?

Speaker 5 (05:09):
Like?

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Did you say, I mean, is she actually to bring
pineapples or something?

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Right?

Speaker 5 (05:13):
Right?

Speaker 6 (05:14):
Right?

Speaker 1 (05:14):
I mean, like you know, I don't know that.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
I think there were a lot of steps between what
she asked you to do and and where you think
this was headed well, when in fact I forgot to
mention that Kaya is here.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
Kaya.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
Did you were you inviting him to a function that
that kind of function or were you inviting him to
a party that included a jacuzzie?

Speaker 3 (05:33):
It was absolutely a jacuzzi, and I am flored right now.
I have no idea why Ryan would think that we're swingers.
You know, when somebody says what should I bring in?
I just say a swim suit. That was like being polite, like,
don't worry about bringing a dish, don't worry about bringing
a drink, whatever, just bring yourself and it's fun to

(05:53):
Never did I think that there's a give a of
a swinger.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
I mean, a couple of weeks ago, out of Girl,
a friend of mine asked me to come over and
use the pool with her at the at the condo.
I guess everybody in the pool, we were all going
to get it on.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
I didn't know it.

Speaker 3 (06:07):
I didn't know. So for you, is it the fact
that it was just like there's just a hot tub there,
Like is the hot tub like what's making you feel
this way?

Speaker 5 (06:16):
Like?

Speaker 4 (06:16):
Why she? Yes, you could tell.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
She just told you she's not Is it the hot tub?

Speaker 4 (06:25):
She's creepy. Oh she's creepy. Okay, and that's the whole thing.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, you're not check right. Checked this out.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
One time, Ryan, I stayed at a hotel by myself
and I went down to the hot tub and I
got and there were other people in it. It was
weird when they kicked me out, when I thought that we.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
Were all where are you from? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (06:43):
Right, No, it was weird because they wanted to tell
me I couldn't stay the hotel anymore. And I was like, why,
it's obviously in swingers party. Look, we're all in the
hot tub together.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
Dude, I don't understand.

Speaker 4 (06:52):
That's different man. That's different, man, Like, this is not
something I'm meant to I'm not gonna go over there
and start swinging with her. I met her.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
She's not asking you too, he said, he knows a swing.
When nobody asked you, you made this up? Like, no
one asks you, No one invited you.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
To make it up. I did not make it up, man,
But she just told you it wasn't She.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Told you it was it was a gathering of friends
and there was going to be a hot tub involved.

Speaker 4 (07:20):
That's right.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Now, I will say, how often are you guys getting
invited for a hot tub party as an adult? I
don't know.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
I mean, if if I'm going to someone's house and
they have a hot tub, maybe they would be like,
bring your swimsuit, we might get in the hot tub.
Like and especially if if everyone else is getting in
the hot tub, I don't want to be the one
guy who shows up and I'm the dude who doesn't
have a swimsuit. So I'm the one sitting in the
lawn chair like watching everybody else. Oh, couples, we're a
couple two.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
I don't know. I don't necessarily jump to.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Right, not once in my life as anybody ever, Like,
you know what we're gonna swing tonight.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
And I just you know know it?

Speaker 1 (07:56):
How do you just know this?

Speaker 3 (07:58):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
Ask me something please, That may have helped if you'd
ask before, But yeah, ask me now.

Speaker 4 (08:06):
Okay, So here's so. But I don't even need to
bro I I'm there. I'm already doing logic. You're not
the thing?

Speaker 6 (08:14):
Is this? So?

Speaker 4 (08:15):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (08:16):
You're on date?

Speaker 4 (08:17):
One?

Speaker 3 (08:17):
Date one?

Speaker 4 (08:19):
We don't even know each other that way, and now
it's like, KO, put on your little skinny minis now
and come in the hat that with my friend. It's awkward.
Who has that kind of bordness. It's someone that's clearly
okay with that kind of intimacy, which is swinging into it.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
Man, And I don't I don't agree with you. But
even if even if there was a question about it,
she's on the phone, she just told us.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
It wasn't that, you know, I would rely on the radio.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Why what's the right?

Speaker 2 (08:49):
One thing I know about certain kind of folks is
they're not really if you're if you're that open about it.
If in fact she was really just inviting you at
virtual stranger to come hang out, and that was the
m O, I don't know that she'd be lying about
it now. I feel like she'd be like, yeah, that's
what it was, right, but kaya just to confirm that
wasn't what it was.

Speaker 3 (09:08):
No, that wasn't what it was. And listen, we are adults,
and to be honest with you, Jacuzzi taught that they're
not cheap. Okay, So this is a nice place to
go my friend's house. We're having you know why.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Why don't think every swinger event happens in a bad place?
But I don't.

Speaker 2 (09:25):
I don't think it. I don't think you have to
be rich to do that. But anyway, this is, this
whole thing is crazy. Look, I'm gonna ask the question, Ryan,
would you like to go out? I know the answer,
would you like to go out with her?

Speaker 1 (09:35):
Again?

Speaker 4 (09:36):
Not a chance?

Speaker 1 (09:37):
Okay, this is all right? This I need I need
a map for this one. I think I don't know.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
All right, guys, look Kaya Ryan, thank you for your time.
Best of luck to both of you.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
Thank you