September 25, 2025 • 9 mins
Lindsey wants to know why her date Jack won't call her back after a fun night out... Find out why she got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It's the Fred Shell.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Hey Lindsey, Yes, Hi Lindsay, good morning, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
What's going on?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Tell us everything about this guy Jack and all of
the things on waiting by the phone. How can we
help you? Why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Well, I met this crying hinge and we I thought
we had an amazing date, and now all of a sudden,
I haven't heard anything from him.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Okay, Well, tell us about the date. I mean, where
did you go, what did you do all of that stuff?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
I mean, we went out.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
To drinks, some dinner, and we had amazing chemistry, I
mean really good chemistry, Like we went back to my place. Yeah, Like,
we had an amazing night and I just it was great.
And I haven't heard from him since.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
All right, So that's off putting obviously, because you know,
you think a date goes really well, it goes well
enough that there's some you know, physical chemistry and connection
like that, and so you know, not that anyone's owed anything,
but you're I would imagine you leave that thinking, well,
that's a good sign. So I'm gonna hear from this
guy again. We're gonna do it again. Everything went so well,
so then to hear nothing, you know, that might hurt
(01:13):
your feelings. But also you're like, well, wait a minute,
what happened? Like what am I missing? All right, well,
let's call this guy Jack. We're gonna see if you
can figure out what's going on. Maybe he's been busy,
maybe he has a good excuse, and whatever the case,
maybe if he wants to go out again, If you,
guys want to go out again, then then we'll send
you on a second date and pay for that. All right, Okay, Hey, Lindsey,
(01:34):
all right, let's call this guy Jack. You you went
on a date. You thought it went really well. It
was drinks and dinner after meeting on the dating apt pinch,
so good was the chemistry and everything else that you
wind it back at your place, I guess, and and
good things happen there. I you know, we're reading between
the lines here, really good things. And then you haven't
heard from the guy since, and you want to know why.
(01:56):
All right, let's call Jack? Now, good luck? Hi is
this Jack?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Hi Jack? Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which half for just
a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I mean all right, but okay, I we'll go with yes.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Well you can hang up anytime. But I heard it
all right, which means yes, we're calling on behalf of
a woman named Lindsay who you met on Hinge and
you guys recently went on a date.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Do you remember her?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
You serious? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Okay, Well we just talked to Lindsay a second ago,
and she would say nice things about you in the
date that you guys matched and had a nice dinner
and you're laughing, but she thought everything went well. She
did mention that you guys went back to her place.
She wasn't real specific, but says she hasn't heard from
you since since. She's kind of confused about that. So
we're just trying to get to the bottom of this.
(03:00):
You know, why why are you not calling her? Why
are you reaching out for another date?
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Look, if I do if I do this like well,
like I'll do that, she stops calling me, all right,
and I'll tell you about what happened.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
If she'll stop calling me.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I mean, okay, I'm sure that's a fair deal. I
think what she really wants to know is why you're
not calling. So what happened? Because she told us it
was a good date? So what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Okay, Well, look, it was a good date.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
And she seemed really amazing, like we did have a
good thing going.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
On, and like she's cool, she's she's.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
Really super hot, and I thought everything was going fantastic.
And she invited me to her house and dude, I
was all about it.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
This is all yeah, so far, I'm not hearing anything bad.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Well, when her workplace.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
Well we started making out right and she says she
wanted to go change into something sex.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I am so freaking pumped. I'm thinking, like you can
imagine what I'm thinking. I'm ready to go.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
So I'm liking I'm liking everything here.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Everything sounded really really good.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Man.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Yeah me too at the time.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
So I go over to her room and I'm like,
get on the bed, and when she emerges back into
into her bedroom, she's like in a full on.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Pink, furry bear onesie type of thing, like a coptume
like situation, I mean, complete with a matching bear head. Okay,
that goes with it.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Oh so it's a full Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
So here I'm thinking like, okay, childhood like pajamas or something.
But you're saying this was like a bear costume, like
this is a furry thing.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah, like exactly a furry thing, like and I've heard
heard about that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Like I've heard of it, but you've never seen it.
In the morning. Yeah, she pops out like a.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Pink furry and I'm like, what the hell? And I mean,
she didn't stop you.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Excuse me, It didn't stop you.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
From enjoying it, So you didn't okay, okay, So she
comes out in the jack Is speech. So she comes
out in this furry thing and you're like, okay, ha ha,
you know all right, you're into this. So then she
takes it off and you guys go at it right
like that's so that was that part.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
That's what I thought was gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (05:31):
But we'll see, all right, the thing is engineered to
like open up for to do business and all the.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Oh so we didn't have to take it off. We
can leave it off. It's engineered. Oh no, he did
it because she just said that's not what It didn't
stop him.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh, so he was not you.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You were not twice exactly.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I didn't want to like I was already the I want.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah, he was doing you a fever because he didn't
want you to feel bad. So it's like, wow, while
I'm here, and then just to make sure that you
feel good, we'll just do it one more time. At
any point you could have left, Jack, but no you did.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
I didn't want to be rude.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Oh right, right, that would have been super rude. But
definitely get it on twice because you're so perturbed by
this and then not calling it. Is there any chance
Jack that you maybe liked it?
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Look, bro, I it was what it was. I think
it's crazy, okay.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Whatever, you're so full, you're just embarrassed that you liked it.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I mean it's giving that. It's giving that, and there's
nothing wrong with that. But you know, if you were
that upset about what.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
We're look, we did.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
But it was super weird.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
It was.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
It was weird as all hell.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Uh yeah, okay, well yeah, and so does he get
hot in that thing? Lindsay, like, I'm just curious if
you we're not taking it off at all. I mean
a little yeah, right, a little hot and when did
you discover that? And I'm not kickshaming at all, whatever
float you, but when did you discover this was something
that you liked? I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
I had an ex I was really into it, and
I sort of started experimenting with them.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I was like, oh, okay, okay, it's the head on
to while we're doing this? Or does the head come off?
Or no?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Sometimes?
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Yeah, no, she kept it on.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Oh wow, circulation ventilation. I'm worried about a lot of
things here, but okay, So that's a note for you, Kiki.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Oh yeah, don't don't surprise me coming out dressed like Bennieabull.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Give me warning. I'll pop up on me dressed like
Chuggy Cheese. I mean a warning, all right with that?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
So don't don't wear the mask costume now, okay, I
got it?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
All right? Well, look, Jack, I'll asked the question.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
It's all out now, and it's all we're airing this
whole thing out, no pun intended. And and I feel like,
you know, we've established that you didn't hate it, but
maybe you were a little bit embarrassed. But now we've
exposed the whole thing, would you be willing to go
out with Lindsay again. Maybe you guys could have an
adult conversation about you know, limitations and boundaries and what
you'd like and what you wouldn to like as opposed
to just gho singer. You know what.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Look, you're a nice girl. This is one for the books,
a story to tell. But no, I'm not I'm not
doing it again, thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
No thanks, Lindsay is a little suss to me.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
I don't blame you because you know a couple of
times and didn't say anything and I don't I don't
know about that, And.
Speaker 5 (08:29):
Now he's going to tell stories about it, like I
don't need to go out with a die like that.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Okay, well you're the.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
One that called the radio, are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Well again, we had sex twice and now you're like,
oh it was so weird.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Okay, well you did things from work and did it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Look.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
I hope you get that directly before the next person
you dragged here.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Okay, okay, all right, that is a good question. Yeah, man,
is it? Is it washable? Is it machine washable?
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Psychologistical times? Do you hang you hang them? Is it
more much?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Is it? Can anybody watch these things are you do
you just walk into any dry cleaner with that?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Is what I you know when?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Okay, we'll have to get those questions answered at some point.
But hey, guys, so we agree. We're not doing this again.
Thank you for your time, best of luck to both
of you.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
Yeah, thank you,
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It's the Fred Shell.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Hey Lindsey, Yes, Hi Lindsay, good morning, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
What's going on?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Tell us everything about this guy Jack and all of
the things on waiting by the phone. How can we
help you? Why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Well, I met this crying hinge and we I thought
we had an amazing date, and now all of a sudden,
I haven't heard anything from him.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Okay, Well, tell us about the date. I mean, where
did you go, what did you do all of that stuff?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
I mean, we went out.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
To drinks, some dinner, and we had amazing chemistry, I
mean really good chemistry, Like we went back to my place. Yeah, Like,
we had an amazing night and I just it was great.
And I haven't heard from him since.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
All right, So that's off putting obviously, because you know,
you think a date goes really well, it goes well
enough that there's some you know, physical chemistry and connection
like that, and so you know, not that anyone's owed anything,
but you're I would imagine you leave that thinking, well,
that's a good sign. So I'm gonna hear from this
guy again. We're gonna do it again. Everything went so well,
so then to hear nothing, you know, that might hurt
(01:13):
your feelings. But also you're like, well, wait a minute,
what happened? Like what am I missing? All right, well,
let's call this guy Jack. We're gonna see if you
can figure out what's going on. Maybe he's been busy,
maybe he has a good excuse, and whatever the case,
maybe if he wants to go out again, If you,
guys want to go out again, then then we'll send
you on a second date and pay for that. All right, Okay, Hey, Lindsey,
(01:34):
all right, let's call this guy Jack. You you went
on a date. You thought it went really well. It
was drinks and dinner after meeting on the dating apt pinch,
so good was the chemistry and everything else that you
wind it back at your place, I guess, and and
good things happen there. I you know, we're reading between
the lines here, really good things. And then you haven't
heard from the guy since, and you want to know why.
(01:56):
All right, let's call Jack? Now, good luck? Hi is
this Jack?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Hi Jack? Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which half for just
a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I mean all right, but okay, I we'll go with yes.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Well you can hang up anytime. But I heard it
all right, which means yes, we're calling on behalf of
a woman named Lindsay who you met on Hinge and
you guys recently went on a date.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Do you remember her?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
You serious? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Okay, Well we just talked to Lindsay a second ago,
and she would say nice things about you in the
date that you guys matched and had a nice dinner
and you're laughing, but she thought everything went well. She
did mention that you guys went back to her place.
She wasn't real specific, but says she hasn't heard from
you since since. She's kind of confused about that. So
we're just trying to get to the bottom of this.
(03:00):
You know, why why are you not calling her? Why
are you reaching out for another date?
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Look, if I do if I do this like well,
like I'll do that, she stops calling me, all right,
and I'll tell you about what happened.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
If she'll stop calling me.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I mean, okay, I'm sure that's a fair deal. I
think what she really wants to know is why you're
not calling. So what happened? Because she told us it
was a good date? So what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Okay, Well, look, it was a good date.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
And she seemed really amazing, like we did have a
good thing going.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
On, and like she's cool, she's she's.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
Really super hot, and I thought everything was going fantastic.
And she invited me to her house and dude, I
was all about it.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
This is all yeah, so far, I'm not hearing anything bad.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Well, when her workplace.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
Well we started making out right and she says she
wanted to go change into something sex.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I am so freaking pumped. I'm thinking, like you can
imagine what I'm thinking. I'm ready to go.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
So I'm liking I'm liking everything here.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Everything sounded really really good.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Man.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Yeah me too at the time.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
So I go over to her room and I'm like,
get on the bed, and when she emerges back into
into her bedroom, she's like in a full on.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Pink, furry bear onesie type of thing, like a coptume
like situation, I mean, complete with a matching bear head. Okay,
that goes with it.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Oh so it's a full Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
So here I'm thinking like, okay, childhood like pajamas or something.
But you're saying this was like a bear costume, like
this is a furry thing.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah, like exactly a furry thing, like and I've heard
heard about that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Like I've heard of it, but you've never seen it.
In the morning. Yeah, she pops out like a.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Pink furry and I'm like, what the hell? And I mean,
she didn't stop you.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Excuse me, It didn't stop you.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
From enjoying it, So you didn't okay, okay, So she
comes out in the jack Is speech. So she comes
out in this furry thing and you're like, okay, ha ha,
you know all right, you're into this. So then she
takes it off and you guys go at it right
like that's so that was that part.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
That's what I thought was gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (05:31):
But we'll see, all right, the thing is engineered to
like open up for to do business and all the.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Oh so we didn't have to take it off. We
can leave it off. It's engineered. Oh no, he did
it because she just said that's not what It didn't
stop him.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh, so he was not you.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You were not twice exactly.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
I didn't want to like I was already the I want.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah, he was doing you a fever because he didn't
want you to feel bad. So it's like, wow, while
I'm here, and then just to make sure that you
feel good, we'll just do it one more time. At
any point you could have left, Jack, but no you did.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
I didn't want to be rude.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Oh right, right, that would have been super rude. But
definitely get it on twice because you're so perturbed by
this and then not calling it. Is there any chance
Jack that you maybe liked it?
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Look, bro, I it was what it was. I think
it's crazy, okay.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Whatever, you're so full, you're just embarrassed that you liked it.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I mean it's giving that. It's giving that, and there's
nothing wrong with that. But you know, if you were
that upset about what.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
We're look, we did.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
But it was super weird.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
It was.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
It was weird as all hell.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Uh yeah, okay, well yeah, and so does he get
hot in that thing? Lindsay, like, I'm just curious if
you we're not taking it off at all. I mean
a little yeah, right, a little hot and when did
you discover that? And I'm not kickshaming at all, whatever
float you, but when did you discover this was something
that you liked? I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
I had an ex I was really into it, and
I sort of started experimenting with them.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I was like, oh, okay, okay, it's the head on
to while we're doing this? Or does the head come off?
Or no?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Sometimes?
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Yeah, no, she kept it on.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Oh wow, circulation ventilation. I'm worried about a lot of
things here, but okay, So that's a note for you, Kiki.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Oh yeah, don't don't surprise me coming out dressed like Bennieabull.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Give me warning. I'll pop up on me dressed like
Chuggy Cheese. I mean a warning, all right with that?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
So don't don't wear the mask costume now, okay, I
got it?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
All right? Well, look, Jack, I'll asked the question.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
It's all out now, and it's all we're airing this
whole thing out, no pun intended. And and I feel like,
you know, we've established that you didn't hate it, but
maybe you were a little bit embarrassed. But now we've
exposed the whole thing, would you be willing to go
out with Lindsay again. Maybe you guys could have an
adult conversation about you know, limitations and boundaries and what
you'd like and what you wouldn to like as opposed
to just gho singer. You know what.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Look, you're a nice girl. This is one for the books,
a story to tell. But no, I'm not I'm not
doing it again, thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
No thanks, Lindsay is a little suss to me.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
I don't blame you because you know a couple of
times and didn't say anything and I don't I don't
know about that, And.
Speaker 5 (08:29):
Now he's going to tell stories about it, like I
don't need to go out with a die like that.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Okay, well you're the.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
One that called the radio, are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Well again, we had sex twice and now you're like,
oh it was so weird.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Okay, well you did things from work and did it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Look.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
I hope you get that directly before the next person
you dragged here.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Okay, okay, all right, that is a good question. Yeah, man,
is it? Is it washable? Is it machine washable?
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Psychologistical times? Do you hang you hang them? Is it
more much?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Is it? Can anybody watch these things are you do
you just walk into any dry cleaner with that?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Is what I you know when?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Okay, we'll have to get those questions answered at some point.
But hey, guys, so we agree. We're not doing this again.
Thank you for your time, best of luck to both
of you.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
Yeah, thank you,
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