Waiting by the Phone: DoorDash!

Skye is confused why Jim won't call her back after a fun night out... Find out why she got ghosted!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone, it's.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
The freendshell, Hey Sky, good morning.

Speaker 3 (00:08):
Good morning.

Speaker 4 (00:09):
Hi.

Speaker 5 (00:10):
So what's going on with this guy Jim? Of course
he is waiting by the phone. So you went out
with him? You feel like maybe you're being ghosted? Can
you kind of give us the backstory how you met,
about any dates you've been on and all that good stuff.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
Yeah, So I met Jim on the apps and it
went out, and I mean I thought it was really
cute when we matched, and like I was even way
more into him, like when I realized he was super
funny too, and you have the same humor all of that.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
And like, funny will.

Speaker 4 (00:41):
Get to me every time, like you know, like we
hit it off in the bath, like you got me.
But yeah, so.

Speaker 5 (00:50):
I if an ugly guy is funny, then is that
I'm asking for a friend? Oh yeah, Like if an
ugly and normal looking guy is funny, then that that's
the same as being hot and not funny. It helps
if he's hot and not funny, would you go out
with him?

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Probably? Not? OK, just just a sidebar here, all right.

Speaker 5 (01:10):
So anyway, so he was funny and you were attracted
to him, and you thought the date went well.

Speaker 4 (01:15):
Yeah, and we went back to his place, you know,
after hanging out whatever, We hung out some more and
like we ended up hooking up.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
But I just I think he might have just been
using me.

Speaker 4 (01:25):
I mean after I left his place, Like, I haven't
heard anything. He hasn't text me back, he hasn't like
answered my phone call or my messages or anything. So
I don't know what happened.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Yeah, that's not good. No one likes that.

Speaker 5 (01:39):
So let's call this guy Jim and I'm going to
play a song comeback.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
We'll call him. You'll be on the phone.

Speaker 5 (01:45):
I'm going to ask some questions on your behalf and
try and figure out what's going on. The hope, as
always is that he's got a good reason for not
reaching out and that he wants to see you again,
and then we'll set you guys up on another date
and pay for it. All right, let's get at the
bottom of this part two, when he met a phone
after Lady Gud got back. In two minutes, Fread Show's on,
Lady God Got the Fread shows You and a Bucks

(02:07):
in the show Down with Kiki will play in ten minutes.
The Entertainmer report, right, before that. Hey, Sky, All right,
let's call Jim. You met on the apps, you had
what you thought was a really good date, you had
some fun after the date, and you haven't heard from
him since, and you want to know why, as anybody would.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, let's call him now. Good luck. Hi is this Jim?

Speaker 5 (02:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (02:35):
This is a gym.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Who's this?

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Hey Gim? Good morning. My name is Fred.

Speaker 5 (02:37):
I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Do you mind if we
chat for a second on the air. Won't take long.
You can hang up anytime.

Speaker 6 (02:50):
I mean, I guess are what are you calling about?

Speaker 5 (02:53):
Well, we're calling about a woman named Sky, who I
guess you met recently on one of the apps and
you guys went out on a date.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Do you remember meeting her?

Speaker 6 (03:02):
Yeah? Yeah, I remember Sky.

Speaker 5 (03:04):
Okay, sounds a little bit labored, you know, one of
those like eh, okay. Well, so she called us and
had nice things to say about you and the date
and mentioned that you guys went home together and that
she hasn't heard from you since, and so she was
hoping that we could figure out maybe why you haven't
called her.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
Can you tell us what happened?

Speaker 6 (03:24):
Oh wow, oh wow, I of course she did this.
Uh sure, Yeah, let's let's go ahead and just go
ahead and get this done with. So yeah, like, I mean,
you're right. We went out, did a great date, she
came back to my place. Things you know, things escalated,
she spent the night whatever. Right, So next morning I

(03:46):
wake up, he is not in best which is a
little weird. I'm like, all right, we'll make choose in
the bathroom, whatever the case may be. I hang out
for a little bit, check my email, and then I
started hearing noises from my kitchen. So I'm like, you know,
what's going on? I like, walk down stairs. I turned
the corner and there she is in my kitchen eating
a full course like breakfast and that I didn't.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
Have, by the way, like she door dashed this food
to my.

Speaker 6 (04:13):
House and yeah, like that's I guess, but she didn't
get me anything.

Speaker 5 (04:20):
Oh no, we got over here and just just cooking
it up downstairs.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Yeah wow, Well maybe.

Speaker 6 (04:31):
She cooked breakfast for me, Like maybe that's I mean,
that would be really sweet and thoughtful and it would
have been like, oh wow, this is definitely an awesome girl.
Like I walk downstairs and she's got all this breakfast food,
but she doesn't have a thing for me, Like she
has nothing for me. She just ordered door dash to
my house for herself after spending the night with me,
and I paid for dinner the night before, mind you,

(04:53):
so like I don't know. It was just like one
of those situations where I walked down I'm like, oh,
did what did what did you get? And she just
talked about all things she got, and I realize this
is nothing for me. She didn't even order me like
pancakes or eggs or anything.

Speaker 5 (05:04):
Okay, so she didn't cook this stuff, like, she didn't emmeally,
guys set up down there. She didn't find stuff in
your fridge and make herself something to eat or whatever.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
You know.

Speaker 5 (05:12):
She she just woke up and was like I'm hungry
and ordered iye hoop or whatever and then just sat
there and ate it.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
And then sat there and ate it.

Speaker 6 (05:21):
Didn't wake me up, didn't let me know she was
ordering anything, didn't like even consider me by getting me anything.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
I can't even have.

Speaker 6 (05:28):
Somebody super awkward breakfast, right, it was super awkward, and
so eventually she left and I don't know, like I
sat on it for a little bit and I realized.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
Like that was super weird. That's so weird.

Speaker 6 (05:40):
That's and I was like, I don't this is not
somebody that I want to continue anything with.

Speaker 5 (05:44):
Let me, Sky is here and it has been very quiet.
Are you want DoorDash right now? But get yourself something
to eat and leave us all out of it? And
I forgot to mention that gym. I sorry, very forgetful.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
That's why over some door gash Sky the tables turned here.

Speaker 5 (06:00):
Like let's say that Let's say he goes downstairs and
orders himself a nice little McDonald's breakfast or something, and
you go down there, he's eating a big breakfast and
he didn't get you anything.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
You'd be like that way this guy for me, I mean, like,
how am I supposed to know what he likes to eat?

Speaker 4 (06:15):
I mean, if he doesn't like to eat that fire.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
If you want somebody to eat.

Speaker 6 (06:25):
It was breakfast food, you know, like we're not talking
about some specialty like.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
Restaurant as far as like sushi or.

Speaker 6 (06:31):
Something like that. Like you couldn't order me pancakes and
eggs I mean and.

Speaker 5 (06:35):
Like an order like you could you could if you
didn't want to order him anything starting to rupt you, gym.
But if you don't want to order anything, you could
just leave. You could just say, on the way home,
do what everyone else does and grab something from the
drive through your.

Speaker 4 (06:48):
Yeah, I planned on saving you some like, well that's nice.

Speaker 3 (06:52):
Yeah, that would have been really often to eat cold
old food.

Speaker 6 (06:55):
That would have been That would have been.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
A better solution.

Speaker 6 (06:58):
I guess.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
I don't know. It was just super red.

Speaker 6 (07:00):
It was like really awkward then, and I don't know,
like in my mind, I just found that incredibly inconsiderate.
I mean, it's one that like, if you want to
order food like that would have been fine, But the
fact that you didn't even think about ordering me anything
didn't wake me up to be like, hey, I'm thinking
about ordering some door dash and all that. Also, it's
a little presumptuous to think that you could just stay
at my place the next day.

Speaker 2 (07:19):
To kill It's so rude. If a guy did that,
we would be killing him. Yeah, that's terrible.

Speaker 5 (07:25):
See, at first I thought you went down there and
opened his fridge and started cooking stuff, which as long
as there's something for really.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
He rude would be right that, that would be rude,
That would be right here. I I can't even imagine.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
Can you imagine a big tim you come home, you're
there and he orders, you know, door dash for himself
and didn't even ask you if you wanted something.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
Yeah, house, But yeah.

Speaker 6 (07:52):
That wasn't the whole joke with like women too, where
it's like if you stop at a gas station and
you ask your girlfriend or wife and you're like, oh,
do you want anything?

Speaker 3 (07:58):
They say no, you still have to get them.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, it was a lie.

Speaker 1 (08:01):
Yeah, you order a full door desk breakfast and you
don't even get me. I mean even eggs and bacon
would have been a nice gesture, and I would.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
Morning. I don't think, I.

Speaker 5 (08:17):
Mean, I don't think it's gonna matter. Just take a shot,
Just do what everybody else does, to Kiki's point, and
just shamefully eat it in your car so that your
partner doesn't know, like everybody knows when you're in a relationship,
you sneak and shame eat. Everybody knows that, and you,
on the other hand, right out in front of everybody,
Like that's not very nice.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
Yeah, I'm an honest triction, girl, that's some real big behavior.

Speaker 5 (08:41):
And if you just got him something, then it's like
it just justifies the whole thing. It's like, well, I
thought I would get you something, you know, like I
and even if he doesn't like it, that doesn't matter.
It was the fact that you considered him, but instead
you're eating in his house food. No, No, I don't.
I don't blame him, Skuy, I don't blame him.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
No.

Speaker 6 (08:58):
Here's the I love breakfast food. I love pancakes, I
love the eggs. Brunch is honestly my favorite meal of
the day. I mean, who doesn't look pan You.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
Never told me that, well we would have one gate Sky.

Speaker 6 (09:11):
I'm I didn't tell you my.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
Favorite breakfast food, but you know we talked about other things.

Speaker 5 (09:17):
Okay, all right, look, Jim, I'll ask the question. I
know the answer. Would you like to go out with
Sky for breakfast? Maybe we'll pay for it and both
of you get to.

Speaker 2 (09:27):
Eat this guy.

Speaker 6 (09:28):
Yeah, I'm gonna be honest, guy like you were fine,
but this was such a major wretch flag to me
that I'm just I'm gonna go ahead and say no.
And I think that you and I to just go
are separate ways, and maybe next time I order food
for the guy that you have, I don't know sky food,
he's straight.

Speaker 2 (09:49):
I don't know why.

Speaker 5 (09:49):
This is surprising, okay anyway, but I never seem to
know why. Guys, Sky Jim, thank you for your time.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
Best of luck to both of you.