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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show, Dakota, Welcome to the program. How are you.
I'm good. How you guys doing doing? Okay? What's going
on with this woman? Vanessa on waiting by the phone?
You feel like you're being ghosted? Tell us kind of
about how you met, any dates you've been on, and
where things are now.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, yeah, I mean exactly right, right, Like we feel
like I'm being ghosted.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
We met on bumble week.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Sin's numbered pretty quick, first date, really great, right, amazing
things where things are really promising. We were already planning
our second date and Lynn like out of nowhere, just
like just.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Nothing all right. So that's always frustrating. I mean we
hear it all the time, is you have one impression
of the date, and even on the date, you're talking
about future plans. Except then once the date's over and
you guys go your separate ways. Now you can't get
a hold of this person, and you're like, wait a minute,
we talked about another date and I thought it went well,
So what happened? And you start kind of beating yourself
(01:03):
up and you want at least the closure, right, Yeah,
And to be fair.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
We talked about plans for second date after the first
date ended, So it's not like it's not like that
just that night, like the conversation continued, like like I thought,
I really thought we were going places.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Okay, all right, well, let's I'm gonna play a song,
come back in a couple of minutes, going to call Vanessa.
You'll be on the phone at the same time, Dakota,
And the hope is that we can figure out what's
going on, straighten it all out, set you guys up
on in this case, that second date, and pay for it.
All right, amazing, Thank you much. Let's see what's going on?
Part two of waiting by the phone. After this song
the Weekend, Cry for me back in two minutes Fred's
(01:39):
show The Weekend and the Fred Show is on. Hey
to Coody, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call this
woman Vanessa, who you met on Bumble You guys exchange numberies.
You went in a great date, you felt like everything
was going well, things were very promising, you were even
planning a second date, and then now you're being ghosted.
You feel like you can get ahold of her now.
(02:00):
So we go from a good date and plans for
a second date to nothing, and you want to know why?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
All right, let's call Vanessa now, good luck Dakota. All right, thanks? Hello?
Hi is this Vanessa? Hey Vanessa, good morning. My name
is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning
radio show. The whole crew is here, and I do
(02:26):
have to tell you that we are Oh okay, so
well let me finish here, just to get this out
of the way. We are on the radio, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can
which have for just a second?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Okay? Perfect? Well, this is a very agreeable person. Thank you.
We're calling up we half of a guy named Dakota
who you met on bub and you went out with
Dakota recently. Do you remember him?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Uh huh, Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Well, he called us, Vanessa, and he told us that
he thought that your date was really successful and he
was excited to see you again, that you were talking
about a second date and now he can't get a
hold of you. So what changed.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Well, he's crazy, first of all, but yeah, he's also right.
We did have a great date, like that was fun
and you know, and we were like talking and texting
and you know, I was pretty excited about him until
he showed up at my house. Yeah, so.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Like you didn't you didn't want him there?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Yeah, Like the next weekend after we had had a
date of something, so I was doing errands and then
I hang out with some friends, like they came over
and yeah, it was just a busy day and I wasn't.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Like checking in my phone once I was at home,
and then I got this random knock on my door
and it was Dakota and he was just like, oh,
you're not answering your phone.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Like, okay, had you given did he pick you up
previously or does he live nearby?
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Or like, oh he got my address from when he
had called me an uber to.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Give me to get me a RIF home after a date.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, so you he was like, let me get you
an uber and then he gave you his phone or
he typed it in or somebody Okay, so he typed
it in and then he so you didn't answer the
phone in a in a or get back to him
in a fast enough fashion, so then he just decides
to look in the uber at for your address and
then show up at your house.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Yeah, And he also was like, oh, who's over there?
Any guys here like cause they saw cars out front.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
It's some weirdo stuff. There's some big time of weirdo stuff.
You can't do that, now, No, you can't do that.
I forgot to mention the Dakota. Now, I gotta get
I gotta get Dakota on the line. I got to
be completely transparent here because that's some weird stuff. Dakota
is here, Dakota. Yeah, women game. Yeah, we don't show
(04:47):
the people's houses uninvited. We don't do we don't.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Like I wasn't. She wasn't answering anymore after everything had
gone well, So I wanted to make sure she was
okay like I was. I was doing like a like
a health I wasn't trying to stock her.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Oh you're doing a wellness check. That's so nice of you. Yeah,
she has every right not to respond to you in
whatever period of time she wants to without you showing
up at her house. That's not that's not why she
She didn't put the address in there for you to
show up. She put the address in there for her
to get home totally.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
And I wasn't. I wasn't like planning on showing up
like I figured we'd like get it and actually at
some point anyway, but like when I didn't hear anything
from her, I was really worried. That's something on her off.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I don't think that's for you to have to worry about.
I mean, like this one date, I'm sure she's okay.
You know, I don't have to get a newspaper or
something turn on the dateline. I don't know. I mean, like,
you don't just show up at people's houses uninvited. I
don't know if you do that really kind of ever, honestly,
And then for you to did you really show up
there and then ask if there were any guys there,
(05:47):
like that to me is not giving the joke. Yeah, No,
it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
That was just yeah, I was being like like ha ha, funny.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Like I wasn't like whatever, that's not giving I'm checking
on your well being. That's I'm checking up all you,
which is not cool.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I mean no, like that's but that's not what I
was doing. Like I really was just just trying to
make sure she was okay. Likes, that's that's something that
like good people do you check on people with like
here with.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah, he's a good guy doesn't sound like it, Vanessa,
Are you buying any of this that he You know,
he had good intentions.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
It was only not defending myself because you guys are
doing it for me. So he's clearly crazy and creepy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
So yeah, crazy, I'm a concerned person, Like I liked
you and I thought we were vibing, and I wanted
to make sure you were. Okay, that's not that's not
crazy person behavior. That's like carrying person behavior.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Okay, but not on normal does that. But yeah, if
in fact that was your intention, it doesn't give that
because she didn't give you her address for the purpose
of you coming over. It's a very important distinction, you know.
It wasn't like, hey, you can stop buying any time
you want. It wasn't like there was a mass murderer
in the neighborhood, you know what I mean. And you
(07:01):
you may be you may be the mass murderer. I
don't know. But like, you can't just show up at
people's houses I don't even know. I mean, there are
people I've dated whose addresses I have, whose whose homes
I've been to. I still don't go over there and
just knock on the door, like it's just not it's
just not cool. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
I mean, my my whole family like is like we've
always grown ups just kind of dropping by each other's houses.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Like your family, that's not and even my family sometimes
I think would probably not answer the door. Finally, so
I don't. I don't. You can't just show up at
people's houses uninvited. You can't do that. And especially this
is creepy, Like she did not give you her address
with the purpose of you having it to come over there.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
She gave that.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Well do you right? Right? Right?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, of course I do, Like I didn't. That's why
I didn't go there like the next day. And it
wasn't just like, hey, let's have a second date. No,
like when I had hurt for her for a while,
Like that's when I was like concerned that something was wrong.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I know.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
You guys are totally misery to misery.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
All of us, sorry, everybody in quitting Vanessa. Vanessa looks so, hey, Vanessa,
we got this all wrong. I'll just ask the question, then,
would you like to go out with him again? He
had good intentions, he says, no, not interested, Okay, not
gonna happen. So look da Kota. My thing to you is,
even if you do have good intentions, never do that again. Please.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Okay, I mean I think you guys are wrong, but sure, okay, Okay, he's.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Gonna do it again, so that's right.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
All right.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Well, Vanessa, thank you for answering for your time, and
Dakota good for trying. Yeah, and good luck to you, Dakota.
The Entertainment Report is next seven hundred and fifty bucks
in the showed that a timee Breaker versus Carissa. That's next,
Fred Show. I want to be a
You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show, Dakota, Welcome to the program. How are you.
I'm good. How you guys doing doing? Okay? What's going
on with this woman? Vanessa on waiting by the phone?
You feel like you're being ghosted? Tell us kind of
about how you met, any dates you've been on, and
where things are now.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, yeah, I mean exactly right, right, Like we feel
like I'm being ghosted.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
We met on bumble week.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Sin's numbered pretty quick, first date, really great, right, amazing
things where things are really promising. We were already planning
our second date and Lynn like out of nowhere, just
like just.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Nothing all right. So that's always frustrating. I mean we
hear it all the time, is you have one impression
of the date, and even on the date, you're talking
about future plans. Except then once the date's over and
you guys go your separate ways. Now you can't get
a hold of this person, and you're like, wait a minute,
we talked about another date and I thought it went well,
So what happened? And you start kind of beating yourself
(01:03):
up and you want at least the closure, right, Yeah,
And to be fair.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
We talked about plans for second date after the first
date ended, So it's not like it's not like that
just that night, like the conversation continued, like like I thought,
I really thought we were going places.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Okay, all right, well, let's I'm gonna play a song,
come back in a couple of minutes, going to call Vanessa.
You'll be on the phone at the same time, Dakota,
And the hope is that we can figure out what's
going on, straighten it all out, set you guys up
on in this case, that second date, and pay for it.
All right, amazing, Thank you much. Let's see what's going on?
Part two of waiting by the phone. After this song
the Weekend, Cry for me back in two minutes Fred's
(01:39):
show The Weekend and the Fred Show is on. Hey
to Coody, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call this
woman Vanessa, who you met on Bumble You guys exchange numberies.
You went in a great date, you felt like everything
was going well, things were very promising, you were even
planning a second date, and then now you're being ghosted.
You feel like you can get ahold of her now.
(02:00):
So we go from a good date and plans for
a second date to nothing, and you want to know why?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
All right, let's call Vanessa now, good luck Dakota. All right, thanks? Hello?
Hi is this Vanessa? Hey Vanessa, good morning. My name
is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning
radio show. The whole crew is here, and I do
(02:26):
have to tell you that we are Oh okay, so
well let me finish here, just to get this out
of the way. We are on the radio, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can
which have for just a second?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Okay? Perfect? Well, this is a very agreeable person. Thank you.
We're calling up we half of a guy named Dakota
who you met on bub and you went out with
Dakota recently. Do you remember him?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Uh huh, Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Well, he called us, Vanessa, and he told us that
he thought that your date was really successful and he
was excited to see you again, that you were talking
about a second date and now he can't get a
hold of you. So what changed.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Well, he's crazy, first of all, but yeah, he's also right.
We did have a great date, like that was fun
and you know, and we were like talking and texting
and you know, I was pretty excited about him until
he showed up at my house. Yeah, so.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Like you didn't you didn't want him there?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Yeah, Like the next weekend after we had had a
date of something, so I was doing errands and then
I hang out with some friends, like they came over
and yeah, it was just a busy day and I wasn't.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Like checking in my phone once I was at home,
and then I got this random knock on my door
and it was Dakota and he was just like, oh,
you're not answering your phone.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Like, okay, had you given did he pick you up
previously or does he live nearby?
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Or like, oh he got my address from when he
had called me an uber to.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Give me to get me a RIF home after a date.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, so you he was like, let me get you
an uber and then he gave you his phone or
he typed it in or somebody Okay, so he typed
it in and then he so you didn't answer the
phone in a in a or get back to him
in a fast enough fashion, so then he just decides
to look in the uber at for your address and
then show up at your house.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Yeah, And he also was like, oh, who's over there?
Any guys here like cause they saw cars out front.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
It's some weirdo stuff. There's some big time of weirdo stuff.
You can't do that, now, No, you can't do that.
I forgot to mention the Dakota. Now, I gotta get
I gotta get Dakota on the line. I got to
be completely transparent here because that's some weird stuff. Dakota
is here, Dakota. Yeah, women game. Yeah, we don't show
(04:47):
the people's houses uninvited. We don't do we don't.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Like I wasn't. She wasn't answering anymore after everything had
gone well, So I wanted to make sure she was
okay like I was. I was doing like a like
a health I wasn't trying to stock her.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Oh you're doing a wellness check. That's so nice of you. Yeah,
she has every right not to respond to you in
whatever period of time she wants to without you showing
up at her house. That's not that's not why she
She didn't put the address in there for you to
show up. She put the address in there for her
to get home totally.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
And I wasn't. I wasn't like planning on showing up
like I figured we'd like get it and actually at
some point anyway, but like when I didn't hear anything
from her, I was really worried. That's something on her off.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I don't think that's for you to have to worry about.
I mean, like this one date, I'm sure she's okay.
You know, I don't have to get a newspaper or
something turn on the dateline. I don't know. I mean, like,
you don't just show up at people's houses uninvited. I
don't know if you do that really kind of ever, honestly,
And then for you to did you really show up
there and then ask if there were any guys there,
(05:47):
like that to me is not giving the joke. Yeah, No,
it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
That was just yeah, I was being like like ha ha, funny.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Like I wasn't like whatever, that's not giving I'm checking
on your well being. That's I'm checking up all you,
which is not cool.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I mean no, like that's but that's not what I
was doing. Like I really was just just trying to
make sure she was okay. Likes, that's that's something that
like good people do you check on people with like
here with.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah, he's a good guy doesn't sound like it, Vanessa,
Are you buying any of this that he You know,
he had good intentions.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
It was only not defending myself because you guys are
doing it for me. So he's clearly crazy and creepy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
So yeah, crazy, I'm a concerned person, Like I liked
you and I thought we were vibing, and I wanted
to make sure you were. Okay, that's not that's not
crazy person behavior. That's like carrying person behavior.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Okay, but not on normal does that. But yeah, if
in fact that was your intention, it doesn't give that
because she didn't give you her address for the purpose
of you coming over. It's a very important distinction, you know.
It wasn't like, hey, you can stop buying any time
you want. It wasn't like there was a mass murderer
in the neighborhood, you know what I mean. And you
(07:01):
you may be you may be the mass murderer. I
don't know. But like, you can't just show up at
people's houses I don't even know. I mean, there are
people I've dated whose addresses I have, whose whose homes
I've been to. I still don't go over there and
just knock on the door, like it's just not it's
just not cool. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
I mean, my my whole family like is like we've
always grown ups just kind of dropping by each other's houses.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Like your family, that's not and even my family sometimes
I think would probably not answer the door. Finally, so
I don't. I don't. You can't just show up at
people's houses uninvited. You can't do that. And especially this
is creepy, Like she did not give you her address
with the purpose of you having it to come over there.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
She gave that.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Well do you right? Right? Right?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, of course I do, Like I didn't. That's why
I didn't go there like the next day. And it
wasn't just like, hey, let's have a second date. No,
like when I had hurt for her for a while,
Like that's when I was like concerned that something was wrong.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I know.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
You guys are totally misery to misery.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
All of us, sorry, everybody in quitting Vanessa. Vanessa looks so, hey, Vanessa,
we got this all wrong. I'll just ask the question, then,
would you like to go out with him again? He
had good intentions, he says, no, not interested, Okay, not
gonna happen. So look da Kota. My thing to you is,
even if you do have good intentions, never do that again. Please.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Okay, I mean I think you guys are wrong, but sure, okay, Okay, he's.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Gonna do it again, so that's right.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
All right.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Well, Vanessa, thank you for answering for your time, and
Dakota good for trying. Yeah, and good luck to you, Dakota.
The Entertainment Report is next seven hundred and fifty bucks
in the showed that a timee Breaker versus Carissa. That's next,
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