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Speaker 1 (00:31):
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fread Show.
Hey Natalie, good morning, welcome to the Progrum. How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I'm good, Thank you?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
How are you doing all right?
Speaker 2 (00:42):
I want to hear what happened with this guy Evan,
because we're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted
here it looks like maybe you have, but I need
to know the backstory. How did you meet? Tell us
about any dates you've been on, and then where things
are now?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yeah, I have to agree, I do think I'm being ghosted.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
We met at one of those like accessive holiday pop
up bars, you know, right, which I go to every year,
so I'm obsessed with them.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
But we've changed numbers.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
And the next day he texted me, he asked me out,
and I honestly thought we got along great and we
had great chemistry from the first two times you know
we hung out. Aside from making sure that I got
home safe after our date, I have not learned from
him at all.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Okay, So I mean you felt like the conversation flowed you.
I mean because the topics were good. You guys seem
to have similar interests. I mean you walked away from
this date thinking that you would hear from him again,
like nothing, a fancy of nothing weird, nothing crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
You didn't. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
There's so many different ways that we've heard over the
years that you could talk about something that would turn
somebody off or do something, but like you didn't see
that you know, you're Barbie collection at your house, or
you didn't bring up any streams like political stance or
conspiracy theory.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I mean like it was all this very normal, very.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Very normal, just like a good old fashioned fun time.
We didn't talk about politics, you know, that never came up. Okay,
that rarely comes up on a first date, well anyway.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
We've heard so many things over the years, ways that
people have messed themselves up. But nonetheless, you felt like
everything went great. You were looking forward to seeing him again.
It's frustrating when you feel like you have a connection
with someone and then you don't hear from them again.
So that's where we come in. We're gonna play one song,
come back, call this guy, Evan. Natalie, you'll be on
the phone at the same time. And the hope here
is that we can figure out what's going on. Maybe
(02:47):
he's been busy, maybe he's been distracted with the holidays,
family stuff, who knows, And hopefully we can straighten everything
out and set you guys up on a second date.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
And pay for it.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Oh my gosh, i'd love that.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Hey, Natalie, Hi, welcome back. Let's call it Evan.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
You guys met at a holiday pop up bar and
you exchanged numbers, you went on a date.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
You felt like the date went great.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You were attracted to him, the chemistry was there, the
conversation was there, and you expected that he would follow
up and ask you on another date. But he hasn't
done that, and you haven't heard from him in days,
and you want to know why.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I really really want to know why. I honestly, well
so do I.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
So do we Let's call this guy Evan. Now, good luck, Natalie,
thank you?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Hi is A seven. It is I Haven't good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now and I would need your permission to
continue with the call, which hat for just a little
bit on the show.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Would you mind? Hi? Sure, I guess so, Thank you
very much.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I'll get right to it. We're calling on behalf of
a woman named Natalie. I guess you guys met at
a bar and recently went on a date. Do you
remember Natalie?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Yes, yes, I do remember Natalie.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay, So she reached out to us and kind of
told us how you met and said that you guys
had gone on a date that she thought went really
well and she was excited to sort of connect with
you and was looking forward to a second date. But
says you haven't reached out to her in days since
the date, and I guess haven't responded to her either.
So she feels like she's being ghosted. You know, did
you ghost her? Are you ghosting her? What's going on?
Speaker 6 (04:27):
I don't, I guess I don't.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Yeah, yeah, why like what happened?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Because her impression of this was that everything was great,
So then I mean, what's your hesitation.
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Well, I mean, in the beginning, everything was fine. But
I took her to my company's holiday party, and in
the beginning things were fine, and then she proceeded to
to get pretty inebriated.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
This is it's why you don't take a stranger dream
company holiday.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
But okay, I don't take any date, right, it needs to.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Be someone you know how they're going to act. But okay,
so mistake number one evan kind of on you. But
you took Natalie to the party, she had too much
to drink, So so what does that mean?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Well, okay, so at one point, I go to the
bathroom and I come back out and there's this circle
that's kind of formed on the dance floor, and I go,
I go to this circle because I can't find her anywhere,
and there she is doing the worm in front of everybody.
(05:38):
I mean, like my top manager is there, laughing his
face off.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Okay, wait a minute, entertained like it wasn't like, you know,
she didn't do anything offensive. It sounds like it went
overwhelm laughing at her. Okay, all right, so you're embarrassed
because here she is a little overserved and she's doing
the worm and you're you're watching.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
So that's it. That's enough.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Like, I mean, okay, people have a little too much
to drink. You left her own supervised. It's your fault.
Speaker 6 (06:06):
No, No, it got worse.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I wish that was I wish that was it.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
Unfortunately, we went on the rest of the night and
she was going on, carrying on and whatnot, and to
the to a point where I was kind of ignoring
her to a certain extent. And then she kind of
disappeared again on me, and I went looking for her,
and she was outside with all the it guys and
(06:35):
smoking a joint.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Oh it looks like she made herself right home. I
gotta say, at least you didn't have to babysit her.
I mean, everyone seemed to love her. She was alive
with the party, yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
I mean sort of until her rendition of Metallica is
ent her Sandman.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh wait, when did that happen.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
Yeah, it was. We had a karaoke section at the
party as a nice little Carrio.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
What sort of character I would have gone? Smoke?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Say something?
Speaker 2 (07:07):
You certainly may, Evan. I'm sorry, I forgot that Natalie
is yours. You've been listening. I'm very forgetful, Like I
so got up in the story enter Sandman.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Huh yeah, but hold on. This has nothing to do
with the song. It has nothing to do with karaoke.
It has everything to do with that. Like I guess,
I just I'm sorry that like your coworkers like me
more than you, that's it. But like I'm fun, like
everyone there loved me, Like.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
I just get it.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
It does sound fun, honestly like it. I love that
you know, you made yourself right at home. And I
don't know jealousy that's jealous?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Is that diseasing? Did they like they like Natalie more
than haven't.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Already come out.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
With I've already hung out with two of his coworkers,
like after the party.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Your friends now, so we don't even need Evan anymore.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Forget about Evan.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
We've gotten together.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Did you know that, Evan? Did you know that she
made friends? No, this is news to me and they
actually went Natalie, what.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Were you saying?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
They actually they want me to apply for a job there.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
They like, this is exactly why will never come because
you know what, you know what happened.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Maybe that just means that they didn't hate me, or
I didn't embarrass you as much as you just felt
embarrassed on your own to.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Do with me, Big tim you know, I've known you
for years. I don't even know this man. But he
comes to the holiday party or the potluck or whatever.
I'm gonna get his number. He are gonna be boys.
We're gonna go out and have dinner, talk about you.
It's gonna be great. That's what happened here. So Evan,
you're you'll.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Be doing the wiring up in here.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
It sounds like it sounds like this wasn't really as
bad for you as you think.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
It was.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Great for him and me.
Speaker 6 (08:58):
They're still talking about it, wor I'll never live this
down never.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
They're talking about it because they had a good time.
You're the only one that I guess didn't enjoy themselves,
and that's unfortunate because everyone else did.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Wow, she's about to.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
I would want to they And the thing is they
reached out to me. I didn't. They asked me for
my number, they followed me on Instagram, they reached out
to me, They asked if I wanted to go get coffee,
Like it was not my instigation.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
To watch out right.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Perhaps it will then as embarrassing as you are leading
them to believe.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Okay, look, can you get over this.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
We're just embarrassed by yourself.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Can you get over this?
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Like apparently people had a good time with her and
she's fun.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
It is she too much for you? Is that what
this is?
Speaker 6 (09:53):
Like?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
You want some you want someone who subdued, someone's going
to follow you around on say anything?
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Is that? Is that what this is about? Because it
means I.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Don't think it went over her as poorly as you
think it did, or at least according to her.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
It didn't.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
No, but you know what, it didn't go over poorly,
but this did.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
And I'm out, oh wow, goad, And you're about to
get to motive when she gets that job as a
supervisor at your office.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Clean that cubicle.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Yeah, I see, I'm professional enough to not allow my
emotional feelings to interfere with my work.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
She's a professional who can do the worm and apparently
relate to all sorts of people. Those IT guys are
hard to crack. Man. Yeah, welcomed you in the circle exactly.
That's so that didn't happen around now. I've known these
people for years, and I invite me to hang out
smoke weed. But I'm I'll tell you that slov he
ain't hanging out with me. You kidding me, Engineer Karen
not inviting me out? I know, I know, all right. Look,
(10:49):
so she's not interested in you anymore? Which is this?
This happens sometimes, but not very often where the person
who asked to figure this out now is out. So Evan,
I'm sorry I wasted your time, but I guess it
doesn't matter. She doesn't want to go out with you anyway.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
That's totally fine, the feelings mutual.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
But when you see her in the break room, Natalie,
good luck to you.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Thank you for your time as well. Thank you so much,