Waiting by the Phone: I Want To Be YOU!

Shane is confused why his date won't call him back after a fun night out... Find out why Shane got ghosted!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred
Shell Hey saying good morning, welcome to the show. How
are you. I'm doing all right?

Speaker 2 (00:10):
It could be better?

Speaker 1 (00:11):
We were all right? I say again. Now we got
people like keeping it real, because how many times we
do waiting by the phone and I'm like, how are
you doing? I'm great. The love of my life is
ghosting me and won't talk to me anymore. So Staan's
keeping it real. What's going on with this woman? Alana?
We gotta know kind of all the backstory. How did
you meet? Tell us about any dates that you've been on,
and then where things are now.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, so we actually met Anna bar I was with
my friends and we were actually seating near her and
her friends, and you know.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
Some of my guys started talking to some of her girls,
and you know, I started talking to her and I
eventually decided to ask her if she wanted to break
off and have a bite. And from there, yeah, it
was great and like we just vibed, like one thing
led to another, and then she just casually invited me
back to her place, which I'm my I thought that

(01:00):
was the best time there.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
Could be love.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
We love a casual invite back to her place. We
love that. Yes, so that happened.

Speaker 5 (01:06):
Yeah, that happened, and we had a great time over there.
But ever since she hasn't answered my call, she has
a return of my text, and it's been like two
weeks now.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
Yeah, we don't love that. We love the casual invite.
We don't love the two weeks of ghosting, which has
got to be, you know, frustrating because you like somebody
and then you want to know, like why they tread
me this way? What happened? You know? How do I
fix it? Can I fix it? That kind of thing?
So that's where we come in, Shane. We're gonna call Alana.
You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions. At
some point you're welcome to jump in on the call.
But the hope is that we can figure out where

(01:38):
she's been and what's going on, and you know, maybe
we can fix things and you guys can reunite and
go on another date that we pay for. So good,
that sounds great to me, Lessie, what's going on? In
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(02:00):
in ten minutes and six hundred and fifty bucks in
the showdown after that, Shane, welcome back. Let's say we
can figure out what's going on with Alana. You guys,
you actually met in the wild. You met actually like
you approached this person human to human contact, I die
and you spoke and you got away with that. You

(02:20):
weren't called creepy or weird or anything. Not only that,
but you got a date out of it, went back
to her place. Except you haven't heard from her in
a couple of weeks. You want to know why.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
That's exactly what's going on.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
All right, Let's call her now. Good luck, Shane, thank you. Hello,
Hi is this Elana? It is yeah, Hi a lot
of My name is fredam call from the Fred Show,
the Morning radio Show. And I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can
whichat for just a second is said, okay, sure, yeah,

(02:55):
thank you very much. I don't want to take up
too much of your time, But we're calling on behalf
of a guy who reached out to us. His name
is Shane. I guess you guys met You met out
and he went on a date, I guess of sorts,
had dinner and stuff like that. Do you remember this
guy Shane?

Speaker 6 (03:09):
Yeah, Oh my gosh, I can't believe you're calling about him?

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Right. Why can't you believe it? Because he liked you
and thought things were going really well and says he
hasn't heard from you in a couple of weeks, so
there must be a story. Sounds like there's a story.

Speaker 6 (03:21):
Well yeah, okay, so we you know, we went on
this date and then we went back to my place,
and you know that'll be the last time that ever
happens because of what happened the next day.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
Okay, So everything was good until the next day, yeah,
like the morning after.

Speaker 6 (03:39):
Oh yeah, okay, So I had to be up really
early for work, so I wrote him a note, left
and sleeping at my place. But I have cameras, like
in my living room, in my kitchen. Boy, and a
few days later, I was looking like I was looking
for something else and I saw, you know, like Shane there,
and he was like trying on my clothes.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
No, I'm not kidding.

Speaker 6 (04:03):
And I remember coming home from work that day and
thinking some things are out of place, but I didn't
really think of anything think anything of it.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
And then I mean that confirmed it. So I have
a couple of questions though, I mean, we'll get to
that part. But you met this guy, took him back
to your house, and you felt comfortable enough to just
leave him there when you I mean, I would kick
somebody out if I don't know you. You're not staying
in my house after I go. That's like some relationship stuff.
That's the first thing. We'll get to the part about
him putting on clothes. You've already slept together, you know

(04:31):
him more intimate, can you get That doesn't mean you
can trust them. That doesn't mean you can trust him
with your stuff. We're gonna get to the real stocking
part here a minute. Wait a minute. So you meet
a guy at a bar, take him home, and have
a one night stand. We trust him. I've never done that,
and I wouldn't sleep with someone that I don't trust. Okay,
but that's they just did correct there. But then they
just match. If you're letting him in your you know what, then,

(04:54):
I disagree. I've gotten with plenty of people that I
wouldn't leave alone in my house. I'll tell you that
right now. But let's get to the park. I forgot
to mention that Shane is here. Let me bring Shane
into this. I'm shocked about I mean, the female clothes
thing is weird, but leaving someone you don't know in
a house, right, that did so so you'd be like,
she fine, but she's still a little bit I know
she'd be still alibery. Well, this is what leave alone.

(05:20):
Let's talk about it. What does she take from you?
The reason that no one's never stolen from me is
because I've never allowed it. Well, we know, I think
people listening are going you really lost the most shocking
part of the story, which is the female clothing. So
let's get back to that. Alana, Shane, you guys, you
guys know each other. I'm sorry, I forgot to mention
the change here. I'm so forgetful, dude, What what.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
I mean?

Speaker 1 (05:45):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
I guess I just wanted to see what it would
be like, you know, to be you for the day.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
Oh, this is the first time this has ever happened.
Is what you're saying. This is a what you got
a wild hair to put on some ladies clothing when
she's not there, I.

Speaker 2 (05:59):
Mean the first time, but like I was doing it
just to try to be like her.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Oh well that's still a problem. Well a lot of
what is your reaction? He wanted to know what it's
like to be you. I literally have no words.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
That's so weird.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Change the locks?

Speaker 3 (06:14):
Good?

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Did he put on like everything, like underwear, clothes? Like
did he go for it like all the way? Why
an't you ask him? Shane? How how much like Alana
did you want to be?

Speaker 2 (06:26):
Look, I think you guys are being a little insensitive here,
Okay to wear her clothes?

Speaker 5 (06:32):
Look, that's not I mean, look, no matter what I
wanted to wear, like I was there, I had access
to everything, and like I was just putting on clothes.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
I don't have a problem. You do whatever you do whatever,
That's what I mean. I don't I'm not judging that.
It's just it's just creepy to put on somebody else's
clothes that you this whole thing is just a little creepy.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
I mean that's your opinion.

Speaker 5 (06:56):
And like, look, I'm glad that I know that she's
not into that because like, wow.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yeah, because a lot of people are into that. I
mean your profile. Yeah, a lot of people are into
you know, leaving people in their home and then they
try and all their stuff and then want to be them. Yeah,
that's that's the totally normal thing. All right. Look, I
don't think I have to ask, but a lot of
any chance you go out with our friend Shane again, Okay,
whatever you're into, you do that, no shame there, but

(07:23):
I might ask for permission next time when you're gonna
start putting on people's clothes and they don't know about it.
Stuff or go out, you know, yeah, go out to
the old brilliancy code factory and pick up some for
your own clothing, or a Target or wherever you like
to shoar, Walmart, wherever you like to shop get your
own stuff.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
You know, I don't know, I think you guys are
making way out of it.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
Ye whatever, I certainly don't. But anyway, you guys, hey,
thank you for your time. A lot of shanevested lucks
of both of you. The entertainment of Porty is next
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