September 8, 2025 • 8 mins
Andy is confused why his date Nikki won't call him back after a fun night out together... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Andy, Good morning, Welcome to the show. How
are you morning, guys, how's it going doing well? What's
going on with this woman? Nikki? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates you've been on, and then
where things are now?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
All right? So I met her at a friend's birthday party,
like the birthday like pre game thing. We hung out
for a bit and then, you know, before I left,
I got a number and we started talking. We were
like playing on a date. We agreed to go and
meet up for drinks, and you know, I was, I was.
I think I was pretty good. I didn't do anything
to your bed. I was a gentleman. I had fun,
(00:40):
she had fun, I think, and I want to see
her again. I don't know why she's ignoring me, and
I can't care it. I've been asking all my friends.
I'm just like, I'm no idea why. Yeah, because that's
a good point.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
You have the friends in common, so if somebody probably
knows something and no one's telling you exactly. You also
met in person first, which you think would make a difference,
but doesn't always because we've we've heard that before too.
Where people, you know, mostly everyone meets on the dating apps,
but you met in person, so you were able to
gauge chemistry and attraction and all that, and so it
would you would kind of think that going into the
(01:12):
first actual date, you have some momentum. But for whatever reason,
you have not heard from Nicky since then, and you
want to know why.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. And I thought it was kind
of cool that we met in person. Andy, Hey, yay,
what was that? Did you say that on the date?
If you went yay yay on the date, then I
think I get it. Yeah, we can like ten seconds
and here's the song the Entertainment reports next, you're excited. Yeah, okay,
well we're getting a glimpse. Now, let's let's call Nikki.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
You guys, you met at a birthday pre party and
then you set up a date. You went on the date.
You haven't heard from her since the date, and you
want to know why.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I really don't know why. That's really
excited to figure out though.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
All right, we're going to call her now. Good luck, man. Hello,
Hi is this Nicky? Yeah, Nicky?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I'm calling for the Fred Show The Morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Can wait chat for a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
What?
Speaker 5 (02:19):
Thanks about?
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Thank you very much for calling on. Behalf of a
guy named Andy.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I guess you met him at a birthday party or
a birthday pre party or something, and then you went
on a date recently.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Do you remember Andy?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Yeah, I remember Andy?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Because we just talked to him and he had nice
things to say about you and thought that the date
that you guys went on was went well. But he
hasn't heard from you since and we had no trouble
getting ahold of you. So what's going on?
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Sure? I mean we definitely hit it off.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
We met at a party in exchange numbers and I mean,
I'm gonna be real with you.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
He's hot, So you know, Landy, we like talked about
going on a date. I was like all for it.
So we went on a date and yeah, when.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I arrived to the bar, things kind of got a
little bizarre.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Well, Okay, so I'm walking up and I think it
looks like there's like two big presents.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
By him, wrapped gifts, like, yeah, wrapped gifts, okay, and.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
I really wish I hadn't opened them, all.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Right, so you shall to this date.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
He brought gifts that he wrapped, okay, And so I
do tell what was inside?
Speaker 5 (03:41):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Well, the first one had like a bunch of like
soap and body washed and like perfume and like theodorant.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Why would you give a woman that you just met
unless they smelled bad? Even if they did, I don't
know why you go First of all, why would you
out with someone who smelled bad? Second of all, why,
I don't know why you would do that? Okay, So
a bunch of smelly, sort of clean things he gave
you for your.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Body, for my body, all right? Somebody went to math
and body all right? Good?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
And then and then the second box with a pair
of running shoes.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
And I've never mentioned that I'm a runner or that
I'm interested at all in running distances unless I'm being chased.
And so just like I'm having a hard time not
feeling like there's like some sort of like secret meaning
to these gifts, like does he think I need like
you know, exercise more, and exercise needs to shower down, you.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Open and stuff. You're like, okay, so you think I
stink and I need to run, which means you think
I'm not I'm not fit. I mean, that's probably what
I would think if a person I just met gave
me running shoes. Let me ask Andy, though, because he's here,
I forgot to mention that I'm very forgetful.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I'm sorry, Andy, what are we thinking with? I mean,
I guess.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
May maybe maybe that the first gift. I don't, probably not,
but then the running suits, like what are we doing?
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah, okay, listen, first off, Nikki, I'm sorry, but it
makes sense if you think about it what I did.
So okay, ladies, ladies in general, they like they like
to show that they like perfume and stuff. Right, So
I figured it's.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Personal though, like I wouldn't buy someone a fragrance I
had never met, Like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
If you know what you'd.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Like, you do, like you can toss it away, that's okay,
that's fine. And and and the shoes, the running, that's
just in general, I think everybody out there is doing
the thing that's not like a personal attack or anything
like that I'm being like.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Are they doing running around? Like the working it out?
So you? But I mean, can you see, though, how
when you give a woman or a man, or give
anyone who you don't know that well and don't know
what they're into. I mean, if she told you like,
I'm gonna go run the marathon and I and I
love this brand of shoes, I maybe, but like she
didn't tell you that. She gave you zero indication, so
(06:07):
I would see that as you think I need to
go run my ass around because I'm fat.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Well, so you guys, how did he get my shoe size?
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Like?
Speaker 5 (06:15):
That's the other thing?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Well, how did you do?
Speaker 5 (06:17):
You just look and make an estimatist he has a fetish?
Like I don't. I don't, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Did you want her to like? Yeah, what was that about?
How did you know her shoe size?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Were they right? Were they right? Though, nickey?
Speaker 5 (06:28):
Were they right? I literally just said, you knew my
shoe size? Yes it was correct. Yes, it's creeping me out, yea.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
How did you know that?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
I looked and I knew I don't have a fetish.
I could look at them weird.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
God, that's an amazing.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
I'm not weird. I'm not weird.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I'm not weird.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I'm just I'm just doing nice things. I don't know
why people getting freak out, but I need doing a
nice thing that doesn't make any sense, so.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
There's nothing behind me.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Bok shook, I think those are those are nice running Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
What size is polware? Hold on? Won't you there? You
have to see your feet? Yeah, I'm sure you would.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
You probably have to, you know, use somebody that good
smelling stuff on him first and you can take a
look at him.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
I am so good on that.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
I'm not weird.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
I'm just I'm not that.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
It's usually when people keep saying that weird, they're pretty weird. Yeah,
I mean, look, I okay. I want to give you
the benefit of the doubt that you were just being thoughtful,
But I also think that giving someone smell smell good
products at running shoes, that that's probably going to send
a message that you apparently didn't mean to send. It's
(07:39):
a random set of things to give someone that you
don't know for no reason. If somebody brought ozembic on
a date for me and wrapped it and gave it
to me, I would be like, oh, I thank you,
I would say, I.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Would say how much? How did you get this?
Speaker 1 (07:51):
And yeah, I'm very, very very grateful for you for
your thoughtfulness and kindness. But I would also know that
you thought I was fat. Okay, so I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Know, but but but I didn't. But I wasn't.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I'm not you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
I'm just like, I'm just wasn't her like, I'm just
being I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
I don't know that I believe you, But Nikki, okay,
can I'll try it. Would would you like to just
maybe reconsider he was being thoughtful and and maybe see
him again, see if he does anything else weird, brings
you anything else on the date?
Speaker 5 (08:27):
I don't, and none of you would go on a
second day.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I wouldn't, but I have to ask. So all right, look,
Nicki's not interested. Andy, I'm sorry it's not going to
work out. I wish you the best, though.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Well she can keep the shoes and the fragrant shoes
is fine.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
I don't care.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I might, I might not.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
If there's like tracking a device tracking tracking a device
tracking device.
Speaker 5 (08:48):
I don't know anybody, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
I don't know. I'm a little freaked out. Now okay,
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Andy, Good morning, Welcome to the show. How
are you morning, guys, how's it going doing well? What's
going on with this woman? Nikki? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates you've been on, and then
where things are now?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
All right? So I met her at a friend's birthday party,
like the birthday like pre game thing. We hung out
for a bit and then, you know, before I left,
I got a number and we started talking. We were
like playing on a date. We agreed to go and
meet up for drinks, and you know, I was, I was.
I think I was pretty good. I didn't do anything
to your bed. I was a gentleman. I had fun,
(00:40):
she had fun, I think, and I want to see
her again. I don't know why she's ignoring me, and
I can't care it. I've been asking all my friends.
I'm just like, I'm no idea why. Yeah, because that's
a good point.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
You have the friends in common, so if somebody probably
knows something and no one's telling you exactly. You also
met in person first, which you think would make a difference,
but doesn't always because we've we've heard that before too.
Where people, you know, mostly everyone meets on the dating apps,
but you met in person, so you were able to
gauge chemistry and attraction and all that, and so it
would you would kind of think that going into the
(01:12):
first actual date, you have some momentum. But for whatever reason,
you have not heard from Nicky since then, and you
want to know why.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. And I thought it was kind
of cool that we met in person. Andy, Hey, yay,
what was that? Did you say that on the date?
If you went yay yay on the date, then I
think I get it. Yeah, we can like ten seconds
and here's the song the Entertainment reports next, you're excited. Yeah, okay,
well we're getting a glimpse. Now, let's let's call Nikki.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
You guys, you met at a birthday pre party and
then you set up a date. You went on the date.
You haven't heard from her since the date, and you
want to know why.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I really don't know why. That's really
excited to figure out though.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
All right, we're going to call her now. Good luck, man. Hello,
Hi is this Nicky? Yeah, Nicky?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I'm calling for the Fred Show The Morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Can wait chat for a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
What?
Speaker 5 (02:19):
Thanks about?
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Thank you very much for calling on. Behalf of a
guy named Andy.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I guess you met him at a birthday party or
a birthday pre party or something, and then you went
on a date recently.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Do you remember Andy?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Yeah, I remember Andy?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Because we just talked to him and he had nice
things to say about you and thought that the date
that you guys went on was went well. But he
hasn't heard from you since and we had no trouble
getting ahold of you. So what's going on?
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Sure? I mean we definitely hit it off.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
We met at a party in exchange numbers and I mean,
I'm gonna be real with you.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
He's hot, So you know, Landy, we like talked about
going on a date. I was like all for it.
So we went on a date and yeah, when.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I arrived to the bar, things kind of got a
little bizarre.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Well, Okay, so I'm walking up and I think it
looks like there's like two big presents.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
By him, wrapped gifts, like, yeah, wrapped gifts, okay, and.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
I really wish I hadn't opened them, all.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Right, so you shall to this date.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
He brought gifts that he wrapped, okay, And so I
do tell what was inside?
Speaker 5 (03:41):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Well, the first one had like a bunch of like
soap and body washed and like perfume and like theodorant.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Why would you give a woman that you just met
unless they smelled bad? Even if they did, I don't
know why you go First of all, why would you
out with someone who smelled bad? Second of all, why,
I don't know why you would do that? Okay, So
a bunch of smelly, sort of clean things he gave
you for your.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Body, for my body, all right? Somebody went to math
and body all right? Good?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
And then and then the second box with a pair
of running shoes.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
And I've never mentioned that I'm a runner or that
I'm interested at all in running distances unless I'm being chased.
And so just like I'm having a hard time not
feeling like there's like some sort of like secret meaning
to these gifts, like does he think I need like
you know, exercise more, and exercise needs to shower down, you.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Open and stuff. You're like, okay, so you think I
stink and I need to run, which means you think
I'm not I'm not fit. I mean, that's probably what
I would think if a person I just met gave
me running shoes. Let me ask Andy, though, because he's here,
I forgot to mention that I'm very forgetful.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I'm sorry, Andy, what are we thinking with? I mean,
I guess.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
May maybe maybe that the first gift. I don't, probably not,
but then the running suits, like what are we doing?
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah, okay, listen, first off, Nikki, I'm sorry, but it
makes sense if you think about it what I did.
So okay, ladies, ladies in general, they like they like
to show that they like perfume and stuff. Right, So
I figured it's.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Personal though, like I wouldn't buy someone a fragrance I
had never met, Like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
If you know what you'd.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Like, you do, like you can toss it away, that's okay,
that's fine. And and and the shoes, the running, that's
just in general, I think everybody out there is doing
the thing that's not like a personal attack or anything
like that I'm being like.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Are they doing running around? Like the working it out?
So you? But I mean, can you see, though, how
when you give a woman or a man, or give
anyone who you don't know that well and don't know
what they're into. I mean, if she told you like,
I'm gonna go run the marathon and I and I
love this brand of shoes, I maybe, but like she
didn't tell you that. She gave you zero indication, so
(06:07):
I would see that as you think I need to
go run my ass around because I'm fat.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Well, so you guys, how did he get my shoe size?
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Like?
Speaker 5 (06:15):
That's the other thing?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Well, how did you do?
Speaker 5 (06:17):
You just look and make an estimatist he has a fetish?
Like I don't. I don't, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Did you want her to like? Yeah, what was that about?
How did you know her shoe size?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Were they right? Were they right? Though, nickey?
Speaker 5 (06:28):
Were they right? I literally just said, you knew my
shoe size? Yes it was correct. Yes, it's creeping me out, yea.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
How did you know that?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
I looked and I knew I don't have a fetish.
I could look at them weird.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
God, that's an amazing.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
I'm not weird. I'm not weird.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
I'm not weird.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I'm just I'm just doing nice things. I don't know
why people getting freak out, but I need doing a
nice thing that doesn't make any sense, so.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
There's nothing behind me.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Bok shook, I think those are those are nice running Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
What size is polware? Hold on? Won't you there? You
have to see your feet? Yeah, I'm sure you would.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
You probably have to, you know, use somebody that good
smelling stuff on him first and you can take a
look at him.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
I am so good on that.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
I'm not weird.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
I'm just I'm not that.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
It's usually when people keep saying that weird, they're pretty weird. Yeah,
I mean, look, I okay. I want to give you
the benefit of the doubt that you were just being thoughtful,
But I also think that giving someone smell smell good
products at running shoes, that that's probably going to send
a message that you apparently didn't mean to send. It's
(07:39):
a random set of things to give someone that you
don't know for no reason. If somebody brought ozembic on
a date for me and wrapped it and gave it
to me, I would be like, oh, I thank you,
I would say, I.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Would say how much? How did you get this?
Speaker 1 (07:51):
And yeah, I'm very, very very grateful for you for
your thoughtfulness and kindness. But I would also know that
you thought I was fat. Okay, so I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Know, but but but I didn't. But I wasn't.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I'm not you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
I'm just like, I'm just wasn't her like, I'm just
being I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
I don't know that I believe you, But Nikki, okay,
can I'll try it. Would would you like to just
maybe reconsider he was being thoughtful and and maybe see
him again, see if he does anything else weird, brings
you anything else on the date?
Speaker 5 (08:27):
I don't, and none of you would go on a
second day.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I wouldn't, but I have to ask. So all right, look,
Nicki's not interested. Andy, I'm sorry it's not going to
work out. I wish you the best, though.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Well she can keep the shoes and the fragrant shoes
is fine.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
I don't care.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I might, I might not.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
If there's like tracking a device tracking tracking a device
tracking device.
Speaker 5 (08:48):
I don't know anybody, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
I don't know. I'm a little freaked out. Now okay,
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