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Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Andrea,
good morning, welcome to the program. How are you good,
How are you doing?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Thank you for calling for reaching out to us. It's
waiting by the phone. So we're trying to figure out
if you've been ghosted, Why you've been ghosted? Tell us
about this guy Sean, and we have to know all
the backstory. How did you meet? About any dates you've
been on? And then why you think this guy's avoiding you?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yeah, so we met a couple of weeks ago at
a bar like pretty casual. It's really cute. So we
saught numbers and we went on a date and I
thought it went really well, Like he was very we eat.
He was a total gentleman and had a really good time.
(01:14):
So when I got home from the date, I texted
him and I just said something along the lines of like,
you know, I had a really great time. I love
to see you again thanks to the date. And all
I got back was a year welcome and he hasn't
texted me anything else since then.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Okay, so.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I don't really know what happened. I don't know, Like,
I thought the date was a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Yeah, and you met in the wild, so you know,
that kind of takes them. I don't know the element
of we meet in person, there's no chemistry, which is
I think that's the risk we all take on the
dating apps, is that we're going to meet somebody and
then they're not gonna we're not going to match in
person because it's all kind of artificial. So we take
that risk that maybe somebody won't want to see us again.
But in this case, you gauge that at the bar
(02:05):
when you met him, and so you know, you look
back on the date and you're like, well, everything went well,
so why wouldn't you call me again?
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I thought we had a lot of chemistry, and I
don't know. I've been trying to just let it go,
but it like it is fair to meet's one in
person these days and have a good.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Time, so right, and then when it did goes well,
you're kind of you're left thinking like, well, you know
I do something that I say something, but you're saying
you don't think that happened.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
No, I don't want a fun and it seems like
he did too, so I don't know if Yeah, I
don't know what happened.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Well that's where we come in. We're gonna call this
guy Sean. In just a second, we're gonna play a song.
Come back, we'll call him. You'll be on the phone.
We're gonna ask some questions. You're welcome to jump in
at any point. But the hope is always is that
we can set you guys up on in this case,
a second date and pay for it and see what happens.
All right, okay, Andrea, Yes, all right, let's call this
guy Sean. You met at a bar, so you met
in person, which we at about dating ass but in
(03:02):
this case you met on person in person and you
you guys have changed numbers. You went on a date,
you felt like the date went really well. You expected
to hear from him again. You say he was a gentleman,
everything was good, but you have not heard from Sean
since your date, and you want to know why you're
thinking about it as a lot of people would.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah, I just yeah, I mean trying to let it go,
but yeah, I want to know Le's seef.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
We can get some answers. Good luck, think hello hisus Sean.
Who's calling? Hey, Sean, good morning. It's Fred.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
It's your buddy Fred calling from the Friend Show, the
morning radio show. I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now, and I would need
your permission to continue with the call. Is said, Okay,
if we chat for just a second, you can hang
up at any point.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Sure.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah, I know, I know he's a little bit strange,
but I'll get right to the point. We're calling on
behalf of a woman who says she met you at
a bar and you guys recently went out.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Her name is Andrea. Do you remember meeting her?
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Yeah, oh you do.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Okay, good, Well, So what we're trying to figure out
here is as she called us and told us about
what she thought was a nice time meeting you in person,
and then a nice date, but says that she hasn't
heard from you since and kind of thought that she would.
Didn't really feel any sort of issue with the date.
Was hoping to see you again. You haven't reached out,
so what's that about.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
It was really thinking about my answers before because I
had a feeling it was going to be something like this. Unfortunately,
Oh so you guys are okay. She she's just selfish.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
She's selfish? I mean, wait, what does that mean? Like, right,
what do you mean by that?
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I can tell pretty quick. It's pretty easy to tell.
Like I picked her up better place and I just
stopped for gas. I'm always working, so I don't think.
I mean, I didn't want to like re late. So
we went to the gas station, and you know, I
was like, you know, say, you know, just say sorry.
I got her some scratch offs, and uh, I.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Like how you Okay, Okay, so you show up with
scratch offs.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I mean, honestly, if a woman showed up to a
date with me with scratch offs, I'd be pretty excited.
But okay, so you show up with scratch.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Offs, like you went into the gas station. Is that
what you're saying? Yeah, Oh okay. I thought you just
had them on you for dates.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
That would be awesome, But now I might start doing that.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
It's kind of playing right, yeah, girl, and then like
I'd be the scratch off guy all my holiday cards,
like for Christmas. That's cute. Yeah, okay, good.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
So, so, so you gave her some scratch offs and
what does she proceed to do them on the date?
Speaker 5 (05:50):
She started to do one on the way and then
and then we got to the date, you know, and uh,
she was showing me the cards that she did and
uh one like two grand.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
So one of the scratch shows you gave her netted
too or whatever? She she won two thousand dollars. That's exciting.
So there, so she got two g's.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
Yeah, sorry, I'm acting so weird.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
I should really worry about what's going to happen on
the radio.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
It's on the radio thing. But I've already committed. I'm sorry,
let's see.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
So, so, but what's the issue. So she won two
grand and then what's your expectation? Then you're like, well,
do I get half? Or I mean, how does that?
I mean, how do you deal with that when someone's
like I just won two thousand dollars and you bought
the ticket, like, so what's what happens next?
Speaker 6 (06:35):
Obviously like even you know, there's a fraction of like
like I could have got that one for myself, but
like obviously, like I was hyped for her.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
I didn't. It was just expecting her to, like, you know,
even offer to pick for the meal or something, you
know what I mean, or like tip your you know,
tip the dealer, like but nothing like we didn't even
do like an like an ink of a jet dance.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I will say, I will say, I love that. I mean,
I have no look, we're going on a date. I
expect to pay for it. I asked you on a date.
If I gave you a scratch off ticket and you
won two thousand dollars, I guess I would think that
you might offer to pay for the dinner at least.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Like I'm I don't know that I deserve half.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I probably if if roles were reversed, I'd be like yo,
like dinner's on me, and I'll split it with you
because you bought it.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Because this is found money, right, like I didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
I didn't do anything for this, Like I didn't buy
the ticket, so I don't I don't really blame you
too much, but let me bring Andrea in because I
forgot to mention that andreas here.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
You're welcome.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Andrea is here kind of kind of lurking, but that's
because I told her too. Andrea, you didn't tell us
that you won two grand I mean that's cool, but
why would you not? Why would you be inclined to
then sort of pocket that or not do anything?
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Well, Hi, Sean, I mean I don't know. It was
a gift, and I I feel like the guy I
don't know you, Like you asked me out on a date.
It's still a first date. It's like the gentleman thing
to do to pay for the first date.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Okay o.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
S Fredan made a great point that I didn't even
think about, Like you didn't even offer to pay for
half of the dinner.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Well, I mean not even that she should have given you.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I shouldn't should she could have given you half of
the winnings even, I mean, I think that's kind of
a cute thing to do, Like you bought me the
ticket we won together, kind of like you know you
don't like that idea. Oh, you know, you had a
look on your face like you were about to tell
me now, no, no, no, no, I like this idea,
you know, like, I just think it would have been
kind of cool, like a nice gesture, considering you didn't
even know you were getting the ticket to begin with.
(08:44):
Or you could have said, let me pay for dinner
at least, I mean, I don't know, something like, because
you just won two thousand dollars. I mean that's not
an insignificant amount of money, and you didn't have any
idea that was going to happen to you.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
I mean, yeah, maybe I could have brought a thousand
dollars to a Frank inteet, but I was ghosted, so.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
You were dead.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
You were not going to get him a thousand bucks
on the next You aren't going to show up with
a bunch of money.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Go oh here, Well maybe she was. She hadn't even
catched the ticket ship I.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Scratched it wrong.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Ah, So that's what we're going with. Literally, he showed
it to me, So we're going with you.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
We're going to give him half on the second date
if he'd asked you, But since he didn't, then you're
pocketing it.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Listen, I just I can't believe that a man would
expect me to give him money on a first date.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I'm sorry, but well he's not asking. It's not like
collection at the Catholic Church.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Like he didn't stick out one of those baskets on
the stick, like you know you he helped you win,
he facilitated the process of you winning. And while you're
very lucky, I don't. This isn't him like saying, hey,
I need a thousand dollars from you. This is you
one too, And in the back of his mind it's like, well,
it would be. It would be kind of a cool
gesture if you did something for me, since I did
(10:00):
something for you, and I don't.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I don't know if it's fair to make the leap
that you're selfish because maybe you were shocked and surprised
and you hadn't really thought of it. I might be
able to give you that, but I mean, I also
think the fact that you didn't even think to say, like, well,
let me at least by dinner.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
I owe this money now, Like, I don't know that's
the best look.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Listen where a gentleman always pays for the first date.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Well, no, no, he's complimenting me. I love that. No, no, Andrea,
though one at a time, please go ahead.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Just where I come from, a gentleman always pays for
the first date. And yeah, maybe I would have sung
for it on the second date, but I'm selfish. So
now there's not going to be a second date, and
I have two thousand dollars.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Here you go, well, I mean we don't. Maybe we
don't all see this the same way, but that's fine,
So I'll ask the question. I mean, I don't think
you did. I don't think either one of you want
to go out with each other now, But I mean,
do either one of you want to see each other again?
I mean maybe Sean's like, no, let's go on the
date because I want my g that I was supposed
to get. I mean, we'll pay for the date. How
about that, Andrey, you want to go out with him again?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
No?
Speaker 3 (11:03):
I think I'm good with my money.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
I see, I see. So she I don't think she
had any intention of sharing this with him. It's not
giving that.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
It was very obvious.
Speaker 6 (11:13):
I saw what I needed to see just from her instincts.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
On that date.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
All right, Well, look, Sean, thanks for answering, and good
luck to you. Andrew good luck to you as well.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
All right, thanks, thanks you More bread show next