Waiting by the Phone: Lollaconfusion!

Carly is confused why Stefan won't call her back after meeting at Lollapalooza... Find out why she got ghosted!

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(00:45):
Hey Carly, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are
you again? Are you doing okay? What's going on with
this guy? Stefan? Or is it Stefan? Are we going
with Stefan? It's Stefan? Okay, I don't know Stefan. I
mean that would be fabulous. But anyway, he says, Stefan,
so you, how did you meet Stephan? Tell us about

(01:05):
if it's step Fan, I might know what the problem is.
But anyway, how did you meet Stefan? And tell us
about any dates you've been on? And then where things
are now?

Speaker 2 (01:13):
Okay, So we met a hinge sotly normal. We went
on one day.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
So after he met he asked me if I wanted
to go to one of the days of Lollpalooza with him,
and he had an extra risk band and I was like,
absolutely yes, I would love to.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Okay, So we're having a really good time until I
went to the bathroom and I came out of the
bathroom and he was just gone, Like he didn't answer
any of my calder texts, and he hasn't soaken me
at all since then.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
So he's up, he's out, And I mean, huh, you
are you sure he laughtered you lose him because a
lot of Palooza is like it's a very big place.
You know, tens of people attend this thing every year,
and by ten, I mean hundreds of thousands. So is
there any way that you lost him in the crowd? Like,
were you guys trying to watch Two Friends or Sabrina
Carpenter and then you know, I don't know, he got

(02:07):
mesmerized by the drones and you never saw him again.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
I mean, it's possible, but he didn't answer any of
my called their texts, and I called and texted him
a bunch.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yeah, I mean, there's not a lot of cell phone
coverage there. I've found. I'm trying to come up with
a reason why hopefully he didn't ditch you. But you're
saying that it looks like he ditched you.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
Yeah, it does, And I'm just still a little confused.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
And when you look back on this really well, but
when you look back on like conversation and everything up
until that point, I mean, everything was cool. You guys
were getting a long fine, the conversation was good, no
strange topics. Means, you are all questions that I ask
every week and people don't tell the truth. But I mean,
just overall, though you were feeling a good vibe, you're
genuinely surprised this guy ditched you at Ladapaluza, which is

(02:49):
very uncool by the way.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
Yeah, definitely, I don't understand what happened. Like it was
going well for sure.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Okay, Well, let's see if we can get this guy
step on the phone. We're going to play a song. Comeback,
we'll call him. You'll be on the phone too, Hey, Carly,
all right, welcome back. You know you're right over there, Carly.
I mean, energy's low. I know you're disappointed, right, You're
bummed because this guy, this guy Stephan. You went to
a lot of pollouza with him. You met on the
dating app. You felt like everything went really well, except

(03:18):
he ditched you a lot of pelooza. You didn't get
lost in a crowd. You reached out to him, he
tried to get a hold of him, he didn't respond,
and you haven't heard from him since. I mean, you
could even argue that you got separated and he didn't
have any cell phone coverage. But then he could have
text you later and been like, oh my god, I'm
so sorry, but that didn't happen either.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
No, it's been nothing since then, and I'm pretty bummed
about it.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah, I get that. Well, let's call him and figure
this out. Good luck, Carly. Thanks, Hello, Hi's is Stephan. Yeah, Hey,
good morning, Stephan. My name is Fred. I'm calling from
the Fred's show of the morning radio show. And I

(03:59):
have to tell you that we are on the radio
right now and I would need your permission to continue
with the call. Can we chat for just a second
on the air. You can hang up anytime?

Speaker 4 (04:08):
Yeah, sure, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (04:09):
Well, thank you very much for calling on behalf of
a woman who said she met you on Hinge, the
dating app. Her name is Carly. You guys went to
a lot of Palooza. Do you remember Carly?

Speaker 4 (04:17):
I hope, yeah, I remember Carly.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
So what happened? Because we just spoke with her and she,
you know, said that she had met you on the
dating app and you matched and you chatted and you
agreed to go to a lot of Palouza together and
you did and she felt like the vibe was good,
everything was going great. And then you guys were separated
and she hasn't heard from you since, so it would
look like you ditched her a lot of palooza, which
is not a very nice thing to do, all right,

(04:44):
if you really.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
Want to know, it's actually kind of gross. But I
can tell you.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
I really I think we all really really want to
know actly, But I'm not sure if I do, But
I do you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (04:54):
Yeah, no, you'll heal the thought after listen. We were
having a great time. It was super fun. And then
we went to the porta potty she needed to use it,
and she's inside. I'm waiting outside for her, and I
got a text from her that says come in here,
and so I was like, is everything okay? Like I

(05:15):
you know, I thought maybe she's having a medical problem
or something. Turns out she wanted me to go into
the porter potty to hook up.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Okay, absolutely not, absolutely not, But that's you know what
that right there, That is how you get yourself ditched.
A lot of palooza that right there, yes, right, or
some sort of issue, some sort of ratch that you
don't know what. That is the least sexy place on
the planet. And I assumed this was one of the
nice ones, right, even that's gross. But this wasn't like

(05:46):
one of the VIP air conditioned ones, right, This is
like a porta potty.

Speaker 4 (05:50):
Yes, it's like a hole in the ground where all
the smells are coming up. Like I don't want to
I don't want to kiss someone. I don't even want
to use it myself, you know what I mean. I
avoid them at all costs, let alone to hook up with.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
I gotta be on the verge of a bladder explosion
to do that. Yes, like, we have to be in dire,
dire circumstances in order for me to be there just
to use the restroom.

Speaker 4 (06:12):
Exactly, I think it. I mean, I am so so
turned off by it, like the opposite it is. It's disgusting,
to say the very least. And so I ran out
of there before she could even come out because I
was like, I don't know how to respond to someone
who thinks this is a good idea.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
So I mean that may have been a little dramatic,
but still that is disgusting. And let me bring Karly
and I forgot to mention Carly is here. Carly. I'm
all for a little improvisational fun. You know, we find
a nice dark corner or a bush, you know, or
I don't know, hide behind a tree or something.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
I don't I don't know, but I'm okay, let me
get this rate. So you're mad because a girl wanted
to hook up.

Speaker 4 (06:54):
A view is what I mean? In a potty Yeah
that's what you hear?

Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, okay, a porter body detail. I am appalled you
can't rest. I can't, I cannot rest. I mean, God,
there was no better idea. I mean you could have
even can you leave and go back? I don't know.
There's gotta be there has to be a better place.
There has to be a better way. I mean, that

(07:20):
is a very disgusting place in general, even to use
it for what it is intended in and out.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
It's honestly no fun red flag for me. No fun.
Are you kidding me?

Speaker 1 (07:32):
I'm no fun. I don't want lysteria. I don't know what.
Let them trying to think of whatever random disease you
can get him in there. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
huh uh. I don't even want You could even find
me a new one, a clean one, and I still
don't want it to It's it's human, it's hot in there,
it's grow No.

Speaker 4 (07:54):
I don't want to look up in like a nice bathroom.
I truly not any kind of bathroom where I know
what it is meant for a specific reason, and that
reason does not line up with the the reason you
were looking for. It's a real hard cast for me.
I think that's so gross, and I think you all
kind of agree with me.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah, Carly, I mean, why can't we can have a
little fun, a lot of blues made, we can chat
about a little bit, a little flirty conversation, and then
we go to a bed, you know, we go to
a place that's not an enclosed essentially hole in the
ground that everyone in the entire festival p's in.

Speaker 3 (08:26):
Like, I mean, come on, all right, you know what,
it's fine if he doesn't want to imagine my freak.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
I you know what, I don't want to match your
I don't think anyone here wants to match you a freak.
Not one single person who wants to match a freak.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
Usually.

Speaker 3 (08:43):
This one.

Speaker 1 (08:44):
I'm occasionally in this particular case that that's I'm not
trying to match your filth. I can smell it right now,
like I can taste it. Like I think that that
environment would cause my parts to retract into my body. Yeah,
like I don't. I don't think there's any way I
could even perform under those circumstances. No, I cry. Yeah,

(09:06):
I've done a lot of things in my life, but
like that's no, No, I don't think so, Carly. You
need to find a different freak.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
I think, yeah, would never be men.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
Right up, there. That's terrible advice for the ladies. Do
not do any of that, all right, Stefan. Look, I'll
ask the question, what if we set you guys up
in an environment where there is not a porter body,
We got a nice restaurant, hard path. Oh wow, we're
not even going to consider that, all right, Carly, Hey,
I I'm sorry it's not going to work out. I

(09:42):
hope that you find someone who can. I hope maybe
we we adjust the freak a little bit and then
somebody can match that freak, the one that's adjusted freak.