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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been last waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show.
Hey Kane, good morning, how are you.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm doing good.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I'm a little frustrated, but I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
How are you all right?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
All right?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Well, that's understandable because it's waiting by the phone and
you're trying to figure out I'm well, by the way,
thank you for asking. You're trying to figure out what
happened with this woman, Sierra. So what we want to
know here is how you guys met, and then tell
us about any dates that you've been on, and it's
kind of where things are now and how we can help.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Man, she's a nice girl. We met at a bar,
a local place in the neighborhood and she worked there.
We went out for a date and then I don't know,
we had so much fun. We laughed, we flirted, it
was even a kids at the end of the night.
We just had a really good, relaxed time. And then
(00:51):
for some reason she sort of cooled off and over
the last couple of weeks went from like trickling in
with responsors and text messages and showing interest to kind
of just like not being around. And I don't really
get why.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Okay, so kind of the fade away, you know, and
that you went on the date, but as opposed to
her just saying and I'm hypothesizing here, but as opposed
to her just saying, hey, I don't want to see
you anymore. She's kind of just slow rolling her way out.
It feels like it.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Stay the way would be a perfect description.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Perfect Okay, all right, but you want to see her again.
You're hoping to maybe figure out why she's doing this.
So we're gonna call Sierra. We're gonna ask her these questions.
You'll be on the phone at the same time. At
some point you're welcome to jump in on the call.
And as always, the hope here is that we could
set you guys up on another date and pay for it.
Sound good, Let's do it. Let's see what's going on.
Part to you avoiding Metaphonis. Next after Hoji, You're back
(01:43):
in two minutes on the French show No Move. Hey Kane, Hey,
all right, Kane, welcome back. Let's call Sierra. You met
at a bar, you went on a date, you had
a great time, you thought everything was going really well
with this date. You called her again to try and
set up a second date, and she hasn't exactly well,
I guess now she's ghosting you, but she kind of
like just slow rolled you, like you're doing the fadeaway thing.
(02:05):
We'll commit to another date, and now she's not talking
to you at all, and you want to know why.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I'd really like to know why.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
All right, let's call her now. Good luck, Caine.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Thanks?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Hi's this Sierra. Yeah, she's calling Hi, Sierra, Good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a
second on the show? Would you mind?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I don't know what's it about.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
You can hang up anytime. And I know it's weird
to get a call you like this. It's kind of startling.
But actually I don't know because I probably wouldn't answer
the phone. But I'm glad you did. I really am.
We're calling out behalf of a guy named Cain who Okay,
well you remember Kane. So he called us and told
us that he met you at a bar and is
on a date and he was excited about you and
(03:02):
thought the date went really well. But he says now
he can't get a hold of you or you're not
responding to him, and he wants to know why. So
what's what's up? What's your issue with the guy?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Oh? Wow, I can't believe he called you. Guys, Yeah,
came he I met him. I worked at the bar
where I met him.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
And he was he was cute, and I was not
doing well with dating, and I thought I'd give him
a chance, which I don't normally do with guys I
meet in the bar.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
But we went out and the we had one date.
One date. It was great, it was fine, he's nice,
but then it got weird. After that, he got weird
and like right after.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
We went out or short, like, you know, a couple
of days later, like he just started showing up at
my bar, like saying that he was just in the
area or you know, some other stupid excuse, and I.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Don't know he got he just was giving freezy vibes.
He came in twice with his friends, he came in
like like three times by himself, and he just oh god,
it just felt like he was watching me and like
being really weird and like, you know, I'm I'm I
work at a bar, like I flirt with guys.
Speaker 7 (04:18):
That's kind of like you know how it happened, right,
and he's kind of part of the game.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
It's part of the gig. Yeah, And like it always
felt like he was watching and would get all like
weird if they were flirting, and then sometimes he would
step in and be like she's not interested, which really
that was kind of the end of the line.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Like me, even if you weren't interested, Sierra, you don't
need some i you know, messing with your your your
work approach here, because I mean, you're working for tips
and you're it's not that you're being disingenuous, but like,
you don't you don't need to make the guests feel
uncomfortable because this guy you went on one day with
is like, you know, stalking you exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
That's exactly what it felt like. It felt like, really
it got to an inappropriate kind of thing, and I
just thought, I'm, you know, just stop communicating.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Okay, let me bring I forgot to mention that Caine
is here, So this is canus. This is par for
the chorus. I mean, you're calling the radio show to exposure.
But yeah, you're kind of obsessing over her at her work.
I mean, Caine, you didn't tell us about that part
that you don't leave her alone.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
I mean, it's just not an accurate representation of what's
going on. It's just not.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Real, like what he is representation. Then.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Okay, So first of all, it's a bar.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
I've been there a number of times before. I came
in with friends, I came in to get a drink
after work. It's I mean, there are a ton of regulars.
I'm not there nearly as much as a lot of
the other regulars. As far as our interactions. I'm just
trying to be polite, and you know, I just don't
understand what the problem is.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Well, the problem is that she's a big girl and
she can fend off guys she doesn't want to be with.
And she's also you're not her boyfriend's so like, even
if she maybe she does want to flirt with other.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
People courteous, Yeah, but what does that mean obvious?
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Okay, if people come up to her and are hitting
on her and being aggressive or something, I'm just gonna
as a courtesy, like I would do it no matter
what I would say hey, step off, you know, back off,
give us some space.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
But that's not your job.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
That I shouldn't have to ask.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
I'm sorry if I didn't punish right now for just
being a gentleman.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
It's like, oh my god, I wouldn't go well, I would.
I would call that stalker and creepy and it And
also like before we went on our date, I think
I saw you in the bar one time before that,
Like you're not a regular, and the regulars don't act
like you do, Like they don't intervene with me when
(06:50):
I'm talking to other guys, So that's that's not fair
to say.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah, it doesn't sound like you're playing it cool here, bro,
Like it sounds like you're being you know, super aggressive
and a little possessive.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Even not possessive I'm trying. Okay, that's such a misrepresentation
of the vibe though, It's not like I'm coming up
and punching the guys in the face and throwing them.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Out in the bar, because you're not assaulting people, Kiki,
what's your what's your interpretation of the vibe here? The
vibe is giving a little cool cool, but that's okay,
you know, it's a lot of people out there, and
I'm sure he can find somebody. But I love that
she spotted the cuckoo earl. He ain't got about it
there because I'm.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
A little scared.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Yeah, I don't hold on.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I don't want any problem if I go out.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
If I go out with her and she works at
the bar, does that mean that I'm banned from the
bar forever. I can't go in there and get myself
at the ear and some chicken wings or something. I mean,
that's somewhere I've been going for a.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
While so every day. Right, the problem sounds like you
were there one time, and you've been going there for
a while since you met her, But you mess with
her money man, those tips.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Also, that's me, and tell me this instead of just
ghosting me like we're adults. Were not fifteen, So it
just makes more sense for you to say, hey, I
had a good time, but blah blah blah whatever. For
whatever reason, I don't think we should see each other.
Speaker 7 (08:13):
And you're talking, I get it, yeah, exactly, Like sure,
maybe with like someone else, but you kind of seem
like a person who wouldn't take that well.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
And I was a little nervous to do it. Also,
I've seen baby reindeer like that.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
You're like that.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Going to that's bring that up, giving it a little
bit like that. Yeah, you're my girl, though I don't
know why you can't feel like this.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I'm man and.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, no, this is absolutely giving reindeer. We went we're
a good.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Time time one time we went out. I do not
make my man. No, I'm sorry, No, I do not
want to give it a shot. This already seems crazy
and unhinged and I do not want a part of
the look.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Let me just drop I'll drop by later.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
We can talk about it.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Don't do.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Do not drop by later because I will.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
We will get but we will escalate this so.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Something that we will want. You need to not. Don't
tell me, babe, girl. Run you talk to your manager
at the bar because we might need some bouncers.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Yeah, hey, sierragain, touch with us. Let us know if
we can help you. Because Kate, I think you need
to take the HND like it's it. I understand you
like her, and I understand you were excited about it,
but like, I think it's time to let this breathe,
like like completely breathe, like to where you are not
breathing her air anymore ever again.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Okay, I'm just going to test you when we get
how about how about no, I'm gonna dude, I'm blocking
you and I don't want to see you again.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
There are plenty of bars in this area. If you
think you need to stay in this area, you can
go there and find someone else to suck.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Kane, I need you to listen to her when she
says to leave her alone.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
Okay, I still think we'll figure this out.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
How about you let her reach out to you if
she would ever like to do that. It's never going
to happen, but how about you let it? Yeah, you
just let her reach out to you. It's the balls
in her court, how about that?
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:31):
All right?
Speaker 4 (10:33):
Yeah? I mean if I happen to pass by the
bar I happened to, it's not straight.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Yeah. Yeah, we don't need no other places that Higgy Wings,
Everything's fine. Hey, uh, Sierra, We're here for you if
you need us. Kane, I need you to promise me
we're just gonna take a deep breath. Okay, good, all right,
you know where to find us. Si Eric, guys, best
(11:02):
of luck to both of you.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Okay, Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
The entertainer reports show Vas Shelley with five hundred bucks
in Kiki's court ball. Next, it's The French Show.
Ever been last waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show.
Hey Kane, good morning, how are you.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm doing good.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I'm a little frustrated, but I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
How are you all right?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
All right?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Well, that's understandable because it's waiting by the phone and
you're trying to figure out I'm well, by the way,
thank you for asking. You're trying to figure out what
happened with this woman, Sierra. So what we want to
know here is how you guys met, and then tell
us about any dates that you've been on, and it's
kind of where things are now and how we can help.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Man, she's a nice girl. We met at a bar,
a local place in the neighborhood and she worked there.
We went out for a date and then I don't know,
we had so much fun. We laughed, we flirted, it
was even a kids at the end of the night.
We just had a really good, relaxed time. And then
(00:51):
for some reason she sort of cooled off and over
the last couple of weeks went from like trickling in
with responsors and text messages and showing interest to kind
of just like not being around. And I don't really
get why.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Okay, so kind of the fade away, you know, and
that you went on the date, but as opposed to
her just saying and I'm hypothesizing here, but as opposed
to her just saying, hey, I don't want to see
you anymore. She's kind of just slow rolling her way out.
It feels like it.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Stay the way would be a perfect description.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Perfect Okay, all right, but you want to see her again.
You're hoping to maybe figure out why she's doing this.
So we're gonna call Sierra. We're gonna ask her these questions.
You'll be on the phone at the same time. At
some point you're welcome to jump in on the call.
And as always, the hope here is that we could
set you guys up on another date and pay for it.
Sound good, Let's do it. Let's see what's going on.
Part to you avoiding Metaphonis. Next after Hoji, You're back
(01:43):
in two minutes on the French show No Move. Hey Kane, Hey,
all right, Kane, welcome back. Let's call Sierra. You met
at a bar, you went on a date, you had
a great time, you thought everything was going really well
with this date. You called her again to try and
set up a second date, and she hasn't exactly well,
I guess now she's ghosting you, but she kind of
like just slow rolled you, like you're doing the fadeaway thing.
(02:05):
We'll commit to another date, and now she's not talking
to you at all, and you want to know why.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I'd really like to know why.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
All right, let's call her now. Good luck, Caine.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Thanks?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Hi's this Sierra. Yeah, she's calling Hi, Sierra, Good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a
second on the show? Would you mind?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I don't know what's it about.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
You can hang up anytime. And I know it's weird
to get a call you like this. It's kind of startling.
But actually I don't know because I probably wouldn't answer
the phone. But I'm glad you did. I really am.
We're calling out behalf of a guy named Cain who Okay,
well you remember Kane. So he called us and told
us that he met you at a bar and is
on a date and he was excited about you and
(03:02):
thought the date went really well. But he says now
he can't get a hold of you or you're not
responding to him, and he wants to know why. So
what's what's up? What's your issue with the guy?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Oh? Wow, I can't believe he called you. Guys, Yeah,
came he I met him. I worked at the bar
where I met him.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
And he was he was cute, and I was not
doing well with dating, and I thought I'd give him
a chance, which I don't normally do with guys I
meet in the bar.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
But we went out and the we had one date.
One date. It was great, it was fine, he's nice,
but then it got weird. After that, he got weird
and like right after.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
We went out or short, like, you know, a couple
of days later, like he just started showing up at
my bar, like saying that he was just in the
area or you know, some other stupid excuse, and I.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Don't know he got he just was giving freezy vibes.
He came in twice with his friends, he came in
like like three times by himself, and he just oh god,
it just felt like he was watching me and like
being really weird and like, you know, I'm I'm I
work at a bar, like I flirt with guys.
Speaker 7 (04:18):
That's kind of like you know how it happened, right,
and he's kind of part of the game.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
It's part of the gig. Yeah, And like it always
felt like he was watching and would get all like
weird if they were flirting, and then sometimes he would
step in and be like she's not interested, which really
that was kind of the end of the line.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Like me, even if you weren't interested, Sierra, you don't
need some i you know, messing with your your your
work approach here, because I mean, you're working for tips
and you're it's not that you're being disingenuous, but like,
you don't you don't need to make the guests feel
uncomfortable because this guy you went on one day with
is like, you know, stalking you exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
That's exactly what it felt like. It felt like, really
it got to an inappropriate kind of thing, and I
just thought, I'm, you know, just stop communicating.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Okay, let me bring I forgot to mention that Caine
is here, So this is canus. This is par for
the chorus. I mean, you're calling the radio show to exposure.
But yeah, you're kind of obsessing over her at her work.
I mean, Caine, you didn't tell us about that part
that you don't leave her alone.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
I mean, it's just not an accurate representation of what's
going on. It's just not.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Real, like what he is representation. Then.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Okay, So first of all, it's a bar.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
I've been there a number of times before. I came
in with friends, I came in to get a drink
after work. It's I mean, there are a ton of regulars.
I'm not there nearly as much as a lot of
the other regulars. As far as our interactions. I'm just
trying to be polite, and you know, I just don't
understand what the problem is.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Well, the problem is that she's a big girl and
she can fend off guys she doesn't want to be with.
And she's also you're not her boyfriend's so like, even
if she maybe she does want to flirt with other.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
People courteous, Yeah, but what does that mean obvious?
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Okay, if people come up to her and are hitting
on her and being aggressive or something, I'm just gonna
as a courtesy, like I would do it no matter
what I would say hey, step off, you know, back off,
give us some space.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
But that's not your job.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
That I shouldn't have to ask.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
I'm sorry if I didn't punish right now for just
being a gentleman.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
It's like, oh my god, I wouldn't go well, I would.
I would call that stalker and creepy and it And
also like before we went on our date, I think
I saw you in the bar one time before that,
Like you're not a regular, and the regulars don't act
like you do, Like they don't intervene with me when
(06:50):
I'm talking to other guys, So that's that's not fair
to say.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah, it doesn't sound like you're playing it cool here, bro,
Like it sounds like you're being you know, super aggressive
and a little possessive.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Even not possessive I'm trying. Okay, that's such a misrepresentation
of the vibe though, It's not like I'm coming up
and punching the guys in the face and throwing them.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Out in the bar, because you're not assaulting people, Kiki,
what's your what's your interpretation of the vibe here? The
vibe is giving a little cool cool, but that's okay,
you know, it's a lot of people out there, and
I'm sure he can find somebody. But I love that
she spotted the cuckoo earl. He ain't got about it
there because I'm.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
A little scared.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Yeah, I don't hold on.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I don't want any problem if I go out.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
If I go out with her and she works at
the bar, does that mean that I'm banned from the
bar forever. I can't go in there and get myself
at the ear and some chicken wings or something. I mean,
that's somewhere I've been going for a.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
While so every day. Right, the problem sounds like you
were there one time, and you've been going there for
a while since you met her, But you mess with
her money man, those tips.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Also, that's me, and tell me this instead of just
ghosting me like we're adults. Were not fifteen, So it
just makes more sense for you to say, hey, I
had a good time, but blah blah blah whatever. For
whatever reason, I don't think we should see each other.
Speaker 7 (08:13):
And you're talking, I get it, yeah, exactly, Like sure,
maybe with like someone else, but you kind of seem
like a person who wouldn't take that well.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
And I was a little nervous to do it. Also,
I've seen baby reindeer like that.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
You're like that.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Going to that's bring that up, giving it a little
bit like that. Yeah, you're my girl, though I don't
know why you can't feel like this.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I'm man and.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, no, this is absolutely giving reindeer. We went we're
a good.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Time time one time we went out. I do not
make my man. No, I'm sorry, No, I do not
want to give it a shot. This already seems crazy
and unhinged and I do not want a part of
the look.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Let me just drop I'll drop by later.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
We can talk about it.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Don't do.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Do not drop by later because I will.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
We will get but we will escalate this so.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Something that we will want. You need to not. Don't
tell me, babe, girl. Run you talk to your manager
at the bar because we might need some bouncers.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Yeah, hey, sierragain, touch with us. Let us know if
we can help you. Because Kate, I think you need
to take the HND like it's it. I understand you
like her, and I understand you were excited about it,
but like, I think it's time to let this breathe,
like like completely breathe, like to where you are not
breathing her air anymore ever again.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Okay, I'm just going to test you when we get
how about how about no, I'm gonna dude, I'm blocking
you and I don't want to see you again.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
There are plenty of bars in this area. If you
think you need to stay in this area, you can
go there and find someone else to suck.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Kane, I need you to listen to her when she
says to leave her alone.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
Okay, I still think we'll figure this out.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
How about you let her reach out to you if
she would ever like to do that. It's never going
to happen, but how about you let it? Yeah, you
just let her reach out to you. It's the balls
in her court, how about that?
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:31):
All right?
Speaker 4 (10:33):
Yeah? I mean if I happen to pass by the
bar I happened to, it's not straight.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Yeah. Yeah, we don't need no other places that Higgy Wings,
Everything's fine. Hey, uh, Sierra, We're here for you if
you need us. Kane, I need you to promise me
we're just gonna take a deep breath. Okay, good, all right,
you know where to find us. Si Eric, guys, best
(11:02):
of luck to both of you.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Okay, Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
The entertainer reports show Vas Shelley with five hundred bucks
in Kiki's court ball. Next, it's The French Show.
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Join me on this podcast as I navigate the murky waters of human behavior, current events, and personal anecdotes through in-depth interviews with incredible people—all served with a generous helping of sarcasm and satire. After years as a forensic and clinical psychologist, I offer a unique interview style and a low tolerance for bullshit, quickly steering conversations toward depth and darkness. I honor the seriousness while also appreciating wit. I’m your guide through the twisted labyrinth of the human psyche, armed with dark humor and biting wit.