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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show. Hey Tom, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
How are you guy?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
We are great, welcome to waiting by the phone. So
this is where we try to help people out. It
rarely happens. I mean, I guess we get you closure,
but we're trying to figure out why this woman Eden,
who you met, he's ghosting you, is not responding to you.
So why don't you, you know, kind of tee this
up for us, tell us about how you met, about
any dates that you've been on, and it was sort
(00:31):
of where we stand now.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, I'm at such a lot.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
But that's obviously the reason for the phone call here
because when I kind of laid this all out for you,
it just really.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Does not make sense at all. En.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
I bounced us all friends and family and it just
still can't really kind of put.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
All the pieces together. But Eden and I matched un hinge.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
You know, it was a long drawn out process of
text and such, and there wasn't something of just like hey,
we just quick meet up because we're just trying to
hook up. It was definitely something that we were interested in.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
First kind of date. We went and got some wine.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
And some appetizers and you know, the other person is not.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Really feeling you.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
You kind of only have like a glass and just
drink some water and show that's true.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Usually it's like one or two drinks and then if
it's not going anywhere, that's the end of it. And
if it's going well, then it's you know, maybe another
drink or food or you know. But yeah, so that
if it went more than two drinks, I think you're
already doing well.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Right, the veno was flowing. It's literally got.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
The old flowing veno.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yeah, I know, yeah, you know it is.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
But I say it like that because we were getting
wine flights, so I felt very pinky.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Wine.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
No, wow, we're out here sampling and whatnot. Okay, it
sounds fancy. So you had you had flights of wine
or veno as you would say.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
And then what so we we got decently buzzed.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Uh you know, charisma was flowing from the veno as well.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
So we ultimately decided to head back to my place.
You know, one thing led to another. We ended up
hooking up, which was absolutely wonderful.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
It was not the basic hookup.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Where you're just trying to figure out each other or
you know, you're not comfortable with your partner here. Yet
it was hot.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
It was genuine move.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
It was one of those things where you're like, God,
I'm matching with this person not only on the dating
app but literally in real life too.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
So I mean that's like you.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
I think you might have been up for a lot
of the hookup too, so maybe.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
It would have been all right.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
I just think it took it.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
You know, if we're looking at a spice level of
medium hotness, I think it took it to a hot
spicy level.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
At that hot spice.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
All right, So this is you had the wine, you
had the vino and the hot spicy and the whole thing.
This is all good, except you've reached out since that
date and nothing, radio, silence, nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
It's I had such a good time that I thought, well,
this is perfect. You know, there's nothing. You know, I've
assumed there would be least contact even the next day
or the day after, and it's now it's been so
long that it doesn't even make sense for me to
send another text or make another phone call.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Right.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
I've been trying to pick the pieces up off the
floor and try and put them together. But I really
I can't figure out what the hell would even went.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
On, right, and that's irritating. So let's see if we
can figure out what's going on. We're gonna call Eden.
You'll be on the phone, we'll ask some questions. At
some point you're welcome to jump in on the call.
And you know, what we always hope for is that
there's something here that we can straighten out, or I
don't know, something happened and then she's been busier distracted
and we can get you guys back on drag and
send you guys up on another Veno date and we'll
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pay for it. Okay, does that sound good? Can you
hang on for a second. That sounds the idea, guy,
Let's see what's going on. In Part two, waiting at
the phone after Sybrina Carpenter back in two minutes. It's
the Fread Show, Sybrina Carpenter, It's the Fread Show. Hey Tom,
all right, let's call Eden. You guys chatted for a
while on on Hinge after you matched, wind up going
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on a date. Wine appetizers that went on for a while,
wind up back at your place.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Things get what do you call it? Medium? Spicy? Something
like that.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
No, it went from it went from medium.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Spicy.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, exactly, I just want to make sure I had
you know your words here, So things went really well.
But since then she's not responding to you at all.
You've been ghosted and you want to know why exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
It just doesn't make any sense in the way that
the interactions went on the app to in person to
of course the hookup.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
It doesn't make any sense, understood. Let's call her now?
Good luck? Hello, Hi is this Eden Eden? Good morning?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
It's Fred. The whole care is year from the Fred Show.
I am sorry to bother, but I have to tell
you that we are on the radio right now and
I would need your consent to go any further with
this call. Can we chat for a second?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Well, I know it's weird. No, well, I don't know.
Maybe I'll tell you what's going on. We're calling on
behalf of a guy named Tom who you met on
Hinge and then you guys had a wine date recently.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Well Tom reached out to you us and told us
that how you guys have met, and that you've been
chatting for a while on the dating app and that
you like each other and things are going great.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Have this date.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
He said things, you know, you want to back at
his place, and he says, ever since then, you won't
respond to him. So we're trying to figure out why,
so we can tell him because he's upset about it.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Wow, I can't believe he called radio station.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
He certainly did do that. So here we are, so
can you fill us in and we'll tell him and then,
you know, I don't know, be this trade this out
or he'll stop calling or whatever.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
I mean, honestly, you know, the beginning of the date
was good, and you know we had, you know, a
good hookup. But you know, when things were over, he
got up and put on a pair of bright yellow
croc and was was completely naked otherwise and just walked
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around his call and the yellow crocs, you know, like
cleaning up stuff, watering plants like nothing was happening. And
I just that was just.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
A really big turn off for me. And I can't
see that.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I wonder what was him being naked or or him
wearing the cross? What I got A I got a
lot of Yeah, I'm sorry, go ahead.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
The crocs are really a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I just couldn't. And then I mean the whole package
though of just like bright yellow crocks naked.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I mean, like if you're if you're not gonna put
clothes on, then why are you putting footwear on to
walk around your house? I don't care what it is
like if you're not getting dressed, I don't know why
we're wearing crocs or slippers or anything.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
Run with that when you like want to get out
of bed, right you're cleaning the house.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
You don't want your feet dirty.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I wear my slides around the house naked and not naked.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
But why are you cleaning and like spraying products and
things and you're making sure your feet are protected but
not like other parts of your body.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Because like dirty feet in the bed is gross. So
I've done this before. I will, I will be honest.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
But I'm not spraying lysol and it could like get
on my stuff, you know. I mean, if I'm I
cover my body and my feet. If I'm I don't.
I don't think I've ever put shoes on in nothing else.
I don't think I've ever done that.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
It was really jarring, and he was just like cleaning
a house and like we had just met.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
It that's another thing.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
That's really why a woman in bed with your crocs
cleaning your I asked this whole thing. And by the way,
that's Tom. I forgot to mention that Tom is here. Tom,
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Come on, look eating You cannot tell me that they're
not the most comfortable.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
Possible thing you've ever had on your.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Like, what are you doing?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Like?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
I don't understand, Like, yes, nurses, I think we are
them and chefs, But I got a lot of questions.
Why the crocs, why only the crocs? And why was
why was post coital the time to start like watering plants?
Speaker 2 (08:37):
I don't understand.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
Well, you know, honestly, how shoes are something that I
wear around the house, and by particular taste is that
I like a good comfortable pair of howse shoes and
crocs happen to be my choice.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
I am genuinely comfortable in them. And sometimes after a
stint in.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Bad do you feel inspired to start doing things around
the house because you're in a good loot? Uh what
I'm in here right now?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Yeah, I don't, I don't know. Uh, yeah, I'm with email.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
It wasn't just like the yellow crocs he had those
like I don't even know what they're called, but they
look like pins that are like in the shoes talking
about and I was just like, they're called they're called.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Oh sure, what do they call? Hold on, I'm going
to look these things up.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Yes, they're called, you bitch, they're like charms for your frocks.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And look if I'm going to be wearing some Oh
my god, has this.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
I want to add a little style. I want to
add a little slare the bits I mean, I'm looking
at them right now online. You know, you can put
twenty six on each croc at a time, and they're
like little like the ones I'm looking at are little fruit,
and then there's a little like Mickey ones and then
you got like, uh they go in the holes? Uh
huh uhh yeah, which ones do you?
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Which jip gibitch do you have?
Speaker 3 (09:57):
I mean, at this point, it's anything, you know. Part
of me.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
The reason why I put him on in the first
place is maybe she might notice one of the chibits
on there and find it to be something of a
conversation piece and then she all of a sudden, I
didn't know you were a fan of tennis, you.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Know, Yeah, I don't. Uh, they got one. It's like
a it's like an Asian. It looks like a little
uh one of those to go containers of young noodles.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Yeah, and it.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Says send nudes and oh, you can get one of
those to stick on your crocs. You can get a
shark with an open mouth. You can get a peach.
Oh we get a wow. There is a lot of ways,
a lot of ways to personalize your crocs, as if
wearing crocs doesn't say enough all by itself.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
But okay, look, uh sort of.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
I'm gonna be honest, a lot of layers of interesting
behavior here.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
I don't I don't really entirely understand all of it.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
But Eden, look, would you you obviously liked him until
the nude crocs display? So can we give this guy
another chance? I mean, everything else seems to have gone
really well.
Speaker 5 (10:59):
I mean, and then he put me on the radio,
so I mean it's, uh, it's going to.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
Be a no for me.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
I mean he was the next guy, but I mean
it's it's just not what.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I'm it's a no for you dog.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Hey, Tom, I mean not that I want too much
of a visual, but are you wearing the crocs. Now,
are you wearing clothing now?
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Or is this? Is this a Croc only call?
Speaker 1 (11:22):
You know?
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Sometimes I actually do have other pairs of footwear, but
I do have several pair of crocks, and if anything,
I'm not ashamed of it.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
All you should not be crocs.
Speaker 6 (11:34):
Crocs are the most comfortable shoes on the planet.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
I have Ruffio.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
I have a pair of Crocs fread then I wear
around the house and when I go to you know,
when I go to the lake house, I wear it
on the boat.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
You know that their boat shoes, they're super comfortable.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Man, you are I.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Want to hear about this lake house?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:53):
Yeah, I didn't realize that we had.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Lakes O friend, no clothes only? Okay, well never mind,
I'm not interested. So I'm ya, Pauline and I are.
We're all set on that. We're We're good to go.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I'm going to make slides. I'll stick with you. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Okay, guys, look, thank you for your time to I'm
sorry it's not going to work out.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Best of luck to both of you, all right.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
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