May 28, 2025 • 9 mins
Jaime is confused why Cassandra is not texting him after a nice date... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Jamie,
good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
How are you hey, good guys, how are you doing
all right? Man?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
What's going on with this woman? What's going on with
what is it with me? And like some sort of
fake New York accents? I have even been there recently.
I don't even know what that's about. What's going on
with you? In Cassandra? I got to know how you met,
tell us about any dates you've been on, and then
what's going on now?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Where the problem is? Sure? Basically, yeah, I want help
figure out what happened with Cassandra.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
We met on we went on the apps, exchange numbers, like.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
We hit it off, started texting like a bunch.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I asked her off for drinks, and.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Man, she was even hotter in person, which is usually
not the case.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
And I felt like we were viving. And now she's
ghosting me and I'm hoping we can reconnect.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, no, I get that. So, yeah, she's more attractive
in person. You had a great time. You're excited about
where things were going, you know, after the date, you thought,
you know, everything was flowing. The conversation was good and
chemistry and all that. So so here you are. You
leave the date, You're like, great, I'm gonna text her
tomorrow or the next day or whatever, and I'm gonna
set up another date and we're gonna go out.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
We're gonna have a great time.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Accept she you did that, and she hasn't responded to
you at all. Yep, huh okay, all right, well that's puzzling,
and that's where we come in. We're gonna play a song.
Come back, well call Cassandra.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Jamie.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
You'll be on the phone at the same time. And
the hope is that we can figure out what's going on,
straightened things out, and set you guys up on a
second date that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
All right, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Let's see what happens next. Part two of waiting by
the phone. After the weekend, we're back in two minutes
on the Fred Show. Stay right here the weekend. He's
on the Fred Show. Good morning. Thanks for having us
on the radio. Live at anytime on the iHeart app
as well, search for the Fred Show and make us
a pre set.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Thank you. Hey Jamie, all right, welcome back.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Let's call kiss SAand you guys met out one of
the dating apps, and you went on a date that
you thought went really well tales oldest time, Paulina.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
And yet you have.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Reached out since that day trying to plan date number two,
and Cassandra has not responded to you in any way.
You feel like you're being ghosted and you're puzzled, and
you want to know why.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Yep, exactly, all right, let's call her now. Good luck, Jamie.
Thank you guys.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Hello, Hi is this Cassandra. Yes, hey, Cassandra, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now. I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Can we
ch out for just a couple of minutes about something?
You can hang up anytime.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Sure. What's the occasion? Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
The occasion, you say, Well, it's about a guy named
Jamie who reached out to us. I guess you guys
recently met on a dating app and went on a date.
Do you remember Jamie? I hope h I remember Jamie. Okay, yeah,
see that right there. You know, I'm a professional. We've
all been doing this for a long time. And when
I get there. Ah, I know something's not something is
(03:11):
a miss? But what happened with this guy? Because, Cassandra,
he reached out to you us, he had nice things
to say about you. He said you were better looking
in person than your pictures and that he was into
you and was you know, really enjoyed the date, was
hoping to see you again.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
But he says he can't get a hold of you.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
And it sounds like there's a story there always is.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Jamie doesn't know why.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
I'm ghosting him. They never do, They never do, Cassandra,
So what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Oh gosh, all right, so.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I'm not sure what you know? We know what we
just told you.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
We know that he thought you were good looking and
he had a good time and he's surprised he can't
get a hold of you.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Oh boy.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Okay, So Jamie, I we met on the apps and
he invited me out to a bar to get drinks
and I did go, and after a couple of the drinks.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
He told me that he left his wallet in his
car and that he needed to go outside to look
for it so.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
That he could pay.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Now, I you know, I thought, maybe, okay, he's.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Telling me a story. So that he can go to
the car and you leave me with the bill. I'm
going through all these different scenarios in my head as
to why he's trying to leave, and then I get
a text from him and it's not anything like I imagined.
The text said, do you want to come out to
my car and hook up? I can put the.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Seeds down all the way?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Oh well at the bar, and he's out in his
car and asking you to go.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Wow, go all the way? Huh, you can put him flat.
That's a nice feature. I'm not sure if I could
do that.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Actually.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
So, by the way, the bill was never paid, right, Like,
I mean you so you were supposed to pay the
bill and then come out to his car for like
a high school makeout or I mean, what is that?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
What is that? Do I is that correct? I mean yeah,
that's like that. What a guy he was.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Wow, he was going to take care of you, all right.
So you were supposed to pay the bill and then
meet him in his car and get it on in
the parking lot.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
I guess that's what he thought.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I didn't end up doing it.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
I was so shocked and caught off guard, and I
just I took a minute and weighed my options, and I.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Pay the bill first, okay, and then if you want
to get you want to get cute, then I you know, I.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
No, don't do that. Well, I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Maybe not first date, but I've I've been on a
date before where someone's like hey, like they get up
and then go somewhere like hey, meet me here, you know,
and like hook up right, Like that's hot, but like
that's that's someone that I knew. Yeah, when you just
met it, it's like right. And then I also like,
I feel like this was this was a scheme to
(06:04):
not only get some but also to not pay, which
I don't like you to. But let me bring Jamie in.
I forgot to mention that Jamie's lurking. Not surprisingly, of
course he's lurking. He sounds like that's what you're into, Tamie.
What what are you doing? Man? Like?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
What was what was the strategy here?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Not get a free date and get her to come
to your car?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Look, I don't think I was in the wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I was being spontaneous.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Okay, Well, you could spontaneously pay the bill and then
spontaneously you can shoot your shot, I guess, but I mean,
it's a little early for that, don't you think. I
guess you don't, but everyone else seems to think.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I mean, no, just a no, like it's just a
human Well, I think you didn't have to go.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
I think she kind of did say no, bro, Like
I think I think her not calling you ever again
is a no. I mean, Cassandra, are you into him otherwise?
Until he invited you for a little throwdown in.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
The car, yeah, I mean the conversation was going well enough,
but I it.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Was really really jarring. I don't know what to do
with that.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
I'm sitting at the bar and now I've got to
handle the bill, and I got a crazy guy in
the car waiting on me.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Is there ever a world where that would have worked?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Like? Is there ever a world where a guy could
pull that off? So I'm trying to figure out, is
this Jamie or is this just a very low percentage opportunity?
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Oh gosh, I don't know if it would have ever
worked on me?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Now, Okay, Wow, So you were just being spontaneous, Jamie.
That's it. You were you were you were trying something new.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Yeah, I mean people do this all the time. I
don't get what's.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Wrong, they jump the check and then they try and
get you to a high school makeout in your car
because hey, guys, the seeds go all the way flat.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You know what I'm saying. It sounds like it would
work on Jason, it would. Hey, the gay culture is
a whole different beast. Okay, well there are been times
you just look at somebody I was gonna there wouldn't
have even been a dinner at all. But that's but
that's understood. There's a pre mike me, that is why.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
But that's understood, right, Like, that's that's the culture. In
some cases, not all, of course, that was the culture
that you were involved, Like everybody kind of understood who
was about the point, But you weren't going on a
romantic date with someone only to not pay and then be.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Like, I'm in the car. I took my pants off,
you know, like a weird It's weird. That's a car
in three to five minutes, however long it takes me.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Okay, well, Jamie, it sounds like Jason's open to it
if if you, you know, if you're interested in that, Jamie.
But I don't know, Cassandra, I'll ask since we called
to try and you know, mend things with you. Would
you like to go out with him again? We'll pay
for it, So that's problem is solved.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Oh gosh, I'm going to say I'm good on this one.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
I appreciate it though.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Okay, Jamie, any last final words or thoughts. No, I'm okay,
he's okay, okay, all right, Well there you go.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Surprise you forgot about that part.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
But anyway, whatever, guys, Jamie Cassandra, thank you for your time.
Best of luck to both of you. The Entertainment Report
and thirteen hundred bucks Kiki in the Showdown five Questions,
both next French show back in Jewe
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Jamie,
good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
How are you hey, good guys, how are you doing
all right? Man?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
What's going on with this woman? What's going on with
what is it with me? And like some sort of
fake New York accents? I have even been there recently.
I don't even know what that's about. What's going on
with you? In Cassandra? I got to know how you met,
tell us about any dates you've been on, and then
what's going on now?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Where the problem is? Sure? Basically, yeah, I want help
figure out what happened with Cassandra.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
We met on we went on the apps, exchange numbers, like.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
We hit it off, started texting like a bunch.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I asked her off for drinks, and.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Man, she was even hotter in person, which is usually
not the case.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
And I felt like we were viving. And now she's
ghosting me and I'm hoping we can reconnect.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, no, I get that. So, yeah, she's more attractive
in person. You had a great time. You're excited about
where things were going, you know, after the date, you thought,
you know, everything was flowing. The conversation was good and
chemistry and all that. So so here you are. You
leave the date, You're like, great, I'm gonna text her
tomorrow or the next day or whatever, and I'm gonna
set up another date and we're gonna go out.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
We're gonna have a great time.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Accept she you did that, and she hasn't responded to
you at all. Yep, huh okay, all right, well that's puzzling,
and that's where we come in. We're gonna play a song.
Come back, well call Cassandra.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Jamie.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
You'll be on the phone at the same time. And
the hope is that we can figure out what's going on,
straightened things out, and set you guys up on a
second date that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
All right, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Let's see what happens next. Part two of waiting by
the phone. After the weekend, we're back in two minutes
on the Fred Show. Stay right here the weekend. He's
on the Fred Show. Good morning. Thanks for having us
on the radio. Live at anytime on the iHeart app
as well, search for the Fred Show and make us
a pre set.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Thank you. Hey Jamie, all right, welcome back.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Let's call kiss SAand you guys met out one of
the dating apps, and you went on a date that
you thought went really well tales oldest time, Paulina.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
And yet you have.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Reached out since that day trying to plan date number two,
and Cassandra has not responded to you in any way.
You feel like you're being ghosted and you're puzzled, and
you want to know why.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Yep, exactly, all right, let's call her now. Good luck, Jamie.
Thank you guys.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Hello, Hi is this Cassandra. Yes, hey, Cassandra, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now. I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Can we
ch out for just a couple of minutes about something?
You can hang up anytime.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Sure. What's the occasion? Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
The occasion, you say, Well, it's about a guy named
Jamie who reached out to us. I guess you guys
recently met on a dating app and went on a date.
Do you remember Jamie? I hope h I remember Jamie. Okay, yeah,
see that right there. You know, I'm a professional. We've
all been doing this for a long time. And when
I get there. Ah, I know something's not something is
(03:11):
a miss? But what happened with this guy? Because, Cassandra,
he reached out to you us, he had nice things
to say about you. He said you were better looking
in person than your pictures and that he was into
you and was you know, really enjoyed the date, was
hoping to see you again.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
But he says he can't get a hold of you.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
And it sounds like there's a story there always is.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Jamie doesn't know why.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
I'm ghosting him. They never do, They never do, Cassandra,
So what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Oh gosh, all right, so.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I'm not sure what you know? We know what we
just told you.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
We know that he thought you were good looking and
he had a good time and he's surprised he can't
get a hold of you.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Oh boy.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Okay, So Jamie, I we met on the apps and
he invited me out to a bar to get drinks
and I did go, and after a couple of the drinks.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
He told me that he left his wallet in his
car and that he needed to go outside to look
for it so.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
That he could pay.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Now, I you know, I thought, maybe, okay, he's.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Telling me a story. So that he can go to
the car and you leave me with the bill. I'm
going through all these different scenarios in my head as
to why he's trying to leave, and then I get
a text from him and it's not anything like I imagined.
The text said, do you want to come out to
my car and hook up? I can put the.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Seeds down all the way?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Oh well at the bar, and he's out in his
car and asking you to go.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Wow, go all the way? Huh, you can put him flat.
That's a nice feature. I'm not sure if I could
do that.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Actually.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
So, by the way, the bill was never paid, right, Like,
I mean you so you were supposed to pay the
bill and then come out to his car for like
a high school makeout or I mean, what is that?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
What is that? Do I is that correct? I mean yeah,
that's like that. What a guy he was.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Wow, he was going to take care of you, all right.
So you were supposed to pay the bill and then
meet him in his car and get it on in
the parking lot.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
I guess that's what he thought.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I didn't end up doing it.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
I was so shocked and caught off guard, and I
just I took a minute and weighed my options, and I.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Pay the bill first, okay, and then if you want
to get you want to get cute, then I you know, I.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
No, don't do that. Well, I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Maybe not first date, but I've I've been on a
date before where someone's like hey, like they get up
and then go somewhere like hey, meet me here, you know,
and like hook up right, Like that's hot, but like
that's that's someone that I knew. Yeah, when you just
met it, it's like right. And then I also like,
I feel like this was this was a scheme to
(06:04):
not only get some but also to not pay, which
I don't like you to. But let me bring Jamie in.
I forgot to mention that Jamie's lurking. Not surprisingly, of
course he's lurking. He sounds like that's what you're into, Tamie.
What what are you doing? Man? Like?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
What was what was the strategy here?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Not get a free date and get her to come
to your car?
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Look, I don't think I was in the wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I was being spontaneous.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Okay, Well, you could spontaneously pay the bill and then
spontaneously you can shoot your shot, I guess, but I mean,
it's a little early for that, don't you think. I
guess you don't, but everyone else seems to think.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I mean, no, just a no, like it's just a
human Well, I think you didn't have to go.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
I think she kind of did say no, bro, Like
I think I think her not calling you ever again
is a no. I mean, Cassandra, are you into him otherwise?
Until he invited you for a little throwdown in.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
The car, yeah, I mean the conversation was going well enough,
but I it.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Was really really jarring. I don't know what to do
with that.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
I'm sitting at the bar and now I've got to
handle the bill, and I got a crazy guy in
the car waiting on me.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Is there ever a world where that would have worked?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Like? Is there ever a world where a guy could
pull that off? So I'm trying to figure out, is
this Jamie or is this just a very low percentage opportunity?
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Oh gosh, I don't know if it would have ever
worked on me?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Now, Okay, Wow, So you were just being spontaneous, Jamie.
That's it. You were you were you were trying something new.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Yeah, I mean people do this all the time. I
don't get what's.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Wrong, they jump the check and then they try and
get you to a high school makeout in your car
because hey, guys, the seeds go all the way flat.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You know what I'm saying. It sounds like it would
work on Jason, it would. Hey, the gay culture is
a whole different beast. Okay, well there are been times
you just look at somebody I was gonna there wouldn't
have even been a dinner at all. But that's but
that's understood. There's a pre mike me, that is why.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
But that's understood, right, Like, that's that's the culture. In
some cases, not all, of course, that was the culture
that you were involved, Like everybody kind of understood who
was about the point, But you weren't going on a
romantic date with someone only to not pay and then be.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Like, I'm in the car. I took my pants off,
you know, like a weird It's weird. That's a car
in three to five minutes, however long it takes me.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Okay, well, Jamie, it sounds like Jason's open to it
if if you, you know, if you're interested in that, Jamie.
But I don't know, Cassandra, I'll ask since we called
to try and you know, mend things with you. Would
you like to go out with him again? We'll pay
for it, So that's problem is solved.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Oh gosh, I'm going to say I'm good on this one.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
I appreciate it though.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Okay, Jamie, any last final words or thoughts. No, I'm okay,
he's okay, okay, all right, Well there you go.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Surprise you forgot about that part.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
But anyway, whatever, guys, Jamie Cassandra, thank you for your time.
Best of luck to both of you. The Entertainment Report
and thirteen hundred bucks Kiki in the Showdown five Questions,
both next French show back in Jewe
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