March 6, 2025 • 7 mins
Summer is confused why Phil won't text her back... Turns out it could be something to do with her Instagram?! Find out why Summer got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
He's ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show, Summer, good morning, welcome, Hi, how's it going
very well waiting by the phone. So why don't you
tell us how you met this guy Phil, about any
dates that you've been on, and then you know, tell
us what's going on now and how we can help you.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Sure. So the thing is, we haven't actually gone on
a date yet. We met him Bumble and flirted for
a little while before you know, he asked for my
number and we were flirting and talking like a lost
like all day every day, and he asked me out.
We had a date planned like I'm super excited, and
then out of nowhere, he just ghosted, like no more texting.
(00:41):
I checked on Bumble, didn't message me on Bumble. I
don't understand what happened, Like things were, you know, really good,
Like we hadn't even met in real life yet, So
I just I don't understand what I could have said.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Or done with the conversation. Like on the app, you
guys are messaging back and forth and it was all
good and you're looking forward to meeting this guy. And
that's always disappointing when people you know disappear like that
because you sort of invest time and and and when
you feel a good vibe about somebody on these apps,
then you want to meet them. You want to see
if there's something there. But this this do is totally.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Ia and we took it off the app that we
were texting.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Oh right, and like we.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Had I thought we had planned. So I'm I'm just
really confused.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, yeah, out of nowhere. I don't blame you. So
let's call Phil. We'll see if we can get him
on the phone. Figure out where this guy went, what's
going on? Hopefully then we can set you up on
I guess it will be your first date and we'll
pay for that. All right, that'st I'm going to play
one slot. We'll come back and do it. Okay, let's
figure out what's going on? Part two of waiting at
the phone after Rihanna back in three minutes. Stare here.
(01:42):
It's the Friend Show, Rihanna. It is the Fred Show
on the radio and the iHeart app. You can listen
live of course, and anytime. Search for the Fred Show
on demand and make us a preset please summer. Yes,
all right, welcome back. Let's call Phil. You guys met
on Bumble. You messaged for a while, then you got
to the phase where you exchange phone numbers. You were
you were texting and you know, sort of vibing and
(02:04):
setting up a date, and then all of a sudden,
it's dude, he goes, he's nowhere to be found, not responding, obviously,
no date. You want to know what's going on? Yeah, yeah,
let's call him now? Good luck?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Hello, Hi's is Phil. This is Phil Morning Fred Fred Show.
The whole care is here. I'm start to bothering, but
I do have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I need your consent to
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a second? Yeah, okay,
thank you so much. Man. I know it's kind of strange,
but maybe you've heard this before, maybe not, but this
(02:43):
is waiting by the phone. We're calling on behalf of
a woman named Summer, who says that you guys have
been I guess you met on Bumble and you've been
messaging and texting to and she thought you guys were
going to meet, but I guess you've disappeared. So what's
going on? Because we had no trouble getting on of you,
So what's the deal.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I mean, look, in summer, it's weird, Like, so this
isn't like I guess the avenue that I would have
likes to explain all of this, but look, it's weird.
It's basically I just get a vibe that I can't
really be trusted in summer.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
You can't be trusted in summer? Why not? Why can't
you trust her?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I mean, she's cool enough, she's really she's.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
A cool girl.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
We vibe out like that, but she's just really on
something else. Like look, so we were talking for a while,
we started kind of flirting up, and then we put instagrams.
We started getting to our instagrams, and I just at
some point there I noticed that she didn't have a
single picture on her feed that didn't have some dog
years and it didn't have some peaches on the cheek.
(03:45):
And I just get the vibe that she's on some
other kind of cat bases.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
She's on some other kind of cat basis stuff. So
everything is really filtered, is what you're saying. Like all
the photos I'm clearly run through some kind of you know,
light room or I don't know, not like subtle though,
like room like a cp A tone or I don't
know what the dog ears, and like the glitter like
you can see so like the like the animated she
(04:14):
trying to cover herself up almost I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
And it's so bad that like I stopped her Instagram
for maybe thirty minutes, and I feel like I have
no idea what she looks like.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Okay, all right, so you gut kind of freaked out
and disappeared a summer I forgot to mention the summer
is here. What's the deal with the glittery Instagram filters
and stuff? Isn't that for kids? Okay? Are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
It's fun, it's you know, but how heavy everything else
is right now? It's like kend of nice to have
a little fun.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I didn't stun once in a while, but every picture
got to look like it was taken by like and edited.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I mean I didn't. I didn't really think that you
would care, Like I'm kind of caught off guard here.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Well, he thinks that you're hiding something like I don't know.
He wants to know what you really look like. I
guess you could have asked her for a self If
she sends you a selfie with dog ears and some
whiskers or whatever. Then you know something is up. But
like you probably didn't have to ghost her. You probably
could have, you know, dug in a little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
You didn't talk to me about it.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
I mean, I magnut in the first place, and I
will as someone that place.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Are you? I mean? Why why all the filters? Why
are none of the pictures just like of you normally?
Speaker 2 (05:24):
It is literally just fun. And I started doing it,
and I thought that it would be kind of fun
to have, like my whole Instagram just filters out with
new ones like every week, and you know, it's not Instagram.
Who I am like, I don't know why we have
to have social media?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Like to fine, I will keep it real though, nothing
but filters. I might be like, what are you really
a grown up? I don't know. I'm not saying that
you're not who you say you are, but I would
think a certain kind of way about that.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
It's just funny and cute. It's not a big deal.
You're blowing this what he had a proportion?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Dude, if you got those like dead eyes, you know,
like how you can fix red eye. If you got
that in every picture, I'm like, what's going on with you?
I don't know. I do look at that though, I
look to see how heavily edited photos and if they
look like poorly edited, that's another thing, like if you
poorly edit your photo you were so desperate to have
it look a certain kind of way. I mean post
you just be you. But I don't know. He doesn't
(06:22):
think that's fun, Phil, don't think it fun.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
If that's how she does hurt. I just feel like
I don't know her, Like I said.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
I don't that's not my real life.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Like it's not all right, Well, he's not into the
fantasy life, I guess, or whatever you're portraying yourself as
on Instagram, which I guess is his right. He could
have told you that. But anyway, all right, So Phil,
no second date or no no date? I guess. Okay,
Hey guys, special election, both of you. Sorry it didn't
work out. Summer. You know, someone will be into it.
Someone will think it's cute. Thank you, Thank you, Phil,
(06:52):
Good luck. Many The entertainmer of Port Calen has that
next Kiky show this ki Ki versus Nick two hundred
and fifty bucks in a tiebreaker, Will she remain undefeated?
Will play nexcess to FRED shows
He's ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show, Summer, good morning, welcome, Hi, how's it going
very well waiting by the phone. So why don't you
tell us how you met this guy Phil, about any
dates that you've been on, and then you know, tell
us what's going on now and how we can help you.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Sure. So the thing is, we haven't actually gone on
a date yet. We met him Bumble and flirted for
a little while before you know, he asked for my
number and we were flirting and talking like a lost
like all day every day, and he asked me out.
We had a date planned like I'm super excited, and
then out of nowhere, he just ghosted, like no more texting.
(00:41):
I checked on Bumble, didn't message me on Bumble. I
don't understand what happened, Like things were, you know, really good,
Like we hadn't even met in real life yet, So
I just I don't understand what I could have said.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Or done with the conversation. Like on the app, you
guys are messaging back and forth and it was all
good and you're looking forward to meeting this guy. And
that's always disappointing when people you know disappear like that
because you sort of invest time and and and when
you feel a good vibe about somebody on these apps,
then you want to meet them. You want to see
if there's something there. But this this do is totally.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Ia and we took it off the app that we
were texting.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Oh right, and like we.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Had I thought we had planned. So I'm I'm just
really confused.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, yeah, out of nowhere. I don't blame you. So
let's call Phil. We'll see if we can get him
on the phone. Figure out where this guy went, what's
going on? Hopefully then we can set you up on
I guess it will be your first date and we'll
pay for that. All right, that'st I'm going to play
one slot. We'll come back and do it. Okay, let's
figure out what's going on? Part two of waiting at
the phone after Rihanna back in three minutes. Stare here.
(01:42):
It's the Friend Show, Rihanna. It is the Fred Show
on the radio and the iHeart app. You can listen
live of course, and anytime. Search for the Fred Show
on demand and make us a preset please summer. Yes,
all right, welcome back. Let's call Phil. You guys met
on Bumble. You messaged for a while, then you got
to the phase where you exchange phone numbers. You were
you were texting and you know, sort of vibing and
(02:04):
setting up a date, and then all of a sudden,
it's dude, he goes, he's nowhere to be found, not responding, obviously,
no date. You want to know what's going on? Yeah, yeah,
let's call him now? Good luck?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Hello, Hi's is Phil. This is Phil Morning Fred Fred Show.
The whole care is here. I'm start to bothering, but
I do have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I need your consent to
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a second? Yeah, okay,
thank you so much. Man. I know it's kind of strange,
but maybe you've heard this before, maybe not, but this
(02:43):
is waiting by the phone. We're calling on behalf of
a woman named Summer, who says that you guys have
been I guess you met on Bumble and you've been
messaging and texting to and she thought you guys were
going to meet, but I guess you've disappeared. So what's
going on? Because we had no trouble getting on of you,
So what's the deal.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I mean, look, in summer, it's weird, Like, so this
isn't like I guess the avenue that I would have
likes to explain all of this, but look, it's weird.
It's basically I just get a vibe that I can't
really be trusted in summer.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
You can't be trusted in summer? Why not? Why can't
you trust her?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I mean, she's cool enough, she's really she's.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
A cool girl.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
We vibe out like that, but she's just really on
something else. Like look, so we were talking for a while,
we started kind of flirting up, and then we put instagrams.
We started getting to our instagrams, and I just at
some point there I noticed that she didn't have a
single picture on her feed that didn't have some dog
years and it didn't have some peaches on the cheek.
(03:45):
And I just get the vibe that she's on some
other kind of cat bases.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
She's on some other kind of cat basis stuff. So
everything is really filtered, is what you're saying. Like all
the photos I'm clearly run through some kind of you know,
light room or I don't know, not like subtle though,
like room like a cp A tone or I don't
know what the dog ears, and like the glitter like
you can see so like the like the animated she
(04:14):
trying to cover herself up almost I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
And it's so bad that like I stopped her Instagram
for maybe thirty minutes, and I feel like I have
no idea what she looks like.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Okay, all right, so you gut kind of freaked out
and disappeared a summer I forgot to mention the summer
is here. What's the deal with the glittery Instagram filters
and stuff? Isn't that for kids? Okay? Are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
It's fun, it's you know, but how heavy everything else
is right now? It's like kend of nice to have
a little fun.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I didn't stun once in a while, but every picture
got to look like it was taken by like and edited.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I mean I didn't. I didn't really think that you
would care, Like I'm kind of caught off guard here.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Well, he thinks that you're hiding something like I don't know.
He wants to know what you really look like. I
guess you could have asked her for a self If
she sends you a selfie with dog ears and some
whiskers or whatever. Then you know something is up. But
like you probably didn't have to ghost her. You probably
could have, you know, dug in a little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
You didn't talk to me about it.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
I mean, I magnut in the first place, and I
will as someone that place.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Are you? I mean? Why why all the filters? Why
are none of the pictures just like of you normally?
Speaker 2 (05:24):
It is literally just fun. And I started doing it,
and I thought that it would be kind of fun
to have, like my whole Instagram just filters out with
new ones like every week, and you know, it's not Instagram.
Who I am like, I don't know why we have
to have social media?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Like to fine, I will keep it real though, nothing
but filters. I might be like, what are you really
a grown up? I don't know. I'm not saying that
you're not who you say you are, but I would
think a certain kind of way about that.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
It's just funny and cute. It's not a big deal.
You're blowing this what he had a proportion?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Dude, if you got those like dead eyes, you know,
like how you can fix red eye. If you got
that in every picture, I'm like, what's going on with you?
I don't know. I do look at that though, I
look to see how heavily edited photos and if they
look like poorly edited, that's another thing, like if you
poorly edit your photo you were so desperate to have
it look a certain kind of way. I mean post
you just be you. But I don't know. He doesn't
(06:22):
think that's fun, Phil, don't think it fun.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
If that's how she does hurt. I just feel like
I don't know her, Like I said.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
I don't that's not my real life.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Like it's not all right, Well, he's not into the
fantasy life, I guess, or whatever you're portraying yourself as
on Instagram, which I guess is his right. He could
have told you that. But anyway, all right, So Phil,
no second date or no no date? I guess. Okay,
Hey guys, special election, both of you. Sorry it didn't
work out. Summer. You know, someone will be into it.
Someone will think it's cute. Thank you, Thank you, Phil,
(06:52):
Good luck. Many The entertainmer of Port Calen has that
next Kiky show this ki Ki versus Nick two hundred
and fifty bucks in a tiebreaker, Will she remain undefeated?
Will play nexcess to FRED shows
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