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July 31, 2025 12 mins

Benny is confused why his date won't call him back after having a great date... Find out why he got ghosted!

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(00:46):
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Speaker 1 (00:47):
How are you? I'm doing all right? How are you okay?

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Doing all right? That makes sense because you met a woman.
We need to know how you met, about any dates
you've been on, and then why you think maybe you're
being ghosted?

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Now?

Speaker 1 (00:59):
Because no one wants to be ghosted. What happened?

Speaker 3 (01:01):
Well, I mean I went out with this girl, Alexandra.
We met at a bar last week. You know, she
ended up coming home stand the night and you know,
it was a lot of fun and flirty and you know,
shared with kiss and like the next day she reached

(01:23):
out and I reached out and asked her on like
a real date, and.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
She actually said, yes, Okay, awesome, Okay, you shared a kiss.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
What a nice romantic, gentlemanly way of saying that we
shared a kiss. Okay, so you did that? You ask
her out? She says, yeah, let's go on a date.
This is great, now, what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:42):
She seemed like really different on the actual date than
she was like the first night at the bar. So
it kind of like threw me off, you know, and
it like we only have like one drink. So like
when she told me she had to go and then
like uber home, it was like really.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Kind of threw me.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
Okay, I don't know, it was yeah, she just was like, yeah,
I think I'm gonna take an uber and then just left.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Okay, And then did you pick her up for the date?

Speaker 3 (02:14):
Though?

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Because I what's why is the uber significant because you
had picked her up and then she's like, yeah, I'm
gonna get out of here on my own kind of thing.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Yeah, huh, that's weird.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
That is weird if somebody wants out of like you
went and picked them up and then they went out
of the date so badly they're like, I'm not even
gonna wait you know for that.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
Yeah, it was.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
It was just totally it was a totally different vibe
than the previous time.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
So it was like, I.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
Don't know, all right, So this woman wound up leaving
the date and and you want to know what's going on, Like,
you want to know why does she leave so abruptly?
How do we go from kissing and going on a
date to this? Like what happened?

Speaker 1 (02:48):
Right?

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Yeah? It was like one of the you know, like
a casual like in person meeting and like it you know,
it shouldn't. It wasn't like a I don't know, It
wasn't like we were just meeting each for the first time.
This is like the second time. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.
All right, this is confusing. So let's let's call this
woman Alexandra is her name. Let's see if we can
figure out what's going on. We're going to uh, we're

(03:12):
gonna see if we can sort it out. Set you
guys up on Hey, Benny, Yeah, okay, let's call Alexandra.
You guys met out in public in the wild. You
had a good time, decided to go on a date.
You set that up, you picked her up, you were
a gentleman. You guys went out and then she's like,
I'm out of here for some reason. She hubert home
and you haven't heard from her, sense and you have

(03:33):
no idea why no, I really don't. Is the opposite
of how we interacted the first time.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
All right, Well, let's call her now and figure this out.
Good luck? Man. Hello, Hi, is this Alexandra High? Good morning.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the
Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Can which
have for just a second? Okay, I know it's a
little bit weird.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
But thank you. So it's okay if we chat? Yeah,
do it? Okay?

Speaker 2 (04:12):
Well, I'm calling on behalf of a A guy named
Benny says he met you out and you went on
a date. He do you remember all of this? And
then I guess you left abruptly? Do you remember?

Speaker 4 (04:24):
Yeah? I mean Benny, he uh he picked me up
in a pimp my ride car, and I just couldn't
handle it.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
Wait, what a pimp like the TV show? Like the show?

Speaker 4 (04:40):
Remember this show? I don't know, I mean maybe I yeah,
the show was I was like a kid on MTV
where they would like take people's cars. Okay, so now
it's all this crazy.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
You know, I remember the show they put like a
popcorn maker in some guy's car, like an aquarium and something.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Wait, so it was an actual like this is a.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
Grown ass man in the modern age with a bit
my red car. Like literally, I get in the car
and it's like all like swinkle lights and stroke lights.
I'm like, I don't know how this man drives without
getting a seizure. But yeah, it was fully, fully pimped out,
like he had like a pink, fuzzy steering wheel cover

(05:21):
and like the ceiling was literally neon zebra print like
a little girl from the eighties would have loved. And Okay,
I just couldn't handle it. So yeah, I did like
one drink with him, and then I was like I'm
not getting back in that car and I left.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
That Wow, Neon Zebra Print, what did you say flashing
strope lights in the car?

Speaker 1 (05:45):
Like it was some kind of like.

Speaker 4 (05:49):
I was fighting a seizure the whole.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
Time, okay, wild Wow? And did you say to him
like what? Like what what sort of inspired you here?

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Why?

Speaker 5 (06:02):
You know?

Speaker 4 (06:03):
I didn't say anything. I just was polite as I
could be. And I had because we have like we
met at a bar before and had like a good time.
So I was like excited when he asked me out.
But then I've got in this car and I was like,
I'm out. I can't not a grown ass man with
this car. It was so it was insane.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
Huh, Well let me Benny is here. I forgot to
mention that, Bennie, what what why are we driving around?
And to pit my right car? Like what why? Neon
Zebra Many? This is like a can you explain? I mean,
I don't really see the problem.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
Why clear?

Speaker 2 (06:38):
Don't I realized that you own this car? Like is
this your primary vehicle? You drive around in this thing?

Speaker 3 (06:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:44):
I mean it's fun. I think it's fun. Other people
think it's fun. Okay, it's a car. I mean it's it.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
Doesn't have to be perfect. It's gonna get just gonna
depreciate anyway.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
What does that have to do with it? No, we're
talking about your here, not the value of the car.
Was it actually on Pimp My Ride? Was it in
one of the episodes? Or were you just inspired or
you just eccentric? I'm just inspired. I guess it's just like,
so you took this car and then you you vomited
neon zebra print all over it, Like you just you
made that choice.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
I made some upgrades, Yes, yes, upgrades, upgrades.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
Would you had to Pimp my Ride car, I wouldn't.

Speaker 5 (07:26):
I would go out with him, but like her, he
couldn't pick me up, you know, so like we can
be friends and meet at the bar, but I don't want.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
To ride in your car. But I do.

Speaker 5 (07:34):
I enjoy seeing people express their personal style and their
personality and stuff, like when people are riding around with
the eyelashes on their headlights, Like I just think that's cute,
Like you know, it's their personal vibe.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
Eyelashes on the headlights. Have you seen that before?

Speaker 4 (07:49):
I guess I've seen it before.

Speaker 5 (07:53):
I have a little dazzled thing in my car on
my little gearshift thing.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
Okay, it's okay to you know.

Speaker 4 (07:58):
You're talking about a little thing. I mean, this car
is decked out like I I'm sorry, I just I
can't take him seriously, like as a man. And I
get that, Like maybe it makes me sound shallow, but
y'all need to get in this car before you judge me.
It's crazy.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Okay. Well, I mean, Benn, do you have a car? Okay?
Do you have it underneath?

Speaker 4 (08:24):
Like?

Speaker 2 (08:25):
Can you can you hit the switches in this thing?
Can you like bump it?

Speaker 1 (08:28):
You know what I mean? Yeah, of course you have
hydraulics too. Is a great car?

Speaker 2 (08:36):
Very hard?

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Can you play the national anthem when you pull up?

Speaker 4 (08:39):
Seizure and throw up in it at the same time.
It's horrible.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
Oh my god. I wonder what his house looks like.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yeah, what is the decor like in your home? Is
it similar? Is it just we just limited to the car.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
It's just a car. It's just a car. It's just
for for showing off or you know, yeah, impressing people.
And I don't know, I haven't heard. I mean, if
you look, you maybe.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
Had this as like a secondary vehicle or something, and
you were just messing around, like okay, but it sounds
like this is just how you.

Speaker 5 (09:08):
Rolly sorry about yeah, okay, okay, interesting.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Yeah. I don't know what joy in it.

Speaker 4 (09:22):
Too, because telling my friends about it afterwards, like we
had a great Like I'm still laughing about it. So
like there was joy and ball.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
How was his fashion? Like did he dress like this too?
Like did he dress like he was you know, like
in a zoot suit or something.

Speaker 4 (09:34):
No, I thought he was a normal size. It was
crazy ass car.

Speaker 2 (09:39):
Man, I'm gonna call exhibit. Let's relaunch, pimp my ride.
Let's Benny, maybe you can host it. I mean, this
is great. A little personality didn't hurt anybody.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Yeah, I mean in a furry head, I can't say
a word. Well, that is true.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
But if I were to, if I pull up in
a like in front of an nice restaurant in Valley Park,
my car and it has it looks like that, I mean,
it's a little bit embarrassing. Have you considered like a
nice I don't know, like a Honda Civic or something,
or like a nice Hyundai, you know you drive around
in that stock And then he got the fun car
for the weekend. Kind of thing. We thought about that. Okay,

(10:17):
how about a non k me out like a normal one.
How about we have like a normal car that's just basic,
and then we got the crazy one for you know,
fun times.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
How about that it was a Honda. Okay, it's so
much more now. Has anyone ever complained about this? Has
anyone ever had an issue?

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Has anyone ever been like bro like, I can't I
can't be respected in this car?

Speaker 3 (10:41):
No, I mean I don't think it's a deep Okay, sorry,
Benny all.

Speaker 4 (10:45):
Right said it to space until now, I.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
Mean, fair enough, I'll ask the question. You know, he's
standing on business here. He I don't think the car
is changing. This is who Benny is, man, and we're
not here to tell him differently. But you don't have
to go out with him again. If you want to,
would you consider it? I mean, it was so bad
that you you canceled, essentially canceled the date halfway through
and refuse to get back in it. But would you
consider going out with him again? Maybe he's a nice guy.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
Listen.

Speaker 4 (11:10):
I accept that, you know, not going out with somebody
because of their car potentially makes me the app But
I'm just going to be the ass the choice, Cob,
I don't want to be that car ever. Again. I'm sorry, Benny,
I just I can't. You know what, there's a girl
out there that's appreciate you for your wilds.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
What do you do for a living, Benny? What is
your job? You know he is, he's a creative. This
is not all that show. If you told me you're
like a brain surgeon or something, I'd be like, I,
you know, I don't know if I want that car.
I don't know if I wanted the dude pulling up
and you know neon, you know, hydraulic car with whatever.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
But okay, well, look it's not going to work out, Benny.
I'm not here to shame you.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
You do you.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
I just think you have to understand that it's not
going to be for everybody.

Speaker 1 (12:04):
Well yeah, I.

Speaker 3 (12:06):
Mean if she doesn't have any taste, that's not my problem.
There you go kick the book. Yeah, yeah, you don't
have any tastes if you don't appreciate this man's heart.

Speaker 4 (12:17):
You know what I said. I accept I'm the ass. Fine,
my taste is not.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
Okay, fair enough?

Speaker 2 (12:26):
Well, all the best and thank you, best of luck
to both of you.

Speaker 4 (12:31):
Yeah, it's nice talking to you guys.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
I got two wild rides out of this state, so
all right, Benny, I'll look for you on these streets. Man,
I'll wave at you and you can honk and again
when you honk, you know, you know what I'm talking about.
Maybe you don't. I have taste too, Benny c I
get it.

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