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July 10, 2025 10 mins

Kim is confused why her date won't call her back after having an amazing first date... Find out why she got ghosted!

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How are you hey?

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Thanks for having me?

Speaker 3 (00:49):
I'm fine, honest sleep I can.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
Tell you a little distressed? Why is that? What's going
on with this guy?

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Chris?

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Why don't you if you could tell us how you met?
At about any dates? You've been on and where things
are now?

Speaker 1 (01:00):
Yeah, so this his name is Chris. What We went
on one date. We met on Hinge.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
We talked for a little bit on the app and
some texting, and we called on the phone and we
went on a really fun date. But he just never
like texted me back after the date. So I don't
know what's going on.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Okay, And you look back on this date. I always
asked this question. You look back on the date and
you really felt like everything went well, no stumbling blocks,
no weird topics, nothing. I mean, it was like the
conversation was flowing and the chemistry was there, and and
you know, you really walked away thinking I'm for sure
going to hear from this guy again. We're definitely going
out again.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
No, yes, I really felt that. Well, yeah, it was
kind of like interesting because we went He suggested a
rage room, So I was super excited for that because I've.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Never done that.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
He's never done that, and like we both shared about
like some of our past a little bit, and he
was encouraging me to.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
Yeah, like.

Speaker 5 (01:58):
Go for it, like what you're what you've been penting
up over time? So I rage room?

Speaker 2 (02:06):
Okay, I mean, hey, Hey, I'm right, that's an activity
that I've not heard of on a day, But sure,
why not?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
I like it? I like it.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
I mean I feel like everyone's like maybe for a drink.
I mean I'm guilty of that. I don't plan activities,
but good, Yeah, like your energy was flowing. I felt
I liked him, and I think he liked me too.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
I just don't know what happened to him, Like did
he get into a car accident?

Speaker 4 (02:28):
Like why is he calling me back? Why isn't he
texting me? Why did he just ghost me? It's weird.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
Yeah, yeah, well we're about to find out because we're
gonna call this guy, Chris hit him on the phone.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
You'll be on the phone as well.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
And I don't want you to say anything right at first,
but at some point you're welcome to jump in after
we get you some infunt. Hey, Kim, all right, welcome back.
Let's call Chris. You guys, you met on one of
the apps on Hinge and you went on a date.
You thought the date went great. You guys went to
did like an activity, went to one of those rage
room things, and you had a good time and you
left the date thinking that you wanted to see Chris again,

(03:02):
but he is not responding to you. He's not reaching out.
You want to know why? Yeah, okay, let's call him now.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
Good luck?

Speaker 2 (03:07):
Kim?

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Hello, Hi is this Chris? Hey Chris, good morning. My
name is Fred.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which hat for just
a second? You can hang up anytime?

Speaker 3 (03:26):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (03:27):
Yeah? Sure? What's up?

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (03:28):
Well, we're calling on behalf of a woman named Kim
who says she met you on Hinge and I guess
you guys went on a date recently.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Do you remember her? I hope, Yeah, yeah, I remember.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
So she called us and had nice things to say
about you and said she liked you and enjoyed the date.
Was hoping to hear from you again for another date.
But you're not responding to her. You haven't reached out.
She feels like she's being ghosted. What's your side of
the story.

Speaker 6 (03:53):
Yeah, you know, I had a nice time talking to
her online and but look in person, it seemed like
she just had some pent up things that she needs
to deal with and that's kind of like where we
left off. And I was like, you know, maybe not
not for me right now?

Speaker 2 (04:12):
What does that mean? Like, could you give us a
little more? I mean, why do you feel that way?

Speaker 1 (04:16):
What happened?

Speaker 6 (04:18):
Well, look, I took her to one of those rage
rooms for a date because you know, I thought it
would be fun and different, like you know.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
And one of these places like as a show. We went.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
They got old appliances and TVs and it goggles on
and you can just go swing it and stuff.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
So that's what you guys did. So what happened, Yeah.

Speaker 6 (04:36):
You know, you know, I'm glad we did, because like
it showed me that there's a whole aside to her
and that she has some pent up aggression that she
should probably deal with before getting into a relationship with anybody.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
What does that mean though, because like the purpose of
going in the room is to get the aggression, Like
that's why you go there. So why why was that
so triggering for you?

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Though? I mean, what happened that was out of the ordinary.

Speaker 7 (05:02):
You know, yeah, I hear you, but it's just, uh,
I saw a side of her that I was like,
this is more than just somebody having fun and like
you know, being angry throwing.

Speaker 6 (05:12):
It seemed like there was some something underneath going on.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
So yeah, well yeah, what did you see though?

Speaker 6 (05:19):
So we're allowed to like play music, and while we're
breaking stuff, she picks like a death metal song and
then like, dude, I'm not even kidding, she started doing nuts.
Like it's gonna sound mean, but like, you know, like
an animal with Raby's kind.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
Of wow, whoa Kim became an animal with Raby was
at the mountain.

Speaker 6 (05:40):
Practically, man Like, I'm not even kidding, but she was
screaming and like breaking stuff. And I'm not trying to
sound mean, but yeah, I feel like she was salvating.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
A little bit.

Speaker 6 (05:49):
It got a little messy, and it was not it
was not cute, like you know, she was screaming, breaking
stuff and when the music stopped, right, so yeah, and
like screaming like like hardcore screaming like scary, and when
the music stopped, she wouldn't stop. And that was very weird,
man Like they had to like pry the crowd crowbar

(06:10):
out of her hand. And I was a little a
little freaky, you know, it freaked me out. And I'm
also pretty sure she was screaming like you peel or
something like that.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
But I don't know, man, Phil, damn, let me bring
Kim in. I forgot to mention that Kim is here.
I'm sorry, I'm very forgetful. Hey, Kim, who's Phil? And
And what's that? What's with the mouth frothing?

Speaker 4 (06:31):
Like?

Speaker 1 (06:31):
What shell?

Speaker 4 (06:34):
Is my biological dad who led when I was four?

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (06:38):
Oh, okay, of course I would have pensive energy, and
also like doesn't everybody have pens up energy sometimes.

Speaker 6 (06:46):
Like it's fine, it's fine.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
To express anger than to internalize it and then go
raw inside for life, right, Like you just.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Got to let that out. So I don't understand that.

Speaker 4 (06:58):
I don't like I have a right to be angry
at my biological dad who left me when I was
a child.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
I mean, there's a guy with daddy issues and a
room full of daddy issues. I'm not laughing at you,
but I'm just envisioning going on a first date with
a woman who is who is aggressively and uncontrollably swinging
at things and screaming out her father.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
I think. But it's so normal, right, isn't that what
anybody would do?

Speaker 2 (07:27):
Right? It's real Yeah, it's a very real thing. But
I guess if I didn't know you normal, If I
didn't know you, I might, you know, be a little
concerned about your well being. If you were screaming a
man's name and then they had to physically restrain you
from from and take the crowbar from your hands and
pry them pry it away from you, I would concern me.

(07:47):
I think I would be wondering, you know, kind of
for what the context was. And now we know. So, Hey, Chris,
she she was screaming at her estranged father on a
first date. Yeah, totally normal, right, I'm I mean, okay,
I this one's hard because I'm laughing because the picture
in my head is I don't know what I would

(08:09):
do if I were you, Chris, Like, I don't know
how I would. First of all, if I heard a
man's name and you're swinging, I would assume it was
an ex boyfriend, And then I'm like, why are we
thinking about him right now? It turns out, though it's
a little bit deeper than that, which we commiserate with.
But at the same time, I can see why if
you didn't know someone well and you weren't invested in them.
You might be like, I don't know if I want
to go down this rabbit hole with you, you know

(08:30):
what I mean, because it sounds like maybe you've got
some unresolved stuff. I mean, would you say that's true, Kim,
that you have some some unresolved issues?

Speaker 1 (08:38):
You know?

Speaker 4 (08:38):
Yeah, I think that part is unresolved. But I think
I you know, I'm sure maybe Chris has some unresolved things,
and I do have resolve things that are unresolved.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
Huh.

Speaker 6 (08:52):
That's why you got therapy though, you know you should
probably do that. We all have.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
Sometimes therapy is not enough.

Speaker 6 (08:58):
My guy doesn't help you.

Speaker 4 (09:00):
Yeah, just the guy left me when I was growing up.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Yeah, that mother, I get it.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
You don't have a crowbar, you don't have any sort
of sharp objects.

Speaker 4 (09:08):
Berkley, I do like I'm always ready, like if he
if I ever see.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
This man, Okay, I guess I can kind of see
where where Chris is coming from.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
But Kim, I feel for you.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
I do feel for you, and I want you to
like talk to somebody about this, you know.

Speaker 6 (09:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (09:22):
Yeah, but I'm just like really angry after all this.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah, No, that's that's that's clear, Kim.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
I really hope that that maybe you could talk with
someone about this and I don't know, find some form
of resolution or something, because moving forward it might be
an issue for you. Would you say, that's that's possible.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah, it's possible.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah. And here's Chris who doesn't know you, and he's going,
I don't know what. You know, what if I uncovered here?
You know, he doesn't know, so it's not really his fault.
But I'll ask the question, Chris. I mean, now you
have a little bit better understanding, would you like to
go out with Kim again?

Speaker 6 (09:59):
Okay I shouldn't say for a bit.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Oh well, hey, if you would, he could.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
All right, this is really unraveled now. Look, Kim, I
wish you the very best of luck. I do, And
and Chris thank you for your time as well.

Speaker 4 (10:12):
Yeah, Chrim, don't forget that.

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