Waiting By The Phone: Second Date Hair Gift

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Hey, Sadie, good morning, welcome to the program.
How are you hey?

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Thanks? I'm good, all right, so a little perplexed.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Right right exactly. We're trying to figure out that's honest.
By the way, over and over I keep saying it.
People are like, I'm so good. I'm like, how are
you so good? You got ghosted by somebody. Somebody on
earth is trying to avoid you with all their might,
or at least that's what we think. But Sadie, you're
perplexed about this guy Eric. We got to know everything.
How did you meet Eric? Tell us about any dates
that you've been on, and then what's happening now?

Speaker 3 (00:35):
I met Eric on Hinge and we hit it off.
We were chatting for a good while before we finally
met up for drinks. I had a great first date.
I felt like it was real, sparky and fun, and
I was really excited to see him again. Made plans
that same night to meet up again. I had a
second date. I had a second date, got dinner. It

(00:59):
was a great and I was really excited to keep
this going. And I never heard from him again and
I don't quite understand what happened.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Okay, so this isn't even a this isn't a one
date ghost. This is a two date ghost situation, which
is kind of you know that that's a little worse,
right because the person obviously liked you enough to go
on a second day with you.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
So what happened? What happened to stop that momentum? Right?

Speaker 3 (01:24):
And we were even talking about what we were going
to do next, like it was kind of assumed we
were going to see each other again.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
So yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:32):
I don't know what happened.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
I'd like to find out.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Okay, so let's play a song. We'll come back in
like two minutes, and we're gonna call this guy Eric.
He'll be on the phone as always. We'll ask some
questions on your behalf. At some point you're welcome to
jumping on the call, and you know, the hope is
that we can straighten this out, set you guys up
on a third date in this case that we paid for.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
So good, that's great.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
Let's see what's going on?

Speaker 1 (01:53):
Part two of waiting on the phone after David Getta
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If you can beat her in five questions, you start
Monday with a big grip of cash. Hey, Sadie, Yes,
all right, welcome back. Let's call Eric. This is the
guy you went out with a couple of times. You
thought the dates went great. You're trying to figure out

(02:14):
why this guy's not calling you after two dates that
you thought were successful.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Yeah, I want to see you again. You feel weird?
All right, Well let's see what's going on. Good luck, Sadie.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Thank you?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Hellisus? Eric?

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Oh yeah, this is Eric.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Hey Eric, good morning. My name is Fred.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
I'm calling for the Fred Show, a morning radio show,
and I do have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now, and I would need your
permission to continue with the call. Can which at for
just a second on the air? Do you mind you
can hang up anytime?

Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (02:47):
Sure?

Speaker 2 (02:47):
All right?

Speaker 1 (02:48):
Well, thank you so much. I look at this guy.
He seems almost excited. Right, we'll see if you're excited
in about thirty seconds. But we're calling on behalf of
a woman who reached out to us. Her name is Sadie.
You went out with her twice on dates you remember.

Speaker 4 (02:59):
Say, yeah, I remember Sadie.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Okay, so what happened?

Speaker 1 (03:04):
Because she called us and told us that, you know,
she'd met you and liked you, and he went on
a couple of times, two dates it was, and you
were planning a third date, and then you go missing,
and she feels like she's being ghosted by you, and
she wants to know why.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
I mean, I guess it's fair that I wonder why
she why ghosted? I mean so, I mean I thought
it was going great. After the second date. Right as
I was leaving, she gave me a present which I
didn't open until I got home. So I opened this
present and it's like a collection of hair loss products.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
Wait, this is on the second dates they did this?

Speaker 1 (03:40):
Yeah, it's like a goodie bag of like rogaine and
whatever else you used.

Speaker 4 (03:44):
To grow hair exactly exactly.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Now. Is it like she works for these people or
something and she had this stuff? I mean, I guess
either way, what she's saying to you is you need
to grow some hair somewhere.

Speaker 4 (03:55):
I mean, yeah, I don't. I mean, she doesn't work
for hair losspany. I mean it came out of nowhere.
I was gonna say just like an insult. I mean.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
That did deal.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
I mean, who worked for Sharpie and she brought me
one color of every Sharpie that was ever? Yeah, she did.
This is a long time ago, and I was very
excited about it. Was a very nice saying that she
did for me. So maybe if I'm saying, you know,
if she worked for a dermatologist and she brought your skincare,
she worked for a dentist and she brought you a toothbrush, like,
that's a very nice thing.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
But this is very personal. This is this is.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Regardless of her, regardless of the background. What she's saying
to you, Eric is you're a bald and I want
you to have hair. That's what she's saying to you.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
I mean, I mean, what if I just like gave
her like some teeth whitener or something or like, you know,
I don't know. I mean, that's just yeah, it was.

Speaker 5 (04:47):
A gift come for invisil line or something like a
bad vibe. Man, it's definitely in the date date killer
that would offend me to let me bring Sadie in. Eric,
I forgot to mention that Sadie is here.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Yeah, I'm very very Yeah, my bad Sadie.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
With the rogain, why, I mean, obviously you're trying to
send a message. I know you are trying to be kind,
but I mean that's a very personal thing for a
lot of people, and insecurity.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Is that all?

Speaker 3 (05:16):
I am surprised.

Speaker 4 (05:18):
I thought I.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
Probably started using this stuff and he liked it, and
I thought Eric would like it as well.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
But maybe Eric's okay with Maybe Eric doesn't think he
needs more here, Maybe Eric is maybe he's already doing
this to be self conscious about it. I mean, if
I were going out with a girl and she brought
me some blue chee, you know that stuff that's supposed
to make you like, you know, oh you got that
blue ch or she brought me some of that Spanish
what do I call that? Yeah, you bring me some
Spanish fly over the house. After a couple of dates,
I'm like, okay, So what you're saying is my machinery's

(05:46):
not you know, properly calibrated, and that would I would
probably make me insecure.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
Sadie, you got to think I wasn't.

Speaker 3 (05:53):
Trying to insult him. He's really self deprecating about that,
like after our first date, and so I just learn
about the stuff that my brother's been using and.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
He loved it.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
And I was like, oh, well this is the thing
that like he has an issue with that he's bringing up.
Then sure, here you go.

Speaker 2 (06:11):
Wasn't even got you got on, you got it.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
You have to turn the tables here when it comes
to when it comes to bodily stuff and aesthetics and
all of that. I mean, I want to say, do
you what if he brought you some sort of like
a deodorant spray, you know, I mean you you would
be modified.

Speaker 4 (06:28):
Exactly, exactly, exactly, like I don't know it, just as
somebody admit you after you kiss him. I mean, like what, okay.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
You know, wants to look their best. It's a little
I know, and men are like they really.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
Insecure about that, right Yeah, a lot of guys are
super insecure about losing their hair and you know how
it looks.

Speaker 4 (06:54):
I mean, I'm not saying I'm all about insecure. I
just thought it was a bad move. What's the word
I'm looking for?

Speaker 2 (07:04):
Sure he was just offended.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
He was offended or he thought it was a weird
gift or whatever your king, Sadie, I want to give.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
You the benefit of the doubt. I really do.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
I want to say that you were being thoughtful, but
you also have to know, like you've got to turn
the tables and know that when it comes to people's
appearance and and sort of related topics like that, that
requires a level of comfort and experience with that person
to know that you're not going to hurt their feelings.
And it sounds to me like, whether he's willing to
admit it or not, you hurt his feelings.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
I mean, I can see that now. And maybe that
was a third date move, not.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
A second right, But that's a third day Kiki, that's
a third day move.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Girl.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
You're never gonna get a man like this.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
You bring the toothless girl a toothbrush on the third date?
You know you certainly don't do that on it, never
on the first ever ever third date.

Speaker 4 (07:50):
I mean yeah, I mean to me, that to me,
that's like, that's like conversation down the line, I mean,
fled in the conversation that your brother's taking it and
then let me suggest I'm interested. I mean, you know,
a black footed move, man, I mean, not a not
dating material you what am I going to say?

Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (08:11):
I mean I hate I hate to argue to make
an argument by turning the tables like I tends to.
I don't know, but in this case, I think that's
what you got to do. He's turn the tables and say, Sadie,
how would you feel if he did that to you?
What if he brought you the exact same product? What
is he saying to you? He's saying you need more hair?

Speaker 2 (08:27):
I mean, you know, I mean maybe it's so far.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
I'm sorry. I hope it doesn't ruin any chance.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
What if he brought you and so you think he
needs hair. What if he brought you razors in their
because he thinks you need less hair. That probably wouldn't
go over well.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
Would it.

Speaker 3 (08:43):
I could see that.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
I could see that I could be an issue.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
Okay, Eric, So she meant well, but in this case
she didn't read the room. I mean, can we give
her another chance? Or are we just moving on?

Speaker 4 (08:55):
You know what, there's a lot of fish in the sea,
and that's just a I don't know, it's not the
don trust that judgment, you know what I mean. I'm
looking for something serious and I don't know, but that's
a disqualifier. Sorry about that, but that's just how it.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Is, all right, Sadie, Look, I honestly believe that you
probably had good intentions, but let's just not let's not
we're not with the uh sort of bodily related products
early on in a relationship. I just think there's more
room for that to go poorly than there is for
it to you know what I mean, Yes, rufio, are you.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
Going to use the product?

Speaker 5 (09:28):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (09:29):
You don't need it. I'm gonna say, what do you
need hair? Hair growth product? He's going to use it.

Speaker 4 (09:35):
I'm not going I mean, I'm just gonna go shave
heads at some point soon. But I mean whatever, Yeah,
I'm not worried about that. I'm not trying to put
on chemical.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
He's not going to combat it.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
You know, he's our It's it's strange for Okay, it's
not going to work out, Sadie. I'm sorry, Eric, thank
you for answering, and all the best to both of you.

Speaker 4 (09:52):
I wish I do, wish state the best. I mean,
you know, ultimately we're on the same uh the same
pool here, and you know, sure you'll find somebody.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Look at this, look at the positivity there.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
You know you're there's Eric saying, Sadie, I hope you
find a Harry guy soon. You know.

Speaker 3 (10:08):
It's a nice ball hitted man, almost boll hitting man.

Speaker 4 (10:13):
Man.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Oh lord, good luck, guys, thank you, thank you, the
entertainment of Fort and she'll be Shelley with seven hundred bucks,
actually Shelley with both.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
Next The Fred Show,