June 11, 2025 • 16 mins
Matt is confused why Krista won't call him back after two great dates... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.
Hey Mat, good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I'm good, I'm good morning. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Okay? Man?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
What's going on with this willing Christa in waiting by
the phone? I mean, of course we're trying to figure
out if you've been ghosted, But why do you feel
like maybe she's ignoring you?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I'm pretty sure she's ignoring me.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
We had a good time. We met on Hinge and
we went on a couple of dates. And first date,
you know, just after worked drinks that kind of thing,
and we got on the second date, that's the texting,
had a really good dinner, really good dinner, a really
good time. We had a drinks. We went up at
my place and that went very well.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I hope you didn't wink at her.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
If you winked at her, and we don't even have
to do this call, we can just be done right now.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
I know I would never do that, and never say
it out loud when I'm doing it. That would be weird, right,
But I haven't heard from her since it was a
good night, and I've you know, I asked her the
text me when she got home, so I should be safe. Whatever,
she didn't even do that, and I don't know why
she's ghosting me.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And this isn't like a first date hookup. Then you
don't hear from her. You said you went in a
couple different dates before you did it.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
We went on two dates.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Yeah, we went a simple date, and we went a
really good second date, like a real legitimate second date
that had a good time, and she came into my place.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
And I think that makes a difference, by the way,
because you know, one date you don't like somebody, get
the ick whatever, and then you're done. But two dates,
that means you liked him enough on the first date
to invest more time on a second date. And then
the fact that you went back to your place. I
mean I would say the dates went well, so you know,
I would be confused as well, and I would be
kind of annoyed because you know, you go in a
couple of dates and you think things are going well
(01:48):
and you're like, okay, good, you know we're headed somewhere,
except we're not because she's not responding to you. She's
not talking to you, she's not reaching out to you,
and you want to know why. So We're going to
play a song come back in two minutes. We're gonna
call Chris, We're gonna ask these questions and the hope,
as always always is that we can straighten this out
and set you guys up on another day that we
pay for.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
All right, Yeah, perhaps, so this is the Fred Show.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
We have your chance to win a trip for two
to see Kelly Clarkson's return to Las Vegas for her
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Caesar's Palace on August first, tex Hazel to three seven,
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tickets to the August first show, two nights Hotel Day
July thirty first to August second at the Flamingo, Las
(02:34):
Vegas and round trip Bearfair. A confirmation text that we
sent standard message to data rates apply all thanks to
the Live Nation at Yeah. Hey man, welcome back, Hey Matt,
Hey dude, we just heard a second ago you you
went out with a woman named Christa who you met
on one of the dating apps. He and I believe
it was you went on two dates. Second date back
to your place that went really well, as you said,
(02:57):
wink wink, you said, to us.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
She didn't say her Thank.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
God, that would cringe of you to do.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
But anyway, you thought everything went well.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Okay, that was a sinister laugh.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
So you thought everything went really well.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
But you have not heard from this woman since, you know,
post second date. You even have said, he can you
can you send me a text when you get home
from my place? And she didn't even do that. So
this woman is ignoring you. She is ghosting you. It's
bothering you as it would most people. You want to
know why, Yeah, I want to. I'm not like anger man.
I just I don't know what's going on. I got
(03:33):
That's what we're here to do. We're gonna call her now.
Good luck, Matt, all right, Hi is this Krista?
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Yeah, this is christ Christa Hig.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can we chat for a
couple of minutes? You can hang up anytime you'd like.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
Yes, Oh my, oh my gosh, I'm on the radio.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
This is wow.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
We don't normally get like this level of excitement. But
but hey, welcome to the show. If you've heard the
show before, we are calling on waiting by the phone
because a guy named Matt reached out to us and
he said that you guys recently went out on a
couple of dates and now you're ignoring him.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Oh my gosh, he called you.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Now the energy changes, I'm on the radio and then
it's like, oh boy, yeah no. So he told us
that he met you on the apps and that he
went out with you a couple of times and that
he liked you. He did infer that you went back
to his place after the second date and then he
didn't hear from you after that. What's your version of
the story. Are you ghosting him? And why?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Oh my gosh, this feels like a prank. Wow, I'm
I'm I.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Mean, he asked us to call you, so this is
we're doing this for him. So it's not like you know,
people all the time they're like, I can't believe you
know you were so mean to this person or that person,
or I can't believe that you out of this person. No,
you got to remember somebody asked us to do this.
Matt asked us to do this, so whatever happens next.
I mean, he wanted to know, so what is he
leaving out or why is it that you guys, well
(05:16):
you're not talking to him anymore.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Okay, I can't. I can't believe this is I can't
asked you guys.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 5 (05:25):
We we we we went on a date and uh,
you know, I thought he was really attractive and we
ended up going back to his place to hook up
and we were like on the couch, make it out,
and he said, you know, one sec I'm going to
(05:47):
go to the bathroom. And I said, okay, fine. So
he's in the bathroom and he's in there for a while,
and then he moved to the bedroom and he called
me in the bedroom. I'm like, okay, this is this
is different. But you know, so I went in and
the lights were really like they were off, like you
(06:08):
could see like the moon coming through, so I could
kind of like find my my way. But I figured
out that he was he was naked already.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
A little more comfortable, like yeah, that's a move. What
was going on?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
He was he was like on top of he had
like the sheet over him, you know, And so I
was like, oh, okay, I guess I'll undress myself. So
I got undressed and I got in the bed and
then he started, you know, we started to make it
(06:54):
out again, and he kind of kept his distance, but
he was kissing me, if that makes sense. And so
I reached out to because he has like these amazing
abs and like, I mean, his body's she's just it's
just perfect. And so I go to like, you know,
(07:16):
put my hand on his chest and his stomach, and
he just kind of grabs my hand and puts it
on his face, and I'm like okay. And so anyways,
we keep kissing, and you know, we hook up, and
I after I had to use a bathroom and I
got up and I found where it was. I turned
(07:38):
on a light and I look at the floor and
it's a mess.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
And you know, we got to be specified, like what
what's what is a mess?
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Like his clothes were like all over.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
The floor, you know, undressed or whatever.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
So he just kind of just undressed and put everything Okay,
all right, So his clothes are on the ground.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Yeah, like open and everything. But so I'm like, oh
my gosh, this guy is so messy. Like that's a
turn off. And so when I go to like the
like pick it up and move it because it was
right in front of the toilet. I, oh my god,
so gross. I I saw the grossest thing ever. I
(08:25):
it was men's shapewear. Like I picked up his shapewear,
like his body suit was abb in it and like patting.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Oh so he had a so he had like man's spanks,
but they were they had abs built in them.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Yes, yes, where did he get so? Like?
Speaker 1 (08:49):
So he for the whole date you're saying he was
wearing like a neck like like a you said, bodysuit
like he was.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
He squeezed his whole body. He's this whole body and
he has fake muscle tough.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
Literally I feel like that.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Right you wait what Kiki, Hey, you don't have a
problem with shapewear that has fake ripples in the ab section.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
Listen, how I look at my clothes is one thing.
When I go home, it's like a busted cannabiscuits sometimes,
like you everywhere, you don't know what it takes the
properly cabs.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
You're not wearing fake abs right now.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
I'm not, but now that I know, never say never,
right if I wanted some, you know, they're out there.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
So your issue is that, Chris, say you you've found
this guy attractive because you thought he had a good body,
only to go home and find out that he didn't.
Maybe he doesn't and he's concealing it, and he's obviously
not feeling confident about it because you didn't want you
to know because everything was, you know, right, turn the
lights off and undressed himself. But this is no well,
(09:54):
I mean, the fake abs are an extreme example, but
this is not much different than women who wear shape
where I mean, you man not to complain about I've
had this habit before you go back to the house
and it's like, you know, let me slip into something
more comfortable, which means let me unpackage myself from the
saran wrap that I wrapped myself in. Yeah, you know
who am I? Who would I be to say anything
about that? I forgot to mention Christa that Matt is here.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Matt.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
You did leave out the full body spanks with the
abs built in that, which is a feature I didn't
I've never seen when I ordered mine.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
I didn't know you could get that.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Hey, hey, Chris, were you now hold on, were you thinking?
Were you thinking that wasn't gonna come up, Like, did
you think she didn't see that? Because you seem a
little dejected. But it's like, you know, I don't know
what Yeah, I mean I didn't know he was going to.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Be going through my things in the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
But I mean, what's the endgame here?
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Like at what point do you then like go to
the pool and she realizes that you don't have abs?
I mean, like, I guess what I wonder is how
long if you were to actually date this woman, how
long can.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
You keep that up?
Speaker 4 (10:54):
I mean, that's it's the kind of thing you revealed
to somebody after your intimate with them.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Yeah, you can't help it, but.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
So you know her to believe that you were like
a bodybuilder and you're not, which is for women women
wear should wear every day. I don't I don't see what.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
The difference is. Yes, Why why you would come down
on me like that?
Speaker 3 (11:15):
It's just everybody has vanity. Women have vanity, men have vanity.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
And it's a confidence booster if you're not comfortable with
your body.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
Women wear and so other men sometimes.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I mean I will say these true women.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Women do wear items of clothing that enhance certain parts
of their body artificially, and men don't really complain about
that or shouldn't. And then I guess in this case,
he was doing something very similar and it's a problem.
I mean, what do you say to that? Christa?
Speaker 2 (11:40):
I mean, how is but how is how is him?
Like passion?
Speaker 1 (11:46):
A little tighter? Like how is how is that? How
is that different than like a woman who wears a
bra that boosts and separates?
Speaker 5 (11:56):
Yeah, I mean a different said get in front like
like no, I feel like it's it's a big difference
because like women, well, of course we're listen that that
was it was conniding, it was glows. I don't think
that men should be like you presented to me that
(12:21):
you you were in shape, and you even talk, You
bragged about going to the gym, you bragged about your
so like even when when we were intimate, you would
not let me touch your stomach and like everything I was.
(12:44):
I don't know if I can say our positions, but
you would not let me like touch you, but you
were behind me.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
So I want you to know I didn't have like
a rock hard stomach, you know, so.
Speaker 5 (12:59):
You know, like just say something like I'm the type
of person just be honest.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
With you fake apps all night? Like, how does that
come up?
Speaker 1 (13:09):
I don't know what he look, we can go on
with the both come with the shape where I don't
request as that.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
I don't. I don't want it to come with that.
They just come with that. That's how it comes.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I mean when you talk about gross, I guess I don't.
I don't think of this. I mean, yes, it was
deceptive and it's abnormal. For whatever reason, you don't hear
about men wearing this kind of stuff the same way
that you do women as frequently. But look, Matt has
some insecurities. You liked everything up until that point, and
you even continued the act and finished the act, so
(13:40):
you liked him enough to do that, So I guess,
And now we know the truth, Matt let me he's over. Yeah, Chris,
would you would you consider being a little bit more
open minded and going out with him again?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Now we know the truth, we.
Speaker 6 (13:56):
Like I've I'm feel uncomfortable going out with someone that
is going to portray something.
Speaker 5 (14:08):
Fake in order to get me to like them and
then do a slow reveal after that just makes me
feel like, well, if we're in a different situation, are
you going to rent and repeat those same actions to that,
Like what if it was something that would be worse then,
you know, putting on a body.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
See, we're going to find.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
Out the guys that yes, I hate getting into bed
with me because I like me and my falla like
we ride so gone.
Speaker 6 (14:37):
Like.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Done, break it done?
Speaker 5 (14:42):
All right?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
So you don't want to go out with this guy again?
I think you're being extremely harsh. I understand it was
a little shocking, but I mean again, I remind you
did go on two dates with the guy, and and
you know, everything that led up to it was good,
and now you find out this and and you don't
want to go out with him anymore.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
I take it.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Yeah, I mean both states. You wore that both states.
I mean, do you win it every day? Like do
you plan on going to work out? And if that's
your body, be comfortable and love your body. I have
a food pat I told you I felt about her
and I even have a nickname for her.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
And you held on to what you can't do that
your body?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
What's the nickname for that area of your body that
he held onto so tightly?
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Her name is she?
Speaker 1 (15:29):
All right? Okay, you don't want to go up mean,
we've been talking about this. Do you want to go
out with him again? Or not?
Speaker 3 (15:37):
No?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
I mean, look at shape work too. If you want,
I mean whatever, do you want to him? Yes or no?
Speaker 6 (15:46):
No?
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Man.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
I think this is I think this is a little
bit hypocritical.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Honestly, I think it's superficial and a little hypocritical.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
And honestly, if you took off all your pickup, what
a guy react to that?
Speaker 1 (16:00):
I will say, if a dude called up here and said, okay,
but if a guy called up here and said, I
don't want to go out with the woman I slept
with again because I saw her without makeup, this would
be the roast of the century. So, I mean, you're
not That's not a thing that he's going to say
to you, and it's not a thing that anyway, it's
not going to work.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
I can get you, guys a two for one deal
and a Colombian fa like. Hold man, I have a guy.
I'm serious.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Okay, come, we'll we'll work on that. And Matt, thank
you for your time. Christ To thank you for your time.
Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Go well, don't be mad at me. I'm just I'm
just the whole situation.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
I'm not mad at you.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Another there will let us your curves trap that apeck
on it. Don't don't get some
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.
Hey Mat, good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I'm good, I'm good morning. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Okay? Man?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
What's going on with this willing Christa in waiting by
the phone? I mean, of course we're trying to figure
out if you've been ghosted, But why do you feel
like maybe she's ignoring you?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I'm pretty sure she's ignoring me.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
We had a good time. We met on Hinge and
we went on a couple of dates. And first date,
you know, just after worked drinks that kind of thing,
and we got on the second date, that's the texting,
had a really good dinner, really good dinner, a really
good time. We had a drinks. We went up at
my place and that went very well.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I hope you didn't wink at her.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
If you winked at her, and we don't even have
to do this call, we can just be done right now.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
I know I would never do that, and never say
it out loud when I'm doing it. That would be weird, right,
But I haven't heard from her since it was a
good night, and I've you know, I asked her the
text me when she got home, so I should be safe. Whatever,
she didn't even do that, and I don't know why
she's ghosting me.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And this isn't like a first date hookup. Then you
don't hear from her. You said you went in a
couple different dates before you did it.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
We went on two dates.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Yeah, we went a simple date, and we went a
really good second date, like a real legitimate second date
that had a good time, and she came into my place.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
And I think that makes a difference, by the way,
because you know, one date you don't like somebody, get
the ick whatever, and then you're done. But two dates,
that means you liked him enough on the first date
to invest more time on a second date. And then
the fact that you went back to your place. I
mean I would say the dates went well, so you know,
I would be confused as well, and I would be
kind of annoyed because you know, you go in a
couple of dates and you think things are going well
(01:48):
and you're like, okay, good, you know we're headed somewhere,
except we're not because she's not responding to you. She's
not talking to you, she's not reaching out to you,
and you want to know why. So We're going to
play a song come back in two minutes. We're gonna
call Chris, We're gonna ask these questions and the hope,
as always always is that we can straighten this out
and set you guys up on another day that we
pay for.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
All right, Yeah, perhaps, so this is the Fred Show.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
We have your chance to win a trip for two
to see Kelly Clarkson's return to Las Vegas for her
brand new residency studio Sessions live at the Coliseum at
Caesar's Palace on August first, tex Hazel to three seven,
three three seven now for a chance to win two
tickets to the August first show, two nights Hotel Day
July thirty first to August second at the Flamingo, Las
(02:34):
Vegas and round trip Bearfair. A confirmation text that we
sent standard message to data rates apply all thanks to
the Live Nation at Yeah. Hey man, welcome back, Hey Matt,
Hey dude, we just heard a second ago you you
went out with a woman named Christa who you met
on one of the dating apps. He and I believe
it was you went on two dates. Second date back
to your place that went really well, as you said,
(02:57):
wink wink, you said, to us.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
She didn't say her Thank.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
God, that would cringe of you to do.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
But anyway, you thought everything went well.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Okay, that was a sinister laugh.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
So you thought everything went really well.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
But you have not heard from this woman since, you know,
post second date. You even have said, he can you
can you send me a text when you get home
from my place? And she didn't even do that. So
this woman is ignoring you. She is ghosting you. It's
bothering you as it would most people. You want to
know why, Yeah, I want to. I'm not like anger man.
I just I don't know what's going on. I got
(03:33):
That's what we're here to do. We're gonna call her now.
Good luck, Matt, all right, Hi is this Krista?
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Yeah, this is christ Christa Hig.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can we chat for a
couple of minutes? You can hang up anytime you'd like.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
Yes, Oh my, oh my gosh, I'm on the radio.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
This is wow.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
We don't normally get like this level of excitement. But
but hey, welcome to the show. If you've heard the
show before, we are calling on waiting by the phone
because a guy named Matt reached out to us and
he said that you guys recently went out on a
couple of dates and now you're ignoring him.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Oh my gosh, he called you.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Now the energy changes, I'm on the radio and then
it's like, oh boy, yeah no. So he told us
that he met you on the apps and that he
went out with you a couple of times and that
he liked you. He did infer that you went back
to his place after the second date and then he
didn't hear from you after that. What's your version of
the story. Are you ghosting him? And why?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Oh my gosh, this feels like a prank. Wow, I'm
I'm I.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Mean, he asked us to call you, so this is
we're doing this for him. So it's not like you know,
people all the time they're like, I can't believe you
know you were so mean to this person or that person,
or I can't believe that you out of this person. No,
you got to remember somebody asked us to do this.
Matt asked us to do this, so whatever happens next.
I mean, he wanted to know, so what is he
leaving out or why is it that you guys, well
(05:16):
you're not talking to him anymore.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Okay, I can't. I can't believe this is I can't
asked you guys.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 5 (05:25):
We we we we went on a date and uh,
you know, I thought he was really attractive and we
ended up going back to his place to hook up
and we were like on the couch, make it out,
and he said, you know, one sec I'm going to
(05:47):
go to the bathroom. And I said, okay, fine. So
he's in the bathroom and he's in there for a while,
and then he moved to the bedroom and he called
me in the bedroom. I'm like, okay, this is this
is different. But you know, so I went in and
the lights were really like they were off, like you
(06:08):
could see like the moon coming through, so I could
kind of like find my my way. But I figured
out that he was he was naked already.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
A little more comfortable, like yeah, that's a move. What
was going on?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
He was he was like on top of he had
like the sheet over him, you know, And so I
was like, oh, okay, I guess I'll undress myself. So
I got undressed and I got in the bed and
then he started, you know, we started to make it
(06:54):
out again, and he kind of kept his distance, but
he was kissing me, if that makes sense. And so
I reached out to because he has like these amazing
abs and like, I mean, his body's she's just it's
just perfect. And so I go to like, you know,
(07:16):
put my hand on his chest and his stomach, and
he just kind of grabs my hand and puts it
on his face, and I'm like okay. And so anyways,
we keep kissing, and you know, we hook up, and
I after I had to use a bathroom and I
got up and I found where it was. I turned
(07:38):
on a light and I look at the floor and
it's a mess.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
And you know, we got to be specified, like what
what's what is a mess?
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Like his clothes were like all over.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
The floor, you know, undressed or whatever.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
So he just kind of just undressed and put everything Okay,
all right, So his clothes are on the ground.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Yeah, like open and everything. But so I'm like, oh
my gosh, this guy is so messy. Like that's a
turn off. And so when I go to like the
like pick it up and move it because it was
right in front of the toilet. I, oh my god,
so gross. I I saw the grossest thing ever. I
(08:25):
it was men's shapewear. Like I picked up his shapewear,
like his body suit was abb in it and like patting.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Oh so he had a so he had like man's spanks,
but they were they had abs built in them.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Yes, yes, where did he get so? Like?
Speaker 1 (08:49):
So he for the whole date you're saying he was
wearing like a neck like like a you said, bodysuit
like he was.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
He squeezed his whole body. He's this whole body and
he has fake muscle tough.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
Literally I feel like that.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Right you wait what Kiki, Hey, you don't have a
problem with shapewear that has fake ripples in the ab section.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
Listen, how I look at my clothes is one thing.
When I go home, it's like a busted cannabiscuits sometimes,
like you everywhere, you don't know what it takes the
properly cabs.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
You're not wearing fake abs right now.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
I'm not, but now that I know, never say never,
right if I wanted some, you know, they're out there.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
So your issue is that, Chris, say you you've found
this guy attractive because you thought he had a good body,
only to go home and find out that he didn't.
Maybe he doesn't and he's concealing it, and he's obviously
not feeling confident about it because you didn't want you
to know because everything was, you know, right, turn the
lights off and undressed himself. But this is no well,
(09:54):
I mean, the fake abs are an extreme example, but
this is not much different than women who wear shape
where I mean, you man not to complain about I've
had this habit before you go back to the house
and it's like, you know, let me slip into something
more comfortable, which means let me unpackage myself from the
saran wrap that I wrapped myself in. Yeah, you know
who am I? Who would I be to say anything
about that? I forgot to mention Christa that Matt is here.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Matt.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
You did leave out the full body spanks with the
abs built in that, which is a feature I didn't
I've never seen when I ordered mine.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
I didn't know you could get that.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Hey, hey, Chris, were you now hold on, were you thinking?
Were you thinking that wasn't gonna come up, Like, did
you think she didn't see that? Because you seem a
little dejected. But it's like, you know, I don't know
what Yeah, I mean I didn't know he was going to.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Be going through my things in the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
But I mean, what's the endgame here?
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Like at what point do you then like go to
the pool and she realizes that you don't have abs?
I mean, like, I guess what I wonder is how
long if you were to actually date this woman, how
long can.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
You keep that up?
Speaker 4 (10:54):
I mean, that's it's the kind of thing you revealed
to somebody after your intimate with them.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Yeah, you can't help it, but.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
So you know her to believe that you were like
a bodybuilder and you're not, which is for women women
wear should wear every day. I don't I don't see what.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
The difference is. Yes, Why why you would come down
on me like that?
Speaker 3 (11:15):
It's just everybody has vanity. Women have vanity, men have vanity.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
And it's a confidence booster if you're not comfortable with
your body.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
Women wear and so other men sometimes.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I mean I will say these true women.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Women do wear items of clothing that enhance certain parts
of their body artificially, and men don't really complain about
that or shouldn't. And then I guess in this case,
he was doing something very similar and it's a problem.
I mean, what do you say to that? Christa?
Speaker 2 (11:40):
I mean, how is but how is how is him?
Like passion?
Speaker 1 (11:46):
A little tighter? Like how is how is that? How
is that different than like a woman who wears a
bra that boosts and separates?
Speaker 5 (11:56):
Yeah, I mean a different said get in front like
like no, I feel like it's it's a big difference
because like women, well, of course we're listen that that
was it was conniding, it was glows. I don't think
that men should be like you presented to me that
(12:21):
you you were in shape, and you even talk, You
bragged about going to the gym, you bragged about your
so like even when when we were intimate, you would
not let me touch your stomach and like everything I was.
(12:44):
I don't know if I can say our positions, but
you would not let me like touch you, but you
were behind me.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
So I want you to know I didn't have like
a rock hard stomach, you know, so.
Speaker 5 (12:59):
You know, like just say something like I'm the type
of person just be honest.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
With you fake apps all night? Like, how does that
come up?
Speaker 1 (13:09):
I don't know what he look, we can go on
with the both come with the shape where I don't
request as that.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
I don't. I don't want it to come with that.
They just come with that. That's how it comes.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I mean when you talk about gross, I guess I don't.
I don't think of this. I mean, yes, it was
deceptive and it's abnormal. For whatever reason, you don't hear
about men wearing this kind of stuff the same way
that you do women as frequently. But look, Matt has
some insecurities. You liked everything up until that point, and
you even continued the act and finished the act, so
(13:40):
you liked him enough to do that, So I guess,
And now we know the truth, Matt let me he's over. Yeah, Chris,
would you would you consider being a little bit more
open minded and going out with him again?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Now we know the truth, we.
Speaker 6 (13:56):
Like I've I'm feel uncomfortable going out with someone that
is going to portray something.
Speaker 5 (14:08):
Fake in order to get me to like them and
then do a slow reveal after that just makes me
feel like, well, if we're in a different situation, are
you going to rent and repeat those same actions to that,
Like what if it was something that would be worse then,
you know, putting on a body.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
See, we're going to find.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
Out the guys that yes, I hate getting into bed
with me because I like me and my falla like
we ride so gone.
Speaker 6 (14:37):
Like.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Done, break it done?
Speaker 5 (14:42):
All right?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
So you don't want to go out with this guy again?
I think you're being extremely harsh. I understand it was
a little shocking, but I mean again, I remind you
did go on two dates with the guy, and and
you know, everything that led up to it was good,
and now you find out this and and you don't
want to go out with him anymore.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
I take it.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Yeah, I mean both states. You wore that both states.
I mean, do you win it every day? Like do
you plan on going to work out? And if that's
your body, be comfortable and love your body. I have
a food pat I told you I felt about her
and I even have a nickname for her.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
And you held on to what you can't do that
your body?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
What's the nickname for that area of your body that
he held onto so tightly?
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Her name is she?
Speaker 1 (15:29):
All right? Okay, you don't want to go up mean,
we've been talking about this. Do you want to go
out with him again? Or not?
Speaker 3 (15:37):
No?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
I mean, look at shape work too. If you want,
I mean whatever, do you want to him? Yes or no?
Speaker 6 (15:46):
No?
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Man.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
I think this is I think this is a little
bit hypocritical.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Honestly, I think it's superficial and a little hypocritical.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
And honestly, if you took off all your pickup, what
a guy react to that?
Speaker 1 (16:00):
I will say, if a dude called up here and said, okay,
but if a guy called up here and said, I
don't want to go out with the woman I slept
with again because I saw her without makeup, this would
be the roast of the century. So, I mean, you're
not That's not a thing that he's going to say
to you, and it's not a thing that anyway, it's
not going to work.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
I can get you, guys a two for one deal
and a Colombian fa like. Hold man, I have a guy.
I'm serious.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Okay, come, we'll we'll work on that. And Matt, thank
you for your time. Christ To thank you for your time.
Best of luck to both of you.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Go well, don't be mad at me. I'm just I'm
just the whole situation.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
I'm not mad at you.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Another there will let us your curves trap that apeck
on it. Don't don't get some
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