September 22, 2025 • 6 mins
Paul is confused why Izzy won't call him back after a great first date... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Ever been laughed of waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Hey Paul, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you Hey?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Good morning? You could hear from you.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
So, what's going on with Easy? Because I want to
try and help you out here. You feel like maybe
you've been ghosted by Easy? How did you meet? Tell
us about any dates you've been on and what's going
on now?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, So I met Izzy originally on a dating app,
but from the second I saw her, I just I
knew she had a good vibe. So we ended up
meeting up for drinks and it was a good time.
I felt like personally, I felt like we were meant
to meet. Like I said, like she kind of seemed
to like a good match both spiritually and emotionally. So yeah,
(00:45):
I'm hoping to hoping to find her and see what happened.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Look at this guy talking about spiritually and emotionally, Like
you don't hear a lot about that on dating apps.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
I feel like it's more like i'd hit it.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
That's kind of like, you know, that's where we start
and then we you know, hopefully you from there. But
you're talking about you felt a spiritual vibe from her yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I felt like we were connected and more than just
the physical.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
That is fantastic.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Okay, well, then I can understand why you you would
like to hear from her again, but you have it.
So here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna call, We're
gonna play a song. Come back. We'll call Easy. You'll
be on the phone. We're gonna ask some questions on
your behalf. At some point you're welcome to jump in
on the call. And you know, we're always trying to
make this work and set you guys up on another
date to pay for it. That's the hope. Okay, awesome,
thank you, Hey Paul, Hey, all right, let's call Easy.
(01:30):
You guys met on a dating app and you like
the vibe. You know, you were feeling good vibes about this.
You're you're looking at this more from like a spiritual
emotional perspective, which we don't often hear, but that's that's
what you were feeling.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Oh definitely.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Okay, all right, well, let's call Easy and see if
we can connect with her ourselves, and hopefully we can
straighten this out and set you guys up on another
day that we pay for Okay, thank you, so much.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Hello, Hi, is this easy?
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Is he high?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Good morning? My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I'm calling for the Fred Show of the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Can we chat for just a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Okay, I guess what's what's going on?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Well, thank you very much, so much, super into it.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Paul, who
I guess you you matched with on a dating app
and you you went out recently. Do you remember meeting
this this gentleman.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Yes, I mean I'm a pretty buckly person. But the
second we sat down, he started shushing me. I know him.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
It's like, wait, okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.
So you you obviously remember this guy. You go on
a date, you sit down, and he said he was
shushing you. What do you mean like you start talking
and he'd go no, no, wait, no more me or
like what do we what do you mean?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Yeah? He literally told me hold on, let's sit in
silence toward each other for a second, just to get
to know each other.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Super odd.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
I mean he just told me he wanted to feel
my aura for a second and put his finger up
to my mouth and it just kind.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Of just kind of shocks, like like he was like
like the shish included the fingers and like your lips
wouldn't move.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah, but he wanted to feel.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Came to break the silence. But through the rest of
the night he kept telling me to stop talking so
we could feel each other energetically.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
I mean, who doesn't want to feel the aura. I'm
always trying to get the aura. I gotta I gotta
feel your aura. I've been saying that forever.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Okay, so he wouldn't let you talk because he wanted
to get the vibes. And how long did this go on?
Speaker 4 (03:49):
I mean probably least another hour or so.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I mean I knew I wasn't going to see.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Him again, so I just pretend to get drunk in
the front out.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
So not a lot of words, just a whole lot
of vibes, right, all right, But let me I forgot
to mention that Paul is here. I guess he's vibing
right now. Paul, you didn't mention that you wouldn't let
her talk.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Yeah, you know this this is just helping me, see
you know, this is what's wrong with our.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Society, you know, with all of society violence all.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Okay, Yeah, we're all we're uncomfortable with silence and can't
sit in it. So I feel like, I feel like
if we all just gave it a chance, you know,
we all see what I was talking about. I'm willing
to be silent right now, if we all just kind
of sit here in silence.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
And yeah, let's let's try it for just a second.
Let's try it. Hold on. Oh, I'm feeling the vibes
right now. I feel the vibes. Yeah, kill your energy
in your aura.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
It's it's just radiating, it's emanating through the phone. Yeah.
But is it normal, Paul, would you say to go
on a date and then not speak? I mean, I
think that's not really that's that's sort of strange for
a lot of people.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
And I get that that people.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
You're right, I think a lot of people are uncomfortable
being a loner in silence. But like, you're on a
date to get to know someone communicatively. That and of
course the vibe is part of that. But most people
talk on a date. I understand, and talking is something
I'm okay with. But I just think to start to
kind of just understand each other in our purest sense.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
We just sit in silence and look at each other.
That's you know, we're going to get so much more
on that.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Is that what that nine inch Nail song is about?
Is that? Is it just about vibes? Is that song
about Paul? Is that what? I think? That? Is that?
What he is? Are you not familiar with that work
of art?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I'm not familiar.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
You're not familiar with him?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Okay, that's all right because he's you know, mostly silent.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I guess. So this is extremely strange.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I mean I can see why you would, you know,
you go on a date expecting to have some light
conversation and drink and whatever, and maybe you get to
the whole ViBe's part. But like I don't know, I
can see why.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Don't shush me. Okay, well that's that's another thing. Yeah,
don't be shushing Piers away from my lips. Don't shush me.
You can't silence me. Are you there?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Is he?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
I'm here?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Oh, did you have any thoughts on that? Or you
can talk to us? Yeah? Right, a lot of silence,
but like this is a safe place to speak. Actually,
I'm not shushing you at all. Yeah, my hands are
nowhere near your mouth. I'll take my hands away from
your mouth. I'm sorry, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
This is I mean, the whole situation was just really
really strange. It just felt really controlling, and I was
just like immediately no.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Yeah, that for just a moment, she slipped back into
the trauva of not being able to speak. No, it's okay,
you can talk to you all right. Look, i'll ask
the question. I know the answer. But would you like
to go out with Paul again? You can speak and
we'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
No, I'm okay, all.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Right, Paul, Paul, I'll give you the final word if
you have any words, or if you just like to,
you know, meditate.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
No.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I understand why you guys are afraid of silence, but
I think that if you're embraced it, it
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Would make Yeah, I mean, typically silence in our business
is not great.
Ever been laughed of waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Hey Paul, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you Hey?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Good morning? You could hear from you.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
So, what's going on with Easy? Because I want to
try and help you out here. You feel like maybe
you've been ghosted by Easy? How did you meet? Tell
us about any dates you've been on and what's going
on now?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, So I met Izzy originally on a dating app,
but from the second I saw her, I just I
knew she had a good vibe. So we ended up
meeting up for drinks and it was a good time.
I felt like personally, I felt like we were meant
to meet. Like I said, like she kind of seemed
to like a good match both spiritually and emotionally. So yeah,
(00:45):
I'm hoping to hoping to find her and see what happened.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Look at this guy talking about spiritually and emotionally, Like
you don't hear a lot about that on dating apps.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
I feel like it's more like i'd hit it.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
That's kind of like, you know, that's where we start
and then we you know, hopefully you from there. But
you're talking about you felt a spiritual vibe from her yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I felt like we were connected and more than just
the physical.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
That is fantastic.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Okay, well, then I can understand why you you would
like to hear from her again, but you have it.
So here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna call, We're
gonna play a song. Come back. We'll call Easy. You'll
be on the phone. We're gonna ask some questions on
your behalf. At some point you're welcome to jump in
on the call. And you know, we're always trying to
make this work and set you guys up on another
date to pay for it. That's the hope. Okay, awesome,
thank you, Hey Paul, Hey, all right, let's call Easy.
(01:30):
You guys met on a dating app and you like
the vibe. You know, you were feeling good vibes about this.
You're you're looking at this more from like a spiritual
emotional perspective, which we don't often hear, but that's that's
what you were feeling.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Oh definitely.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Okay, all right, well, let's call Easy and see if
we can connect with her ourselves, and hopefully we can
straighten this out and set you guys up on another
day that we pay for Okay, thank you, so much.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Hello, Hi, is this easy?
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Is he high?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Good morning? My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I'm calling for the Fred Show of the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Can we chat for just a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Okay, I guess what's what's going on?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Well, thank you very much, so much, super into it.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Paul, who
I guess you you matched with on a dating app
and you you went out recently. Do you remember meeting
this this gentleman.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Yes, I mean I'm a pretty buckly person. But the
second we sat down, he started shushing me. I know him.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
It's like, wait, okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.
So you you obviously remember this guy. You go on
a date, you sit down, and he said he was
shushing you. What do you mean like you start talking
and he'd go no, no, wait, no more me or
like what do we what do you mean?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Yeah? He literally told me hold on, let's sit in
silence toward each other for a second, just to get
to know each other.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Super odd.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
I mean he just told me he wanted to feel
my aura for a second and put his finger up
to my mouth and it just kind.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Of just kind of shocks, like like he was like
like the shish included the fingers and like your lips
wouldn't move.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah, but he wanted to feel.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Came to break the silence. But through the rest of
the night he kept telling me to stop talking so
we could feel each other energetically.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
I mean, who doesn't want to feel the aura. I'm
always trying to get the aura. I gotta I gotta
feel your aura. I've been saying that forever.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Okay, so he wouldn't let you talk because he wanted
to get the vibes. And how long did this go on?
Speaker 4 (03:49):
I mean probably least another hour or so.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I mean I knew I wasn't going to see.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Him again, so I just pretend to get drunk in
the front out.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
So not a lot of words, just a whole lot
of vibes, right, all right, But let me I forgot
to mention that Paul is here. I guess he's vibing
right now. Paul, you didn't mention that you wouldn't let
her talk.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Yeah, you know this this is just helping me, see
you know, this is what's wrong with our.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Society, you know, with all of society violence all.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Okay, Yeah, we're all we're uncomfortable with silence and can't
sit in it. So I feel like, I feel like
if we all just gave it a chance, you know,
we all see what I was talking about. I'm willing
to be silent right now, if we all just kind
of sit here in silence.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
And yeah, let's let's try it for just a second.
Let's try it. Hold on. Oh, I'm feeling the vibes
right now. I feel the vibes. Yeah, kill your energy
in your aura.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
It's it's just radiating, it's emanating through the phone. Yeah.
But is it normal, Paul, would you say to go
on a date and then not speak? I mean, I
think that's not really that's that's sort of strange for
a lot of people.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
And I get that that people.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
You're right, I think a lot of people are uncomfortable
being a loner in silence. But like, you're on a
date to get to know someone communicatively. That and of
course the vibe is part of that. But most people
talk on a date. I understand, and talking is something
I'm okay with. But I just think to start to
kind of just understand each other in our purest sense.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
We just sit in silence and look at each other.
That's you know, we're going to get so much more
on that.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Is that what that nine inch Nail song is about?
Is that? Is it just about vibes? Is that song
about Paul? Is that what? I think? That? Is that?
What he is? Are you not familiar with that work
of art?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I'm not familiar.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
You're not familiar with him?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Okay, that's all right because he's you know, mostly silent.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I guess. So this is extremely strange.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I mean I can see why you would, you know,
you go on a date expecting to have some light
conversation and drink and whatever, and maybe you get to
the whole ViBe's part. But like I don't know, I
can see why.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Don't shush me. Okay, well that's that's another thing. Yeah,
don't be shushing Piers away from my lips. Don't shush me.
You can't silence me. Are you there?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Is he?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
I'm here?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Oh, did you have any thoughts on that? Or you
can talk to us? Yeah? Right, a lot of silence,
but like this is a safe place to speak. Actually,
I'm not shushing you at all. Yeah, my hands are
nowhere near your mouth. I'll take my hands away from
your mouth. I'm sorry, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
This is I mean, the whole situation was just really
really strange. It just felt really controlling, and I was
just like immediately no.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Yeah, that for just a moment, she slipped back into
the trauva of not being able to speak. No, it's okay,
you can talk to you all right. Look, i'll ask
the question. I know the answer. But would you like
to go out with Paul again? You can speak and
we'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
No, I'm okay, all.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Right, Paul, Paul, I'll give you the final word if
you have any words, or if you just like to,
you know, meditate.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
No.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I understand why you guys are afraid of silence, but
I think that if you're embraced it, it
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Would make Yeah, I mean, typically silence in our business
is not great.
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