November 21, 2025 • 7 mins
Paul is confused after his date Izzy won't call him back after a fun night out.... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
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(00:22):
Standard message of data rates may apply. All thanks to
Live Nation. Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fread Show. Hey, Paul, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Good morning to hear for me? So, what's going on
with Easy? Because we want to try and help you
out here. You feel like maybe you've been ghosted by Easy?
How did you meet? Tell us about any dates you've
been on and what's going on now?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah, So I met Izzy originally on a dating app,
but from the second I saw her, I just I
knew she had a good vibe. So we end up
meeting up for drinks and it was a good time.
I felt like personally, I felt like we were men
to meet, Like I said, like she kind of seemed
like a good match both spiritually and emotionally. So yeah,
(01:10):
I'm hoping to hoping to find her and see what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Look at this guy talking about spiritually and emotionally, Like,
you don't hear a lot about that on dating apps.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
So I feel like it's more like i'd hit it.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
That's kind of like, you know, that's where we start
and then we you know, hopefully evolved from there. But
you're talking about you felt a spiritual vibe from her.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yeah, I felt like we were connected and more than
just the physical.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That is fantastic.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Okay, well, then I can understand why you you would
like to hear from her again, but you have it.
So here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna call, We're
gonna play a song. Come back. We'll call easy. You'll
be on the phone. We're gonna ask some questions on
your behalf. At some point you're welcome to jump in
on the call. And you know, we're always trying to
make this work and set you guys up on another
date and pay for it. That's the hope. Okay, awesome,
thank you, Hey Paul, Hey, all right, let's call easy.
(01:55):
You guys met on a dating app and you like
the vibe. You know, you were feeling good vibes about this.
You're you're looking at this more from like a spiritual
emotional perspective, which we don't often hear, but that's that's
what you were feeling.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Oh definitely.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Okay, all right, well let's call Easy and see if
we can connect with her ourselves and hopefully we can
straighten this out and set you guys up on another
day that we pay for.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Okay, thank you so much. Hello, Hi is this Easy? Yes?
Is he hig?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the
Morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Can we chat for just a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Okay, I guess what's going on?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Well, thank you very much, super Atoway.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
We're calling on behalf of a gun named Paul, who
I guess you you matched with on a dating app
and you you went out recently.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Do you remember meeting this this gentleman?
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Yes, I mean I'm a pretty bupply person, but this
secondly sat down he's started shushing me me.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I know him, It's like, wait, okay, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
So you you obviously remember this guy. You go on
a date, You sit down, and he said he was
shushing you. What do you mean, Like you start talking
and he'd go to no, wait, no more me, or
like what do we what do you mean?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Yeah, he literally told me hold on, let's sit in
silence with each other for a second just to get
to know each other.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Was super odd.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
I mean he just told me he wanted to feel
my aura for a second and put his finger up
to my mouth and it just kind of just kind
of shocks.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Because like like he was like like the shish included
the fingers and like your lips wouldn't move.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yes, but he wanted to see.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Came to break the silence.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
But through the rest of the night he kept telling
me to stop talking so we could feel each other energetically.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
I mean, who doesn't want to feel the aura. I'm
always to get the aura. I gotta I gotta feel
your aura. I've been saying that forever. Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Okay, so he wouldn't let you talk because he wanted
to get the vibes. And how long did this go on?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
I mean probably least another hour or so. I mean
I knew I wasn't going to see him again, so
I just pretend to get drunk and like front out.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
So not a lot of words, just a whole lot
of vibes, right, all right, but let me I forgot
to mention that Paul is here. I guess he's vibing
right now. Paul, you didn't mention that you wouldn't let
her talk?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah, you know this, this is just helping me. See.
You know, this is what's wrong with our society, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
With all of society.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Slence.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Okay, yeah, we're all we're uncomfortable with silence and can't
sit in it. So I feel like I feel like
if we all just gave it a chance, you know,
we all see what I was talking about. I'm willing
to be silent right now. If we all just kind
of sit here in silence, then yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Let's let's try it for just a second. Let's try it.
Hold on. Oh, I'm feeling the vibes right now. I
feel the vibes. Yeah, kill your energy in your aura,
it's it's.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Just radiating, it's emanating through the phone. Yeah, but is
it normal, Paul, would you say to go on a
date and then not speak. I mean, I think that's
not really that's that's sort of strange for a lot
of people.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
And I get that that people.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
You're right, I think a lot of people are uncomfortable
being a loner in silence, but like you're on a
date to get to know someone communicatively. That and of
course the vibe is part of that. But most people
talk on a date.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
I understand, and talking is something I'm okay with, But
I just think to start to kind of just understand
each other in our purest sense. If we just sit
in silence and look at each other, that's, you know,
we're going to get so much more of that.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Is that what that nine inch Nail song is about?
Is that? Is it just about vibes? Is that song
about Paul? Is that what? I think? That?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Is that? What he is?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Are you not familiar with that work of art?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I'm not familiar.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You're not familiar with it?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Okay, that's all right.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Well, because he's, you know, mostly silent, I guess so
this is extremely strange. I mean, I can see why
you would, you know, you go on a date expecting
to have some light conversation and drink and whatever, and
maybe you get to the whole ViBe's part.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
But like, I don't know, I can see why, dude,
shush me. Okay, well that's another thing. Yeah, don't be
shushing peaker away from my lips. Don't shush me. You
can't silence me. Are you there?
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Is he?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Oh, did you have any thoughts on that? Or you
can talk to us? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Right, a lot of silence, but like this is a
safe place to speak. Actually, I'm not shushing you at all. Yeah,
my hands are nowhere near your mouth. I'll take my
hands away from your mouth. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
I don't know. This is the whole situation was just
really really strange.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
It just felt really controlling and I was just like immediately, no.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yeah, for just a moment, you slipped back into the
trauma of not being able to speak. No, it's okay,
you can talk to us. It's like, all right, look,
I'll ask the question. I know the answer. But would
you like to go out with Paul again? You can
speak and we'll pay for it. No, I'm okay, all right, Paul,
I'll give you the final word if you have any words,
or if you just like to, you know, meditate.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I understand why you guys are afraid of silence, but
I think that if you aren't race they would It
would make your last Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
I mean typically silence in our business is not great.
But okay, I got it. Guys is he Paul, Best
of luck to both of you.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Thank you for your time.
This is the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Jane is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seven night President Heath Doby Live at Park MGM, and
we've got a trip for two to the January twenty
fifth show to night Hotel State at Park MGM January
twenty fourth through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare.
Text dusk to three seven three three seven now for
a chance to win. A confirmation text will be said.
(00:22):
Standard message of data rates may apply. All thanks to
Live Nation. Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fread Show. Hey, Paul, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Good morning to hear for me? So, what's going on
with Easy? Because we want to try and help you
out here. You feel like maybe you've been ghosted by Easy?
How did you meet? Tell us about any dates you've
been on and what's going on now?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah, So I met Izzy originally on a dating app,
but from the second I saw her, I just I
knew she had a good vibe. So we end up
meeting up for drinks and it was a good time.
I felt like personally, I felt like we were men
to meet, Like I said, like she kind of seemed
like a good match both spiritually and emotionally. So yeah,
(01:10):
I'm hoping to hoping to find her and see what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Look at this guy talking about spiritually and emotionally, Like,
you don't hear a lot about that on dating apps.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
So I feel like it's more like i'd hit it.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
That's kind of like, you know, that's where we start
and then we you know, hopefully evolved from there. But
you're talking about you felt a spiritual vibe from her.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yeah, I felt like we were connected and more than
just the physical.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That is fantastic.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Okay, well, then I can understand why you you would
like to hear from her again, but you have it.
So here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna call, We're
gonna play a song. Come back. We'll call easy. You'll
be on the phone. We're gonna ask some questions on
your behalf. At some point you're welcome to jump in
on the call. And you know, we're always trying to
make this work and set you guys up on another
date and pay for it. That's the hope. Okay, awesome,
thank you, Hey Paul, Hey, all right, let's call easy.
(01:55):
You guys met on a dating app and you like
the vibe. You know, you were feeling good vibes about this.
You're you're looking at this more from like a spiritual
emotional perspective, which we don't often hear, but that's that's
what you were feeling.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Oh definitely.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Okay, all right, well let's call Easy and see if
we can connect with her ourselves and hopefully we can
straighten this out and set you guys up on another
day that we pay for.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Okay, thank you so much. Hello, Hi is this Easy? Yes?
Is he hig?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the
Morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Can we chat for just a second, would you mind?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Okay, I guess what's going on?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Well, thank you very much, super Atoway.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
We're calling on behalf of a gun named Paul, who
I guess you you matched with on a dating app
and you you went out recently.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Do you remember meeting this this gentleman?
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Yes, I mean I'm a pretty bupply person, but this
secondly sat down he's started shushing me me.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I know him, It's like, wait, okay, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
So you you obviously remember this guy. You go on
a date, You sit down, and he said he was
shushing you. What do you mean, Like you start talking
and he'd go to no, wait, no more me, or
like what do we what do you mean?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Yeah, he literally told me hold on, let's sit in
silence with each other for a second just to get
to know each other.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Was super odd.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
I mean he just told me he wanted to feel
my aura for a second and put his finger up
to my mouth and it just kind of just kind
of shocks.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Because like like he was like like the shish included
the fingers and like your lips wouldn't move.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yes, but he wanted to see.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Came to break the silence.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
But through the rest of the night he kept telling
me to stop talking so we could feel each other energetically.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
I mean, who doesn't want to feel the aura. I'm
always to get the aura. I gotta I gotta feel
your aura. I've been saying that forever. Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Okay, so he wouldn't let you talk because he wanted
to get the vibes. And how long did this go on?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
I mean probably least another hour or so. I mean
I knew I wasn't going to see him again, so
I just pretend to get drunk and like front out.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
So not a lot of words, just a whole lot
of vibes, right, all right, but let me I forgot
to mention that Paul is here. I guess he's vibing
right now. Paul, you didn't mention that you wouldn't let
her talk?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah, you know this, this is just helping me. See.
You know, this is what's wrong with our society, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
With all of society.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Slence.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Okay, yeah, we're all we're uncomfortable with silence and can't
sit in it. So I feel like I feel like
if we all just gave it a chance, you know,
we all see what I was talking about. I'm willing
to be silent right now. If we all just kind
of sit here in silence, then yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Let's let's try it for just a second. Let's try it.
Hold on. Oh, I'm feeling the vibes right now. I
feel the vibes. Yeah, kill your energy in your aura,
it's it's.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Just radiating, it's emanating through the phone. Yeah, but is
it normal, Paul, would you say to go on a
date and then not speak. I mean, I think that's
not really that's that's sort of strange for a lot
of people.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
And I get that that people.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
You're right, I think a lot of people are uncomfortable
being a loner in silence, but like you're on a
date to get to know someone communicatively. That and of
course the vibe is part of that. But most people
talk on a date.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
I understand, and talking is something I'm okay with, But
I just think to start to kind of just understand
each other in our purest sense. If we just sit
in silence and look at each other, that's, you know,
we're going to get so much more of that.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Is that what that nine inch Nail song is about?
Is that? Is it just about vibes? Is that song
about Paul? Is that what? I think? That?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Is that? What he is?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Are you not familiar with that work of art?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I'm not familiar.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You're not familiar with it?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Okay, that's all right.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Well, because he's, you know, mostly silent, I guess so
this is extremely strange. I mean, I can see why
you would, you know, you go on a date expecting
to have some light conversation and drink and whatever, and
maybe you get to the whole ViBe's part.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
But like, I don't know, I can see why, dude,
shush me. Okay, well that's another thing. Yeah, don't be
shushing peaker away from my lips. Don't shush me. You
can't silence me. Are you there?
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Is he?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Oh, did you have any thoughts on that? Or you
can talk to us? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Right, a lot of silence, but like this is a
safe place to speak. Actually, I'm not shushing you at all. Yeah,
my hands are nowhere near your mouth. I'll take my
hands away from your mouth. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
I don't know. This is the whole situation was just
really really strange.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
It just felt really controlling and I was just like immediately, no.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yeah, for just a moment, you slipped back into the
trauma of not being able to speak. No, it's okay,
you can talk to us. It's like, all right, look,
I'll ask the question. I know the answer. But would
you like to go out with Paul again? You can
speak and we'll pay for it. No, I'm okay, all right, Paul,
I'll give you the final word if you have any words,
or if you just like to, you know, meditate.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I understand why you guys are afraid of silence, but
I think that if you aren't race they would It
would make your last Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
I mean typically silence in our business is not great.
But okay, I got it. Guys is he Paul, Best
of luck to both of you.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Thank you for your time.
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