July 9, 2025 • 8 mins
Kaelynn is confused why her date isn't calling her back after having a great time out... Find out why she got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:41):
Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show.
Hey Caitlen, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Good morning? I'm okay, how are.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You doin great? Trying to help you out though with
this guy Derek. So this is someone you met in
a bar a few weeks ago and then what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Wow? So we hung out like the whole night when
we met in the bar, we even ended up back
at his place. And I don't know, like I really
don't know what happened. Like I thought we would have
been like dating by now, planning our wedding and our
future kids, Like oh.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Wow, So it was like that, like you you went
on this date and you could envision the future.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Yeah, it was a great night. We spent the whole
entire night together.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
But you didn't tell him that, did you on the date?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Like I envisioned my entire future with you, Like you
didn't talk about the kids. You're going to have stuff
on the first date? Okay, all right, So you went
on this great date and you liked him obviously, and
you were hoping to see him again and see where
things went. But you haven't heard from him since the date,
and I have you reached out to him? Have you
texted or called him at all?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I tried to, but like he's not responding, and I
just feel like it's really odd, like I don't know
what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Well, as Tolina would say on Waiting, might the thought,
it's the tail so old as time, because you know,
you go out with somebody dating is tough.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Everyone who's dating right now knows that.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
And then you finally connect with somebody and you're thinking,
this is great, finally we finally, you know, all my
hard work is paid off and all the bad dates
I've been on, and then and then you go out
with someone you like and they don't call you back.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
So let's let's call this guy Direic. Hey, Kaylin.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
And by the way, she spells a k A y
l y n n, which is one of the many
spellings of Caylin that I've seen over the past what
seven eight years?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Kaylen?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Yes, in addition to Caitlin and Courtney and Steve and
Bob and everything else, they call you.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Yeah, they called me Bob. I was going to ask,
so thank you for asking.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
How she supposed to Yeah, yeah, she's Caitlin. Is a
k A E l I n for real?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
But then k A y l y n Anyway, I
just wanted to specify because you don't see that name
every day. But let's call this guy Derek. You met
at a bar, you went out, you had a great time.
You were hoping to see him again, except he's ghosted you,
it appears, and you want to know why, right.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Kayln, Yes, I need to know why. All right, let's
call him now? Good luck?
Speaker 5 (02:56):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Hi is this Derek, Hey Derey, good morning. My name
is Fred.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,
and I do have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now and I would need your
permission to continue with the call. Can which yet for
just a second on the show? Would you mind?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
It was just like a gotcha thing or something.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Don't I wouldn't say that necessarily, doesn't have to be
I got you a thing, But I'm gonna take that
as a yes. So we're calling on behalf of someone
named Kaylin, who I guess you met recently.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
He went on a date. Do you remember her?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
And by the way, you can hang up anytime. If
you're uncomfortable, you can hang up any time. But so
she called us and told us about you. I had
a lot of nice things to say about you and
the date. It was really optimistic about the future. Except
for whatever reason, she says, you're not calling her back,
So what's up with that?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Yeah, she's just gross. I'm sorry. It was just a
really bad night and I don't know what she said,
but she let's just say, she got really drunk, really sloppy,
and she threw up all over me in my house,
and like I, I was just it was a mess,
and honestly I had to pay for it. She didn't
(04:07):
even a she didn't even offer to pay for it.
She was too drunk for that. I sent her home
on a cab. I was just like, yeah, yeah, I'll
talk to you later, but I wasn't planning to ever.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
Hear, talk or see her again.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
So she needs to learn how to use a toilet
and be properly toilet trained.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Oh tole not on the floor. That's funny. Oh oh
kayln Kaylen, Derek, there's the gotchi part. Sorry about that.
I just get into these stories I forget. I have
two things.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
First of all, Derek, about twenty minutes ago, you said,
let's just say and then you told the whole story.
Not only people wouldn't let's just let's just say they abbreviate.
But I'm glad you told us everything. And the second
thing is I've been there. I've had someone throw up
in my home and then so so now I'm hungover
going to the store to buy the carpet cleaner, and
now my homeover at is trying to clean the nasty puke,
(05:01):
and then I don't feel good and it's really grows
and it's really disgusting to have to clean up somebody
else's we'll call it excrement or you know, like whatever
it comes out of their body. It's gross if you
know the person in love them. It's especially gross if
you don't.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Yeah, I was turned off like from that right there.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
I was just like, I'll never I never want to.
I'm not going to kiss you. She tried to kiss me,
and I'm just.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Like that, Yeah, that's that's the whole thing. It's very hard.
It's very hard to klin what happened. I mean, I
obviously you got too drunk, but like why didn't how
were you not able to make it to the bathroom?
Why are we trying to kiss him afterwards? Like what
are we doing here?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
You know, like it happened, It wasn't on purpose, Like
nobody wants to get sick, and like I helped clean
it up.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
You did not you you thought you did, but you're
too drunk to remember. I sent you home.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
You tried to clean it up by taking out a
tissue in your person, let me clean this up.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
See this is what you needed to do.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
What she needed to do is uh attempt to clean
it up as best you can all by yourself. And
that well, what you needed to do is get to
the bathroom. But that's okay, so you didn't. So then
you got to clean it up. And that what you
gotta do is the next day you got to send
somebody over there to clean it, you know what I mean,
Like you gotta if you really like this guy and
that happens, and you know, unfortunate things happen.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
You got to go over the top to make this better.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
And it sounds like you just kind of did it
and then and then last and then wonder why he
and then tried to kiss him and then wondered why
he didn't call you, Like you got.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
To fix it.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
I remember the tissue. I remember being on my hands
and knees like I was cleaning it up.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I think something. You think I had somebody throw up
in my bed once.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
That was a gross Its fairness to that woman, she
cleaned everything like she she said, get out of the bed,
and then she like took all the sheets and she'd
like found my dryer and wash and dryer, and she
cleaned it and then she offered to have somebody come over,
and then she stepped a bunch of cleaning supplies and
a cookie basket.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Did you ever see her again?
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Well, yeah, but not in that capacity, so yeah no.
But anyway, I mean what I'm saying is I felt
bad for her the way that I would feel bad
for Kaylen and obviously for Derek. But like she went
over the top to make it right, like in a
very cute way because she felt bad. And that's the
part that I think you needed to do here, Kaylen,
if you really like this.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Guy, I just feel like I tried my best for
what I had at the moment.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
Like next day, no drinks.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Okay, there you go, So how about that? How about
that next date? No drinks? Would you give her another
chance because it sounded like everything was going well? I
mean she did wind it back at your place in fairness, no,
of course not.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I'm sorry, Galen, but there's a no go.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
You know there's a no go.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Okay, I tried.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I don't think you didn't. I don't think you tried
hard enough for a guy that you really really wanted
to see again. But anyway, and now he's left with
this bad taste in his mouth, pun intended, and he's
not going to forget it.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
So
This is the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Let's get to hotel a trip for tuna. See Jennifer
Lopez her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez Up
All Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty twenty six,
at the Coliseum.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
At Caesar's Palace.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Text jal to three seven three three seven right now
for a chance to win two tickets to the March
thirteenth show at two nut Hotels day March twelve through
the fourteenth, at the Flamingo Hotel and Casino, Las Vegas,
and at the Brown Treverair Fair. A confirmation text will
be sent. Standard message and data rates may apply. All
Thanks to Live Nation. Tickets are on sale now at
ticketmaster dot com for all shows running December thirtieth through
(00:38):
January third, and March sixth through the twenty eighth.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show.
Hey Caitlen, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Good morning? I'm okay, how are.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You doin great? Trying to help you out though with
this guy Derek. So this is someone you met in
a bar a few weeks ago and then what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Wow? So we hung out like the whole night when
we met in the bar, we even ended up back
at his place. And I don't know, like I really
don't know what happened. Like I thought we would have
been like dating by now, planning our wedding and our
future kids, Like oh.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Wow, So it was like that, like you you went
on this date and you could envision the future.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Yeah, it was a great night. We spent the whole
entire night together.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
But you didn't tell him that, did you on the date?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Like I envisioned my entire future with you, Like you
didn't talk about the kids. You're going to have stuff
on the first date? Okay, all right, So you went
on this great date and you liked him obviously, and
you were hoping to see him again and see where
things went. But you haven't heard from him since the date,
and I have you reached out to him? Have you
texted or called him at all?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I tried to, but like he's not responding, and I
just feel like it's really odd, like I don't know
what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Well, as Tolina would say on Waiting, might the thought,
it's the tail so old as time, because you know,
you go out with somebody dating is tough.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Everyone who's dating right now knows that.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
And then you finally connect with somebody and you're thinking,
this is great, finally we finally, you know, all my
hard work is paid off and all the bad dates
I've been on, and then and then you go out
with someone you like and they don't call you back.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
So let's let's call this guy Direic. Hey, Kaylin.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
And by the way, she spells a k A y
l y n n, which is one of the many
spellings of Caylin that I've seen over the past what
seven eight years?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Kaylen?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Yes, in addition to Caitlin and Courtney and Steve and
Bob and everything else, they call you.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Yeah, they called me Bob. I was going to ask,
so thank you for asking.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
How she supposed to Yeah, yeah, she's Caitlin. Is a
k A E l I n for real?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
But then k A y l y n Anyway, I
just wanted to specify because you don't see that name
every day. But let's call this guy Derek. You met
at a bar, you went out, you had a great time.
You were hoping to see him again, except he's ghosted you,
it appears, and you want to know why, right.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Kayln, Yes, I need to know why. All right, let's
call him now? Good luck?
Speaker 5 (02:56):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Hi is this Derek, Hey Derey, good morning. My name
is Fred.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,
and I do have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now and I would need your
permission to continue with the call. Can which yet for
just a second on the show? Would you mind?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
It was just like a gotcha thing or something.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Don't I wouldn't say that necessarily, doesn't have to be
I got you a thing, But I'm gonna take that
as a yes. So we're calling on behalf of someone
named Kaylin, who I guess you met recently.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
He went on a date. Do you remember her?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
And by the way, you can hang up anytime. If
you're uncomfortable, you can hang up any time. But so
she called us and told us about you. I had
a lot of nice things to say about you and
the date. It was really optimistic about the future. Except
for whatever reason, she says, you're not calling her back,
So what's up with that?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Yeah, she's just gross. I'm sorry. It was just a
really bad night and I don't know what she said,
but she let's just say, she got really drunk, really sloppy,
and she threw up all over me in my house,
and like I, I was just it was a mess,
and honestly I had to pay for it. She didn't
(04:07):
even a she didn't even offer to pay for it.
She was too drunk for that. I sent her home
on a cab. I was just like, yeah, yeah, I'll
talk to you later, but I wasn't planning to ever.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
Hear, talk or see her again.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
So she needs to learn how to use a toilet
and be properly toilet trained.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Oh tole not on the floor. That's funny. Oh oh
kayln Kaylen, Derek, there's the gotchi part. Sorry about that.
I just get into these stories I forget. I have
two things.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
First of all, Derek, about twenty minutes ago, you said,
let's just say and then you told the whole story.
Not only people wouldn't let's just let's just say they abbreviate.
But I'm glad you told us everything. And the second
thing is I've been there. I've had someone throw up
in my home and then so so now I'm hungover
going to the store to buy the carpet cleaner, and
now my homeover at is trying to clean the nasty puke,
(05:01):
and then I don't feel good and it's really grows
and it's really disgusting to have to clean up somebody
else's we'll call it excrement or you know, like whatever
it comes out of their body. It's gross if you
know the person in love them. It's especially gross if
you don't.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Yeah, I was turned off like from that right there.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
I was just like, I'll never I never want to.
I'm not going to kiss you. She tried to kiss me,
and I'm just.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Like that, Yeah, that's that's the whole thing. It's very hard.
It's very hard to klin what happened. I mean, I
obviously you got too drunk, but like why didn't how
were you not able to make it to the bathroom?
Why are we trying to kiss him afterwards? Like what
are we doing here?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
You know, like it happened, It wasn't on purpose, Like
nobody wants to get sick, and like I helped clean
it up.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
You did not you you thought you did, but you're
too drunk to remember. I sent you home.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
You tried to clean it up by taking out a
tissue in your person, let me clean this up.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
See this is what you needed to do.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
What she needed to do is uh attempt to clean
it up as best you can all by yourself. And
that well, what you needed to do is get to
the bathroom. But that's okay, so you didn't. So then
you got to clean it up. And that what you
gotta do is the next day you got to send
somebody over there to clean it, you know what I mean,
Like you gotta if you really like this guy and
that happens, and you know, unfortunate things happen.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
You got to go over the top to make this better.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
And it sounds like you just kind of did it
and then and then last and then wonder why he
and then tried to kiss him and then wondered why
he didn't call you, Like you got.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
To fix it.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
I remember the tissue. I remember being on my hands
and knees like I was cleaning it up.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I think something. You think I had somebody throw up
in my bed once.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
That was a gross Its fairness to that woman, she
cleaned everything like she she said, get out of the bed,
and then she like took all the sheets and she'd
like found my dryer and wash and dryer, and she
cleaned it and then she offered to have somebody come over,
and then she stepped a bunch of cleaning supplies and
a cookie basket.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Did you ever see her again?
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Well, yeah, but not in that capacity, so yeah no.
But anyway, I mean what I'm saying is I felt
bad for her the way that I would feel bad
for Kaylen and obviously for Derek. But like she went
over the top to make it right, like in a
very cute way because she felt bad. And that's the
part that I think you needed to do here, Kaylen,
if you really like this.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Guy, I just feel like I tried my best for
what I had at the moment.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
Like next day, no drinks.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Okay, there you go, So how about that? How about
that next date? No drinks? Would you give her another
chance because it sounded like everything was going well? I
mean she did wind it back at your place in fairness, no,
of course not.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I'm sorry, Galen, but there's a no go.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
You know there's a no go.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Okay, I tried.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I don't think you didn't. I don't think you tried
hard enough for a guy that you really really wanted
to see again. But anyway, and now he's left with
this bad taste in his mouth, pun intended, and he's
not going to forget it.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
So
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