May 13, 2025 • 6 mins
Tim is confused why his date won't call him back after hitting it off his first two dates... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Tim.
How you doing, I'm doing well about you? We are great.
It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn about this date.
I'm going through your email here. You went out with Roxy,
you met on Tinder, and then what happened.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
We talked for a bit, we actually went out twice.
And I don't, you know, mean to get too much
into things, but after the second date we hooked up,
which I put it a pretty good sign. I thought
she was into it. But you know, she started ghosting
me after that, and I'm here to find out why.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Okay, Yeah, I see what ye don't. I don't hear
you bragging about hooking up on the second date. I
think sometimes on a second date that's a good sign, right,
I mean, especially if you get a second date then
you hook up. It's like this is going in the
right direction, except she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah,
all right, we'll call her, we'll see if we can
figure out what's going on and uh and put this
(00:55):
to rest and hopefully we can straighten out whatever the
issue is. Maybe nothing's going on, maybe she's just been busy,
or who knows, and if that's the case, we'll set
you up on another date and we'll pay for that.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Okay, I really appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Can you hang on for a second.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I'll be here.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Let's get to the bottom of this, Part two of
Waiting by the Phone After the Weekend back in two minutes,
don't move. Fred shoke the weekend. He's on The Fred Show.
Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Tim, You doing okay,
doing good?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well, anxious to figure out what's going on here?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna
call Roxy. We're gonna see what's going on. You guys
went in a couple of dates. You thought they were successful.
Now she's ghosting you and you want to know why.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
You got it?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Okay, good luck?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Is this Roxy? Yeah? Roxy, it's Fred from the Fred Show.
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now and I need your permission to continue
with the call. Is it okay if we keep talking?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yeah, yes, that's okay.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
I know it's kind of awkward, but thank you, Yeah,
I no, I know, thank you so much. We're calling
on half of this dude named Tim, who I guess
you met you on Tinder and you went on two dates.
Do you recall this guy? Yeah, yeah, sound excited. We
know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what would
happened with this guy? Because he described a couple of
really good dates, he liked you a lot, was hoping
(02:17):
to take you on a third date, says that you're ghosting.
Can we sort of get to the bottom of why.
It's like, I.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Feel called out, but.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, tim is
I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we
actually got along really well. He was a really nice guy.
If we had gone on a couple of dates and
we had kind of pulled around and stuff, and after
one of the hook ups, he this is like weird
to even talk about with public. I told my closest friends,
(02:48):
but he asked to keep my underwear. Did you call
them panties?
Speaker 1 (02:53):
You got a lot of problems. One, I hate that word.
Second yeah same, SAME's so he what like he wanted
them as some kind of a souvenir.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I don't know what he's gonna do with him. I was,
but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah, And
so I mean that is just kind of how I
felt about the whole situation.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
You were kind of spooked. You're like, I'm not doing
this too.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't
consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I
didn't know what the hell he was gonna do with it. Yeah,
so I was just like, no, I'm going to go
ahead and see the clothing that.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, let me expensive ponties, nice ones. I mean, you
know what was going to go down. But would you
leave somebody with the guy asked you, Yeah, he would
little things to make people happy. You know, well, what
if they were expensive ones?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Why not? Yeah? What is an expensive What is an
expensive pair of underwear? I don't know. I don't buy
like expensive.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Yeah, Like the expensive ones I have are.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Like in a set, you know, like pinky or something
would be like thirty bucks for underwear or Tim is here.
I always leave that part out. So I've been listening
to all this, Tim, what what do you? I mean, Look,
you're entitled to your own freaky but.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
So do you have a box full of them somewhere?
Like that's disgusting? Oh yeah, if I'm not special though
it's nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Like what if I hook up with somebody and like
they give me their pinions, let them keep it. But
if I'm seeing somebody else, I throw the old ones away.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Creepy. If I had a collection, that would be that
would be creepy. Yeah, no question. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
And also I don't see what the big deal is.
You know, a lot of people are into this sort
of thing, which she told me no, and I was
totally cool with it. I didn't freak out or anything
like that. And also, aren't you supposed to not kink?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Shame?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
But I feel like I'm being very judged right now,
and that's not very cool.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Not very the whole lot of a second. I mean,
I don't know that we're judging you so much. She's
allowed to judge you because she doesn't have to do
what you asked you.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
I'm not into it.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Oh yeah, and that like said no, and I respected
you saying no. I didn't push the matter. I just said, hey,
by the way, I'm into this one. Do you mind
if I kept it? You said no. I said, that's.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Cool, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
At the end of it, you could have just said
afterwards Hey, that really freaking out. I didn't want to
see you again.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I didn't really, so you can't let it go.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I did want to chat about it, and you didn't
want to chat that, so this was my only recourse.
But I thought we had something. I wanted to know
what was going on. I thought maybe you were.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
You guys, You guys, we talk about this all the time, right,
I mean, you guys have only been out twice. There's
no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,
she doesn't. She likes you, but she doesn't really really
really like you to the point where you can bust
out something that's that that she thinks she's abnormal or
uncomfortable with, and that she's just going to get over it.
Like I understand what you're saying, which is I asked
(05:57):
you for something, she said no, and you were cool
about it, and you can communicate, but like you're not.
I don't think you're there yet. You're still getting to
know each other. She can't get that out of her mind.
She doesn't know anything else about you. She's just wanting
a bunch of other stuff. If I'm dating somebody for
six months and they asked me to do something weird
that's different than two times.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
And I bounced and that was that.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
With my luck, I would ask for that and get kinky.
I'd forget I had them, and then I would meet
the woman of my dreams and she'd come over and
be like, what are these? And then I'm in trouble.
I got this is kind of weird. Rock. See any
chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
It's just not my thing. I think we both be
better off. We found people that that are mold a
little bit better.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
There you go, Well, if you will, Tim, Good luck
to you, Tim. Okay, sorry, thanks. Yeah. Caitlin has the
Entertainment Report, next Headlines and the biggest stories of the
day and the Fun Fact all coming up. Fred Show
back into
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Tim.
How you doing, I'm doing well about you? We are great.
It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn about this date.
I'm going through your email here. You went out with Roxy,
you met on Tinder, and then what happened.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
We talked for a bit, we actually went out twice.
And I don't, you know, mean to get too much
into things, but after the second date we hooked up,
which I put it a pretty good sign. I thought
she was into it. But you know, she started ghosting
me after that, and I'm here to find out why.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Okay, Yeah, I see what ye don't. I don't hear
you bragging about hooking up on the second date. I
think sometimes on a second date that's a good sign, right,
I mean, especially if you get a second date then
you hook up. It's like this is going in the
right direction, except she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah,
all right, we'll call her, we'll see if we can
figure out what's going on and uh and put this
(00:55):
to rest and hopefully we can straighten out whatever the
issue is. Maybe nothing's going on, maybe she's just been busy,
or who knows, and if that's the case, we'll set
you up on another date and we'll pay for that.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Okay, I really appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Can you hang on for a second.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I'll be here.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Let's get to the bottom of this, Part two of
Waiting by the Phone After the Weekend back in two minutes,
don't move. Fred shoke the weekend. He's on The Fred Show.
Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Tim, You doing okay,
doing good?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well, anxious to figure out what's going on here?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna
call Roxy. We're gonna see what's going on. You guys
went in a couple of dates. You thought they were successful.
Now she's ghosting you and you want to know why.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
You got it?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Okay, good luck?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Is this Roxy? Yeah? Roxy, it's Fred from the Fred Show.
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now and I need your permission to continue
with the call. Is it okay if we keep talking?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yeah, yes, that's okay.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
I know it's kind of awkward, but thank you, Yeah,
I no, I know, thank you so much. We're calling
on half of this dude named Tim, who I guess
you met you on Tinder and you went on two dates.
Do you recall this guy? Yeah, yeah, sound excited. We
know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what would
happened with this guy? Because he described a couple of
really good dates, he liked you a lot, was hoping
(02:17):
to take you on a third date, says that you're ghosting.
Can we sort of get to the bottom of why.
It's like, I.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Feel called out, but.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, tim is
I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we
actually got along really well. He was a really nice guy.
If we had gone on a couple of dates and
we had kind of pulled around and stuff, and after
one of the hook ups, he this is like weird
to even talk about with public. I told my closest friends,
(02:48):
but he asked to keep my underwear. Did you call
them panties?
Speaker 1 (02:53):
You got a lot of problems. One, I hate that word.
Second yeah same, SAME's so he what like he wanted
them as some kind of a souvenir.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I don't know what he's gonna do with him. I was,
but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah, And
so I mean that is just kind of how I
felt about the whole situation.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
You were kind of spooked. You're like, I'm not doing
this too.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't
consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I
didn't know what the hell he was gonna do with it. Yeah,
so I was just like, no, I'm going to go
ahead and see the clothing that.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, let me expensive ponties, nice ones. I mean, you
know what was going to go down. But would you
leave somebody with the guy asked you, Yeah, he would
little things to make people happy. You know, well, what
if they were expensive ones?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Why not? Yeah? What is an expensive What is an
expensive pair of underwear? I don't know. I don't buy
like expensive.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Yeah, Like the expensive ones I have are.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Like in a set, you know, like pinky or something
would be like thirty bucks for underwear or Tim is here.
I always leave that part out. So I've been listening
to all this, Tim, what what do you? I mean, Look,
you're entitled to your own freaky but.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
So do you have a box full of them somewhere?
Like that's disgusting? Oh yeah, if I'm not special though
it's nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Like what if I hook up with somebody and like
they give me their pinions, let them keep it. But
if I'm seeing somebody else, I throw the old ones away.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Creepy. If I had a collection, that would be that
would be creepy. Yeah, no question. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
And also I don't see what the big deal is.
You know, a lot of people are into this sort
of thing, which she told me no, and I was
totally cool with it. I didn't freak out or anything
like that. And also, aren't you supposed to not kink?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Shame?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
But I feel like I'm being very judged right now,
and that's not very cool.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Not very the whole lot of a second. I mean,
I don't know that we're judging you so much. She's
allowed to judge you because she doesn't have to do
what you asked you.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
I'm not into it.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Oh yeah, and that like said no, and I respected
you saying no. I didn't push the matter. I just said, hey,
by the way, I'm into this one. Do you mind
if I kept it? You said no. I said, that's.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Cool, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
At the end of it, you could have just said
afterwards Hey, that really freaking out. I didn't want to
see you again.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I didn't really, so you can't let it go.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I did want to chat about it, and you didn't
want to chat that, so this was my only recourse.
But I thought we had something. I wanted to know
what was going on. I thought maybe you were.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
You guys, You guys, we talk about this all the time, right,
I mean, you guys have only been out twice. There's
no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,
she doesn't. She likes you, but she doesn't really really
really like you to the point where you can bust
out something that's that that she thinks she's abnormal or
uncomfortable with, and that she's just going to get over it.
Like I understand what you're saying, which is I asked
(05:57):
you for something, she said no, and you were cool
about it, and you can communicate, but like you're not.
I don't think you're there yet. You're still getting to
know each other. She can't get that out of her mind.
She doesn't know anything else about you. She's just wanting
a bunch of other stuff. If I'm dating somebody for
six months and they asked me to do something weird
that's different than two times.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
And I bounced and that was that.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
With my luck, I would ask for that and get kinky.
I'd forget I had them, and then I would meet
the woman of my dreams and she'd come over and
be like, what are these? And then I'm in trouble.
I got this is kind of weird. Rock. See any
chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
It's just not my thing. I think we both be
better off. We found people that that are mold a
little bit better.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
There you go, Well, if you will, Tim, Good luck
to you, Tim. Okay, sorry, thanks. Yeah. Caitlin has the
Entertainment Report, next Headlines and the biggest stories of the
day and the Fun Fact all coming up. Fred Show
back into
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