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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.
Hey Marcus, good morning, good morning. How are you welcome? Hey, great,
welcome to the program. Happy to have you here. Let's
hear about the dates that you went out with Brenda.
I'd like to hear kind of how you met, about
any dates that you've been on, and where we're at
right now.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yeah, so Brenda and I we met online on an app,
and you know, we just kind of mentioned really well
on the app, and I decided to take her out.
I wanted to for us to meet up and take
her out. And after that, I just I didn't hear
from her. I didn't hear from her. And I thought
we had a good time. You know, I had a
(00:42):
great time. I can speak for myself, and it appeared
that she was having a good time. But I just
haven't heard from her in a little bit. So I'm
just curious as to why.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, that might have happened. Yeah, so you you thought
it was a great date. You know, they all do.
But you thought it was a great date and good
chemistry and you were feeling it. Except you can't get
a hold of her for another date. And so you
want to know why of course.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Yeah, of course. I thought that the first one was
I enjoyed myself. I enjoyed a good time, and it
appeared that she was having a good time, you know.
And I thought that the chemistry was really strong and
and we just seemed to really mesh off that first
that first date.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Well, yeah, okay, let's call her now, Marcus, good luck. Hello,
Hi is this Brenda?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yes, yes, it is hi Brenda.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Good morning. My name is Fred. Thanks for answering. By
the way, I'm calling from the Fred Show and we
are on the radio right now, so I need your
permission to continue with the calls. That okay, if we
chat for a couple of minutes on the show.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Okay, that's that's okay.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Well, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf of
a guy named Marcus says, you mention you on a
dating app and you guys recently went on a date
to you remember this guy?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Is I remember this guy?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I remember? Okay, Well, what's going on with him? Because
he told us that he thought the date went really
well and that he's reached out for another date and
you're not responding, So it sounds like there's a good
reason why.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah, and he said, no, exactly why he took me to.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
He took me to like his niece.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
That was the first date, you know, like the little kid. Yeah, wait,
a little kid singing and play the piano.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Did he tell you ahead of the time? Did he
say that's where you were going? Did he pick you
up and take you another odd part?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
He said it was on to a concert?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
No, that's a concert.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Oh no, I wanted to do. I didn't even know
any of the kids. You know, you go to something
like that, you know the kids, and you suffer through sitting, yes,
sitting through those kids music, and you know, I mean,
you know not to you know, rag on the kids
too much. It's not it's not their fault that he
took me to the recital. That's just not something that
(03:17):
I wanted to do on the first Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
So you hear you like a concert, You're like, oh,
we're going to Beyonce or whatever. I don't know, we're
going to You're in your mind, you're thinking big time artist,
a concert, what anybody would think. But instead you're going
to a child's recital. Not only that, but it's a
family event at that.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Yeah, and that's awkward too. It's like having to meet
somebody film the first time you ever meet like that
is very awkward.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
That's not what I was expecting a whole on a second, yeah, yeah,
no kidding. Let me bring Marcus and I forgot to
mention that he's here. Marcus, that's a bait and switch. Dude,
What are you thinking?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Hey, y, what you have to say for your side?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Explain this? I thought that the date would be I
thought it would be a really clever date.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I thought you didn't appreciate seeing some kids, you know,
or being you know, getting to see my niece and
meet my family. I thought that it was something unusual too.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I didn't want to do the.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Typical of take you out to the movies, take you
to dinner or something. I wanted to do something that
was a little for you know, I felt was thoughtful,
a little more original.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Let's go to a child's recital. It was already planned.
What thought was it?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I thought that it was thoughtful that I've not been
on the day I've taken a girl out to you know,
see you know, young little kids perform.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
You know, there's a reason for that. There's a reason
why most people don't do that. Okay, I mean, there's
a few issues here. One that didn't sound like much
fun for her too. You're it sort of sounds like
a family event, and this a first date. I mean
I could see, like many dates in if you guys
(05:09):
are really dating consistently, you're like, hey, I gotta go,
I gotta swing by this family event. I can see that.
But I mean, and the other thing is you said concert,
which everybody is gonna not is gonna think, is not
a child's concert. Uh well, we got dinner after Okay,
where'd you guys? Okay?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Yeah, and Nicole his Warriors one of those restaurants where,
you know, all the kids get a color and books
come for us to get to know each other.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Marcus, we're trying to keep it sexy. We're trying to
keep it growing sexy.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
No one that you blocked him.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
So look the guy. It looks like it sounds like
he's close to his family. It sounds like, you know,
he had a lot of he had high aspirations for
this date. He sounds like a you know, I look
a big misstep in my opinion, But maybe he's a
sweet guy. I don't know how he was around his family.
A lot of people are looking for a family man.
(06:11):
I'm trying to find the good here. It was a
big misstep, not sexy at all. But but Brenda, would
you consider giving this guy another chance? I mean, I
don't know if he got the message, but hopefully after
this he did and he'll take you on a proper date.
Would you consider that we've had way worse?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
I know I would. I would consider it. You know,
get to know each other.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
You know, Marcus, are you not going to screw this up?
It's our money? But are you going to take her
on a real date, like on a real dinner where
they maybe have you know, like metal silverware? Yes? I will.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I will be willing to take her on a on a.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Have any like a musical coming up or a place
like a soccer game or something. Okay, yeah, Ollie, I
will agree to pay for this if you do not
take her to any family event of any kind. Yeah.
I'm really surprised. I'm very surprised at this outcome. But
I'm happy that Brenda, you're willing to give this guy
(07:13):
another chance. There must have been some redeeming qualities. So
you guys go on a great date. We'll follow up
with you to see how it goes, and I wish
you guys both the best of luck. You, thank you,
thank
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.
Hey Marcus, good morning, good morning. How are you welcome? Hey, great,
welcome to the program. Happy to have you here. Let's
hear about the dates that you went out with Brenda.
I'd like to hear kind of how you met, about
any dates that you've been on, and where we're at
right now.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yeah, so Brenda and I we met online on an app,
and you know, we just kind of mentioned really well
on the app, and I decided to take her out.
I wanted to for us to meet up and take
her out. And after that, I just I didn't hear
from her. I didn't hear from her. And I thought
we had a good time. You know, I had a
(00:42):
great time. I can speak for myself, and it appeared
that she was having a good time. But I just
haven't heard from her in a little bit. So I'm
just curious as to why.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Yeah, that might have happened. Yeah, so you you thought
it was a great date. You know, they all do.
But you thought it was a great date and good
chemistry and you were feeling it. Except you can't get
a hold of her for another date. And so you
want to know why of course.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Yeah, of course. I thought that the first one was
I enjoyed myself. I enjoyed a good time, and it
appeared that she was having a good time, you know.
And I thought that the chemistry was really strong and
and we just seemed to really mesh off that first
that first date.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Well, yeah, okay, let's call her now, Marcus, good luck. Hello,
Hi is this Brenda?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yes, yes, it is hi Brenda.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Good morning. My name is Fred. Thanks for answering. By
the way, I'm calling from the Fred Show and we
are on the radio right now, so I need your
permission to continue with the calls. That okay, if we
chat for a couple of minutes on the show.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Okay, that's that's okay.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Well, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf of
a guy named Marcus says, you mention you on a
dating app and you guys recently went on a date
to you remember this guy?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Is I remember this guy?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I remember? Okay, Well, what's going on with him? Because
he told us that he thought the date went really
well and that he's reached out for another date and
you're not responding, So it sounds like there's a good
reason why.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah, and he said, no, exactly why he took me to.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
He took me to like his niece.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
That was the first date, you know, like the little kid. Yeah, wait,
a little kid singing and play the piano.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Did he tell you ahead of the time? Did he
say that's where you were going? Did he pick you
up and take you another odd part?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
He said it was on to a concert?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
No, that's a concert.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Oh no, I wanted to do. I didn't even know
any of the kids. You know, you go to something
like that, you know the kids, and you suffer through sitting, yes,
sitting through those kids music, and you know, I mean,
you know not to you know, rag on the kids
too much. It's not it's not their fault that he
took me to the recital. That's just not something that
(03:17):
I wanted to do on the first Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
So you hear you like a concert, You're like, oh,
we're going to Beyonce or whatever. I don't know, we're
going to You're in your mind, you're thinking big time artist,
a concert, what anybody would think. But instead you're going
to a child's recital. Not only that, but it's a
family event at that.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Yeah, and that's awkward too. It's like having to meet
somebody film the first time you ever meet like that
is very awkward.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
That's not what I was expecting a whole on a second, yeah, yeah,
no kidding. Let me bring Marcus and I forgot to
mention that he's here. Marcus, that's a bait and switch. Dude,
What are you thinking?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Hey, y, what you have to say for your side?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Explain this? I thought that the date would be I
thought it would be a really clever date.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I thought you didn't appreciate seeing some kids, you know,
or being you know, getting to see my niece and
meet my family. I thought that it was something unusual too.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I didn't want to do the.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Typical of take you out to the movies, take you
to dinner or something. I wanted to do something that
was a little for you know, I felt was thoughtful,
a little more original.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Let's go to a child's recital. It was already planned.
What thought was it?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I thought that it was thoughtful that I've not been
on the day I've taken a girl out to you know,
see you know, young little kids perform.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
You know, there's a reason for that. There's a reason
why most people don't do that. Okay, I mean, there's
a few issues here. One that didn't sound like much
fun for her too. You're it sort of sounds like
a family event, and this a first date. I mean
I could see, like many dates in if you guys
(05:09):
are really dating consistently, you're like, hey, I gotta go,
I gotta swing by this family event. I can see that.
But I mean, and the other thing is you said concert,
which everybody is gonna not is gonna think, is not
a child's concert. Uh well, we got dinner after Okay,
where'd you guys? Okay?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Yeah, and Nicole his Warriors one of those restaurants where,
you know, all the kids get a color and books
come for us to get to know each other.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Marcus, we're trying to keep it sexy. We're trying to
keep it growing sexy.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
No one that you blocked him.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
So look the guy. It looks like it sounds like
he's close to his family. It sounds like, you know,
he had a lot of he had high aspirations for
this date. He sounds like a you know, I look
a big misstep in my opinion, But maybe he's a
sweet guy. I don't know how he was around his family.
A lot of people are looking for a family man.
(06:11):
I'm trying to find the good here. It was a
big misstep, not sexy at all. But but Brenda, would
you consider giving this guy another chance? I mean, I
don't know if he got the message, but hopefully after
this he did and he'll take you on a proper date.
Would you consider that we've had way worse?
Speaker 3 (06:25):
I know I would. I would consider it. You know,
get to know each other.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
You know, Marcus, are you not going to screw this up?
It's our money? But are you going to take her
on a real date, like on a real dinner where
they maybe have you know, like metal silverware? Yes? I will.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I will be willing to take her on a on a.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Have any like a musical coming up or a place
like a soccer game or something. Okay, yeah, Ollie, I
will agree to pay for this if you do not
take her to any family event of any kind. Yeah.
I'm really surprised. I'm very surprised at this outcome. But
I'm happy that Brenda, you're willing to give this guy
(07:13):
another chance. There must have been some redeeming qualities. So
you guys go on a great date. We'll follow up
with you to see how it goes, and I wish
you guys both the best of luck. You, thank you,
thank
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