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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show, Erica, Good morning, welcome to the program. How
are you hi?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm doing well. Thanks, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
We're great. We're glad you're here. So it's waiting by
the phone. We're trying to figure out if you've been
ghosted by this guy Justin. So we got to know
all everything. So how did you meet? Tell us about
any dates that you've been on, and what's happening now
where things stand.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Yeah, so I actually never went out with him on
a date. We didn't get to that part yet. So
I met Justin on a dating app and we got
to talking and everything, and we had some nice conversations
over messaging and he asked me for my number. I
was really excited. And then we talked some more and
(00:52):
he invited me out for some drinks and I was
super excited to go out with him for drinks. But
the day of our date, he actually went missing, and
I just like, I never heard from him again. He
didn't respond to any of my texts, he didn't text
me just I don't know what happened. I don't know
(01:15):
why he would ghost me before he even met me
In person when it seems like he was really interested
in actually meeting me in person and getting to know
me more. So I just I have no idea what
could have possibly happened?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Yeah, because all the pre date conversation was good. You
guys were chatting and you were vibing in your opinion,
and then this dude, you know, it's like, hey, I
can't go out with you. You never hear from him again,
he cancels, You never hear from him again.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yeah, exactly. I'm so confused, like, why would this even
happen when it seemed like things were going really well?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
And if sally, Yeah, we don't hear about that too often.
You know. We often hear about, obviously people who go
out once, twice whatever, and then they don't they get ghosted,
But I don't very rarely do we hear about somebody
who the date the date never happens, which is weird.
So let's see if we can get Justin on the phone,
and we'll ask some questions and hopefully whatever's going on
we can straighten out, and then we'll set you guys
up on another date and pay for it.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Sound good, yea, Let's see what's going on?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Part two of waiting at the phone. Next after this song,
Sabrina Carpenter back in two minutes on the Fred Show.
It's the Fred Show. Good morning, Erica. Yeah, all right,
welcome back. Let's call Justin. You guys, you wound up
you matched right on one of the apps, but then
you chatted and then when it was time for the
first date, you had something planned, but he canceled, if
(02:35):
I have this all right? And then you never heard
from him again. So you never met the guy.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, and he actually didn't even cancel. We agreed to
go out, but then he just basically ghosted me, so
he didn't even say that he was canceling wing like that.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Huh yeah. Okay, all right, well, let's let's see if
we can get this guy on the phone, ask some questions.
Good luck, Thanks, Hello, hisus Justin. Yeah, yeah, this is
Justin Justin. Good morning. My name is Fredam calling from
(03:11):
the Fred Show and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Can we
chat for a couple of minutes? Is that okay?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Oh my gosh, yeah, actually, well thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
We don't want to waste too much of your time.
But we're calling on behalf of a woman named Erica
who says she matched with you, and I guess you
guys chatted a little bit but then and maybe had
a date plan, but nothing happened. You disappeared after that.
So what's what's going on with Erica?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Yeah, we okay, we matched on the apps and then
we're like we're gonna we're gonna go out, but something
weird happened.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Yeah, that's what we're getting at. What's what's the weird
thing that happened?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Yeah? Yes, I went on her social media, which I
feel like is normal.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
You know, so little little standard before.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Pre date, the exactly pre date stock if you will,
And I found a post that she puts on like Facebook,
Instagram and Twitter saying it was like I can't wait
for my date tonight exclamation point hashtag Jeriica.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Hashtag already that's fantastic.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
It blew my mind because I was like, we haven't
even met.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Where is this?
Speaker 3 (04:47):
How can this get.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Any more weird? Before?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Erica aage five?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
I guess is that not really like some.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Some clinger like I mean, well, I forgot you mentioned
that Erica is here. Erica. So we're we're on the
social media's and we're out here, you know, coming up
with hashtags and we're advertising this date. You've never met
this guy, but a lot of excitement pre date.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah, I was just really excited because you know, he
was really cute in all the photos on the app
and everything, and our conversations were really well, I felt
like we really had a connection, like even before meeting.
And yeah, I was just really really excited, and I
thought it was cute to put hashtag Jerika. You know,
(05:41):
I didn't think it was a big deal at all.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Did you see, Justin? They're like other hashtags from other
failed relationships prior to that, Like, you know, I don't
know what other Erica combinations there would be Freerica it was.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
It was basically just my original idea that I came
up with. Yeah, I thought it was super cute.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Well, okay, and we're sharing on social media about our
dates before we go on them, which is I mean, yeah, Justin,
I mean, is it really not worth meeting her even?
I mean, okay, so she was excited about you. She
thought you were good looking. I guess she was engaged.
It's engaged in the process. Rather, I mean, it's not
not that. I mean, she does have a wedding hashtag
for you guys already, but still it's not It's not
(06:23):
the craziest thing we've heard, oh here for a few months.
Don't worry. It's not the craziest thing we've.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Run.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Yeah, I don't know. I'm very hesitant. I think that
just that represents like sort of a just a divide
in values. I would just never do that before I
met someone, and it sort of rereaks me out, and like,
I don't know, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
It's the end of Jerica as we know it. I mean,
right here, it's just crushing. And it just seems to
work too. The hashtag really works, the name of one,
the name combination really works for me. But anyway, uh,
Eric will.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Yeah, I will say that it is good. I wish
it was made, you know, a year into the relationship.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
I see at a little too much too soon, Kiki,
you're really bugged with this. Honest to god, this is
not the worst thing we've ever heard.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Giving Joe off you what's the crazy man named? Yeah,
him is given that type of vibe and since you
don't know this man, like, why are you hashtag?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Don't claim him? Yeah, you're saying a big one a date.
Then he wants up in a glass box and somebody's basement.
Is what you said exactly, So he did the right thing.
Block hashtags everything over there, kidd.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
And I've been in a relationship with O Mario. It's
a one sided thing for a very long.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
It's funny O Mario if he just texted me and said,
who is she to talk? He's been doing this to
me for years. But no, it's not going to work out,
not going to be a match. Erica. I'm sorry. Thank
you Justin for your time, Erica, best of luck to
you to all of you.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Oh thanks. I really thought that this could have gone somewhere.
We could have been a cute couple.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
You know, Justin does not agree.