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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been less waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Hey Lee, good morning, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
How are you take mine? Guys? How you doing doing?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Okay? Man Colin? Uh, well, we're talking to you because
we got to call this woman Arihana because you guys
went out, I guess, and you can't get a hold
of her. You feel like you're being ghosted. So give
us the backstory. How did you, guys meet and tell
us about any dates you've been on and all of
that good stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Okay, cool. So we're talking about Arianna.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
She's a girl I met on Hinge and uh, you know,
we matched up and we chatted for a couple of
days just she wanted to make traveling crazy, same with
the same with me, and we met up. I took
her out to dinner at a really nice spot down town.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
It was great.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
We had a really good conversation, you know, I mean
it was really good back and forth. Honestly, it was
better than it was on Hinge. And we both kept saying,
how this is better than we thought it would go.
And drinks were good, going good, and you know, it
was just it just felt like, oh, this might be
the this might be the other half.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Oh yeah, oh you felt like that. Yeah, okay, I didn't.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
She certainly didn't. I mean I thought you did too.
You know. It really felt like it was that way,
and I thought we would be going out again, but
for some reason.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
She just completely cut off communication right after the date,
and I went.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Over it with my friend.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I went over it with like, like, there's people I know,
the girls I know, and they were like, what did
you say?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Did you say anything? And I was like, no, I
don't think I said anything. I can't think of a
single moment where everything went wrong.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Okay, So yeah, well that's frustrating because you go on
these dates and we talked about it almost every day.
It's like you meet somebody and it's a numbers game
and it can be hard to meet people. And then
when you finally meet someone and you connect and you
feel like they connected and there's a vibe, you know,
the difference, and that's what happened. And yet since the date,
you can't get a hold of this woman and you
(01:53):
want to know why, Yeah, because.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
I didn't feel like she was going to be playing games,
but this kind of feels like one. So I don't
know why.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Okay, well, we're gonna call her just a second. We'll see,
we can figure out what's going on. You'll be on
the phone to you and the hope, as always is
that we can set you guys up on another date
after we figure out what's up.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
In tay for Okay, that'd be great.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
All right, thanks, we're gonna get to the bottom of
this after Sabrina Carpenter back, get two minutes on the
Fred Show. Don't boom, Sabrina Carpenter, It's the Fred Show.
Good morning, Lee.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Hi, Hey guys, all.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Right, let's call Arianna. You guys went on a nice
dinner after matching on the dating app Pinge, and you
felt a connection. I mean you said a minute ago
that you felt like maybe she was it. I think
you referred to her as maybe the other half or something.
I mean like you really felt strongly about this.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I mean, the conversation was so good.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
I felt like it could have been that way.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
And she was to be recept it too, and I
don't know what happened, but it was great at the moment.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Okay, right, Well, let's see when you get her on
the phone, because you can't. We'll see if we can
and we're gonna ask some questions at some point. You're
welcome to jump in and I wish you the best,
good luck, thank us.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Hi is this Arianna?
Speaker 5 (03:05):
Yes, this is Arianna.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Hey Arianna, good morning. My name is Fred Iam calling
the from the Fred Show, the Morning Radio Show, and
I do have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Is said, Okay, if we
chat for just a second on the show, you can
hang up anytime, ohly.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
Ahd Yeah sure, Hey, okay, Well, thank you very much
for calling on behalf of a guy I guess you
recently matched with him on the dating app Pine.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
His name is Lee. Do you remember Lee? I?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Yeah, I remember Lee.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Okay. So he called us and he just, I mean,
for like five minutes, basically gushed about you and talked
about how great you were and how he let you
a lot and felt the connection and was excited to
see where things went, had high aspirations. Except he said,
since that date, you haven't had a word to say
to him. You haven't responded to him, you ever reached out.
He feels like he's being ghosted.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
Yeah, So look, okay, it was really really good at first,
Like we had a lot of like text chemistry, you
know what I mean. Like we were just like vibing
really hard, right, like just going back and forth, back
and forth, and I was like, oh my god, I
need to meet this guy, you know, and like that's
always the hardest part, is like going from text to
(04:12):
like real life dating, and because like people can be
totally different in person, you know, like they can be
amazing and wonderful on text, and then it's like you
meet and just like I don't know, it like gets weird,
like if they're not the same, it's like you know
what I mean. And so at the beginning of our date,
like things were going really well, but then it like
(04:33):
took a weird turn because I told him how like
I love to work out, okay, Like I'm a big
fitness girl, and I mentioned that my trainer is a guy.
Like he got totally triggered because he was like, oh,
is your trainer a guy or a girl? And I
was like, uh, it's a guy, and he like totally
(04:55):
lost it.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
Okay that.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Like a guy's touch you or something, or.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I mean I mean, like you're supposed to help people
out a little bit when you're working out together, like
he spots me. But it's not like weird inappropriate touch.
It's like anyway, he just kept going on and on
and on, like he would never date a girl as
a male trainer, and like it always leads to cheating,
like one hundred percent of the time.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Oh, I guess for a surprise. Then I guess my
male trainer is in for a surprise.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Oh my god. And so yeah, so he like wouldn't
let it go, you know, and he just like doesn't
understand why men don't stick with the men and like
when to stick with the women. And it just seems
like really like sexist honestly, one of the husbands on
the Married the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives or whatever,
because he sounds.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
Like yeah, like like yeah, so you know, he's like, oh,
their bodies are different, you know, and like it just
seemed really professional.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Then every single time, you guys, it leads to infidelity.
This is crazy. I don't even know how this industry exists.
As soon as your husband are running for a boyfriend
or girlfriend gets a trainer, forget about it.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
But I have a question for the ladies's name, would
you guys let your man have a hot female.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
If again, is my man right? He's starting to get
that little dad belly.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Oh yeah, I've been having a dad belly, but now
we're twining.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Wow. Okay, would you would you love Big Tim have
a female trainer?
Speaker 4 (06:24):
Now?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
What what does he need that for? In her tiny
little short All these great male trainers out here, I
just feel it. Wait, so you're on the same page
with this guy.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
No, I'm not on his page.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
But you know, first of all, I don't have to
worry about my man going to anybody's gym red hot. Yeah,
it's a lot of male trainers out here, you know.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Wow, Well, let me bring Lee in because I guess
you and Lie could probably hang out because it sounds
like you guys feel the same way, which is wild.
Uh Lee, already on, Lee, I'm sorry I forgot to
mention that he's been here. What is this about? Why
can't she have a male trainer?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Like?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
What do you care?
Speaker 5 (07:00):
No?
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Okay, I got a friend, a really good friend, was
really close to me, and he needed this girl. One
story had a meal trainer, and all of a sudden,
it was just it was immediate.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
He walked a ring.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
They had a vibe together and he knew and he
was just like, this is it's a road to cheating.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
It doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
This this goes back to like you know, and even
more of a reach. But it's like, oh, every pilot cheats,
and every pro athlete cheats, and every this and that
and then everybody every this is every man. These are
stuff that nobody says it.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
You say that, say it ever, I've heard it except
the times I've been cheated on. It was with the
woman who was doing the cheating correct that I was
not doing.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
It was a woman. But we're saying they're wrong. That's ridiculous.
That's ridiculously so no, so no on that you can cheat.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
It doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
That's a very old school mentality that I don't think
has carries much weight. And it makes you look really insecure.
So either you are lee or you're not, and you
look that way, and that's unattractive.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Okay, you know what, I'll be honest here. The person
was me. The person was me. It was next who
I dated.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
So you were cheated on, yes, I was. You're ex
cheated with her trainer. Yes, I'm very sorry that happened.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
To you.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
But I don't think you can project that onto every
new relationship because if you do, it's unlikely things are
going to work out. And I'm sorry that happened to you,
but you're gonna have to get over.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
I think it's all right to have to have something
like that. It's a a prerequisite if I've been hurt
like that before. I don't see why that's that's I mean,
it's obviously triggering me for obvious reasons.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
I think it's valid.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
So you like this girl enough to call her maybe
the other half, but because she has a male trainer,
we're done or not.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I didn't see we were done. I said that it's
a bit of an issue.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
It's kind of happen. It's aid wild world we live in.
He's twenty twenty four, it's an involved environment. Who's to
say if she got a female trainer that she wouldn't
find that she has feelings for that person too. I
don't think you can keep it that. I don't think
it's not that. It's not that straightforward.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
Yeah, to trust your partner, like who you know what
I mean, because there's so many people, there's so many options,
you know, like you could hook up with every like barista.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I've heard about those barista. Yeah, I mean I've heard
about those yeah, secret Yeah, yep, I've heard all about that.
The barista industry promiscuous. I'll tell you what, don't take
care of you later. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
you know what. You're onto something there. Okay, look, Arianna,
(09:42):
So wait, I just want to be clear about something.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
Lee.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
You will go out with her again only if she
gets a female trainer.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Or at least considered it.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Okay, let's say she considered it and decided no. Right now,
she just said, yep, no, we're not. So I don't
know again, Okay, so he doesn't Arianna, after hearing all
of this, I want to know what your interest level is.
But then beyond that, the fact that you probably are
going to have to change trainers if you want to
stay with this man who you went out with one time.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
Controlling. Yeah, it's like, don't leave the house like you know,
like I.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Would not come on.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah. I mean people when they drive by gym sometimes
they're immediately compelled to cheat. I hear, like the car
lot where they'll proceed to walk in and find the
hottest trainer and sleep with them controllable right there. Yeah,
Planet Fitness. Man, it's like every time I see the purple,
I'm like a purple I start, I get a tingle.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
You want to talk about a judgment forfore.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
I'm cheating the girlfriend I don't have and the lunk
alarm goes off. Oh I don't know what that is,
but watch no clue what the hell's happened? Alarm.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
It's like you're not supposed to when you're like doing weights,
you're not supposed to like drop weights, or.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
If you're acting like a like like screaming and making
all this it's a deep cut. Yeah, they'll they'll, they'll
turn the alarm on.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
And yeah, I go on Mondays for the free pizza.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
I'm the cheating kidding. I'm just kidding that. I don't
know if any trainers are cheating with you, but become.
Speaker 5 (11:30):
You.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
I love you, guys. It's not gonna work out. I
don't know, man, I'm sorry that happened to you. I
think you gotta get over and Horriana, thank you for
answering it for your time. Best of luck to both
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