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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Patrick in morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Oh, good morning. I'm doing as good as could be, I.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Guess as good as can be.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Because you met this woman named Chloe and you guys
went out and you were hoping to see her again,
but you have not heard from her. Why don't you
if you could kind of explain to us as the
backstory about how you met and about the dates that
you have been on or the date or whatever, and
where things are now.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
So I met this really cool girl on the apps
as they do these days, and we've put back and
forth and we were planning on meeting up and then
all of a sudden, though she just has the blue
just starts just GHO see me with the communication?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
And yeah, I have no idea what happened. I don't
think I did anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, so, and they never do, they never do think that.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, tails so, oldest time bully. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Really, I'm going to do the exercise we always do here,
But like Patrick, I need you to look back on
this date. I need you to search your soul. I mean,
because it's never happened before. But we could wrap this
up right now and I can tell you why she
didn't call you back, and then we just play a
song and be done. But you're telling me that you
really think this date went well, and you're truly in
(01:18):
your heart disappointed and distressed that you can't get a
hold of her for another day, which is fair. I
mean everyone's been there, most everyone's been there. Well, that's
the thing.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
We didn't even get a chance to go on a date.
It didn't even get past like texting and messaging and stuff,
and so I was like extra shock because I didn't
even she didn't even see any bad side of me,
you know.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So okay, So then I'm asking you to look back
on your interaction and you're saying, hey, everything was going great.
I felt there was good chemistry. So you know, we
should have met up and we should Who knows what
could be, but I guess we don't know, because now
you can't get a hold of Chloe. And so we're
going to try and get a hold of her. We're
gonna call her, We're going to ask these questions. You'll
be on the phone at the same time. The hope,
as always is that we can, you know, rectify what
(02:03):
ever's going on, and then in this case, I guess
set you up on your first date and pay for it.
All right, Patrick, you've got to hear what happens next
part too of waiting mantaponi in two minutes after this,
so hoose year, we're back on the Fred Show. Here
it's the Fresh Show. Good morning. We're commercial free for
the next hour. You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Patrick,
all right, let's call Chloe. So it turns out you guys,
(02:23):
actually you never actually went on a date. You met
on the aps. You were talking and texting or you
were interacting, but for some reason it went from what
you thought was really good chemistry and great conversation and
this is going to be such a fun date to
radio silence. You've been ghosted. Now no date and you
want to know why. Yeah, all right, well let's call
Chloe now, good luck? Patrick? Are you hello?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Is this Chloe? Yes, Hi, Chloe, good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the
Morning radio show, and I do have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Said Okay,
if we chat for just a second, you can hang
up anytime. Oh sure, thank you very much. We're calling
on behalf of a guy who reached out to us.
His name is Patrick. I guess you guys matched on
one of the apps and maybe you guys were messaging
(03:20):
for a while.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Do you remember this guy?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Oh? Yeah, I don't know if I want to talk
about that on the radio.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You don't want to, come on? Come on? We got it?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yeah, just just sing some friends here. This sounds like
a story. Well, I'll explain to you that Patrick reached
out to us and said that he had matched with
you and he thought he said, you were texting or
talking or something and that things are going really well.
And then you've, now you know, disappeared before there could
be a date, and he kind of wants to know why.
So he's asking us to find out so you can
say whatever you want.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I mean, come on, talking about your love life on
the radio kind of odd.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I mean, I'm not going to force you, but I
mean would love to know what it is that you're
unwilling to share with us. And he gave us permission,
I mean, he asked us to do this. He says,
everything was great. It doesn't sound like everything was great.
So what happened?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Yeah, No, it was well, I mean it was fine
at first.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
You know, we met Patrick on.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
The apps, and honestly I was super excited because I mean,
he's hot.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
But then you know, things got flirty and we switched sure.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
To text, and I.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Did send him, you know, a couple of kind of
sexy selfies.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
But you know, nothing nothing too crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Okay, we're kind of building up here to meeting in person.
You know, the conversation got a little bit I guess flirty.
Plus we'll call it elevated. Yeah, territory all right, okay,
but then yeah, not.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Full on our I think we were still in but.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Well, let me ask you to send him pictures and
videos of me with other men and.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Okay, hold on.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
So we went from sending pictures like flirty pictures of
ourselves like, well, I wasn't texting Patrick, at least not
this night. I was, but but it was it was
send me pictures of you that are kind of flirty, okay, right,
and then it transitions to send me material content of
you and other men together. Yes, okay, and right, yeah,
(05:42):
I was in.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I mean, I was in shock.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I didn't like.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, I don't know not everybody everybody has that, but yeah,
was to go out and take it like me, Yeah,
I don't let me.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Let me bring Patrick.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I don't even if I did.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, well no, I got.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
It just threw me off.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
So it's still thinking about it.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
It just well, let me Patrick is here. I got
to mention that Patrick is here, and I'm going to
bring it into the call. I'm very forgetful Patrick. That
is a major detail that we left out. You know
one thing. I guess that if you guys are exchanging pictures, fine,
but what you wanted pictures of her with other men?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I don't remember asking that really.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Text message Patrick, this is this is in text, this
is this.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Is uh, this is in writing. I mean you obviously
did this the text, I mean it wasn't he doesn't recall.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yeah, we don't need to see all the texts.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
So are you saying you didn't do it or are
you saying you did do it? And now that you're
being called out you don't want to talk about it
because that's two different things.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
I mean, I might have done it, but I don't.
I don't really recall anything like seriously.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Okay, now seriously, So Patrick is the reason there's that
random chair in the hotel room that faces the bed.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
That's for Patrick? Oh so what do you like about that? Patrick?
If I could ask? Because for me, that's my worst nightmare.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Like if I like a woman, if I like her,
and I hope that we get to that point. The
last thing on earth that I want to think about
is what may have happened before me. Is that a
weird sort of jealousy thing?
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Maybe it is?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
It silly, absolutely, but I definitely don't want you to
send me any material with another person.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
I mean, yeah, I don't really recall doing that.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Oh my god. Okay, so he said he didn't do it.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Okay, let's just say, hey, Patrick, just for fun, just
for funzies, hypothetical, let's say you did. Let's say that
is something that you asked for. Why would one ask
for something like that? If you did, hypothetically, why would
somebody want that?
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Well, so, if if I was in said person's shoes,
right in your own shoes, yes, right, probably ask something
like that, maybe to to compare myself, to see what
kind of guy she likes.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Or has gone out with oh, so for research purposes
if but that's of course if you were that person.
But you're not, so do you It's crazy you have
that understanding. But okay, look, Chloe, I don't he's saying
he didn't do it. I believe you, and I believe
that you know, because it's in writing. You could probably
prove it, which you don't have to do. But would
you consider giving this guy another chance? He's now saying
(08:31):
he didn't do that. I don't know if you can.
I don't know that's something you can just like erase
from your memory. But would you consider going out with
him again? No?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I just I was as weird as hell to me.
And I mean also, even if.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I had the pictures and videos with another guy, I
wouldn't send them to someone else.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
That's not right to be asking me to send else.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
This has happened to me. I didn't ask for it.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
People more than one person has sent me videos of
them with other people. And then when I'm like, what
am I looking at?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
And then they.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Explain like, well, this is what I want to do
with you, and I'm like, well, we could have just
talked about I didn't need the demonstration and what I
really didn't need was it being demonstrated on you? So?
Like it would have been great if we just kept
to like a little flirty text, you know what I'm saying, Like,
you know, this is what we can do later.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
You don't need to necessarily document. Let me make different.
Actually go on the date first and then talk.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
No, I actually actually burned that material and never ever
let me see it or know that it exists. But okay,
so not going to happen, Patrick, I don't I'm just
one more time, Chloe, you don't want to go out
with him again?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
No?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Okay, Patrick, I don't know. You know, I guess since
this all is a big misunderstanding and you didn't do that,
then this is a real tragedy. But if you did,
or you know the guy who did, then you might
want to, I don't know, pump the brakes on that
kind of stuff, because I don't know that everybody wants
to send you that.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Okay, all right, all right, well good luck to both
of you.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Thank you, the Entertainment Report and five hundred bucks with
showed is Shelley both next back in two minutes.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Fred Shaw
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Patrick in morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Oh, good morning. I'm doing as good as could be, I.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Guess as good as can be.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Because you met this woman named Chloe and you guys
went out and you were hoping to see her again,
but you have not heard from her. Why don't you
if you could kind of explain to us as the
backstory about how you met and about the dates that
you have been on or the date or whatever, and
where things are now.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
So I met this really cool girl on the apps
as they do these days, and we've put back and
forth and we were planning on meeting up and then
all of a sudden, though she just has the blue
just starts just GHO see me with the communication?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
And yeah, I have no idea what happened. I don't
think I did anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, so, and they never do, they never do think that.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, tails so, oldest time bully. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Really, I'm going to do the exercise we always do here,
But like Patrick, I need you to look back on
this date. I need you to search your soul. I mean,
because it's never happened before. But we could wrap this
up right now and I can tell you why she
didn't call you back, and then we just play a
song and be done. But you're telling me that you
really think this date went well, and you're truly in
(01:18):
your heart disappointed and distressed that you can't get a
hold of her for another day, which is fair. I
mean everyone's been there, most everyone's been there. Well, that's
the thing.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
We didn't even get a chance to go on a date.
It didn't even get past like texting and messaging and stuff,
and so I was like extra shock because I didn't
even she didn't even see any bad side of me,
you know.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So okay, So then I'm asking you to look back
on your interaction and you're saying, hey, everything was going great.
I felt there was good chemistry. So you know, we
should have met up and we should Who knows what
could be, but I guess we don't know, because now
you can't get a hold of Chloe. And so we're
going to try and get a hold of her. We're
gonna call her, We're going to ask these questions. You'll
be on the phone at the same time. The hope,
as always is that we can, you know, rectify what
(02:03):
ever's going on, and then in this case, I guess
set you up on your first date and pay for it.
All right, Patrick, you've got to hear what happens next
part too of waiting mantaponi in two minutes after this,
so hoose year, we're back on the Fred Show. Here
it's the Fresh Show. Good morning. We're commercial free for
the next hour. You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Patrick,
all right, let's call Chloe. So it turns out you guys,
(02:23):
actually you never actually went on a date. You met
on the aps. You were talking and texting or you
were interacting, but for some reason it went from what
you thought was really good chemistry and great conversation and
this is going to be such a fun date to
radio silence. You've been ghosted. Now no date and you
want to know why. Yeah, all right, well let's call
Chloe now, good luck? Patrick? Are you hello?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Is this Chloe? Yes, Hi, Chloe, good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the
Morning radio show, and I do have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Said Okay,
if we chat for just a second, you can hang
up anytime. Oh sure, thank you very much. We're calling
on behalf of a guy who reached out to us.
His name is Patrick. I guess you guys matched on
one of the apps and maybe you guys were messaging
(03:20):
for a while.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Do you remember this guy?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Oh? Yeah, I don't know if I want to talk
about that on the radio.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You don't want to, come on? Come on? We got it?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yeah, just just sing some friends here. This sounds like
a story. Well, I'll explain to you that Patrick reached
out to us and said that he had matched with
you and he thought he said, you were texting or
talking or something and that things are going really well.
And then you've, now you know, disappeared before there could
be a date, and he kind of wants to know why.
So he's asking us to find out so you can
say whatever you want.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I mean, come on, talking about your love life on
the radio kind of odd.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I mean, I'm not going to force you, but I
mean would love to know what it is that you're
unwilling to share with us. And he gave us permission,
I mean, he asked us to do this. He says,
everything was great. It doesn't sound like everything was great.
So what happened?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Yeah, No, it was well, I mean it was fine
at first.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
You know, we met Patrick on.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
The apps, and honestly I was super excited because I mean,
he's hot.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
But then you know, things got flirty and we switched sure.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
To text, and I.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Did send him, you know, a couple of kind of
sexy selfies.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
But you know, nothing nothing too crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Okay, we're kind of building up here to meeting in person.
You know, the conversation got a little bit I guess flirty.
Plus we'll call it elevated. Yeah, territory all right, okay,
but then yeah, not.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Full on our I think we were still in but.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Well, let me ask you to send him pictures and
videos of me with other men and.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Okay, hold on.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
So we went from sending pictures like flirty pictures of
ourselves like, well, I wasn't texting Patrick, at least not
this night. I was, but but it was it was
send me pictures of you that are kind of flirty, okay, right,
and then it transitions to send me material content of
you and other men together. Yes, okay, and right, yeah,
(05:42):
I was in.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I mean, I was in shock.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I didn't like.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, I don't know not everybody everybody has that, but yeah,
was to go out and take it like me, Yeah,
I don't let me.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Let me bring Patrick.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I don't even if I did.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, well no, I got.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
It just threw me off.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
So it's still thinking about it.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
It just well, let me Patrick is here. I got
to mention that Patrick is here, and I'm going to
bring it into the call. I'm very forgetful Patrick. That
is a major detail that we left out. You know
one thing. I guess that if you guys are exchanging pictures, fine,
but what you wanted pictures of her with other men?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I don't remember asking that really.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Text message Patrick, this is this is in text, this
is this.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Is uh, this is in writing. I mean you obviously
did this the text, I mean it wasn't he doesn't recall.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yeah, we don't need to see all the texts.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
So are you saying you didn't do it or are
you saying you did do it? And now that you're
being called out you don't want to talk about it
because that's two different things.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
I mean, I might have done it, but I don't.
I don't really recall anything like seriously.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Okay, now seriously, So Patrick is the reason there's that
random chair in the hotel room that faces the bed.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
That's for Patrick? Oh so what do you like about that? Patrick?
If I could ask? Because for me, that's my worst nightmare.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Like if I like a woman, if I like her,
and I hope that we get to that point. The
last thing on earth that I want to think about
is what may have happened before me. Is that a
weird sort of jealousy thing?
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Maybe it is?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
It silly, absolutely, but I definitely don't want you to
send me any material with another person.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
I mean, yeah, I don't really recall doing that.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Oh my god. Okay, so he said he didn't do it.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Okay, let's just say, hey, Patrick, just for fun, just
for funzies, hypothetical, let's say you did. Let's say that
is something that you asked for. Why would one ask
for something like that? If you did, hypothetically, why would
somebody want that?
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Well, so, if if I was in said person's shoes,
right in your own shoes, yes, right, probably ask something
like that, maybe to to compare myself, to see what
kind of guy she likes.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Or has gone out with oh, so for research purposes
if but that's of course if you were that person.
But you're not, so do you It's crazy you have
that understanding. But okay, look, Chloe, I don't he's saying
he didn't do it. I believe you, and I believe
that you know, because it's in writing. You could probably
prove it, which you don't have to do. But would
you consider giving this guy another chance? He's now saying
(08:31):
he didn't do that. I don't know if you can.
I don't know that's something you can just like erase
from your memory. But would you consider going out with
him again? No?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I just I was as weird as hell to me.
And I mean also, even if.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I had the pictures and videos with another guy, I
wouldn't send them to someone else.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
That's not right to be asking me to send else.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
This has happened to me. I didn't ask for it.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
People more than one person has sent me videos of
them with other people. And then when I'm like, what
am I looking at?
Speaker 3 (09:03):
And then they.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Explain like, well, this is what I want to do
with you, and I'm like, well, we could have just
talked about I didn't need the demonstration and what I
really didn't need was it being demonstrated on you? So?
Like it would have been great if we just kept
to like a little flirty text, you know what I'm saying, Like,
you know, this is what we can do later.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
You don't need to necessarily document. Let me make different.
Actually go on the date first and then talk.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
No, I actually actually burned that material and never ever
let me see it or know that it exists. But okay,
so not going to happen, Patrick, I don't I'm just
one more time, Chloe, you don't want to go out
with him again?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
No?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Okay, Patrick, I don't know. You know, I guess since
this all is a big misunderstanding and you didn't do that,
then this is a real tragedy. But if you did,
or you know the guy who did, then you might
want to, I don't know, pump the brakes on that
kind of stuff, because I don't know that everybody wants
to send you that.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Okay, all right, all right, well good luck to both
of you.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Thank you, the Entertainment Report and five hundred bucks with
showed is Shelley both next back in two minutes.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
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