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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Hey Colin, good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
How are you, good morning, how's it going?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
You know we're doing okay? What's going on with this woman, Alesandra?
How'd you meet her? Tell us about any dates that
you've been on, and where you thinks are where you
think things are? Now?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Hey, good questions. I think we're both confused. I met
her on Hinge. We went out.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
She was I mean when we first started talking, it
was back and forth, instant text back. So man, she
was beautiful, I mean, unmatched. But listen, so anyway we're talking,
texting back and.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Forth, and we go out.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
I think we have a great time and being at
the end of the night, she's just like, all right,
well I talked to you.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I was like, and not try to text her the
next day? Nothing.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Okay. So you go on this date, you thought the
day went great, you were really attracted to her, and
you've tried to talk to her since the date and
she's ignored you. She's ghosting you after leaving you.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah, she was ner reciprocating energy I was giving us.
So I was confused.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Huh, all right, okay, what gky what I can already
see her side.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
But we're gonna wait, wait, gonna wait, I'll get today. Okay,
all right, Well, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna
call Alessandra. We're gonna see if we can get her
on the phone calling. We're gonna ask some questions. You'll
be on the phone as well. At some point you're
welcome to jump in and we're gonna figure out what
happened here because I have I have some thoughts, but
I don't I can't be certain yet, so Anda, can
(01:48):
you keek? We cannot yet judge. We must we must
be thorough investigators, and we must be objective. We will
do the job well. Cast for the ghost you all right,
Well let's see if she did that. Good luck, Colin,
thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Hi is this Alisandra? Yes, this is hey, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the morning radio show. I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I would
need your permission to continue with the call. Is it
okay if we chat for a couple of minutes.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I guess so.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Thank you very much. I'm not sure if you're familiar
with this. It's called waiting by the phone, though, and
we're trying to figure out why this guy, Colin may
have been ghosted by you. He called us, said that
he met you online and that you guys on an
app and you guys had a great date, he thought,
And now he can't get a hold of you, and
he's wondering why because we didn't have any trouble getting
a hold of you. So what's the issue with Colin?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Oh my god, what wasn't the issue with?
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Everything was okay, Like, the date was nice, everything was fine,
The dinner was good up until I had to go
home and let my dog out, and I told him
that he could comment was no problem, you know, if
he wanted to just hang out for a little while
while I took care of him. But the trouble started
really when we got to my place, and it just
(03:12):
seemed like every other comment was something inappropriate about the way,
like the way that I was living in my lifestyle,
Like he kept mentioning like ooh, like oh, this is
really nice, and oh, I didn't realize that you got
paid so much and you must be rich or your
parents must be helping you out a lot, and just
said and the third and it just it really it
(03:32):
was a big turn off.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Okay, so he was commenting on how successful you appeared
to be, like how nice your stuff was, how nice
your place was, all that, and you were like, what,
you know, it just seemed like a little much.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Yeah. Well then he proceeded to asking like how much
my rent was? It's not really real made incredible.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
And he just he just kept commenting on every little
thing like ooh that beginning, that must.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Be that must be super expensive.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
And then for me, like the last star was when
he was he said, oh, I didn't know you were rich. Oh,
it just made a lot of presumptions for me because
I worked really hard and I you know, I maintained
my lifestyle the way that I want to.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
And but the way he was talking was like like somehow,
you know, he was trying to figure out size you up?
How much did you have? And you know, I don't know,
like either there was jealousy or he wanted to know
how much because you wanted to know like what he
was getting access to, or either way, it's just not
stuff that you talk about with someone you just met.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Right.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
It weirded me out and I don't know if he
couldn't tell that I was getting more and more comfortable.
But at a certain point I just told him that
I got tired and asked him to leave.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Okay, all right, Colin. I forgot to mention that Colin
is here. I'm very sorry. I'm extremely forgetful. Colin. Why
were you obsessing over how nice everything was?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Like?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Why can't you act a little bit chill and you know,
not make her feel uncomfortable about her success? That's crazy?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
She come for me like that, She's acting brand new
things in her house.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Crazy, What is going on?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
I'm shocked in why she don't want to talk to you. Actually,
I thought it was a whole other reason, because I
don't even want to talk to you right now.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Today.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
So I mean, oh my god, nobody taught you Colin
that you don't talk about how people's stuff and how
much they make. I mean, you know, like that's not appropriate.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Don't let me tell you something. Man, if you went
to her career and you so how nice.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
And you messed up, you could have been part of
this time. Why don't you just act like you act
like you know after you've been there, and then you
could you could be going over there all the time.
Should be you should the mama.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I mean, let me tell you it was is Listen
you ever been to and you like they smell rich?
Speaker 1 (06:03):
In? Man, she got she got one of those hotel
collection air diffusions. Oh man, she loaded? Never mind, Hey, Alixander,
how rich are you?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Right?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
House smells rich?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
You know what? Rich enough for me to to find
a different day.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
That's right, giving broke boy energy and we don't need
that around.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
No wait, but I got money too. I'm not like
broke boy.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I'm just saying, like, you know, it's really.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
How much do you make, Colin? If you're so rich,
why are you impressed by a house that smells good?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Well, I'm just saying, man, y'all had to be there
for one it was great. I mean yeah, because you
know I'm gonna keep it. But like I've been on
some hre days before and Shorty be messy. Come on,
we know we know girls be messy and.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Queen smell of man. I mean, man, a dream come through?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I dream come true that you ruined because you had
it became a nightmare. If you had a little bit
of chill, Colin, then maybe I mean, how are things
going until he started asking about your four oh one kut?
Was everything going okay? Until then?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Things actually going pretty good.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
You hear that, Colin, You were in good shape until
you start talking about how much money she did or
didn't have.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
But I just don't understand how other woman can compliment
other women, like, yes, queen, you doing it like she
I was giving her her pops as an independent woman.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
You know what I'm saying. She was taking care of
business at that age.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
You worked hard for this. I'm going to compliment what
you worked hard on.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
I don't got to ask her the MSRP of her right, yeah, right, exactly.
You didn't have to zillow her house right in front
of her. Everybody knows you do that. Later you do that.
After going on, Colin.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Felt like, you know, a strong woman, she worked hang
for it, so maybe she wanted some type of acknowledgment
to it.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
I'm not going to go to the ice. It looks
like a damn near.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
Mansion, but it was a nice condo and I was like, yo, yeah,
you're doing the damn thing for real.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
So so you were celebrating her success and her independence
and her strong female energy. That's what you were. You
were honoring her is what you were doing. You're saying, hey, brother.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Brother, you get it.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
And so I was thinking that, you know, since they
were going World Part two, there's a loosened up that
I could, you know, saying like I was in there,
so I felt.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
That you were not in there, if you were at all,
she was trying to get you out of there. It
turns out, hey, Alixandero, I mean, I'll ask the question
because I have to, but I know the answer already,
So it's rhetorical. Would you like to go out with
Colin again? We'll pay for it?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
No, it was giving me real property vibe.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Wow, So Colin, you're upset about this?
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Okay, I mean it would have been nice, shorty.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
I mean, let me take something I'll do, But you
bet as hell. I mean it's fine, and I love
to take you out again. And I feel like we
were viving before. So you ain't gotta switch up.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
You gotta pitch up.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Yeah, he's look how smoothing he is. Alice Satury, have
you changed your mind at all?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
I appreciate it, but you know, thanks?
Speaker 1 (09:28):
But now, how about your cell phone bill? A month?
How let you say you got the premium service how
about what kind of iPhone you got. You got them
with all the memory in it there just a little bit.
You got the new one all right, like it's not
gonna work out.