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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Heydrey,
good morning, welcome to the program. How are you, good morning.
I'm doing all right. How are you? We're doing all
right as well in sech no how much. We're doing great.
But we want to see what's going on with this
woman Vanessa. Tell us the backstory though, how did you meet?
We got to know about any dates that you've been
(00:23):
on and whatever other details you want to tell us,
and then what's going on right now? Sure? Yeah, so Vanessa.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I met Vanessa on hinge and I asked her out.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
So we go to get.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Drinks and it's going really well. We get flirty, we're
getting clothes. So I invite her back to my place
right after the date.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
So she comes over. Everything's still going.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Great, vibing, we're making out, it's going further, it's getting
more intimate, and then she kind of just like left
to me pretty abruptly, like very abruptly, and she never
answered me again after that. I never talked to her
after that, and I just I get them confused, and
I would love to help getting to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay, because we hear this all the time. I mean,
people have a date that's so successful, and I usually
it wasn't successful. Let you wind up back at somebody's
house and things maybe are about to happen. But you
this woman left, and I assume that you've texted her,
that you've you've called her, tried to reach out and connect,
and she's ghosting you, leaving you on read nothing correct.
That is correct.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
I tried to reach out, haven't heard back. Don't understand
why whatsoever based on the the interaction we had.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
All right, let's call Vanessa now, good luck, tray or
thanks so much?
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Hi is this Vanessa? Heyessa, good morning. My name is Fred.
I'm calling for the Friend Show. The whole crew is here,
and I do have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now, and I do need your
permission to continue with the calls if we chat for
just a second.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Oh oh my gosh, yes, okay, well.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Thank you. I know it's a little bit startling, but
we're calling on behalf of a guy named Trey. He
reached out to us and said that you guys had
met on a on a dating app and went on
a date recently. Do you remember this guy Trey?
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I do, Okay, So why the hesitation Because he told
us that he thought the date went really well, and
he did mention that you guys went back to his place,
but that you left and then haven't responded to him
since then. So what happened and what's going on?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
So we met on an app, Yeah, and he asked
me out. The date was fine. It was actually really
fun and I was absolutely down to go back to
his place. Seemed really sweet and normal. At first, we
you know, started making out a little bit. But that's
kind of when things got weird and I just saw
(02:59):
something and you know, made me want to bolt.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
What did you say?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Well, I was like, oh, excuse me for just a second.
I'm going to go to the bathroom, And in order
to get to the bathroom, I have to walk past
his bedroom. And as I'm walking past his bedroom, I
see that there is a professional camera on a tripod
pointed towards the bed.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Yeah, okay, now you weren't in the bedroom. You guys
were doing your stuff in the other room, so you know,
he wasn't recording that.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
We don't think, no, no, no, But like if he
thought he was going to record this, like sorely mistaken.
My guy, like, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
He simply he works at sears, he does family portraits.
I mean, I don't see an issue with this whatsoever
on video. Let me bring uh, there's a lot of
like to say that there's let me bring Trey in, Vanessa,
I feeled him in and that he is here. I'm
(04:00):
so forgetful, Tray, what's up with the camera in the
bedroom pointing towards the bed?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Wait wait, wait, wait, okay, that's just not Vanessa. I
just want to say, I what I use that camera.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
With somebody else.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
I would never ever ever ask you Vanessa to film well,
I mean it said whatever. I mean, it's my apartment
and it's my prerogative. Like I didn't do anything with
Vanessa that without asking that is that's not cool that
you would judge me for that.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
That's my choice. I do a lot of solo content.
It's not just with other people. I use it all
the time. Sounds like my boys, Yeah, I have a
good time. I mean, hey, you know, Vanessa, how do
you think he paid it? Sounds like you have a
good time. How do you think he paid for that date?
(04:49):
I mean, you know, little side Hustle's got going on,
so Vanessa. This, it explains himself. He's he's doing it
with other people and recording it, and he does it
to him with him self and records it. Not you,
Not you though, Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I think maybe not shit, put your such camera away
when you have somethingy over it that they're not aware.
I forgot.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I mean it was like set up, you had the
lighting going on. I mean, I mean, what was the reason,
my bro? Yeah, I mean I would think you'd put
that away because it's going I mean, anybody who walks
in there is going to think that's what it's like,
your little set, you know, a little reclining studio.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Look my mind, I didn't think were it took my mind.
I had used it recently. I know it put my mind.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Huh. It's a big slip, does it thin? Sound? Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yeah, he would like to subscribe.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Trying to what the quality of the production is here.
You have like boom mic set up to you know
what I'm saying. You want to know if he needs
a are you trying to be the crew production? Okay,
it sounds like he doesn't mean that. Sound he's not covered.
I'll cover yeah, all right, Hey look Vanessa, so this
(06:04):
look Hey, This is no big deal. He records content
with other people and himself. You weren't gonna have to
be part of it if he didn't want so. Yeah, yeah,
so it's not weird at all. Right, would you consider
another date with Tray Vanessa? If he puts the camera away.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I'm gonna have to pass.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I'm so sorry for her dog. All right, Hey, Trey, Look, honestly,
i'd put the camera away. It's going to give anybody
who's not involved in your little production the wrong impression.
I know. Now next time I will, I know, because yeah,
it's suck.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
They can't see Vanessa again.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I mean, bring me a learned okay, all right, hey Vanessa,
thank you for your time. Good luck to you, Tray,
best of luck to you with with all of it.
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Heydrey,
good morning, welcome to the program. How are you, good morning.
I'm doing all right. How are you? We're doing all
right as well in sech no how much. We're doing great.
But we want to see what's going on with this
woman Vanessa. Tell us the backstory though, how did you meet?
We got to know about any dates that you've been
(00:23):
on and whatever other details you want to tell us,
and then what's going on right now? Sure? Yeah, so Vanessa.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I met Vanessa on hinge and I asked her out.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
So we go to get.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Drinks and it's going really well. We get flirty, we're
getting clothes. So I invite her back to my place
right after the date.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
So she comes over. Everything's still going.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Great, vibing, we're making out, it's going further, it's getting
more intimate, and then she kind of just like left
to me pretty abruptly, like very abruptly, and she never
answered me again after that. I never talked to her
after that, and I just I get them confused, and
I would love to help getting to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay, because we hear this all the time. I mean,
people have a date that's so successful, and I usually
it wasn't successful. Let you wind up back at somebody's
house and things maybe are about to happen. But you
this woman left, and I assume that you've texted her,
that you've you've called her, tried to reach out and connect,
and she's ghosting you, leaving you on read nothing correct.
That is correct.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
I tried to reach out, haven't heard back. Don't understand
why whatsoever based on the the interaction we had.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
All right, let's call Vanessa now, good luck, tray or
thanks so much?
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Hi is this Vanessa? Heyessa, good morning. My name is Fred.
I'm calling for the Friend Show. The whole crew is here,
and I do have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now, and I do need your
permission to continue with the calls if we chat for
just a second.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Oh oh my gosh, yes, okay, well.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Thank you. I know it's a little bit startling, but
we're calling on behalf of a guy named Trey. He
reached out to us and said that you guys had
met on a on a dating app and went on
a date recently. Do you remember this guy Trey?
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I do, Okay, So why the hesitation Because he told
us that he thought the date went really well, and
he did mention that you guys went back to his place,
but that you left and then haven't responded to him
since then. So what happened and what's going on?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
So we met on an app, Yeah, and he asked
me out. The date was fine. It was actually really
fun and I was absolutely down to go back to
his place. Seemed really sweet and normal. At first, we
you know, started making out a little bit. But that's
kind of when things got weird and I just saw
(02:59):
something and you know, made me want to bolt.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
What did you say?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Well, I was like, oh, excuse me for just a second.
I'm going to go to the bathroom, And in order
to get to the bathroom, I have to walk past
his bedroom. And as I'm walking past his bedroom, I
see that there is a professional camera on a tripod
pointed towards the bed.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Yeah, okay, now you weren't in the bedroom. You guys
were doing your stuff in the other room, so you know,
he wasn't recording that.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
We don't think, no, no, no, But like if he
thought he was going to record this, like sorely mistaken.
My guy, like, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
He simply he works at sears, he does family portraits.
I mean, I don't see an issue with this whatsoever
on video. Let me bring uh, there's a lot of
like to say that there's let me bring Trey in, Vanessa,
I feeled him in and that he is here. I'm
(04:00):
so forgetful, Tray, what's up with the camera in the
bedroom pointing towards the bed?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Wait wait, wait, wait, okay, that's just not Vanessa. I
just want to say, I what I use that camera.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
With somebody else.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
I would never ever ever ask you Vanessa to film well,
I mean it said whatever. I mean, it's my apartment
and it's my prerogative. Like I didn't do anything with
Vanessa that without asking that is that's not cool that
you would judge me for that.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
That's my choice. I do a lot of solo content.
It's not just with other people. I use it all
the time. Sounds like my boys, Yeah, I have a
good time. I mean, hey, you know, Vanessa, how do
you think he paid it? Sounds like you have a
good time. How do you think he paid for that date?
(04:49):
I mean, you know, little side Hustle's got going on,
so Vanessa. This, it explains himself. He's he's doing it
with other people and recording it, and he does it
to him with him self and records it. Not you,
Not you though, Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I think maybe not shit, put your such camera away
when you have somethingy over it that they're not aware.
I forgot.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I mean it was like set up, you had the
lighting going on. I mean, I mean, what was the reason,
my bro? Yeah, I mean I would think you'd put
that away because it's going I mean, anybody who walks
in there is going to think that's what it's like,
your little set, you know, a little reclining studio.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Look my mind, I didn't think were it took my mind.
I had used it recently. I know it put my mind.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Huh. It's a big slip, does it thin? Sound? Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yeah, he would like to subscribe.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Trying to what the quality of the production is here.
You have like boom mic set up to you know
what I'm saying. You want to know if he needs
a are you trying to be the crew production? Okay,
it sounds like he doesn't mean that. Sound he's not covered.
I'll cover yeah, all right, Hey look Vanessa, so this
(06:04):
look Hey, This is no big deal. He records content
with other people and himself. You weren't gonna have to
be part of it if he didn't want so. Yeah, yeah,
so it's not weird at all. Right, would you consider
another date with Tray Vanessa? If he puts the camera away.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I'm gonna have to pass.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I'm so sorry for her dog. All right, Hey, Trey, Look, honestly,
i'd put the camera away. It's going to give anybody
who's not involved in your little production the wrong impression.
I know. Now next time I will, I know, because yeah,
it's suck.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
They can't see Vanessa again.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I mean, bring me a learned okay, all right, hey Vanessa,
thank you for your time. Good luck to you, Tray,
best of luck to you with with all of it.
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