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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
By the phone.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jake, welcome to the program.
How are you hello, How are you doing? Okay? Man,
trying to help you out here with this woman Kendall.
So what's going on with Kendall? We got to know
kind of the whole backstory. How did you meet? Tell
us about any dates that you've been on, and then
where things are Now.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
We've met on Hinge, so once we match there, I
asked her off for drinks and we went out and
had a couple drinks, not too many, had a lot
of fun, good conversation, talked about all kinds of stuff.
She seemed to be having a good time too. I
thought we had a good vibe, but now I haven't
heard anything.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Back from her. Yeah, they they tend to think there
was a good vibe. Yeah that we hear that enoughful
lot up. But really though, and I asked the question
almost every time, like, I need you to really to
like look deep within your soul. Okay, I need you to,
like I need some self awareness, which I'm not saying
you don't have it, Jake, but it tends to be
lacking in this segment. Did anything happen anything weird, any
(01:03):
sort of You look back on this and you honestly
believe that it was a successful date, and you really
walked away thinking, I'm gonna hear from this woman again.
We're going out again.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah, Like I said, like two drinks tops and lots
of laughing, and I thought it was a good time
all around.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Okay, Well, let's call Kendall. You'll be on the phone
at the same time. We're going to ask her some questions,
and you know, the hope here is that we can
straighten things out, figure out why she hasn't responded to you,
set you guys up on another date and pay for it. Okay, great,
let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by
the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning,
It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.
(01:42):
Hey Jake, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Kendall.
You guys, you recently met on a hinge or you matched.
You asked her out for drinks, you went out, you
had a great date, you felt like everything went well.
You were excited to see her again. You've reached out,
you've texted, called whatever she's not responding to. You you
feel like you're being ghosts you want to know why. Yeah,
that'd be great to know why. Okay, let's call it
(02:03):
right now. Good luck. Jake, Hello hisus Kendall. I Hey Kendall,
good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the
Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and I have to
tell you that we are on the radio right now,
and I would need your appermission to continue with the call.
(02:25):
Is it okay? If we ch have for just a second,
I need consent to talk. Yeah, okay, good, perfect, Thank you. Well,
we're calling on behalf of a guy who I guess
you matched with recently on a Hinge, one of the
dating apps. His name is Jake. Do you remember Jake?
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, all right? Is that so you remember him or
you remember him and it's not really fondly.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
I remember him?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Okay, So that's okay. Why the hesitation then, because we
just talked to him a second ago. He reached out
to us, and this is something where we're trying to
figure out why maybe you're ghosting him. It sounds like
you are in fact ghosting him, but he described a
great date, So where's the disconnect.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
I'm kind of surprised, he doesn't know. Yeah, it seemed
obvious to me.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
He doesn't seem to know, So what what happened? That's
your side of the story.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
It was really.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Awkward, So it was.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
It was Oh.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Gosh, it was not long into the date at all
when he starts asking me like if i'd be up
for a threesome?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Oh oh he left that part out. It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, yeah, it sounds like it.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I don't know. Yeah, well how could you forget that
uh little tidbit? So okay, you guys are sitting there,
you're having a drink or whatever, you meet this guy.
I mean he look like you thought he would. I mean,
everything was going fine, I assume until this point.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, but fine is like you know, twenty thirty minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Right, and then how does one transition into, you know,
from like hey, would you like another glass of wine?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
You?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Me and my friends? Should you know, do the deal? Like,
tell me how the man so so uh smoothly transitioned.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Well, it wasn't smooth. I don't think you can do
that on a first date smoothly. I don't even know.
Speaker 6 (04:27):
This dude's last name, and he's already like like people
like it's just like literally like how do you feel
about white wine versus red?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
And how do you feel about the Resung's Like yeah,
it's like that quick.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Did you at least get a picture? I mean, did you?
Because I what I probably would have done, is Kendall,
I would have leaned in just to see what we're
working with here, you know, like oh yeah sure, And
then I mean I'm probably not going to do it.
Maybe I would, but I mean I would at least
sort of like give in to see where this guy's
going make him feel comfortable.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Uh yeah, No, I was just honestly, like I was
at first just really taken aback, Like did I even
hear this correctly? Like maybe he met maybe there's a
cocktail called that I don't know. Uh, Like I was
trying to give the benefit of the doubt, which I
shouldn't have done because then he just made it worse,
Like it.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Just kept getting worse.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Was it a man or of woman that he was
suggesting that you add to the party?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Oh, it was a woman, and he already had somebody
in mind, But it's literally the.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Woman with somebody? Like does he have a girlfriend and
he's out recruiting or like what what's that about.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Well, that's what he makes it sound like, because he
keeps talking about his friend Tracy, who He's like, Oh, this.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Would be somebody I have her in.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Mind and everything, and it's just it's insane to me
that you would you would not only talk about this
on the first date, but then like, obviously there's someone.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Else that you're really attracted to and you're letting me
know that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Well, we should get some answers right now. I forgot
to mention that Jake is here. I'm extremely forgetful. I
often get caught up. I forget Jake. What Yeah, what
was the thought process here? Man?
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Like?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I mean, I know, I know what you were after,
but like, did you actually want to go out with
this woman or were you really just trying to find
a third I wasn't after anything.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I wasn't trying to talk or anything. I wasn't suggesting
we do that, just like first date banter, like finding
out about each other.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
First state banter, like what's your favorite company? Do you
want to have a threesome? Like I mean really, and
who's Tracy?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
And who is Tracy?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Ja?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
She's just a.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Friend and she's not like a girl. I'm not romantic
involved with her.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
She's just a friend. Yeah. I was gonna say, is
she aware of the event that you're planning? Has she
received the EV on this is she rsv P? Yes?
Did the calendar invite?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Like? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (06:47):
Right?
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Is she aware that you're out of here propositioning people
with her? Involved? Your friend Tracy.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
It's not like something it's not making a big deal
out of It's not something that I'm like, actually planning.
I'm just sort of getting to know this person.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
They have websites for this dude. I mean, huh what.
I respect him.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
He's getting right to the point. He's making his intentions clear,
so that way she knows what he's into.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Like, people need to do this more, I will say, sure,
I tend to be pretty direct to I've not asked
anybody for this. I regrettably, maybe I could start, but no,
I tend to be pretty direct as well. And if
it's not for you, it's not for you. And I
don't feel bad about that. But if you're trying to
date someone like you really want to date them, then
you should probably focus on them and only them and
not your proclivities. On the first date.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I did, we talked all about it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
It's not the.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Whole thing we talked about.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
We talked about a million other things.
Speaker 7 (07:43):
He found out a favorite color, you know, he just.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
What is your favorite color, Jake, Tracy's favorite color? That
we know we do not get the favorite color. All right,
So we're in third grade. We are very it's quite
clear that we're not intern right, I certainly hope. Okay, look, Kendall, uh,
(08:06):
I'll ask the question. I think I know the answer.
But are you interested in another date? We'll pay for it.
We can invite Tracy. You know what. I'll pay for
that too, honestly.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Okay, uh, yeah, I'm gonna roll with no shocking.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
But since Kiki respects him so much, this is great.
I'll just maybe we'll get Tim and well, you know,
then that's there's threes a party. I'm not into three subs.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
Maybe it ain't enough room for all at where I'm going?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Where are you going? Where are you going to hear
more about the destination? What is the destination? Where are
we headed?
Speaker 7 (08:39):
It's not enough room for another person, and so no,
I'm not interested, but I would like somebody to be
upfront tell me.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Trust me, it's weird stuff. It's on aer Kiki. I
have a feeling that people will be very upfront with you.
Everyone Kick would like you to be upfront with her
on ak Yeah all right, well uh, Jake, I'm sorry, man,
it's not gonna work out. Maybe i'd slow roll those plans.
Maybe that's more of a second date conversation.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
All right.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I just like I like to be direct, like you yeah,
and you were and a hey you you swung, yeah,
and you whift and it's okay, you know what. That's
all right. I'm not I'm not gonna hate on that,
but it's not for Kendall. Kendall, thank you for your time.
Good luck, Jake, best of luck to you as well. Thanks.
Calin has the Entertainment Report. ITA's next on The Fred Show.
Ever been left waiting.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
By the phone.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jake, welcome to the program.
How are you hello, How are you doing? Okay? Man,
trying to help you out here with this woman Kendall.
So what's going on with Kendall? We got to know
kind of the whole backstory. How did you meet? Tell
us about any dates that you've been on, and then
where things are Now.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
We've met on Hinge, so once we match there, I
asked her off for drinks and we went out and
had a couple drinks, not too many, had a lot
of fun, good conversation, talked about all kinds of stuff.
She seemed to be having a good time too. I
thought we had a good vibe, but now I haven't
heard anything.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Back from her. Yeah, they they tend to think there
was a good vibe. Yeah that we hear that enoughful
lot up. But really though, and I asked the question
almost every time, like, I need you to really to
like look deep within your soul. Okay, I need you to,
like I need some self awareness, which I'm not saying
you don't have it, Jake, but it tends to be
lacking in this segment. Did anything happen anything weird, any
(01:03):
sort of You look back on this and you honestly
believe that it was a successful date, and you really
walked away thinking, I'm gonna hear from this woman again.
We're going out again.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah, Like I said, like two drinks tops and lots
of laughing, and I thought it was a good time
all around.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Okay, Well, let's call Kendall. You'll be on the phone
at the same time. We're going to ask her some questions,
and you know, the hope here is that we can
straighten things out, figure out why she hasn't responded to you,
set you guys up on another date and pay for it. Okay, great,
let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by
the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning,
It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.
(01:42):
Hey Jake, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Kendall.
You guys, you recently met on a hinge or you matched.
You asked her out for drinks, you went out, you
had a great date, you felt like everything went well.
You were excited to see her again. You've reached out,
you've texted, called whatever she's not responding to. You you
feel like you're being ghosts you want to know why. Yeah,
that'd be great to know why. Okay, let's call it
(02:03):
right now. Good luck. Jake, Hello hisus Kendall. I Hey Kendall,
good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the
Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and I have to
tell you that we are on the radio right now,
and I would need your appermission to continue with the call.
(02:25):
Is it okay? If we ch have for just a second,
I need consent to talk. Yeah, okay, good, perfect, Thank you. Well,
we're calling on behalf of a guy who I guess
you matched with recently on a Hinge, one of the
dating apps. His name is Jake. Do you remember Jake?
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, all right? Is that so you remember him or
you remember him and it's not really fondly.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
I remember him?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Okay, So that's okay. Why the hesitation then, because we
just talked to him a second ago. He reached out
to us, and this is something where we're trying to
figure out why maybe you're ghosting him. It sounds like
you are in fact ghosting him, but he described a
great date, So where's the disconnect.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
I'm kind of surprised, he doesn't know. Yeah, it seemed
obvious to me.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
He doesn't seem to know, So what what happened? That's
your side of the story.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
It was really.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Awkward, So it was.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
It was Oh.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Gosh, it was not long into the date at all
when he starts asking me like if i'd be up
for a threesome?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Oh oh he left that part out. It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, yeah, it sounds like it.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I don't know. Yeah, well how could you forget that
uh little tidbit? So okay, you guys are sitting there,
you're having a drink or whatever, you meet this guy.
I mean he look like you thought he would. I mean,
everything was going fine, I assume until this point.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, but fine is like you know, twenty thirty minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Right, and then how does one transition into, you know,
from like hey, would you like another glass of wine?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
You?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Me and my friends? Should you know, do the deal? Like,
tell me how the man so so uh smoothly transitioned.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Well, it wasn't smooth. I don't think you can do
that on a first date smoothly. I don't even know.
Speaker 6 (04:27):
This dude's last name, and he's already like like people
like it's just like literally like how do you feel
about white wine versus red?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
And how do you feel about the Resung's Like yeah,
it's like that quick.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Did you at least get a picture? I mean, did you?
Because I what I probably would have done, is Kendall,
I would have leaned in just to see what we're
working with here, you know, like oh yeah sure, And
then I mean I'm probably not going to do it.
Maybe I would, but I mean I would at least
sort of like give in to see where this guy's
going make him feel comfortable.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Uh yeah, No, I was just honestly, like I was
at first just really taken aback, Like did I even
hear this correctly? Like maybe he met maybe there's a
cocktail called that I don't know. Uh, Like I was
trying to give the benefit of the doubt, which I
shouldn't have done because then he just made it worse,
Like it.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Just kept getting worse.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Was it a man or of woman that he was
suggesting that you add to the party?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Oh, it was a woman, and he already had somebody
in mind, But it's literally the.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Woman with somebody? Like does he have a girlfriend and
he's out recruiting or like what what's that about.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Well, that's what he makes it sound like, because he
keeps talking about his friend Tracy, who He's like, Oh, this.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Would be somebody I have her in.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Mind and everything, and it's just it's insane to me
that you would you would not only talk about this
on the first date, but then like, obviously there's someone.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Else that you're really attracted to and you're letting me
know that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Well, we should get some answers right now. I forgot
to mention that Jake is here. I'm extremely forgetful. I
often get caught up. I forget Jake. What Yeah, what
was the thought process here? Man?
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Like?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I mean, I know, I know what you were after,
but like, did you actually want to go out with
this woman or were you really just trying to find
a third I wasn't after anything.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I wasn't trying to talk or anything. I wasn't suggesting
we do that, just like first date banter, like finding
out about each other.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
First state banter, like what's your favorite company? Do you
want to have a threesome? Like I mean really, and
who's Tracy?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
And who is Tracy?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Ja?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
She's just a.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Friend and she's not like a girl. I'm not romantic
involved with her.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
She's just a friend. Yeah. I was gonna say, is
she aware of the event that you're planning? Has she
received the EV on this is she rsv P? Yes?
Did the calendar invite?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Like? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (06:47):
Right?
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Is she aware that you're out of here propositioning people
with her? Involved? Your friend Tracy.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
It's not like something it's not making a big deal
out of It's not something that I'm like, actually planning.
I'm just sort of getting to know this person.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
They have websites for this dude. I mean, huh what.
I respect him.
Speaker 7 (07:08):
He's getting right to the point. He's making his intentions clear,
so that way she knows what he's into.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Like, people need to do this more, I will say, sure,
I tend to be pretty direct to I've not asked
anybody for this. I regrettably, maybe I could start, but no,
I tend to be pretty direct as well. And if
it's not for you, it's not for you. And I
don't feel bad about that. But if you're trying to
date someone like you really want to date them, then
you should probably focus on them and only them and
not your proclivities. On the first date.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I did, we talked all about it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
It's not the.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Whole thing we talked about.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
We talked about a million other things.
Speaker 7 (07:43):
He found out a favorite color, you know, he just.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
What is your favorite color, Jake, Tracy's favorite color? That
we know we do not get the favorite color. All right,
So we're in third grade. We are very it's quite
clear that we're not intern right, I certainly hope. Okay, look, Kendall, uh,
(08:06):
I'll ask the question. I think I know the answer.
But are you interested in another date? We'll pay for it.
We can invite Tracy. You know what. I'll pay for
that too, honestly.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Okay, uh, yeah, I'm gonna roll with no shocking.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
But since Kiki respects him so much, this is great.
I'll just maybe we'll get Tim and well, you know,
then that's there's threes a party. I'm not into three subs.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
Maybe it ain't enough room for all at where I'm going?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Where are you going? Where are you going to hear
more about the destination? What is the destination? Where are
we headed?
Speaker 7 (08:39):
It's not enough room for another person, and so no,
I'm not interested, but I would like somebody to be
upfront tell me.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Trust me, it's weird stuff. It's on aer Kiki. I
have a feeling that people will be very upfront with you.
Everyone Kick would like you to be upfront with her
on ak Yeah all right, well uh, Jake, I'm sorry, man,
it's not gonna work out. Maybe i'd slow roll those plans.
Maybe that's more of a second date conversation.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
All right.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
I just like I like to be direct, like you yeah,
and you were and a hey you you swung, yeah,
and you whift and it's okay, you know what. That's
all right. I'm not I'm not gonna hate on that,
but it's not for Kendall. Kendall, thank you for your time.
Good luck, Jake, best of luck to you as well. Thanks.
Calin has the Entertainment Report. ITA's next on The Fred Show.
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