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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Daniel,
good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
How are you. I'm all right, how are you great?
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Tell us about Tiffany, how you met, about any dates
that you've been on, and kind of where things are now.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, we met on hinge, got her number, started texting.
We were, you know, learning planning our date, and then
she went dark.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I have been pre ghosted. We never even went out
and she disappeared. So I don't know how I screwed
something up before I met this girl.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Wow. Yeah, so we've heard about this happening a few times.
A few weeks ago.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
It happened.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
But so you guys never even went out, like, you
never met this person.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
You just texted.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
But yeah, we were just planning our first date and
then she stopped responding.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
So it's like, how do you screw up a date
before it even happens? Is the question.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
It's like a deep metaphysical question.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Then deep metaphysical I gotta go look that up and
think about it. Let me just marinate on that for
a minute. But okay, so we're gonna play a song.
Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Tiffany
see if we can get her on the phone, and
we'll ask these questions and hopefully we can straighten things
out and set you guys up on a date. It's
a first date and pay for it, right, So let's
find out what's up? Part two of waiting metaphone after
(01:21):
Shaboozie back.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
In two minutes on the Fred Show. Saboozie.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's the Fred Show. Hey, Daniel, all right, let's call Tiffany.
You guys matched on a dating app. It was Hinge
and you texted and you were flirting and you were
planning a date all via text, but she ghosted you
before the date could ever happen. So it's like, how
do you how do you get ghosted? But you never
went out with somebody? Like, how does that happen? So
(01:47):
let's call her and see if we can figure out
what's up? Good luck, Daniel, Thank you.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Is this Tiffany, Tiffany? Good morning?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
My name is Fred called from the Fred Show and
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now. I need your consent to continue with
the calls and okay if we chat for a second, Uh, okay,
Thank you very much. I know it's weird, but we're
calling out behalf of a guy named Daniel, who I
guess you matched with on on Hinge, the dating app,
and you texted a little bit but never wound up
(02:23):
going out because you disappeared before that.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Do you remember all of this?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
I remember Daniel?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Okay, so what is going on?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Because you know he reached out to USITY was like, look,
I thought things were going well, we were planning a date,
and then I don't hear from her anymore.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
So why, Well, I think so many people know like
dating after exacting, and he starts to see when he's
been on there for a while, but there's certain I
guess i'd say tropes of people, and Daniel fit ones.
We started texting and I wasn't interested anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Okay, well what did he do? Though?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I mean, because this guy's calling us going, hey, you know,
can you figure out why I got ghosted? So he
wants to know exactly why, and we're trying to help him.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
What happened? What did he do?
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Well, we were trying to make plans and I was
very excited. We did have a really good answer and
I was was pumped about it. And then as we
were making plans, he kept trying to basically plan right
near his apartment. All the dinner options, all of the
bar options, everything was just like by him and was
not considering me at all. But forget even that part.
(03:33):
It's like there is the person that only tries to
make plans near them, so that in theory, you know,
you show up to dinner and they're like, actually, let's
just like keep dinner, and then staid come back to
my apartment and that's not what I'm into.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
I'm somebody.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
So not only was it like, hey, you got to
come to me wherever I am, but also you're thinking
it's close to my house, so it's like, hey, maybe
we can slip on in the.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Oh at my house. I can't believe it. My house
is right here exactly, which is crazy. I didn't.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
Yeah, we fell into my home conveniently, but it felt
like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Going to say I've never done this, Tiffany, but I
will say that like it, but this is hold on,
I didn't do this. I didn't do this for sexual reason.
So like like this week, for example, I had a
date with somebody. This person got off work while I
was in an appointment, okay, And so she was off
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work and she was driving, and so I was like, hey,
if you want to meet at this time, then come
near me because I'll be in my thing. And then
when I'm out of my deal, then we'll meet, as
opposed to me getting out of my thing, getting in
my car driving across town and then we don't wind
up starting the date for two hours. We did not
go back to my house, by the way, but we
talked about that.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I told her what you were doing that out of right?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Well, a you were more communicative, which is properly helpful,
and you were saying, look, I want to spend more
time with you, and so this will give us actually
more time. That's a very different situation then we have
all the time world. Is the first date I can
con see if we get to your area or even
somewhere between us. But actually, I'm going to consist, me
insist over and over and over again to have a
(05:09):
spot near over and over and over again.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
That's a red flag.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Anytime a dude won't come to you, that's just my hetae.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah, and if you're not going to communicate it, I
will say I'm defending myself here. But I did say, hey,
next time I come to you wherever you want. Yeah,
but I laid that all out. I didn't just say,
oh my god, I can't believe it. We're eating in
a hot dog stand that's right in front of my house.
I'm not wearing pants. I mean, you know, let me
get the kids up there. Yeah, yeah, I didn't wear pants.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
But it's in a bunch. Yeah, let me in a box.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Let me bring Daniel and Daniel pretty inconsiderate, dude, sounds
like you were trying to, you know, go for location here.
You were trying to go for you know, proximity to
the house.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I mean, this is insane. So I didn't inst on anything.
But what is wrong with the girls coming to the guy?
But it's twenty twenty three, We got feminism now, you know,
Like what does a guy always.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Have to travel to her?
Speaker 2 (06:05):
What? What is wrong?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Like, Hey, I know these places are good because they're
right nearby.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Why don't you come check them out? What is wrong
with that?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Exactly. First of all, let's not just like way of feminism,
why like to traveling here? But it's also like they're
setting a precedent. There's the gesture that counts. This is
the first date. The least you could do is be like, hey, Tiffany,
what are you feeling?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
What we're stressed for you? Would you like to get
a spot near me?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Would you like to come? Like? Do we want to
slip the tween us? That's actually feminism, FYI? Do you
want to like you know what is best for you?
And instead of just like blaboring you must come to me.
You must come to because all I hear is selfishness
of like me, me, me, And then as I kept
pushing it, it did feel like you at some point
would probably like pull the rug out out from underneath
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me and be like, actually come to my apartment Like
it actually didn't.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Have that vibe.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I would appreciate, Daniel if you just straight up said like, yeah,
I wanted to be close to my house so we could,
you know, maybe slip back into the into the house
later into the crib, Like was that your intention?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
What is wrong with skipping dinner to hook up if
you're both feeling.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
This, Oh you thought you oh, I know the restaurants here,
but my bed that was gonna work? There are.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Look, she's calling me like a troop. I'm saying we're
obviously both attracted to each other. We picked each other
on the thing. I'm saying, Hey, I know a good restaurant,
why don't you come here? Then if we were to
meet and she's like, hey, you're good looking, maybe we
do something else first.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
I don't know about it. I mean, it's one thing
to take into dinner and then hey, is this close.
Maybe that'll work for you, but like going for the
whole thing. But it's like, yeah, we're not eating at
that restaurant. We're eating at Shade Danielle, which is my bedroom.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Let me come on, man.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
And by the way, if it were that, if it
was going to be that transactional, I figure you would
have had that conversation ahead of time, and you wouldn't.
You would have just skipped dinner all together, which that
happens too.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
So I don't. I don't think you're that slick.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Okay, Look, I wasn't going to stow up with like
a cartoon butterfly net and scoop.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Her up and like right back to my house. I
figured we'd see what happened. This girl is like calling
me a trope, calling me inconsiderate. All I did was say, hey,
here are a few good places by me. So it
sounds like, I guess we're.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Just not a man.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Well, I mean, fairness, Tiffany, and I'm not defending him,
but I guess you you probably could have said, hey,
I'm not I know what you're doing. I'm not going
to do that, like either come to me or we
meet the middle.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
But looks like he's clearly. Look he literally just admitted
that is exactly what he was playing. So you know
how I trusted my son, my button knew that he
was that type of curson. But why would I waste
my energy trying to convince somebody to not.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
I get that. I get that.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
So look, Tiffany, I don't I mean, I'll ask, but no,
no date with this guy will pay for it. No,
thank you, Okay, not gonna happen. Daniel, I don't know.
It didn't work out. I mean, it wasn't that smooth.
But hey, I guess I'm I'm.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Grad it didn't work. This girl has a major attitude.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Oh or all right? Like not imagine guys, I appreciate
your time. Best of luck to both of you.
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