Waiting by the Phone: We Go To The Same Gym!?

Charlotte is confused why Noah won't call her back after a fun night out... Find out why she got ghosted!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Charlotte, Yeah,
good morning, welcome to the little program.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
Here.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
What's going on with this guy? Noah? Tell us how
you met, about any dates that you've been on, and
then how we can help.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yeah, so, okay, I met Noah Bumble and you precided,
we finally asked me out, and everything just it seemed
like day to day it was just getting better and better.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Like text, the phone calls, to our actual first date,
and I just I really really connected with him. I
really liked him, and even really I told my friends
and I think that he could actually beat the one.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
Oh wow, so this is before you met or on
the date.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
No, this is after the date.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Okay, so after the date you're thinking, all right, you know,
the conversation ahead of time, the date itself, this guy,
this could be something you know significant.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
Yeah, Like, I mean, there was just this chemistry, this connection.
I just I hadn't experienced anything like this before, and
I'm like, oh my gosh, this seems like a supernatural
or something, and so yeah, it was amazing. And then
it's like he's just like disappeared into thin air, like
there's just nothing. I tried reaching out to him, and

(01:17):
I'm actually scared if something's.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Happened to him.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
So that's why I was hoping that you guys can
reach out, because I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Hoping I'm not being ghosted, but I'm actually.

Speaker 2 (01:24):
I'm more concerned that there's something wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
He's not okay, okay, because you've tried to get ahold
of him. You know you're hoping to plan another date.
I mean, clearly you think this guy might be the one,
and yet yeah responding to you at all. So all right,
let's see if we can get him on the phone.
You'll be on the phone too, and hopefully we can
straighten this out, figure out what's going on. Maybe there's
a good explanation, and set you guys up on another
date that we pay for.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
That would be great. Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
You got it, Charlotte, And to play one song, we'll
come back and do it. Hang on, Charlotte, Yeah, welcome back.
Let's call Noah. You guys met on Bumble, the dating app.
You talk for a while on the app and chatted
and whatever, and then you went on this date and
after the day you're telling your friends this is something,
this is special, like this guy. You even use the
term the one. He might be the one. Yeah, yeah,

(02:09):
that's a lot. I mean, that's a big deal. How
many times have you said that before? By the way,
how many times I've never said.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
I've never said this before. That's why this is so great.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Well, that's what I'm curious about, Like if you feel
this way all the time, or if this was like, really,
oh my gosh, this is something out of the ordinary.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
No, I just never connected with anyone like this ever,
But except now he's not calling all of a sudden,
And you want to know why.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
So what's called Noah?

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Now?

Speaker 5 (02:32):
Good luck?

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (02:44):
He Hi is just Noah. Yes, it is Noah. Good morning.
My name is Fred calling from the Fred's Show. The
whole crew is here. I'm sorry to bother, but I
do have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now and I would need your permission to
continue with the call. Can we chat for a couple
of minutes? Won't take too much time? Uh?

Speaker 5 (03:00):
Okay, I guess, I know. I know it's a.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Little bit strange, but thank you so much for your time.
We're calling on behalf of a woman named Charlotte says
she met you on Bumble and you guys recently went out.

Speaker 5 (03:11):
Uh yeah, yeah, yes we did.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
Okay, So she called us and told us that she
really liked you, like meeting you, felt strongly about you
after the date, and said she can't get a hold
of you. Was actually worried about your well being because
she says that you're not responding to anything. What's going on?

Speaker 5 (03:28):
Okay, Well, I'm fine, that's definitely not the issue. I
got a little bit weirded out after the date. Like
during the date, like it went fine, you know, we
hit it off. But a couple of days later she
asked what I was up to, and I told her

(03:51):
I was just about to go to the gym to
work out. A few minutes later, as I'm getting there,
I see her already at the gym. Okay, and it
was just weird. It sounds like it seems like she

(04:11):
was waiting for me.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
Okay, you've never seen her there before, I assume, because
if you had maybe Okay, so you've never seen the
woman at the gym. You tell her you're going to
the gym, and it just so happens out of nowhere,
here she is, Here's Charlotte working out, same time, Oh
my gosh, I can't believe it. Did you guys talk?

Speaker 5 (04:29):
Yeah for for a moment. I just got kind of
got weirded out though that, like, you know, she was there,
and oh.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
I got so you're saying that we can't go to
the same gym. Great person, it gets to work out.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
Yeah, sorry, I forgot to mention that part that Charlotte's here.
So Noah, I mean, you've never seen her there before,
So is it possible. Is it possible she is a
member and was also going to the gym and didn't
realize it was the same place. Is that possible?

Speaker 5 (04:58):
Yeah, obviously that is possible. But I asked the guy
at the desk if you had been there before Charlotte,
and she said, oh no, no, she just got a
one day past today.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
So you asked the front desk about me.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
Okay, that's kind of creepy. So here's Noah going, wait
a minute, this is weird. I just told this girl
I'm going to the gym. She's at the same gym.
I've never seen her there before, and so I guess
you knew somebody or whatever, and you're like, hey, what's
up with her? And oh, yeah, she's nice. She just
she's only here for the day. I mean, one of
the odds. Charlotte, Come on, I could work.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Out any Jim, I feel like.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
But who's to say that only one person can belong
to a gym?

Speaker 2 (05:45):
I mean, that's that's ridiculous.

Speaker 5 (05:47):
I mean, yeah, but you don't belong to that gym.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
I can't believe you did research on me like that.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
Okay, So you joined the gym knowing that he would
be there. You went there knowing that he would be
there and would run into him. I mean that's what happened.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
I didn't join the gym.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
I got a one day pass, okay, But you went
there knowing that you were going to run into him.
That was the only reason that you win.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
Look, I like to work out.

Speaker 3 (06:11):
I've been curious about that gym, so I kind of thought,
you know, what, killed two birds with one stone.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
I can try out the new gym and then maybe
maybe we could chat.

Speaker 1 (06:21):
But you could have just told him that. I mean
you could have been like, hey, you mentioned your gym
the other day on the date I think I'm going
to go check it out. I mean you could have
said that, and then if that's the case, and then
it wouldn't this all wouldn't be happening because now what
it looks I mean, you know what it looks like.
It looks like some stalker stuff, like like you weren't
getting the response you wanted from him, so you show
up to where you knew he would be, which I

(06:41):
can be a little unnerving.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
I just think I am not a stalker. None of
this is coming out as planned at all.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
That's the thing, like when people do stuff like this,
I don't know what you think the outcome is going
to be. Like I suppose he could have been excited
to see you and then it goes from there. But
there's a very good chance that this is all gonna
come out this way. And then it's like I don't
know how you. I don't know how you recover. Really
this is you know, every now and again we hear

(07:08):
these about these moves or I'm thinking there is a
very small likelihood of this working out the way that
you wanted to. But nonetheless, Noah, look she likes you
a lot. Are you flattered? I mean, would you consider
another date? Maybe we have to establish some boundaries here
and you know, maybe you have to join a new gym,
or she does I don't know, because everything was fine

(07:29):
until then. It sounds like, uh, yeah.

Speaker 5 (07:31):
No, that's gonna that's gonna be a no for me.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
All right, Thank you for your time, best of luck
to both of you. Yeah,