Waiting by the Phone: What About me?!

Tonya is confused after her date ghosted her after a fun night, find out why!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the French show, Tanya, Good morning, welcome to the show.

Speaker 3 (00:08):
How are you hi, guys, I'm doing good.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
How about you doing okay? So what's going on with
this guy Connor? I want to kind of understand here.
How did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates
that you've been on, and then where things are now?

Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (00:22):
So I met Connor, super cute by the way. We
met on an app.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
He asked me out for drinks. We went.

Speaker 4 (00:31):
I think we had a pretty good time. I will
say we even went back to my.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
Place, okay, and we did oh gosh, it's the radio,
so I don't know. We did some fun things, some
adult activities.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Rice you played like scrabble and you know maybe like
did you play?

Speaker 3 (00:47):
How'd you know?

Speaker 1 (00:49):
I will tell you something.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
You really need to get to the bottom of how
someone feels about the UNO rules before you date them,
because people have different definitions about rules, and I follow
the rules. I follow the actual rules. Have you know
that I'm very rarely a rule follower. But don't you
come around and you're trying to stack a bunch of
action cards on me all at once. You can't do
that anyway, thanks to you. So you thought everything went well,

(01:11):
you know, and I would think so too. If a
date kind of winds up back at somebody's place, that's
usually a pretty good sign.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
Yeah, I mean, I thought all signs would go.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
We play a little uno. I wanted to see him again.

Speaker 4 (01:23):
But yeah, literally as soon as he left my place,
the text stopped. Like he hasn't responded a single time,
so I'm totally in the dark. I thought we had
a great time and I would just love to know
what happened.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah that makes sense.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
I mean we hear it several times a week, and
many of us have been through it, where Caitlin and
Keiki have not, But some of us, you know, have
had that happen where you think everything went really well
and then the person you know doesn't respond to you
when you're like, well, was I on a different date
or what. So we're gonna call this guy Connor. We're
gonna ask these questions. You'll be on the phone at
the same time, and the hope is that we get
straighten this out and set you.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
Up on another day to be paid for.

Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, So I'm good.

Speaker 2 (01:59):
Let's find out what's going on part two of waiting
by the phone after Gaga, We're back in two minutes
on the Fred Show. Lady gog got the Fred Show.
He's not welcome to Friday. Hey, Tatia, Yep, welcome back.
Let's call this guy Connor. You met out one of
the apps. You went on a date. The date went well,
well enough that you wind up back at your place
right and then some stuff happens and then you haven't

(02:20):
heard from the guy since then, and it's like, wait
a minute, the date went well enough that it ended
that way. I would think i'd hear from this guy again.
There was chemistry, I guess, and yet nothing, no response
is to anything that's correct.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
Feeling pretty feeling pretty lame.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Yeah, no, I get it. Let's you're not lame. But
let's see what Connor has to say. We'll call him now.
Good luck.

Speaker 5 (02:40):
Thanks, Hello, Hi is this Connor?

Speaker 1 (02:49):
This is Connor. Good morning. My name is Fred.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. I said, Okay, wit chat
for just a second.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, that's fine.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a
woman who said she recently went out with you. Her
name is Tanya. Do you remember meeting Tanya on the
apps and you guys went on a date.

Speaker 6 (03:11):
Oh I remember Tanya man? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Okay, Well she reached out to us and told us
that she had met you and enjoyed going out with
you and thought the date went really well and expected
to hear from you for another date and says that
she hasn't, and so she feels like you're ghosting her.
It sounds like maybe you are. What's your version of
the story. Well, what happened?

Speaker 6 (03:30):
Yeah, look, I got no problem talking to you about
this because she's bogus.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
She's absolutely bogus. How is she?

Speaker 6 (03:39):
I'll tell you right now. We went back to her
place after the date. You know, things went well and I.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Did stuff to her, you know, good stuff, and she
did not do anything to me.

Speaker 6 (03:54):
In fact, when I was done doing all that delightful
stuff to her this time, but I okay, she asked.
She told me she was tired and asked me to leave.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
You didn't play no persona only one person getting anything?

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (04:11):
Okay, So you like a good gentleman, would you you
handled business first for your crver, right, and then it
was like okay, well that was fun, so yeah no
and then she's like, no, that's good, you can leave now.

Speaker 6 (04:28):
That was exactly what happens. And that's why it's bogus.
It's ridiculous while.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
You're smiling, because I know this happens the other way around,
and nobody's happy about it. So nobody should be happy
about this because sometimes sometimes you could, you could be
so delightful that it's like, let's just let it be this.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
Oh so I'm being penalized for being so delightful. You know,
you're too good for your own good?

Speaker 6 (04:53):
Is that?

Speaker 5 (04:54):
I say?

Speaker 2 (04:54):
So?

Speaker 1 (04:54):
Why she just do a worst job?

Speaker 4 (04:56):
Well no, no, are you doing it only to get
something in return?

Speaker 5 (05:00):
No?

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Actually no, but it does feel kind of like, and
I get it, it happens to get the way around, but
it's like, oh.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah, many a time, so you don't care that vision.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
But yeah, well, I forgot to mention Connor that Tanya
is here with us on the phone. I'm very forgetful, Tanya.
You left the part out where you know it was
a one person game, was not a two player game.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Well played.

Speaker 4 (05:24):
I mean maybe, But first of all, delightful is an
interesting word to use in Connor. Hey, yeah, I would
just echo what was already said. You only do stuff
to women if you know you'll get something back in return.
That's pretty gross.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
What was wrong with delightful? Are you suggesting that it
was not as good as he thought it was?

Speaker 4 (05:41):
I mean, look, it was good for two people who
just met, but it wasn't Delightful's like a bit much,
I think, really.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
And forget you called us trying to figure out where
he is, so you obviously liked him, so what's that.
Let's just be fair here and not minimize his efforts.

Speaker 4 (06:00):
Look, I think it's safe to say that we just
probably aren't a match if this is how you're going
to play things, Connor, but like happy to have an answers,
I think more so I just wanted answers, and so
now I've definitely got them.

Speaker 6 (06:14):
Very ridiculous.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
You know how I'm going to play things.

Speaker 6 (06:16):
You did nothing for me and you used me, and
you know what, I'm not interested in seeing you again.

Speaker 3 (06:21):
Oh okay, okay, well whatever. Men do that to women
all the time, So glad to be rid of you.

Speaker 1 (06:27):
I mean that may be true, but everything here apparently
was good enough. I've been tell you.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
I want to remind you you called us, asked us
to find this guys, and link you back up. I mean,
he's disappointed that he felt like you didn't care about
how he felt. And again, I think a lot of
guys need to hear this because there are men out
there that are very, uh, inconsiderate in this regard. So
I'm not saying this only happens one way, but it's
for you to be like, oh whatever now.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
I mean, the guy wanted to he wanted some delightful.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
Too, and that's fair. And maybe we would have gotten
there if we would have hung out a second time.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
But I don't think you can expect like perfect like
reciprocity every single time.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
So well, here any women listening who are interested, connor available.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
If it had been the other way around, Tanya and
you guys had done this and then you do something
to him and then he gets up and leaves, you
would be irked about it too. You probably wouldn't be
calling us asking us to find him.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
Yes, maybe, but like I feel kind of like most
of I don't know.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
I think a lot of women can relate like, that's
most of dating for women, like doing.

Speaker 3 (07:30):
That and then waiting.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
To see So I don't know, Connor, anything else you want.

Speaker 5 (07:35):
To say, yeah, goodbye, he's not interested, and now she's
saying she's not either, even though we okay whatever, So Connor,
thank you for answering.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
I wish you the best, and Tanya, good luck out
there to you as well.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Thanks.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Caitlin has the Entertainment Report next. In two minutes. She'll
be Shelley one four hundred bucks. You could wait if
you could beat our pop culture expert in five questions
in less than ten minutes on the