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Fread Show. Tim, Good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Oh, I'm hanging in there, guys.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
How are you guys doing doing? Okay? What's going on
with this woman? Olivia?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
How did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates
you've been on? And then kind of why you think
maybe you're being ghosted? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
So Olivia and I we met on the apps.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
You know, it's oldest time, right, and.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
A dails up this time? Is it tail? So old
to stop? Come on?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I believe you said it correctly, but anyway, all right?
So yeah, so then what and you.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Know, we we had good conversations. So we switched to
texting and we were messaging back and forth, and you know,
things were good. Uh, And we were working on setting
up a dates and I threw out a couple of
couple of ideas and then uh, and then I stopped
hearing from her.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Okay, so this state never took place, So it does
happen every now and again. But like you're puzzled because
you never even met this person, So like, what could
you have possibly screwed up before you.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Even went on a date?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Exactly? Like like I didn't I didn't have a chance
to say anything rude or or or incredibly stupid or
be mean to wait staff or like like anything.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Listen, I don't know. Listen to me. How could you
have screwed this up? Let me count the way? Okay,
let me count the ways. But let's just give you
the benefit of the doubt, Tim, And let's just assume
that you did everything right. You were excited to meet
Olivia and you never even got the first date, which
is perplexing. I mean, and I would probably bug me too,
Like I even get to the date, and you're upset
(02:07):
with me. So we're gonna call Olivia. You're gonna be
on the phone. We're gonna ask these questions on your
behalf and try and get some answers, and at some
point you're welcome to jump in on the call. And
the hope is always is if we get straighten this
ound and send you guys up on I guess, in
this case your first date and paid for it, all right,
I'd be great, Thank you, He's sim Let's call Olivia.
You guys, you never actually went on a first date.
(02:28):
You matched, you talked about dating a date, you actually
went from the app to texting, which is usually a
pretty good sign. And then before the date actually happened,
this woman disappeared. You haven't heard from her since, and
you want to know why. You're exactly all right, Let's
call Olivia out, good luck?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Hello? Hi is this Olivia? Yes, Hi, Olivia. My name
is Fred.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the rdeo right now and I would need you on
permission to continue with the call, can which at for
just a second.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
You can hang up anytime?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah, I thought it was no good, no good, no
no no, no no no. I just want to make sure.
I just want to make no. I mean I totally
understand that. But you can hang up anytime. We're calling
on behalf of a guy named Tim though he called us.
He says, you guys matched on the apps and we're
texting talking about a date that never happened.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah, okay, it's weird that he called you.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
It is.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I mean, I suppose it could be depending on what
happened here. But he describes what he thought was just basic,
benign conversation planning a date, and then all of a
sudden you disappeared, and he spugged. He's like, well, I
was looking forward to meeting her, and I don't know
what I did or what happened, and it's been bothering him.
So we thought we'd try and get a hold of
you and ask those questions.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
What happened?
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Okay, well, I mean it just kind of seemed like okay,
so we met on I mean, there's a million apps
out there, and it was just casual kit chatting whatever,
and personality wise, I mean we got along really great,
Like he was really funny.
Speaker 6 (04:12):
And but the thing is is that like his he
had like two photos on there, and they were like
blurry and kind of from far away and.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
To the point of where I didn't like and he.
Speaker 7 (04:24):
Was with like other people like on his profile, I
didn't really know.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Like who specifically he was. Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Okay, So you were confused on his dating profile that
the pictures were a little obscure and you were just
trying to get some clarification on like which person am
I talking to? Don't put multiple people on your profiles.
I've been saying this, Guys like you one the profiles.
There's no confusion. Put clear pictures that are recent of you.
Speaker 8 (04:50):
And so like, okay, So like, oh, maybe he's, like
I don't know, a little nervous to have a dating
app or something. I mean, we can't really like normal
people anymore, so I understand why it would be a
little embarrassing to put yourself on it up.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
So I casually said, you know, can I have your.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Instagram and found his Instagram.
Speaker 7 (05:11):
And it's the same situation, like there aren't it's there's
not a whole lot of photos. It's kind of blurry,
they're really old, like I'm saying middle two thousands.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Oh, it's like drawings of him he drew.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
He drew pictures of himself mid two thousands, So twenty
year old pictures that a little bit of the actual
photographs that he scammed a Kinko's or something and put
up there.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I mean, you know what I'm saying, where it's like, oh,
they haven't posted in forever, and it's you know, I
was like, I don't.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
It just kind of seemed like it might be like
a scam or like a bot.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
But I knew it wasn't a bot because he was
talking to me. I don't know. It was just to me.
It's we're in a technological age.
Speaker 8 (05:54):
If you're going to go on these dating apps, you've
got to show people what you look like and how clear.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
It was hard for you to identify what this what
was really going on here. You weren't sure who you
were looking at. You didn't get a clear picture, and
so you what you just kind of got spooked and
stopped talking to him.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Is that is that it?
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (06:11):
It was really just early on and I don't know,
it just kind of seemed like he.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Had something to hide or I and I don't really
have time to do with that. I don't really want
to do it much.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
In it before where I matched with somebody, and then
like as I get to sort of like looking more
carefully at it because you're going kind of fast through
that thing, and then you're like, wait a minute, like
I need a reverse image, like this is dua lipa
in these pictures. I don't know why she's going out
with me. Let me bring Tim in and ask these questions.
I'm sorry, o, Livy. I get forgetful, like I get
caught up in a story and I forget Tim is here, Tim?
(06:41):
Why not some clear photographs of ourselves? Why don't we
just post like what we look like so there's no
confusion and then this doesn't happen.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
I mean, like the short answer is, I'm just not
Like I'm not one of those people who's always on
their phone, you know, like I take pictures when I
take pictures, but like I don't need to be posting
myself all the time.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
But it's a Danny profile man, Like we're selling ourselves here,
so we want good pictures of ourselves that are clear
and easy to identify.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Sure, yeah totally, but like you know, I also I'm
not interested in people who only who like only care
about looks and like need like.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
No, I just wanted to know if you were AI
bro like. She just wanted to know if it was
Chad Gpt that she was. I mean, I guess she's
meeting you in person, man Like. Can't you appreciate that
somebody wants some assurance that they're meeting a real human being?
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Sure?
Speaker 3 (07:30):
I mean, she could have just asked me if I
was a real human being, she could ask me for
pictures at anything.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Would say yes to that?
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Okay, okay, have you not talked to Chadgpt lately because
it pretends like it's real?
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Yep?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Well, would the robot have called the radio station to
talk to her?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
I don't know anymore. I really don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
I have no idea, but I mean, I guess she
could have said to you, Olivia. You probably could have
said to him, hey, look, the conversation's good, but can
you send me a picture of you or something? Because
I don't I don't know. I don't feel like this
all looks legit. I mean, I suppose you could have
said that, but then again, you don't really have to
because you don't know this person.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Yeah, I don't. I mean, it was really just early on.
I don't really have to do that kind of stuff,
you know, like if.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
You're not going to be if you're not going to
play into the rules of this kind of dating game,
then I don't.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
I don't even want to dive into that.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
You know, And you're saying to him, she's superficial because
she wanted to know what you look like, which is crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
I'm saying that it seems like that's all she cares
about in this conversation. Like I'm not saying that I
don't know if she's superficial or not, but like the
focus of this seems to be seems to be just about.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Looks, which is so I think she cares about holding
under her identity and not winding up on dateline, I
think is what she cares. I mean, to me, that'st
fish or something catfish.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I mean, that's the thing that happens to men a
lot more than does to women.
Speaker 8 (08:46):
Like I'm sorry, it matters what someone looks like, like
you have to.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Like and if you're obscuring what you look like for
some reason, scaring what I.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Look like, I just don't take a lot of picture
like I just I just don't you know buying this.
Speaker 9 (09:00):
Yeah, I like a man, you know. I like a
man that has a dusty social media off of social Yeah,
I don't want my man on social. I want him
to post only on my birthday, tell me happy birthday. Okay,
maybe Mother's Day for his mom. But other than that,
he don't really need to be on social. Now, I
was on her side, and so he said. All she
had to do was ask him to send her a photo.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
He would have said that, why but why are your
pictures twenty years old?
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Are you? Are you sitting that's.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Only years old? They're not twenty years old. I don't
know why she thinks they're twenty years old. They're not
twenty years old. They're a couple of years old.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Man, I mean, we're talking about meeting in person. It's
a wild world. I guess I would want to be
confident that I know who I'm talking.
Speaker 10 (09:38):
He doesn't update their head shots, like they're not going
to do their dating profiles.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
All the time.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
No, I think people are far more likely to update
their dating profiles than anything.
Speaker 10 (09:45):
Honestly, hobby like his is what is the twenty sixteen
cubs thing whatever, like, that's his photos were from twenty sixteen.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
You also met him in twenty nineteen, so that's part
twenty twenty. So four what is his dating profile? What
do you mean one? I take them?
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Actually the new pictures and what sort of freaky stuff
are you?
Speaker 10 (10:11):
Look at his instagram though before I came along, it
would be like wings like wings up with on his
Instagram profile.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
It is fine.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Dating profile needs to be updated. I think it needs
to be current. I think I think it's willing.
Speaker 9 (10:22):
Is he willing to take a new photo and send
it to her?
Speaker 7 (10:24):
Now?
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Tim? Can we broke her a deal?
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Like?
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Will you send her?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
I mean, Olivia, would you even be interested if he
can verify his like hold up a newspaper with today's date,
you know, and a picture of you?
Speaker 5 (10:34):
Right, I mean, honestly, just the fact that he like,
I mean, like, why are you so obsessed with me?
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Like you like called the radio station, Like that's just weird.
I don't know, you guys sound like a dude.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Okay, all right, Look I don't think it's newish pictures.
But at the same time, I just this isn't going
to be a match. So Olivia, thank you for answering
for your time. Tim good luck out there, off day,