December 3, 2025 • 14 mins
Danielle is confused why her date Dakota won't call her back... Find out why she got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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the phone, It's the Fread Show. Hey Danielle, good morning,
welcome to you waiting by the phone on the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Thanks for helping me.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
So what's going on with this guy Dakota? I see
that you met on the dating apps, but then I
want to hear about, you know, kind of any kind
of courtship or whatever, and then any dates you've been on,
and then why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Yeah? So, okay, there's this guy named Dakota and we
met onlike these like on a dating app, but either way,
we match and we were talking for like about like
a good week and just like flirting back and forth.
And then he's like Okay, do you do you want
to go and get drinks?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I was like, of course, yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
So I was like super excited to meet him and
super excited like when I was there, because like he
was just great and like the Sparks who were there,
we connected. It was like awesome, most perfect and actually,
like a lot of the guys I ended up dating,
like they're kind of they're kind of weird. I mean,
like it's just twenty twenty five. I feel like that's
(01:27):
how it is now, but Dakota was actually normal. So
I really like.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
That either way.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I am calling you guys because first he didn't reach
out after our great or anything to me, and then
now my text like that I sent, like I wasn't
going to be the first one, but I had to
just because I mean a few days went by, so
I was like, uh so when ahead and texted him,
and it's just showing up as like like not delivered,
(01:55):
and it wasn't like that before. So I kind of
actually just I'm like, I'm annoyed that I think it's
a text, but now I'm kind of just concerned that
is he actually safe? Is everything? Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Yeah? I mean that's puzzling. It's puzzling to go from
what you thought was a good day with a guy
who's not weird to be essentially blocked. Because it looks
like it looks like you've been blocked. I mean, that's
usually what happens when it or I don't know, or
the guy changed his phone number, or I guess there's
some other possibilities too, but usually when you used to
get delivered and now you don't get delivered on the phone,
(02:29):
you got blocked.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Well, we never know, so like, maybe we can figure
it out, you know.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
I like the positivity. I like that, and that is
what we're here to do here. I am like letting
you marinate it. Yeah, you got blocked, all right, Well
thanks for calling them a good day. No, we are
going to call this guy Dakota in just a second.
You'll be on the phone hopefully we didn't get blocked,
and we'll ask some questions on your behalf. You'll be
on the phone, of course, and you're welcome to jump
in at any point. But the hope is that we
(02:55):
can figure out what's up, straighten things out, and then
set you guys up on another day and pay for that,
all right, Yeah, I love that. Thank you, Danielle.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, okay, let's call this guy Dakota. You met out
one of the dating apps, and I think, like a
lot of people, they can be frustrating and you've met
some kind of weirdos and stuff that didn't really mesh.
But this guy Dakota, you liked him, You like chatting
with him, You thought the date went well, except you
haven't heard from him since the date. And then you
decided to reach out and your messages went from being
(03:26):
delivered on you know, it used to stay delivered on
your phone, so now it doesn't say that anymore, and
you're like, well, wait a minute, how do we have
a great date? And now it looks like maybe either
this guy's blocked me or changed his number or something
weird like that. What's going on? Right?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah, And the whole time before we were talking for
like a good like a good solid week, like all
the time back and forth, and my text message didn't
show like that. And I mean, maybe I am blocked,
but like I mean, it went really good to me,
so I kind of like doubt that it is actually all.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Right, Well, let's call him now. Good luck. Danielle, is
this Dakota. Yeah, Hi Tekota, good morning. My name is Fred.
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I'm sorry to bother you, but I do have
to tell you that we are on the radio right
(04:15):
now and I would need your permission to continue with
the call. Can we chat for just a second. You
can hang up anytime or block us? Yeah, yeah, okay, sure, Well,
thank you very much. I know it's strange to get
a call like this and kind of abrupt, but we're
calling on behalf of a woman named Danielle who says
that she met you on one of the dating apps
and you guys chat it for a while a week
or so, I guess, and then went on a date recently.
(04:37):
Do you remember meeting her? I hope, yeah, no, Yeah,
I remember Danielle.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Huh.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Okay, So we talked to her just a minute ago,
and she had nice things to say about you. She
was excited to meet you. I just said that she
thought the date went really well. Did not hear from
you since the date? Says she's reached out to try
and get a hold of you to maybe see about
seeing you again. Thinks that maybe her messages aren't being delivered,
and I'm just curious what your inside of the story is,
(05:03):
because she'd like to go out with you again.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
I mean yeah, we chaded for a while before we met,
and and she seemed really cool, so I asked her
out and we went out and and uh on our date,
and you know, pretty early on, she she was like, oh,
you know, I have to admit, I found your Instagram.
I saw that one of your latest photos had like
a girl in it, so you know, I was a
(05:29):
little worried you had a girlfriend or something, which which okay,
like sure, you know, I mean, I guess, but like
it's actually a picture of my my best friend, whose
name is Kylie. And I told her that right away,
like you know, and and uh and Kylie, Kylie and
I we've been friends forever. She's she's like a she's
(05:52):
like a little sister to make you know, like a
little later on, I was telling her a story not
too long after that, and Kylie was in it. She was,
you know, she and I were or off doing something.
Immediately as soon as I making Kylie's name, Danielle's like
like leaned in, like like life or death leaned in
and she's like, oh, Wow, you guys are together a lot.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Huh.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
And uh, you know, it struck It struck me kind
of weird, you know, because I just told her we
were best friends and then we went way back, and
there was something kind of I don't know, like.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Like she was really sure about this person, like she
was she had a lot of questions about the relationship
because this person seems to be, you know, central in
your life, and she was an Instagram post and then
and then she comes up in a story, So so
what that turns you off? That that that she seems
skeptical about this woman.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
I mean, if if she had left it there, I
probably not. Like, you know, I get it. It's it's
not super common, I guess for guys to have best
friends that are girls. But like all night, all night,
she would like bring Kylie up and be like, are
you sure you never dated? You never thought about sleeping
together or hooking up?
Speaker 1 (07:01):
You don't think she's secretly in love with you?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Do you?
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
All night? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
And like yeah, I mean, and you know it just
it's just like major red flag energy, you know, like
I don't have time for someone to be jealous of
someone who's important to me, and and like, I'm not
gonna cut my best friend out of my life, right,
I have aud I'm dating someone that's insecure, and I
was just like, I don't know. And it's even been
(07:27):
dating for long. It was our first date. She was
she was leading with all that.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
I can see what that would be a turn off,
because I mean, if you, I suppose, if you wanted
to be with your best friend, then you wouldn't be
on the dating apps meeting other people. But let me
I'd like to hear Danielle's side of this. And I
forgot to mention that Danielle is here. I'm very forgetful.
I get caught up in the story. Sorry, Danielle. So
you didn't tell us that you were sort of obsessing
over this friend of his? Like, can you see how
(07:53):
you bringing it up over and over again might might
make you look insecure if you're if in fact, you're not, Oh,
I'd like.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
To say hi, Dakona samiel ya. And I'm actually surprised
that you're even on the line because I thought something
actually happened to your phone or that like you like
weren't okay, And first of all, shocks that you think
it's okay to go someone like I don't under that's
so rude. And also like if you're single, I mean,
I just Tony Andersen writer, were so many pictures of
(08:22):
a girl on your instagram, So.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Like why can't he have a female friend, Like what
do we know? Maybe she's a lesbian, Like I don't know,
I mean honestly, like we don't know anything about this person.
I mean, imagine if you imagine if he went out
with you and and he had done this perusal, he
you know, went looked at all your stuff ahead of time,
all your socials, and then he was asking you tons
(08:46):
of questions about these other men. It's like, I don't know.
It's not necessarily putting your best foot forward, is it. Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Everyone like everyone looks like everyone's socials all the time.
I'm not like the only girl to like to do
that or guys probably should do that. But like if
a girl your best friend, like that's not even a thing.
That's like that's not legit at all, Like someone likes
someone and if your guy, a guy should be your
best friend, not a girl.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
What Okay, hang on, I'm sorry, Like, first of all,
that's crazy. People can't be best friends with anyone. It's
not just guys with guys, it doesn't.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Ever, it can never work out because someone either likes
someone and like, yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
That's a lot of you're just going to a lot
of conclusions. I mean, I know it's not as common
maybe as as men having men best friends or women
having women best friends. But again, I mean to immediately say,
all you're projecting all these things. You're saying all these things,
and we don't know if any of that's true. We
haven't even heard about this woman.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
No, no, no, hang on, hang on, hang on. You that
at most conversations. But you know what's bad a conversations, Danielle,
Guys guys are terrible conversationalists.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
What No, he's saying that women are more they're they're
more enjoyable to talk to you or more receptive. And
they bet what he's saying is like, yeah, he enjoys
talking to her.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
So that's that's like a judgment. That's like a fake judgment.
Or you know, you.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Tell him, Danielle, he's a lot to have an opinion.
He's locked a female man. Why why is he on
a date with you? If this woman's a threat, I
guess would be the first question I would.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Ask, she secretly likes him?
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Like, we don't know that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Either one of them is being someone being friend zoned.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
That's what's going on, right, because they're friends one of them.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
It doesn't pay.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Energy.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
So you subscribe to the idea that men and women
cannot be friends. I just want to be clear about this.
I mean, it's what you're saying over and over, but
I just want you to Danielle, a man and a
woman cannot be platonic friends. There. There must be an angle,
is what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
There's so many scientific things that prove that they just can't.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, okay, but did you ever I mean, I know
you've asked, you asked a lot of questions about her,
but like he answered the question, like he said to you,
I'm not interested in her in that way. She's that
interested in me. I mean, we can't leave it there.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Well, he probably doesn't know that. I'm sure. I'm sure
either he likes her secretly or has something towards.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Her, or she likes Let me ask you this, Danielle.
Here's a question. If if you feel this way, then
why are and this all happened on the date, Why
are we even doing this. I mean, if you're so
convinced that they're in a romantic relationship, then why are
we trying to fix it. He's not going to not
be her friend to go out with you, So I guess,
as far as you're concerned, there's something going on. So
(11:43):
why are we trying to set you up on another day?
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Well, because I didn't know that he would actually ghost
me and maybe we can like move past this and
that like he would be like okay, like just him
and I would get together, and like the best friend
would just not be there anymore.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Oh girl, So okay, So he cannot be best friends
with her if he wants to. This is come off.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Yeah. I mean if I had a guy that was
my best friend and like my boyfriend didn't like it,
I'd like, okay fine, and then I would lean him
off of my life.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
That's how rare Forever with someone?
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Yeah, Like, what do.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
You mean forever? You went on one date, Danielle, This
is ridiculous problems with no relationship with no man. Girl, Danielle,
I'm sorry you've jumped to so many conclusions. You have
so many theories. Uh, you went on one day with
(12:36):
this guy? You handed him the whole time about it,
and now, by your own admission, you would like to
go out with him again, but only if he ditches
his best friend, his female best friend, like that's you don't.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Very yeah, and.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Justice for Kylie. We know you're being honest, and I
think I think that unfortunately, you might be a nice person,
but it shows a lot of insecurity and it's asking
a lot for someone to say on a first date. Fine,
I'll just abandon this person in my life because you
don't like it. You've never even met her.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Don't first date lead to something which is like us
forever in a whole life with someone.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Not this one? Yeah? Yeah, not in this case? No?
All right, Look, I feel like I'm giving you the
opportunity to clarify any confusion that we might have, but
there's none. So I will ask the question, Dakota, would
you like to go out with her again? The terms
would be that you'd have to be with her forever
and you would have to get rid of your female
best friend completely. You'd have to basically kill her. So
(13:38):
what's are down? Sound good?
Speaker 3 (13:44):
I guess I never thought about it in those terms.
It does seem like it could be if it's no,
of course not of course.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
No second date. Yeah, I look, Danielle, I don't know
what was been going on with you or like, I
don't know, yeah, right right, And I'm sorry about it.
But I think you have a lot, a lot of
feelings about I don't know if maybe you've encountered something
like this with a male female dynamic that scored you
(14:09):
or something, but I don't know that I think it's
fair to say all these things. And I also think
that this guy just obviously isn't for you, Like the
guy that you're looking for is going to apparently have
never met a woman before ever.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Yeah, or not, or just have a guy as a
best friend like normal.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Okay, well that's normal to you, I guess guys. Yeah, Dakota,
thank you for your time, Danielle. I truly wish you
the best. Not going to work out this time,
This is the Fread Show. Zane is taking over Las
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at Park MGM, and we've got a trip for two
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at Park MGM January twenty fourth through the twenty sixth
and round trip airfare. Text Night to three seven three
three seven now for a chance to win. A confirmation
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All thanks to Live. Nation's ever been left waiting by
the phone, It's the Fread Show. Hey Danielle, good morning,
welcome to you waiting by the phone on the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Thanks for helping me.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
So what's going on with this guy Dakota? I see
that you met on the dating apps, but then I
want to hear about, you know, kind of any kind
of courtship or whatever, and then any dates you've been on,
and then why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Yeah? So, okay, there's this guy named Dakota and we
met onlike these like on a dating app, but either way,
we match and we were talking for like about like
a good week and just like flirting back and forth.
And then he's like Okay, do you do you want
to go and get drinks?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I was like, of course, yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
So I was like super excited to meet him and
super excited like when I was there, because like he
was just great and like the Sparks who were there,
we connected. It was like awesome, most perfect and actually,
like a lot of the guys I ended up dating,
like they're kind of they're kind of weird. I mean,
like it's just twenty twenty five. I feel like that's
(01:27):
how it is now, but Dakota was actually normal. So
I really like.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
That either way.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I am calling you guys because first he didn't reach
out after our great or anything to me, and then
now my text like that I sent, like I wasn't
going to be the first one, but I had to
just because I mean a few days went by, so
I was like, uh so when ahead and texted him,
and it's just showing up as like like not delivered,
(01:55):
and it wasn't like that before. So I kind of
actually just I'm like, I'm annoyed that I think it's
a text, but now I'm kind of just concerned that
is he actually safe? Is everything? Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Yeah? I mean that's puzzling. It's puzzling to go from
what you thought was a good day with a guy
who's not weird to be essentially blocked. Because it looks
like it looks like you've been blocked. I mean, that's
usually what happens when it or I don't know, or
the guy changed his phone number, or I guess there's
some other possibilities too, but usually when you used to
get delivered and now you don't get delivered on the phone,
(02:29):
you got blocked.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Well, we never know, so like, maybe we can figure
it out, you know.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
I like the positivity. I like that, and that is
what we're here to do here. I am like letting
you marinate it. Yeah, you got blocked, all right, Well
thanks for calling them a good day. No, we are
going to call this guy Dakota in just a second.
You'll be on the phone hopefully we didn't get blocked,
and we'll ask some questions on your behalf. You'll be
on the phone, of course, and you're welcome to jump
in at any point. But the hope is that we
(02:55):
can figure out what's up, straighten things out, and then
set you guys up on another day and pay for that,
all right, Yeah, I love that. Thank you, Danielle.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, okay, let's call this guy Dakota. You met out
one of the dating apps, and I think, like a
lot of people, they can be frustrating and you've met
some kind of weirdos and stuff that didn't really mesh.
But this guy Dakota, you liked him, You like chatting
with him, You thought the date went well, except you
haven't heard from him since the date. And then you
decided to reach out and your messages went from being
(03:26):
delivered on you know, it used to stay delivered on
your phone, so now it doesn't say that anymore, and
you're like, well, wait a minute, how do we have
a great date? And now it looks like maybe either
this guy's blocked me or changed his number or something
weird like that. What's going on? Right?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah, And the whole time before we were talking for
like a good like a good solid week, like all
the time back and forth, and my text message didn't
show like that. And I mean, maybe I am blocked,
but like I mean, it went really good to me,
so I kind of like doubt that it is actually all.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Right, Well, let's call him now. Good luck. Danielle, is
this Dakota. Yeah, Hi Tekota, good morning. My name is Fred.
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I'm sorry to bother you, but I do have
to tell you that we are on the radio right
(04:15):
now and I would need your permission to continue with
the call. Can we chat for just a second. You
can hang up anytime or block us? Yeah, yeah, okay, sure, Well,
thank you very much. I know it's strange to get
a call like this and kind of abrupt, but we're
calling on behalf of a woman named Danielle who says
that she met you on one of the dating apps
and you guys chat it for a while a week
or so, I guess, and then went on a date recently.
(04:37):
Do you remember meeting her? I hope, yeah, no, Yeah,
I remember Danielle.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Huh.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Okay, So we talked to her just a minute ago,
and she had nice things to say about you. She
was excited to meet you. I just said that she
thought the date went really well. Did not hear from
you since the date? Says she's reached out to try
and get a hold of you to maybe see about
seeing you again. Thinks that maybe her messages aren't being delivered,
and I'm just curious what your inside of the story is,
(05:03):
because she'd like to go out with you again.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
I mean yeah, we chaded for a while before we met,
and and she seemed really cool, so I asked her
out and we went out and and uh on our date,
and you know, pretty early on, she she was like, oh,
you know, I have to admit, I found your Instagram.
I saw that one of your latest photos had like
a girl in it, so you know, I was a
(05:29):
little worried you had a girlfriend or something, which which okay,
like sure, you know, I mean, I guess, but like
it's actually a picture of my my best friend, whose
name is Kylie. And I told her that right away,
like you know, and and uh and Kylie, Kylie and
I we've been friends forever. She's she's like a she's
(05:52):
like a little sister to make you know, like a
little later on, I was telling her a story not
too long after that, and Kylie was in it. She was,
you know, she and I were or off doing something.
Immediately as soon as I making Kylie's name, Danielle's like
like leaned in, like like life or death leaned in
and she's like, oh, Wow, you guys are together a lot.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Huh.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
And uh, you know, it struck It struck me kind
of weird, you know, because I just told her we
were best friends and then we went way back, and
there was something kind of I don't know, like.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Like she was really sure about this person, like she
was she had a lot of questions about the relationship
because this person seems to be, you know, central in
your life, and she was an Instagram post and then
and then she comes up in a story, So so
what that turns you off? That that that she seems
skeptical about this woman.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
I mean, if if she had left it there, I
probably not. Like, you know, I get it. It's it's
not super common, I guess for guys to have best
friends that are girls. But like all night, all night,
she would like bring Kylie up and be like, are
you sure you never dated? You never thought about sleeping
together or hooking up?
Speaker 1 (07:01):
You don't think she's secretly in love with you?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Do you?
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
All night? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
And like yeah, I mean, and you know it just
it's just like major red flag energy, you know, like
I don't have time for someone to be jealous of
someone who's important to me, and and like, I'm not
gonna cut my best friend out of my life, right,
I have aud I'm dating someone that's insecure, and I
was just like, I don't know. And it's even been
(07:27):
dating for long. It was our first date. She was
she was leading with all that.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
I can see what that would be a turn off,
because I mean, if you, I suppose, if you wanted
to be with your best friend, then you wouldn't be
on the dating apps meeting other people. But let me
I'd like to hear Danielle's side of this. And I
forgot to mention that Danielle is here. I'm very forgetful.
I get caught up in the story. Sorry, Danielle. So
you didn't tell us that you were sort of obsessing
over this friend of his? Like, can you see how
(07:53):
you bringing it up over and over again might might
make you look insecure if you're if in fact, you're not, Oh,
I'd like.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
To say hi, Dakona samiel ya. And I'm actually surprised
that you're even on the line because I thought something
actually happened to your phone or that like you like
weren't okay, And first of all, shocks that you think
it's okay to go someone like I don't under that's
so rude. And also like if you're single, I mean,
I just Tony Andersen writer, were so many pictures of
(08:22):
a girl on your instagram, So.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Like why can't he have a female friend, Like what
do we know? Maybe she's a lesbian, Like I don't know,
I mean honestly, like we don't know anything about this person.
I mean, imagine if you imagine if he went out
with you and and he had done this perusal, he
you know, went looked at all your stuff ahead of time,
all your socials, and then he was asking you tons
(08:46):
of questions about these other men. It's like, I don't know.
It's not necessarily putting your best foot forward, is it. Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Everyone like everyone looks like everyone's socials all the time.
I'm not like the only girl to like to do
that or guys probably should do that. But like if
a girl your best friend, like that's not even a thing.
That's like that's not legit at all, Like someone likes
someone and if your guy, a guy should be your
best friend, not a girl.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
What Okay, hang on, I'm sorry, Like, first of all,
that's crazy. People can't be best friends with anyone. It's
not just guys with guys, it doesn't.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Ever, it can never work out because someone either likes
someone and like, yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
That's a lot of you're just going to a lot
of conclusions. I mean, I know it's not as common
maybe as as men having men best friends or women
having women best friends. But again, I mean to immediately say,
all you're projecting all these things. You're saying all these things,
and we don't know if any of that's true. We
haven't even heard about this woman.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
No, no, no, hang on, hang on, hang on. You that
at most conversations. But you know what's bad a conversations, Danielle,
Guys guys are terrible conversationalists.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
What No, he's saying that women are more they're they're
more enjoyable to talk to you or more receptive. And
they bet what he's saying is like, yeah, he enjoys
talking to her.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
So that's that's like a judgment. That's like a fake judgment.
Or you know, you.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Tell him, Danielle, he's a lot to have an opinion.
He's locked a female man. Why why is he on
a date with you? If this woman's a threat, I
guess would be the first question I would.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Ask, she secretly likes him?
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Like, we don't know that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Either one of them is being someone being friend zoned.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
That's what's going on, right, because they're friends one of them.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
It doesn't pay.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Energy.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
So you subscribe to the idea that men and women
cannot be friends. I just want to be clear about this.
I mean, it's what you're saying over and over, but
I just want you to Danielle, a man and a
woman cannot be platonic friends. There. There must be an angle,
is what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
There's so many scientific things that prove that they just can't.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, okay, but did you ever I mean, I know
you've asked, you asked a lot of questions about her,
but like he answered the question, like he said to you,
I'm not interested in her in that way. She's that
interested in me. I mean, we can't leave it there.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Well, he probably doesn't know that. I'm sure. I'm sure
either he likes her secretly or has something towards.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Her, or she likes Let me ask you this, Danielle.
Here's a question. If if you feel this way, then
why are and this all happened on the date, Why
are we even doing this. I mean, if you're so
convinced that they're in a romantic relationship, then why are
we trying to fix it. He's not going to not
be her friend to go out with you, So I guess,
as far as you're concerned, there's something going on. So
(11:43):
why are we trying to set you up on another day?
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Well, because I didn't know that he would actually ghost
me and maybe we can like move past this and
that like he would be like okay, like just him
and I would get together, and like the best friend
would just not be there anymore.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Oh girl, So okay, So he cannot be best friends
with her if he wants to. This is come off.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Yeah. I mean if I had a guy that was
my best friend and like my boyfriend didn't like it,
I'd like, okay fine, and then I would lean him
off of my life.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
That's how rare Forever with someone?
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Yeah, Like, what do.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
You mean forever? You went on one date, Danielle, This
is ridiculous problems with no relationship with no man. Girl, Danielle,
I'm sorry you've jumped to so many conclusions. You have
so many theories. Uh, you went on one day with
(12:36):
this guy? You handed him the whole time about it,
and now, by your own admission, you would like to
go out with him again, but only if he ditches
his best friend, his female best friend, like that's you don't.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Very yeah, and.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Justice for Kylie. We know you're being honest, and I
think I think that unfortunately, you might be a nice person,
but it shows a lot of insecurity and it's asking
a lot for someone to say on a first date. Fine,
I'll just abandon this person in my life because you
don't like it. You've never even met her.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Don't first date lead to something which is like us
forever in a whole life with someone.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Not this one? Yeah? Yeah, not in this case? No?
All right, Look, I feel like I'm giving you the
opportunity to clarify any confusion that we might have, but
there's none. So I will ask the question, Dakota, would
you like to go out with her again? The terms
would be that you'd have to be with her forever
and you would have to get rid of your female
best friend completely. You'd have to basically kill her. So
(13:38):
what's are down? Sound good?
Speaker 3 (13:44):
I guess I never thought about it in those terms.
It does seem like it could be if it's no,
of course not of course.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
No second date. Yeah, I look, Danielle, I don't know
what was been going on with you or like, I
don't know, yeah, right right, And I'm sorry about it.
But I think you have a lot, a lot of
feelings about I don't know if maybe you've encountered something
like this with a male female dynamic that scored you
(14:09):
or something, but I don't know that I think it's
fair to say all these things. And I also think
that this guy just obviously isn't for you, Like the
guy that you're looking for is going to apparently have
never met a woman before ever.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Yeah, or not, or just have a guy as a
best friend like normal.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Okay, well that's normal to you, I guess guys. Yeah, Dakota,
thank you for your time, Danielle. I truly wish you
the best. Not going to work out this time,
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