Waiting by the Phone: You Could Improve Your Skills!

Grant is confused why his dater Natalie won't call him back after a fun night out... Find out why he got ghosted!

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waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey Greg,
good morning, welcome to the program. How are you? I'm
great man, Thanks for having me. This guy, he sounds
very positive for a guy who I mean, you were ghosted? Bro,
Like you're not sad about it? I mean, I guess

(00:43):
it's sad enough that you want some answers. I am shack.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
I mean, come on, I'm a little let down, but
I'm a pretty confident guy.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Well I hear that, you hear this? Yeah, yeah, Grant,
he is a confident man. So what happened here? We
are confident that maybe you got ghosted, but what happened
with Natalie? We got to know how you met? I
want to hear about any dates you've been on, and
then why you think go you know we were here.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
Okay, Well I met Natalie the way you mostly meet
people nowadays online of course, on an app. We matched
and we got to talking back and forth. I asked
her out. Things went great. We had a really amazing date.
And I know the date was amazing because I wouldn't
normally reveal this, but we ended up, you know, cooking up.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Yeah, he wouldn't normally kiss and tell. Granted is no
grant is, but he's sudd the kind of guy that
wouldn't normally kiss and tell. But in this case, for context,
I appreciate that. Thank you for this, Thank you transparency.
Yeah yeah, and congratulations by the way as well.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Well, well, first off, thank you, and it's important because
it went well. I mean that normally is a sign
that things are, you know, going good for you. And
let me tell you, we had a really good time.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
So that's what you did. But okay, no, you had
a good time, all right, So you're confused.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
I am confused. Why she she's not hitting me back.
I can't reach her anymore. I just I had no
idea why she's not like we're answering my calls. It's weird.
I can't think of anything that went wrong. It's not
one thing.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Then I don't know. Then maybe this is going to
be very easy. We call her. She's like, I've been busy.
I want to go out with you again. You were
such a stud. And then we pay for it, you
get a free date. Maybe that's what this is. Probably not,
but we have no idea and here I can't do here,
I honestly can't wait. I'm gonna hurry up and play
a song. We'll come back in a couple of minutes.
Grant will call Natalie. You'll be on the phone. We'll

(02:27):
ask some questions on your behalf. And the hope is
it is just that that we can straighten things out,
set you guys, have lunch, another date, and pay for it.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
I hope.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
So, I hope it's going to be that. Hey, Grant, yes, sir,
let's call Natalie. You guys, you met on one of
the apps, you went on a date. You felt the
date was very successful. I believe it. He just said
a second ago that he couldn't come up with one
flaw one about the date, and then he very humbly
shared with us that there was, you know, some physicality
on the date as well. He doesn't normally tell people

(02:56):
that Grant does it, but he did. He wanted us
to know because it's just like we got I will
say though, you know, if that happens, that's usually a
pretty good sign. And you might think you're gonna hear
from someone again, but you didn't hear from Natalie. So
we're gonna call her now and see if we can
straighten this out. Good luck, thank you. Hello, Hi, this is Natalie, Yes, Natalie, Hi,

(03:21):
good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the
Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I have to
tell you that we are on a radio right now
and I would need your permission to continue with the call.
Can we chatt for just a second on the air,
would you mind? You can hang up anytime?

Speaker 3 (03:34):
Oh wow, what are we talking about?

Speaker 1 (03:37):
Yeah? I know, and thank you very much. We appreciate
you and your patients. Here we're actually talking about a
guy named Grant, who I guess you went on a
date with. Do you remember him?

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah, less confidence from her there than him. But we
just talked to Grant, Natalie, and he had a lot
of nice things to say about you, and he felt
that the date that you guys went on was successful.
I'm guessing that you don't feel the same way because
he did. It meant that he can't get a hold
of you, and he was hoping that we can help
him find out why. What's your side of the story.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
I mean, it's all pretty embarrassing. But we did have
a good time. It was it was fun. We have chemistry,
We did have drinks and we were just vibing and
we ended up going back to his place and we
hooked up.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
That'll check out, Yeah yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
So at that point it seemed fine. But the issue
really came when we were saying goodbye and I realized
he's he's a total douche. What did he do so
during our hook up I did something for him specifically,
and he did nothing for me.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
No, I love mister conviny grant man. Come on bro,
all right, all right, okay? Is that is that the issue?
You know?

Speaker 3 (04:59):
It was a much at that time, But when he
was hugging me to say bye, she whispered in my
ear and he said, we have to work on your
skills a little.

Speaker 4 (05:08):
You yo, yo, you He never do that nice he
tried to do a good deed in a see.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
I mean, that's not something you say to somebody. Maybe
you get to a point where we can give a
little direction, but that's not there. And then if you
didn't do anything, okay, let me bring Grant in. I
get so caught up in the story. I forget about
that part. Granted is here. Dude, she did something nice
for you. You didn't do anything for her. You don't

(05:45):
talk to you, don't do that.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
But listen, I don't understand why Natalie's so upset.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
I'm just being honest with her.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
I'm one of those guys where I don't lie to
the woman that I'm with.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
I just wanted to offer him sometimes, don't be the honesty, bro.
Come on, what's the big deal? If you expect to
see a woman again or a man, then what you
don't do is after they did something that they thought
you would enjoy, you don't tell it that they weren't good. Well,
you didn't enjoy it enough, apparently, because you had to
let her know if you enjoyed it, then keep your
mouth shut. And he did it. Yeah wow, I mean, okay,

(06:26):
let me ask you. I still want to hang out well, well,
that remains to be seen. But let me ask you then,
grant mister confident. So let's say you had decided to
give a little of yourself as opposed to just taking
and right, and then she says to you that wasn't
that good? What I mean, it wasn't good enough? Like
you know, hopefully you get better at it, like you
wouldn't like that. Here's the thing, though, I know I'm

(06:48):
good at that. Oh here, yeah, you know what, which
means he's not, which means he's not good at what
I do. I'm telling you, if you're so good, then
why don't you do it?

Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:57):
Right? Like, if if I think I'm good at something,
then I'm going to make sure that I do that
thing so that you can see that I'm good at
it and say I'm good, right, and then hopefully you know,
add a little value. So if you're so good at it,
then why don't you do it? Well, I would love
the opportunity to do it if you had it. You
had the opportunity. So she's not good. You wanted to
tell her that, but you do want to see her again,

(07:19):
and you want to let her do that thing to
you again. But you're really good. You want to give
her the gift of grant is what you're saying.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
You know what, man, I look, I was just trying
to be honest. I thought that's what people wanted, especially women.
They say all the time to midline. I was just
trying to offer some some honesty with her out in
the hall.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
You want to do that read the room you just met,
you just met, like, it's not it's said maybe in time, ladies,
you can tell me, ladies and Jason, maybe in time,
Like you coach someone like, if you like them enough
and there's enough of a foundation there with that, then
you can sort of direct them towards something that you
would like. But there's a way to do that, and
it takes time. You don't just deflate someone because Natalie,

(08:01):
I assume that you you you you were just doing
what you thought he would enjoy and kind of going
with it, and obviously it takes time to you cannot
judge someone on the first time. I want to go
out there again. Okay, Well, then you didn't go about
it the right way. You don't. You don't tell someone
that they're not good at something and then ask to
see them and have them do it again. To Calin's point, look,

(08:21):
I'll ask the question, Natalie. I think I know the answer.
But would you like to go out with Grant again?
We'll pay for it. I mean, apparently he's good and
a lot of stuff. He just didn't show you, but
he'd like to show you. And you're not that good,
but he'd like it again. So which makes a ton
of sense. You're not helping near you, right, girl? I
don't like you and get yours, don't kid, don't get

(08:43):
mad at me.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah, Natalie, would you like to see him again?

Speaker 3 (08:47):
No, this is perfect closure. I appreciate Grant.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
Grant, you gotta sometimes you got to. You gonna have
to keep that mouth of yours well, hold on. Sometimes
you need to open it and then sometimes you need
to shut it. And you're not doing it in the
right order exactly. Man, I think Natalie's making a big mistake.
I have a lot to offer. I do. I don't know, ma'am.
But Natalie, thank you so much for your time and
for answering and grank good luck to you. Thank you