Waiting by the Phone: You Don't Use Soap!?

Anne is confused why her date Sabrina won't call her back after two fun dates... Find out why she got ghosted!

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Live Nation. Ever been left waiting by the phone.

Speaker 1 (00:31):
It's the Fread Show and good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you hey? I'm good good, How are you doing? Great?

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Welcome to waiting by the phone. So the objective here
is we're trying to figure out what happened with this
woman Sabrina, who you haven't heard from since you went
out on a date. So can you sort of give
us the backstory here? How did you meet Sabrina? Tell
us about any dates you've been on, and then kind
of why you think you're being ghosted?

Speaker 3 (00:52):
Okay, so we met un Hinge and we went out
twice and you know, we we just cut to the
chase right after I met on the apps. We were
really really just like, hey, let's hang out, like, you know.
So we had some drinks at a bar. We had
so much fun, We got along so well, and I asked,

(01:15):
I asked thea bring up, like, Hey, do you want
to come back to my house and hang out on
the patio, have some wine, you know, just chill. And
it was a beautiful fall night, you know, And so
we talked for a while. And then the second time
that we hung out, I invited her over for a
movie and dinner, and she there's just something off with

(01:38):
her that night and I couldn't quite pendpoint it. And
ever since she left from our second day to dinner movie,
she's not called me back, she's not texted, she's she's
not reaching out or answering, and I just like left
here wondering what the heck happened?

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Okay, Yeah, I mean it does happen sometimes that we
hear about people who have gone on two dates. I mean,
the first one was good enough for a second one,
and then things seem to go wrong after the second one.
And so you've reached out to her, I assume you've
tried to get a hold of her to schedule another
date and she's not responding.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Yeah, I mean I haven't been like harassing her, hounding her,
but like, it's definitely a different change. Its shifted. It
used to be like quick communication, and now I'm getting nothing.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Okay, so something happened. Well, let's play a song and
we'll come back and we'll call Sabrina. You'll be on
the phone. We'll ask all these questions and we'll try
and see if we can figure out what's up. And
you know, the hope is always is that we could
set you guys up on a third date in this case,
and we'll pay for.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
It, all right, I hope you no, thank you?

Speaker 1 (02:40):
I am Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
I always called Sabrina. You guys, you met at one
of the dating apps, you went out a couple times.
You thought everything was going well, I mean, two dates.
That's usually a good sign, except you tried to schedule
a third date and you haven't gotten any response from Sabrina.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
And you want to know why.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know what happened, right.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Okay, Well let's call her now. Good luck?

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Thanks?

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Hello, Hi is this Sabrina?

Speaker 4 (03:14):
Yes, this is who.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
Hi Sabrina, Good morning. My name is Fred.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Permission to continue with the call. Can we chat for
just a second? You can hang up at any time?

Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, yeah, I can.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Well, thank you very much.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
I know it's a little bit weird to get called
by a radio show, but we are calling on behalf
of someone I guess you went out with recently. Her
name is Anne. You met on one of the apps
and went on a couple times. Do you remember meeting her?

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Yes, okay, good, good, Well, so what happened because we
talked to Anne for a little while and she was
telling us that she was excited about you, liked you,
thought there was a connection, and I guess you went
back to her place at one point on the second date,
I think it was, and she says she's reached out
to get a hold of you for a third date
and you've gone silent, and you know it's bother.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
She wants to know why.

Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah, okay, you guys, there's just something I could not
get over, which is okay, So I don't I don't know.
I mean, I'm assuming she's told y'all. I don't know
how much she told y'all. But so we met on
the app on an app and we went out twice

(04:24):
and it was really great. And we went to a
bar once and then back to her house, and then
the second time she invited me back over to her
house again for a movie. So now I mean I've
gone to her house now twice on the seat, and
both dates were a couple of weeks apart. They weren't
like back to back, you know, on the same weekend
or anything. And so while I was at her house

(04:47):
and like, I go to the bathroom, there is absolutely
no soap anywhere, Like no hands up. She has zero
hands op in the bathroom, on the sync, in the kitchen,
I looked like under the sink. I was in the trash,
thinking like, oh, maybe she just went through the soap already,
and there is zero signs of soap even in the

(05:09):
shower and there was nothing. And I was like so
creeped out because I mean, like I said, there was
time in between, so it's not like, oh, okay, she
just like ran out of soap yesterday and it's like
you've got to go get it. No, this was like
a couple of weeks in between, and I was just
so grossed out. And then Anne, of course is like

(05:30):
reeking from my face and wanting to touch me and things,
and I'm like.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Ew, you're you know you get your Nancy hands off
no soap having hands off me?

Speaker 4 (05:42):
Yes, yeah, it was super good.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
Let me tell you, well, let me see there's an
explanation here, because you know, Anne, here, I'm very forgetful.
I get caught up in the story. I forgot to
tell you that. Uh, And what's up with no soap?
What I mean did you did you run out and
for weeks didn't get anymore in the I mean maybe
hands will be ran out, but like I would think,
you know, when you're bathing, if you do that, I hope.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
I just can't believe that. Being so nitpicky.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
About my hat picky, I mean, I mean, hygiene is
an important thing. Do you not have soap? Do you
not ever have soap?

Speaker 3 (06:18):
Okay, look, so it's on my list and it's been
a little bit of an off time. But like soaps
are pretty awful for you in general. There's chemicals, you know,
I think Americans overwashed anyways, and you know, how do
you think we got COVID. I don't you need to.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
I think we got COVID not enough soap. Maybe I don't.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
I mean I'm not a scientist and not doctor Fauci,
but I don't. I know a lot of people think
I am. But so wait, so for look, maybe you're
right about Americans overwashing, but for two weeks or something,
you didn't have soap, and you just it's just not
a priority.

Speaker 3 (06:52):
That's that's not necessarily the case. I don't just not soap.

Speaker 5 (06:58):
I think there's just like a need for germs, and
I think her immune systems are boosted by having more germs,
and I just don't have I'm sorry, I don't satisfy
your soap requirements.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
I don't know they're mine. I think they're kind of everybody's.
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
What about do you orderate another sort of uh products
for sanitation? Are we are we into that or are
we not really into that either?

Speaker 3 (07:21):
I mean, less chemicals the better, really Okay, so.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
We don't know.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
But here's the thing, Sabrina does he smell bad? I
mean you didn't notice that. I guess you noticed there
was no soap, but I mean you did hang out
with her twice, and.

Speaker 4 (07:33):
No, I know I did go out with her twice.
I'm like, yeah, no, there wasn smell bad. No, But
like I'm like, no, if you're never going to be
washing your hands, like, I don't know now her response. Honestly,
I'm sorry, it's kind of the nail in the coffin,
like definitely not.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
Yeah, we need soap.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
I mean, like you know, sometimes are you watching your hands?

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Are you're watching it? Cat out here? Dating people don't
put in there.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know if I don't know if
water just alone, I don't know if you can just
sort of I don't know. Well, I don't know about
that at all, but I okay, yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
I really am. I just I would agree with you.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
I mean I've heard you know you should wash your
hair every day and that we probably take too many
showers our skin gets dry. I get all that, But like,
as far as most people, I know, you soap that
I'm aware of at least sometimes. So I'll ask the question, Sabrina,
she was getting around to it. So if she gets
around to the soap, would you This is such a
weird thing to say. If she gets around to buying soap,

(08:42):
would you go out with her again.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
No, because it sounds like she has a moral dilemma
with soap, and I have a moral dilemma with that
moral dilemma.

Speaker 3 (08:53):
So unfortunately this.

Speaker 2 (08:54):
Will be enough for It's quite a dilemma indeed. All right,
So she's not interested. Look, Anne, I don't know. I'm
not here to do. She has a smell bad somehow,
which is interesting. So and I mean, she's not interested
sop in the kitchen.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
They're soap in the kitchen, Like you could have worked
your hands in the kitchen.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
She said, there wasn't She said, she checked your kitchen.

Speaker 4 (09:13):
I checked the kitchen for sure, and there was absolutely
nothing that I would qualify it.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
So what do you want to use? Dawn or something like?

Speaker 2 (09:20):
When they are we using like those little those little
things that little things that explode you know what I'm
talking about?

Speaker 1 (09:25):
Little? What are those pots? Yeah? What are we using? Spots?

Speaker 4 (09:28):
Like?

Speaker 1 (09:28):
What is she supposed to do?

Speaker 3 (09:29):
Like?

Speaker 2 (09:30):
I don't use windocks or something? I mean, I want
to imagine you probably don't have that that's chemical the
cat certainly not windows, certainly not windows?

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Like, man, what do you use on this point? Softly?
What do you.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Consider using list? So I think that you just have
you'd have a stronger immune system. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (09:54):
I have a stronger immune system, and that's saying you can.
Yeah right, guys, I don't.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
I want to tell you it's not going to work out,
and I wish you both the best of luck.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Thank you for your time.

Speaker 4 (10:04):
Sure.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Thanks