September 11, 2025 • 9 mins
Lisa is confused why her date Seth won't call her back after having a great night out together... Find out why she got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fred Show. Hey Lisa, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you hey?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
So what's going on with this guy, Seth? Can you
give us all the backstory about how you met? Any
days you've been on kind of where everything is now?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, okay. So we met at a party
and I actually asked for his number, and like, we
flirted for a bit at the party and then I
asked you if you wanted to get drinks and.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
He said yes, So we did.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
And you know, I'm usually not like outgoing or forward,
but there was just something about him that, you know,
just made me feel like, yeah, go for it, you know,
give it a hand.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
So I did.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
And now after we had drink, we had drinks, he's
not talking to me, so like he's ghosting me, I think,
And I'm just training to see what's going on because
it was cool.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
All right.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
So you look back on this date and you were,
you know, attracted to him, and you thought everything went well,
well enough that you were hoping to see him again.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
But oh yeah, no call from him.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
He hasn't reached out, he hasn't texted, have you reached
out to him, he's not responding to you as well.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah, I reached out, but like not like an annoying
amount of times, but definitely I have reached out and
he's he's yeah, he's just not talking to me. And
I don't I don't think I did anything. I mean,
the at direction was there on my end.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
For sure, right.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
I mean, if you go on a date with somebody
that you thought went well and you text them and
they don't respond or reach out to you afterwards, then
then there's a difference of opinion that and let's see
if we can figure out what that is. I'm going
to play a song. Come back, Lisa, you'll be on
the phone when we call Seth. We'll try and get
him on the line and and ask some questions. You're
welcome to jump in at some point, and the hope
(01:42):
is we can straighten this out and set you guys
up on another date that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Okay, great, cool, Hey.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Lisa, Hey, welcome back. Let's call this guy Seth. You
guys went on a date that you thought went really well.
You have texted him or reached out since the date
because he didn't hear from him. He hasn't responded at all,
and you're confused, like, what, you know, what day was
I on? I guess if you thought it went well
and he's not calling you back.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Yeah, I mean, I'm thinking he was busy, but maybe
I don't know. I just really want to you know,
it was a good day. I want to know.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Okay, all right, Well, let's give him a call now.
And I wish you. I wish you good luck, Lisa.
That that sounded very formal.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I wish you, I wish you, I'd give you. I
offer you best twishes on this call too. Yeah, good luck, Lisa.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Is this Seth? Yes? This is I he Seth. Good morning.
My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now. The whole crew is here, and
I would need your permission against you with the call.
Can which that for just a second, would you mind? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Absolutely?
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Well, thank you. This guy actually sounds happy to hear
from us, which is is rare. What's going on with
a woman named Lisa who you went on a date
with recently? Because she reached out to us and I
told us that she had met you and you guys
went out and that she enjoyed it but hasn't heard
from you, and she's hoping that we can figure out why.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah, I to be honestly, I was genuinely scared of her.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Why scared of her? Why is this the same lady
from the other day? Why?
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Well, so you know, we go on the dates and
things are going normally, and because we met at the
party and we were on the day and we're and
we're having a good time. And then she she leans
over to me and she says, I didn't want to
tell you this at the party, but we are twin flames,
(03:44):
which means at one point our soul were one, but
they were split.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Wow, that is what are the odds of you guys
finding each other? That is incredible? You want one and
now you're separate, you're going to come back together again?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
I assume that.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
It seemed to be her intention. She kept going on
about that we had this divine connection, that our souls
were split in half and they will only be complete
when they're together.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
And you know, buzz, if you were once one to
come back together, guys, that sounds like, uh, that's illegal
in forty eight states.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Wow, so you a spiritual reconnection because I have heard
about this before, this twin flame thing. I think this
is a documentary about it, but people were documentary. Yeah hmm,
Well let me ask Lisa the other half of you.
I mean you probably you probably know Lisa's here because
you guys are you know, you're one spiritually. But I
forgot to mention that Lisa is here. Lisa, that is
(04:43):
really intense that you think you found your twin flame.
I mean that's a lot to sort of put on somebody.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Well, I mean like when you know you know and
we do have a very very strong connection. I believe
it is. It is divine, and I do believe that
he absolutely is.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Right to huh okay, and then how like how does
one know this?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Identified yeah, Like how am I going to know?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
When I it's like like walking around in Walmart, my
twin like I would know wouldn't come.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
How am I going to probably?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I mean, you know, like everything gets worked out in
a perfect way on our on our days the party,
so like we just meet, we we we made eye
contact and doing that, he like he knew what I
was going to order, and uh, it was just all
these guys and he barely knew me, and it was
very real.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
You know what you were going to order? You went
to a pizza place. I mean you ordered. I don't
know where you went, but did you know what? Did
you already know deeth when she was going to order
or were you psychic? Did you know she wanted the
orange chicken?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Well?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Did she sorry about the drink? And she had a
Gin and tonic before? And I was like, I'm going
to get you another gen tonic.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
And dude, you guys were meant to be incredible that
you knew or the same drinks he was having before.
I mean, I can see what you feel this way.
The guy he just knew innately to order you another
of what you had, but.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
He knew that I need somebody that pays attention to
like and like that's rare. It's real, and like, I really.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Do believe that sadly courteous people that is rare.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
You're right about it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
It sounds like this guy was like breathing and attentive,
So I don't you know it's not everybody on dates
is these days? Okay, well, I'm not going to knock this.
You feel a certain kind of way about him. But
here's what I would say, Lisa, is it even if
you're right, that's a lot to hear on a first date,
especially from somebody who might not believe in this.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I mean, it's it's not going to go away, like
if we're twinslings, like we're going to end up reconnecting
at some point. It's inevitable, like it's happening. We've met now,
and and our pads are going to kid, They're always
gonna gross.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
So you may as well just pull the triggers out
because it's she's never leaving you ever.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Retrain order.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Okay, yes, it's given thirsty really, yeah, you don't buy
any of this.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
No, how many twin flames have you had in your life?
Was your ex also your twin flame?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Did you feel that about the Ladda?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
We did have a really really strong connection, But no,
he was not. But Seth is like, this is real.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You don't know, Seth.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yeah, it's it's giving a little bit like everyone might
be your soulmate. And I think that's a really sweet aspiration,
except it's not true.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, everyone's not going to be your soulmate.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Yes, they say that the that the twin flames are
actually the toxic ones.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
They're the ones that, yes, you connect with, but it's
the one that you're not supposed to be with because
it's a toxic relationship.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Oh wow, Yeah, she should look for her soulmate, if anything.
And I don't think that is Have you heard that?
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Have you heard that, Lisa, that maybe it's a sign
that you shouldn't be with uh this guy run?
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I think I think it's just the opposite. I think
that it's toxic. You avoid it, like I think that
if you just go away from it, that's toxic. So
I mean, i'll see him again. It's okay.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
That actually okay? So well and yet order.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Not.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Yeah, I don't know. I feel bad if if if
she feels a certain kind of way. But we got
to play koy, you know, we gotta we gotta play
a little hard to get Lisa.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
You know, you can't be saying this to everybody you meet.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
I don't. I don't, I don't. I mean, I don't
say that to you. I don't. I don't feel that
way about everyone. I do feel that way about that.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
I just got rejected. I'm not.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
It's a shame, Okay, well, look, I'm gonna ask the question, Seth.
I mean, I think I know the answer, But would
you enjoy another experience? Because again you're I guess she's
never going away. I mean, twin flames, it's once in
a lifetime or maybe you know, if she considers the
last guy, then a couple of times in a lifetime.
But you know, would you like to try another date?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Maybe I can't. I'm sorry, Lisa.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I hope you find your true twin flame, but I
don't really buy into it, and so I don't think I'm.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Right for you.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I mean, I understand, I get it, but you're wrong.
And I mean I hope that you can reconsider it
at some point because I think it's just you're avoiding
what it's supposed to happen.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah, you're avoiding it. So Lisa, good luck to you, Seth.
I wish you the best of luck as well. I like,
really I do, thank you. We have it on record
that she settled.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
That it's all yeah, no worry, it's all documented. It's
in the public record now.
Oh I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fred Show. Hey Lisa, good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you hey?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
So what's going on with this guy, Seth? Can you
give us all the backstory about how you met? Any
days you've been on kind of where everything is now?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, okay. So we met at a party
and I actually asked for his number, and like, we
flirted for a bit at the party and then I
asked you if you wanted to get drinks and.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
He said yes, So we did.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
And you know, I'm usually not like outgoing or forward,
but there was just something about him that, you know,
just made me feel like, yeah, go for it, you know,
give it a hand.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
So I did.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
And now after we had drink, we had drinks, he's
not talking to me, so like he's ghosting me, I think,
And I'm just training to see what's going on because
it was cool.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
All right.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
So you look back on this date and you were,
you know, attracted to him, and you thought everything went well,
well enough that you were hoping to see him again.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
But oh yeah, no call from him.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
He hasn't reached out, he hasn't texted, have you reached
out to him, he's not responding to you as well.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah, I reached out, but like not like an annoying
amount of times, but definitely I have reached out and
he's he's yeah, he's just not talking to me. And
I don't I don't think I did anything. I mean,
the at direction was there on my end.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
For sure, right.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
I mean, if you go on a date with somebody
that you thought went well and you text them and
they don't respond or reach out to you afterwards, then
then there's a difference of opinion that and let's see
if we can figure out what that is. I'm going
to play a song. Come back, Lisa, you'll be on
the phone when we call Seth. We'll try and get
him on the line and and ask some questions. You're
welcome to jump in at some point, and the hope
(01:42):
is we can straighten this out and set you guys
up on another date that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Okay, great, cool, Hey.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Lisa, Hey, welcome back. Let's call this guy Seth. You
guys went on a date that you thought went really well.
You have texted him or reached out since the date
because he didn't hear from him. He hasn't responded at all,
and you're confused, like, what, you know, what day was
I on? I guess if you thought it went well
and he's not calling you back.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Yeah, I mean, I'm thinking he was busy, but maybe
I don't know. I just really want to you know,
it was a good day. I want to know.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Okay, all right, Well, let's give him a call now.
And I wish you. I wish you good luck, Lisa.
That that sounded very formal.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I wish you, I wish you, I'd give you. I
offer you best twishes on this call too. Yeah, good luck, Lisa.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Is this Seth? Yes? This is I he Seth. Good morning.
My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now. The whole crew is here, and
I would need your permission against you with the call.
Can which that for just a second, would you mind? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Absolutely?
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Well, thank you. This guy actually sounds happy to hear
from us, which is is rare. What's going on with
a woman named Lisa who you went on a date
with recently? Because she reached out to us and I
told us that she had met you and you guys
went out and that she enjoyed it but hasn't heard
from you, and she's hoping that we can figure out why.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah, I to be honestly, I was genuinely scared of her.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Why scared of her? Why is this the same lady
from the other day? Why?
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Well, so you know, we go on the dates and
things are going normally, and because we met at the
party and we were on the day and we're and
we're having a good time. And then she she leans
over to me and she says, I didn't want to
tell you this at the party, but we are twin flames,
(03:44):
which means at one point our soul were one, but
they were split.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Wow, that is what are the odds of you guys
finding each other? That is incredible? You want one and
now you're separate, you're going to come back together again?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
I assume that.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
It seemed to be her intention. She kept going on
about that we had this divine connection, that our souls
were split in half and they will only be complete
when they're together.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
And you know, buzz, if you were once one to
come back together, guys, that sounds like, uh, that's illegal
in forty eight states.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Wow, so you a spiritual reconnection because I have heard
about this before, this twin flame thing. I think this
is a documentary about it, but people were documentary. Yeah hmm,
Well let me ask Lisa the other half of you.
I mean you probably you probably know Lisa's here because
you guys are you know, you're one spiritually. But I
forgot to mention that Lisa is here. Lisa, that is
(04:43):
really intense that you think you found your twin flame.
I mean that's a lot to sort of put on somebody.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Well, I mean like when you know you know and
we do have a very very strong connection. I believe
it is. It is divine, and I do believe that
he absolutely is.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Right to huh okay, and then how like how does
one know this?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Identified yeah, Like how am I going to know?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
When I it's like like walking around in Walmart, my
twin like I would know wouldn't come.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
How am I going to probably?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I mean, you know, like everything gets worked out in
a perfect way on our on our days the party,
so like we just meet, we we we made eye
contact and doing that, he like he knew what I
was going to order, and uh, it was just all
these guys and he barely knew me, and it was
very real.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
You know what you were going to order? You went
to a pizza place. I mean you ordered. I don't
know where you went, but did you know what? Did
you already know deeth when she was going to order
or were you psychic? Did you know she wanted the
orange chicken?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Well?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Did she sorry about the drink? And she had a
Gin and tonic before? And I was like, I'm going
to get you another gen tonic.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
And dude, you guys were meant to be incredible that
you knew or the same drinks he was having before.
I mean, I can see what you feel this way.
The guy he just knew innately to order you another
of what you had, but.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
He knew that I need somebody that pays attention to
like and like that's rare. It's real, and like, I really.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Do believe that sadly courteous people that is rare.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
You're right about it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
It sounds like this guy was like breathing and attentive,
So I don't you know it's not everybody on dates
is these days? Okay, well, I'm not going to knock this.
You feel a certain kind of way about him. But
here's what I would say, Lisa, is it even if
you're right, that's a lot to hear on a first date,
especially from somebody who might not believe in this.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I mean, it's it's not going to go away, like
if we're twinslings, like we're going to end up reconnecting
at some point. It's inevitable, like it's happening. We've met now,
and and our pads are going to kid, They're always
gonna gross.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
So you may as well just pull the triggers out
because it's she's never leaving you ever.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Retrain order.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Okay, yes, it's given thirsty really, yeah, you don't buy
any of this.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
No, how many twin flames have you had in your life?
Was your ex also your twin flame?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Did you feel that about the Ladda?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
We did have a really really strong connection, But no,
he was not. But Seth is like, this is real.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You don't know, Seth.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Yeah, it's it's giving a little bit like everyone might
be your soulmate. And I think that's a really sweet aspiration,
except it's not true.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, everyone's not going to be your soulmate.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Yes, they say that the that the twin flames are
actually the toxic ones.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
They're the ones that, yes, you connect with, but it's
the one that you're not supposed to be with because
it's a toxic relationship.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Oh wow, Yeah, she should look for her soulmate, if anything.
And I don't think that is Have you heard that?
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Have you heard that, Lisa, that maybe it's a sign
that you shouldn't be with uh this guy run?
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I think I think it's just the opposite. I think
that it's toxic. You avoid it, like I think that
if you just go away from it, that's toxic. So
I mean, i'll see him again. It's okay.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
That actually okay? So well and yet order.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
Not.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Yeah, I don't know. I feel bad if if if
she feels a certain kind of way. But we got
to play koy, you know, we gotta we gotta play
a little hard to get Lisa.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
You know, you can't be saying this to everybody you meet.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
I don't. I don't, I don't. I mean, I don't
say that to you. I don't. I don't feel that
way about everyone. I do feel that way about that.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
I just got rejected. I'm not.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
It's a shame, Okay, well, look, I'm gonna ask the question, Seth.
I mean, I think I know the answer, But would
you enjoy another experience? Because again you're I guess she's
never going away. I mean, twin flames, it's once in
a lifetime or maybe you know, if she considers the
last guy, then a couple of times in a lifetime.
But you know, would you like to try another date?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Maybe I can't. I'm sorry, Lisa.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I hope you find your true twin flame, but I
don't really buy into it, and so I don't think I'm.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Right for you.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I mean, I understand, I get it, but you're wrong.
And I mean I hope that you can reconsider it
at some point because I think it's just you're avoiding
what it's supposed to happen.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah, you're avoiding it. So Lisa, good luck to you, Seth.
I wish you the best of luck as well. I like,
really I do, thank you. We have it on record
that she settled.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
That it's all yeah, no worry, it's all documented. It's
in the public record now.
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