June 10, 2025 • 15 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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you guys choose who gets to sleep on which side
of the bed? Like? What happens if you get into
a relationship and you both sleep on the same side
of the bed? How does one negotiate that? Like? Because,
(00:45):
I mean if you were to say to me, now
you have to sleep on the other side of the
bed for the rest of your life. I mean eventually,
I think I would get used to it, But I
mean that would be a that's a big ask, that's
a big Now you want me to switch side to
the bed? You want me to just just think my
whole right? If you look at the bed. I'm on
the left side of the bed. Basically my whole life
left side. Okay, if you're staring at the bed, I'm
(01:06):
on the left side of the bed. I don't know
or no in this case. Yeah, but that's not why
I mean. I guess this is where I've always slept,
like always, and I guess that's why I doing a
hotel too, I guess for the most part. Yeah, that's
whing a hotel. So what do you do? What do
you do if you meet somebody like did all of
you just worked where the person who you're with slept
(01:28):
on the other side of the bed? Immediately? Yeah? Yeah?
For me, it's like where is the dog? And then
I'll readjust myself so I don't have a side of
the beause she it's her bed right, to be honest.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
And then he is, he goes to bed later than me,
so then he tries to squeeze in wherever he can.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I see. Yeah, so you just sleep wherever there's room. Yeah,
because I'm a sucker. Most people would move their dog.
Sometimes it's the left side, sometimes it's the right side.
Sometimes Yeah, I know, don't trust me. Yeah, I think
i'd moved the dog. I moved it. I think, I know, yeah,
I'm so comforty looking at but I think I would.
I think I would. I think, you know. I say that.
(02:07):
But then when I'm at home and my my mom's
dogs get in the bed, they sleep, and the cats too,
and I'm allergic to cats. But but moose the main coon,
like he's just a monster of a cat. He does
whatever he wants. He'll and then he'll find like the crevice,
like if your legs are kind of a part or whatever,
he'll sleep in there. And then you're right, No, I
(02:28):
don't move. Then, like if I wake up and discover this,
I'm like, I better not move. He looks very comfortable
right there, Moosey does, and so and then I don't.
I don't. You're right, So I guess I'm no different.
But at least I'm on the right side of the
bed or the left side of the bed in this case.
So this is not really a debate. This is not
really an issue.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
No, I made Hobby go wherever the door is, because
we've moved twice now, so like wherever the door is,
if there's danger, you're going first.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
So you need to move by the door. That's how
I think. Okay, right, so I'm not sure. I'm pretty
sure if there were a killer, and the killer showed up,
and the killer we're going to kill, I'm pretty sure
that the several feet maybe two or three feet, you know,
between you and Hobby. I don't know if that makes
much difference in the killing spree that was going to happen.
He die a hero because he was by the door,
(03:13):
you know what I'm saying. Well, I don't know that
he would if he's not a hero. If everybody dies.
I hate to say this to you. Wow, everybody supposed
to go. But you just said he would die a hero.
But I wouldn't because he would. But if he's dead,
then he can't be a hero to you. And I
mean I guess, I guess he could. I don't know. Hey, Chloe,
(03:35):
how you doing.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
I'm doing good? How are you?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Whoe?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
How did this work? How did this work? When you
got into a relationship with someone I assume you are
and and you both sleep on the same side of
the bed.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Yeah, I mean, we compromise in a lot of ways.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
But I was just like, I.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Just feel this is where you need to change.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
And he was just like, I guess I will. And
I was like, okay, sounds.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Great, So you know it.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
I gave him a choice and he made his choice.
But I mean, the main reason why we sleep where
we sleep now is because I'm like, listen, you need
to be closer to the door because, like Heaven forbid
a break in occurs, like you're the first person to
get got like you need to be my alarm system
if I need to like get up and be running,
like I need to hear you first. So really that's
(04:29):
one of my reasons. But like it was very simple.
I was just like, listen, I'm not changing in this.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Regard, so I think you should.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
And he said, I guess I will.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Because Chloe, you say you gave him a choice, but
you infected not it was this.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
So you can see other places exactly, Like you either
sleep here next to me on this side of the bed,
or you don't sleep here at all.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Oh well, I guess that is a choice. Yeah. Now
what if he had chosen, Oh, so I don't have
to sleep in this room, then you're saying I can
sleep in a different room because it might be better
because I'd be both like the same side of the bed.
That's that wouldn't have done over well.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
I'm not gonna lie. It's he ever came to me
and was like, I think we should sleep in separate rooms.
I think I would be okay with it, because.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I think I would be okay with it too, honestly,
Like sometimes we sleep in the same room, and then
sometimes when I had text mex before, we don't, you know,
maybe because I don't want you to catch me doing
anything while I'm asleep that I didn't know that I did.
And there's a higher percentage of that happening if I
eat certain food, so I maybe in those nights I
sleep in a different bed, or if you're not feeling well,
(05:32):
you sleep in a different bed because you're sick, and
you're like, ah, you know, I don't want to deal
with this. I don't want my partner to have to
deal with it. So okay, wait a minute, maybe that's
a whole different conversation. How many of you would sleep
in separate rooms if you could. I don't like that
with the option of going back. No, Yeah, interesting, Chloe,
look at you, Chloe, changing the changing the direction of
the show right now, I like it. Have a good day,
(05:53):
Thank you, for calling.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Thanks you too.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
That's a different conversation. Like, and each person gets in
equal sized room in their own bathroom in this dynamic.
I mean, I'm not saying someone has to sleep in
a guest room all the time, Like that's you know
what I mean. Like, let's just say hypothetically, like, no
one's sacrificing anything. The beads are equally comfortable. But let's say,
like maybe like I like it very cold where I'm sleeping.
(06:16):
I like it very cold. Some people don't like it
that cold. Well they're wrong, But well, I agree those
people would be wrong. I totally agree with that. But
wrong people are out there. People are wrong. Exist. A
lot of people are wrong. I see them every day.
They call up here to you know, they say stupid things.
They text them like yoah, you're wrong, And that's very
sad for you, right right. I feel bad if I
didn't say it and you disagreed, And that's a horrible
(06:37):
place to a horrible place to be in life. But
but yeah, I mean, like let's say so instead of
arguing about that or living your life sort of dissatisfied
because you know your partner needs at seventy and you
want it in sixty six or whatever it is, or
or warmer. Then you just two separate sleeping environments and
you can still do that, you know, do the things
that you do in the bed together, and then you
(06:58):
can just say, okay, all right, now I'm gonna go
to sleep in and we don't have these problems then no, No,
there's never a time where you don't want him to wait. Wait,
but he's not in the bed because he works all night, right,
but I want him there. I would prefer that he'd
be there for sure. Now.
Speaker 5 (07:14):
I do like having separate like dressing rooms, so like
I have a glamor room and there is the guest
room where he can go, you know. But I think
as long as we have that like where my things
aren't being touched all the time and they can you know,
jury and stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
It could just be. But I think you should sleep
in the bed together. Okay, so he can sleep in
the bed with you, but don't get anywhere near your jewelry. Yeah,
well I've heard that about bixim. Yeah, and your wings too.
When he shows up with the factory would be like
do you have diamond? Hell? Yeah? What is trying to
(07:53):
wear rings? Is something Brian. Hey, Brian, So you sleep
between your partner in the door, and that's because you're
going to save the day if anything happens.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Okay, not because I want to leave first in case
of an emergency, but if there's an intruder, I feel like,
whoever it is is going to have to go through
me before they get to my spouse.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
I see. And so you're ready to save the day
right there. But it has nothing to do with the
fact that you could make a quicker exit.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
Absolutely not. It's just to be the hero and save the.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Day, I see. But it would. It's a nice side
effector a nice side you know, the thing that you
could also be the first out in the event of
an emergency.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
I guess that is true.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
But I'm thinking of it more in the sense of, like,
even when we're walking down the sidewalk on the street,
you know, I'm always on the street side. My wife's
always on the inside, closer to the buildings. In case
something happens, I feel the need to constantly be as
a protector.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Now, Brian, that's why I don't understand. Okay, I will
do it now, except I'm definitely my left ear. So
it does depend on the side of the street that
we're like the direction in the side of this read
Because if you want me to hear what you're saying,
which most I found most women enjoyed me hearing them
and acknowledging what they're saying to me, then I have
to be on one side of you. So sometimes it
(09:10):
doesn't work that way, Like if we're walking, you know
what I'm saying, Like if we're walking in a direction
where I would be on the inside and you'd be
on the outside, but you're on my left side, well
then you know, then I'd like, why I'm talking to you.
I'm like, I'm protecting you. You know, That's what I
say to them, I'm protecting you. But then if a
car hits us, Brian, then all we're going to become
(09:31):
is a heavy projectile to then in pale the person
next to us. So I don't understand this logic.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
The logic is that the husband always dies first friend.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Sorry, yeah, I guess. So if a car hits me,
it's a very small likelihood that I'm going to physically
stop the car from hitting you. I'm probably not going
to happen. I'm just saying, I'm just saying I might
wind up being the reason that you're dead. Oh no, no,
thank you, Brian, have good to hit you first? Wait,
(10:03):
would you honest question? Why do you want to hit
me first? You know you're saying, like, well, it hits me,
it's probably gonna kill you anyway, so it should definitely
hit you first. I'm just saying the logic doesn't make sense,
like he's gonna protect me from a car you know
that runs off the road. Logic, that's not gonna happen, Like,
I'm not I'm not a brick walls. The car is
(10:25):
not going to run into hobby and then just stop.
You would push me, like what if you see it
coming and then you have the opportunity to push. Oh great,
now now I assaulted you. Great, this is great. Now
you're gonna be done anyway. Yes, you can't charge.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
In a puddle, like if a car drives in a puddle,
the water will.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Hit you, not oh it will. It will just hit
me and the puddle thing. Yeah, Bailey, Hi Bailey, Hey,
you and your boyfriend sleep in different rooms. I like this.
Speaker 7 (10:54):
Yes, it's kind of funny how it started. I recently
just moved in with and you know, she had his
set of furniture. I had my set of furniture, and
when I moved in my bedroom set just went into
the guest bedroom. And like for me, it was just
like an easier transition, like you're a ton of my
things here kind of your things. But like we don't
(11:16):
do it every night. If there's nice, like I'm restless
and want to sleep in that room, I go there.
Speaker 6 (11:22):
And vice versa.
Speaker 7 (11:23):
So it actually works out really nicely for us. And
I'm kind of a person who likes to sleep with
the room freezing, hold with the fans blowing some nice
piece nuts, which it works out for us.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
There you go, thank you, Baylor. It works. It's great,
Thank you. This is what I'm going to do. I
have a nice day. I'm glad you called me. Goodbye.
See works fine.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
So we're really rearranging our entire like sleep placement over
like weather like at the chance that someone may break
in and try to kill That's.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
What I'm saying. This is what I'm saying, Like it's
not I'm sorry, but like if you're standing over my bed,
well I'm first of all, good luck waking me.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yup?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yah, what are you really going to do? Right exactly,
thank you. This is one time somebody things you're dumb.
Everyone thinks they're heroes. Like if someone walks in your roope,
what are you going to do? A strap? That's right,
you're actually okay, well let me let me I'm getting
the strap now now now he's messing with you, like.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Takes every night where you sleep, every night, just the
small possibility that someone may come in the room.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
If they break it and stand over the bed, like
they've got both of us by the bus right right,
if they want to kill us, we're dead. Now we're asleep, harmony.
But me being closer to the door is not going
to accomplish it, just is it the same way that
me being closer to the curb is not accompling. I
disagree with you there, but I agree with you like
I don't. Why do you disagree with it? What? What
(12:42):
is me walking closer to the road actually accomplishing from
a safety standpoint?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Are you open to like are you open to maybe
seeing it our way?
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Are you mean? Am I I'm listening?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Okay, okay, because I wan I know sometimes like if
I don't want my mind to be changed, I'll be
like no, I'm closed off from that, but no listen. So,
like I said, you could push me out of the way,
you definitely could soften the blow for sure. And the
puddle thing, I think it's just like a nice sign
of chivalry. But if my date is deaf in one year,
I'm totally fine with him switching sides.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I'm fine to be on the side where I don't
have to listen. It's fine, but I'm saving your lives.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
But like, also, like if I'm standing behind you, you
can't even see me behind you, Like you're a big dude,
You're definitely protecting me.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I'm definitely two hundred and forty pounds into you at
that point, I become a projectile that then tapples you over.
But you get crushed by the car and just you
get crushed by me. Oh baby, with the exact trajectory
sends you into her, or it could send you forward
or back, but it's definitely gonna go right next to her.
The car drive sideways. If a car sent from behind you,
(13:53):
it's gonna hit you and you're gonna go four Jason,
I'm not that a car is ten feet wide at
a whiteboard. I'm sorry you guys are not right about this.
If a car, if we are walking next to each
other and a car hits us, it's hitting both of us.
That's just the bottomless it's.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
A chance that you might be able to protect us,
Like there's not even a slight.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Chance of the car your hand out to your I
think what I'm saying to you is whatever makes you,
guys feel better, is fine. It's a ridiculous argument. It's ridiculous.
The same the same way to being close to the
door is ridiculous. Like if we're in a if we're
in a hotel room, that's what twenty twenty by twenty
or thirty by thirty, wherever a hotel room is, and
a guy comes in and stands over us, My being
(14:35):
closer proximity to the door is going to do nothing.
But I'm sorry, I'm not going to save your life.
If a car hits and we're walking next to each other,
I'm sorry. Hey, Melissa, I'm Melissa.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Yeah, good morning.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
So you are a very courteous person. You would just
switch sides of the bed no matter what.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Absolutely, if you're moving in someone, you're gonna adjust to them.
But if they're moving in, you roll your house.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
I okay, interesting, Melissa. So it would depends then who
who moves into whose house?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Correct? Okay, but if you guys are buying a house together,
and you guys already lived together, then going into a room,
however you set it up, it's going to be whatever
side you picked before here.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Nice.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
See.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
So if we move into a news space together, then
we had we each have like an equal vote. But
if you come to my house, then you're you're getting
on whatever side I'm not correct. Okay, perfect, Thank you, Melissa.
Problem solved. Have a good day.
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(00:23):
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rates apply all thanks to the Live Nation. How do
you guys choose who gets to sleep on which side
of the bed? Like? What happens if you get into
a relationship and you both sleep on the same side
of the bed? How does one negotiate that? Like? Because,
(00:45):
I mean if you were to say to me, now
you have to sleep on the other side of the
bed for the rest of your life. I mean eventually,
I think I would get used to it, But I
mean that would be a that's a big ask, that's
a big Now you want me to switch side to
the bed? You want me to just just think my
whole right? If you look at the bed. I'm on
the left side of the bed. Basically my whole life
left side. Okay, if you're staring at the bed, I'm
(01:06):
on the left side of the bed. I don't know
or no in this case. Yeah, but that's not why
I mean. I guess this is where I've always slept,
like always, and I guess that's why I doing a
hotel too, I guess for the most part. Yeah, that's
whing a hotel. So what do you do? What do
you do if you meet somebody like did all of
you just worked where the person who you're with slept
(01:28):
on the other side of the bed? Immediately? Yeah? Yeah?
For me, it's like where is the dog? And then
I'll readjust myself so I don't have a side of
the beause she it's her bed right, to be honest.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
And then he is, he goes to bed later than me,
so then he tries to squeeze in wherever he can.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I see. Yeah, so you just sleep wherever there's room. Yeah,
because I'm a sucker. Most people would move their dog.
Sometimes it's the left side, sometimes it's the right side.
Sometimes Yeah, I know, don't trust me. Yeah, I think
i'd moved the dog. I moved it. I think, I know, yeah,
I'm so comforty looking at but I think I would.
I think I would. I think, you know. I say that.
(02:07):
But then when I'm at home and my my mom's
dogs get in the bed, they sleep, and the cats too,
and I'm allergic to cats. But but moose the main coon,
like he's just a monster of a cat. He does
whatever he wants. He'll and then he'll find like the crevice,
like if your legs are kind of a part or whatever,
he'll sleep in there. And then you're right, No, I
(02:28):
don't move. Then, like if I wake up and discover this,
I'm like, I better not move. He looks very comfortable
right there, Moosey does, and so and then I don't.
I don't. You're right, So I guess I'm no different.
But at least I'm on the right side of the
bed or the left side of the bed in this case.
So this is not really a debate. This is not
really an issue.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
No, I made Hobby go wherever the door is, because
we've moved twice now, so like wherever the door is,
if there's danger, you're going first.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
So you need to move by the door. That's how
I think. Okay, right, so I'm not sure. I'm pretty
sure if there were a killer, and the killer showed up,
and the killer we're going to kill, I'm pretty sure
that the several feet maybe two or three feet, you know,
between you and Hobby. I don't know if that makes
much difference in the killing spree that was going to happen.
He die a hero because he was by the door,
(03:13):
you know what I'm saying. Well, I don't know that
he would if he's not a hero. If everybody dies.
I hate to say this to you. Wow, everybody supposed
to go. But you just said he would die a hero.
But I wouldn't because he would. But if he's dead,
then he can't be a hero to you. And I
mean I guess, I guess he could. I don't know. Hey, Chloe,
(03:35):
how you doing.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
I'm doing good? How are you?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Whoe?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
How did this work? How did this work? When you
got into a relationship with someone I assume you are
and and you both sleep on the same side of
the bed.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Yeah, I mean, we compromise in a lot of ways.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
But I was just like, I.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Just feel this is where you need to change.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
And he was just like, I guess I will. And
I was like, okay, sounds.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Great, So you know it.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
I gave him a choice and he made his choice.
But I mean, the main reason why we sleep where
we sleep now is because I'm like, listen, you need
to be closer to the door because, like Heaven forbid
a break in occurs, like you're the first person to
get got like you need to be my alarm system
if I need to like get up and be running,
like I need to hear you first. So really that's
(04:29):
one of my reasons. But like it was very simple.
I was just like, listen, I'm not changing in this.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Regard, so I think you should.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
And he said, I guess I will.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Because Chloe, you say you gave him a choice, but
you infected not it was this.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
So you can see other places exactly, Like you either
sleep here next to me on this side of the bed,
or you don't sleep here at all.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Oh well, I guess that is a choice. Yeah. Now
what if he had chosen, Oh, so I don't have
to sleep in this room, then you're saying I can
sleep in a different room because it might be better
because I'd be both like the same side of the bed.
That's that wouldn't have done over well.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
I'm not gonna lie. It's he ever came to me
and was like, I think we should sleep in separate rooms.
I think I would be okay with it, because.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I think I would be okay with it too, honestly,
Like sometimes we sleep in the same room, and then
sometimes when I had text mex before, we don't, you know,
maybe because I don't want you to catch me doing
anything while I'm asleep that I didn't know that I did.
And there's a higher percentage of that happening if I
eat certain food, so I maybe in those nights I
sleep in a different bed, or if you're not feeling well,
(05:32):
you sleep in a different bed because you're sick, and
you're like, ah, you know, I don't want to deal
with this. I don't want my partner to have to
deal with it. So okay, wait a minute, maybe that's
a whole different conversation. How many of you would sleep
in separate rooms if you could. I don't like that
with the option of going back. No, Yeah, interesting, Chloe,
look at you, Chloe, changing the changing the direction of
the show right now, I like it. Have a good day,
(05:53):
Thank you, for calling.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Thanks you too.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
That's a different conversation. Like, and each person gets in
equal sized room in their own bathroom in this dynamic.
I mean, I'm not saying someone has to sleep in
a guest room all the time, Like that's you know
what I mean. Like, let's just say hypothetically, like, no
one's sacrificing anything. The beads are equally comfortable. But let's say,
like maybe like I like it very cold where I'm sleeping.
(06:16):
I like it very cold. Some people don't like it
that cold. Well they're wrong, But well, I agree those
people would be wrong. I totally agree with that. But
wrong people are out there. People are wrong. Exist. A
lot of people are wrong. I see them every day.
They call up here to you know, they say stupid things.
They text them like yoah, you're wrong, And that's very
sad for you, right right. I feel bad if I
didn't say it and you disagreed, And that's a horrible
(06:37):
place to a horrible place to be in life. But
but yeah, I mean, like let's say so instead of
arguing about that or living your life sort of dissatisfied
because you know your partner needs at seventy and you
want it in sixty six or whatever it is, or
or warmer. Then you just two separate sleeping environments and
you can still do that, you know, do the things
that you do in the bed together, and then you
(06:58):
can just say, okay, all right, now I'm gonna go
to sleep in and we don't have these problems then no, No,
there's never a time where you don't want him to wait. Wait,
but he's not in the bed because he works all night, right,
but I want him there. I would prefer that he'd
be there for sure. Now.
Speaker 5 (07:14):
I do like having separate like dressing rooms, so like
I have a glamor room and there is the guest
room where he can go, you know. But I think
as long as we have that like where my things
aren't being touched all the time and they can you know,
jury and stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
It could just be. But I think you should sleep
in the bed together. Okay, so he can sleep in
the bed with you, but don't get anywhere near your jewelry. Yeah,
well I've heard that about bixim. Yeah, and your wings too.
When he shows up with the factory would be like
do you have diamond? Hell? Yeah? What is trying to
(07:53):
wear rings? Is something Brian. Hey, Brian, So you sleep
between your partner in the door, and that's because you're
going to save the day if anything happens.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Okay, not because I want to leave first in case
of an emergency, but if there's an intruder, I feel like,
whoever it is is going to have to go through
me before they get to my spouse.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
I see. And so you're ready to save the day
right there. But it has nothing to do with the
fact that you could make a quicker exit.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
Absolutely not. It's just to be the hero and save the.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Day, I see. But it would. It's a nice side
effector a nice side you know, the thing that you
could also be the first out in the event of
an emergency.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
I guess that is true.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
But I'm thinking of it more in the sense of, like,
even when we're walking down the sidewalk on the street,
you know, I'm always on the street side. My wife's
always on the inside, closer to the buildings. In case
something happens, I feel the need to constantly be as
a protector.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Now, Brian, that's why I don't understand. Okay, I will
do it now, except I'm definitely my left ear. So
it does depend on the side of the street that
we're like the direction in the side of this read
Because if you want me to hear what you're saying,
which most I found most women enjoyed me hearing them
and acknowledging what they're saying to me, then I have
to be on one side of you. So sometimes it
(09:10):
doesn't work that way, Like if we're walking, you know
what I'm saying, Like if we're walking in a direction
where I would be on the inside and you'd be
on the outside, but you're on my left side, well
then you know, then I'd like, why I'm talking to you.
I'm like, I'm protecting you. You know, That's what I
say to them, I'm protecting you. But then if a
car hits us, Brian, then all we're going to become
(09:31):
is a heavy projectile to then in pale the person
next to us. So I don't understand this logic.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
The logic is that the husband always dies first friend.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Sorry, yeah, I guess. So if a car hits me,
it's a very small likelihood that I'm going to physically
stop the car from hitting you. I'm probably not going
to happen. I'm just saying, I'm just saying I might
wind up being the reason that you're dead. Oh no, no,
thank you, Brian, have good to hit you first? Wait,
(10:03):
would you honest question? Why do you want to hit
me first? You know you're saying, like, well, it hits me,
it's probably gonna kill you anyway, so it should definitely
hit you first. I'm just saying the logic doesn't make sense,
like he's gonna protect me from a car you know
that runs off the road. Logic, that's not gonna happen, Like,
I'm not I'm not a brick walls. The car is
(10:25):
not going to run into hobby and then just stop.
You would push me, like what if you see it
coming and then you have the opportunity to push. Oh great,
now now I assaulted you. Great, this is great. Now
you're gonna be done anyway. Yes, you can't charge.
Speaker 5 (10:38):
In a puddle, like if a car drives in a puddle,
the water will.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Hit you, not oh it will. It will just hit
me and the puddle thing. Yeah, Bailey, Hi Bailey, Hey,
you and your boyfriend sleep in different rooms. I like this.
Speaker 7 (10:54):
Yes, it's kind of funny how it started. I recently
just moved in with and you know, she had his
set of furniture. I had my set of furniture, and
when I moved in my bedroom set just went into
the guest bedroom. And like for me, it was just
like an easier transition, like you're a ton of my
things here kind of your things. But like we don't
(11:16):
do it every night. If there's nice, like I'm restless
and want to sleep in that room, I go there.
Speaker 6 (11:22):
And vice versa.
Speaker 7 (11:23):
So it actually works out really nicely for us. And
I'm kind of a person who likes to sleep with
the room freezing, hold with the fans blowing some nice
piece nuts, which it works out for us.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
There you go, thank you, Baylor. It works. It's great,
Thank you. This is what I'm going to do. I
have a nice day. I'm glad you called me. Goodbye.
See works fine.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
So we're really rearranging our entire like sleep placement over
like weather like at the chance that someone may break
in and try to kill That's.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
What I'm saying. This is what I'm saying, Like it's
not I'm sorry, but like if you're standing over my bed,
well I'm first of all, good luck waking me.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yup?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Yah, what are you really going to do? Right exactly,
thank you. This is one time somebody things you're dumb.
Everyone thinks they're heroes. Like if someone walks in your roope,
what are you going to do? A strap? That's right,
you're actually okay, well let me let me I'm getting
the strap now now now he's messing with you, like.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Takes every night where you sleep, every night, just the
small possibility that someone may come in the room.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
If they break it and stand over the bed, like
they've got both of us by the bus right right,
if they want to kill us, we're dead. Now we're asleep, harmony.
But me being closer to the door is not going
to accomplish it, just is it the same way that
me being closer to the curb is not accompling. I
disagree with you there, but I agree with you like
I don't. Why do you disagree with it? What? What
(12:42):
is me walking closer to the road actually accomplishing from
a safety standpoint?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Are you open to like are you open to maybe
seeing it our way?
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Are you mean? Am I I'm listening?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Okay, okay, because I wan I know sometimes like if
I don't want my mind to be changed, I'll be
like no, I'm closed off from that, but no listen. So,
like I said, you could push me out of the way,
you definitely could soften the blow for sure. And the
puddle thing, I think it's just like a nice sign
of chivalry. But if my date is deaf in one year,
I'm totally fine with him switching sides.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I'm fine to be on the side where I don't
have to listen. It's fine, but I'm saving your lives.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
But like, also, like if I'm standing behind you, you
can't even see me behind you, Like you're a big dude,
You're definitely protecting me.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I'm definitely two hundred and forty pounds into you at
that point, I become a projectile that then tapples you over.
But you get crushed by the car and just you
get crushed by me. Oh baby, with the exact trajectory
sends you into her, or it could send you forward
or back, but it's definitely gonna go right next to her.
The car drive sideways. If a car sent from behind you,
(13:53):
it's gonna hit you and you're gonna go four Jason,
I'm not that a car is ten feet wide at
a whiteboard. I'm sorry you guys are not right about this.
If a car, if we are walking next to each
other and a car hits us, it's hitting both of us.
That's just the bottomless it's.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
A chance that you might be able to protect us,
Like there's not even a slight.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Chance of the car your hand out to your I
think what I'm saying to you is whatever makes you,
guys feel better, is fine. It's a ridiculous argument. It's ridiculous.
The same the same way to being close to the
door is ridiculous. Like if we're in a if we're
in a hotel room, that's what twenty twenty by twenty
or thirty by thirty, wherever a hotel room is, and
a guy comes in and stands over us, My being
(14:35):
closer proximity to the door is going to do nothing.
But I'm sorry, I'm not going to save your life.
If a car hits and we're walking next to each other,
I'm sorry. Hey, Melissa, I'm Melissa.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Yeah, good morning.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
So you are a very courteous person. You would just
switch sides of the bed no matter what.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Absolutely, if you're moving in someone, you're gonna adjust to them.
But if they're moving in, you roll your house.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
I okay, interesting, Melissa. So it would depends then who
who moves into whose house?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Correct? Okay, but if you guys are buying a house together,
and you guys already lived together, then going into a room,
however you set it up, it's going to be whatever
side you picked before here.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Nice.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
See.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
So if we move into a news space together, then
we had we each have like an equal vote. But
if you come to my house, then you're you're getting
on whatever side I'm not correct. Okay, perfect, Thank you, Melissa.
Problem solved. Have a good day.
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