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November 6, 2025 13 mins

A woman met her a man on her bachelorette trip and invited him to her wedding. She then left her husband for the man she met on her bachelorette trip.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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a couple of stories. But the first one, you know,
where at which point did we go wrong here? At
what point in the story are you would you say
hmmm hm? Things that make you go hmm. A woman
has revealed how she met another man on her This

(00:44):
is from the Daily Mail. So they call it a
hen night, but a batchel red party. Oh, I called
it a Hen night and invited him to her wedding
before eventually divorcing her husband and marrying him instead. Now
that's just one sentence, but like, at what point do
we saying hmm? Like, for example, I would say it's
within the first ten words. A woman has revealed how

(01:05):
she met another man. Okay, all right, that's.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Now, never meet any man, never, never again.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Never again. You should you should never? Okay, all right,
on her bachelorette party. So you met a man on
your bachelorette party. Okay, that's concerning to me. I have
a lot of questions. Period, But this and then this
could be a second sentence. And then she invited him
to her wedding. Period, bigger problem. Why is this random
man from your hen party, your hen night attending your wedding?

(01:37):
I could see a situation where you eventually divorce your
husband and marry the guy who you met on your
bachelorette party and invited to your wedding. This woman's name
is Charlie, which is the name I've not heard of before.
She's from Virginia. She met her now husband, Julio while
on her bachelorette trip in September of twenty nineteen. Who
was Julio? Is? Who do you like? The dancer on

(01:57):
the Hen night? Was he like the Hey? Was doing
what I did back in college to make money?

Speaker 2 (02:01):
M giving that SNL skit where they to espresso? Where
she goes out and she meets another girl. Oh, what's
his name? Marcella Hernandez yeah, it's literally the whole song.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
So his name is Julio and apparently it invited him
and his two friends to her wedding reception. Why which
is I mean, this is random, like you met.

Speaker 4 (02:25):
These people and come to my wad house party, it's
your wedding.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
And the twenty seven year old says that she and
Julio barely spoke and she was shocked when he actually
turned up as a guest at her wedding reception a
month later. So I would have a lot of questions
as as the guy, as the husband, I'd be like,
wait a minute, So you met these random people. I
have a lot of questions, why did you invite them
to our wedding? And then if you barely talk to them,

(02:49):
then why did they show up?

Speaker 2 (02:50):
This is something I have his friends.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
It's not like we all met together, like we all
you know, I don't know Fyance and bride. We go
on a trip together and we meet these other this
other fun couple and we're like, you guys are great,
and hey, you know, while we're getting married, you guys
should come. You know. We had whatever. No, So they
after already having informed the other wedding guests, about the

(03:13):
funny story of how they met the trio. When Julio
entered the wedding reception, he was treated like a celebrity.
So Tarlie and Julio, who now shared two sons, had
a photo together and exchanged small talk, and the thirty
three year old was so popular at the wedding that
he even danced with her mother and grandmother the bride.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
Wow, Domingo, it's Domingo.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
So Then, six weeks after tying to Nod in December
of twenty nineteen, Tarlie and her first husband decided to
call it quits, six weeks after their two year long
relationship just happened to fizzle out. But it had nothing
to do with this Julio man who came and danced
with the mother and the grandmother of the bride. A
week later, Julio then happened to show up in her

(03:57):
snapshat story and the pair hit it off over message.
She is realizing that they had a lot in comment. Yes, sure,
my god, So this guy shows up upstages the groom
at his own wedding. We've never even seen this man before.
Supposedly you didn't even talk to him. Now he's dancing
with your mom right side. He's a commercial fisherman. He

(04:19):
took I can't over her name. I'm Sorr. I've never
met a Charlie on their first date and they've been
a pair ever since. So the wedding was in I'm
trying to get the timeline here exactly. I want to
say what I say. September they was a bachelorette party,
and by December they're together. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
Something tells me he hit it at the tea party
or whatever you call.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
It, the hen night. I just want to be such
a two year relationship with a boyfriend. She goes on
a bachelorette party in September and by December she's married, divorced,
six weeks married, divorced, and now with this guy.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Yeah, giving.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
It's yeah. The couple, who now have two children, got
engaged in December of twenty twenty and got married in
April of twenty twenty one. Charlie admits that she had
cold feet about her first wedding, but believes that if
she called off the big day, then she and Julio
never would have spoken. So thank god she got married
the first time. But because without that, without him being
an attendee at the weddings right then, they never would

(05:21):
have been able to cheat.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Oh sorry, is a Jezebel.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
This is crazy, but hey, Charlie's saying that, you know,
she didn't cheat. She didn't even talk to the guy.
It just so happens that this guy that she met
in her bachelor at party, who she invited to her wedding,
she never even spoke to the guy, and then they
didn't even speak until after she got divorced.

Speaker 4 (05:39):
I want to see how all of her friends who
are on the hen night like reacted to him too,
Because if I'm the husband and all the girls are like, yo, Julia,
I was good or like whatever, you know, I'd be
so pissed. Yeah, I'd be like, wait, you guys were
all together on the Hen night and I was there,
and now he's here with my mom.

Speaker 2 (05:53):
They're making it out in the corner.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
Right, I'm like, why is this guy so populous? Is
my wedding? Who is this guy?

Speaker 2 (05:58):
I'd be so is out everybody?

Speaker 1 (06:02):
Oh, Charlie says, we went on to North Carolina for
my bachelorette trip. Oh no, if I'm old boy Julio,
there is no bachelorette you're not going on a bacheloretterop,
No more hen nights for you. We've had enough hen nights.

Speaker 4 (06:13):
She's from Virginia, went to North Carolina, but she's having
a hen night?

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Is she just born in the UK?

Speaker 1 (06:19):
No, this is just covered by a UK.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
It has nothing to do with the kay I got it.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
No, the Daily Mail wrote it, so it's written by
a British person, so it's they're using their vernacular. No.
But I again, I think if I'm Julio, I'm thinking, no,
we're all set with the bachelorette party. We don't we
don't need to have one of those. Remember what happened
last time. Yeah. I don't even know what else to

(06:45):
say about this. What's meant for you will always find you.
Stop that.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
So you think it's got that right now?

Speaker 3 (06:50):
In a way, I mean, as long as she didn't
sheat like this is kind of a story. This, this
is going in the books because if like, wait, if
Julio you know it was a great time. Let's just
say he was like the bartender at the at the
hen night's party and he's like, you know, doing this
or that, and it's like a great time.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Maybe he was a server.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
I don't know what his role was in hen night,
but if he was, he.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Was a good time. And I was like coming to
my wedding to be funny.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
And then he shows up and he's dancing with my
my bapcha and my mom and my nana, Like that's
that's fun.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
You're a fun time. You're right, he might be the
love of her life. True.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
I just I don't I mean, I don't trust the
timing here. It just so happens that this guy shows
up to the wedding six weeks later, the marriage fails,
and he just happens to pop in to your snapchat
or something just right around that time. And but you'd
never really spoken before. Uh. It's giving like that, you know,

(07:44):
it's giving. It's giving that that everyone you got married
the next day, everybody was like, Julio's great, you should
have married him kind of thing, like what we love Julio.
I'm sorry, but if i'm if I'm the groom, and
I look over and the mother and the mother of
the bra is getting down with old boy Julio, and
everyone's treating him like a celebrity, like he's the greatest
thing that ever happened. Lad I think we have a

(08:07):
problem on our hands. On the morning of the wedding,
he hadn't We hadn't heard any updates. I thought that
maybe they just agreed to come, but they weren't planning
to do it. Then my friend was on Instagram and
saw that they posted a picture golfing at a local
country club, and we're like, oh, whow, they're coming. They
wantd you in about an hour after the wedding reception started.
Oh so he even made a scene. He waited to

(08:27):
make an appearance, this guy did. They were like celebrities.
We'd already told people that we'd invited these people that
we met, and we just thought that it was such
a funny story. Julio danced with my grandmother and then
my mother, and we all immediately ran up to take
pictures with him. Tarlie says that she and Julio exchanged
small talk at the wedding, but it wasn't until her

(08:48):
first marriage ended at the start of December they began
messaging on Snapchat. Me and Julio hadn't really spoken when
that picture was taken. Besides, oh my god, I can't
believe you guys are here. I went on my honeymoon.
After that, about a month and a half later, me
and my husband at the time decided that the wedding
was a mistake. We were no longer into each other anymore. Yeah,
because you met Julio, you met the man that met

(09:10):
the legend, the most interesting man in the world War.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
I want to meet Julio.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
How can you possibly turn that down?

Speaker 3 (09:15):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (09:15):
No, Shane doesn't want you to meet jul A week later,
Julio replied to a Snapchat story story of mine about
a can of ginger ale. I don't think Julio thought
I was still happily married when he messaged me, because
we were friends on Snapchat. When you break up with
someone on your story, you kind of make it obvious.

(09:35):
I don't think he thought I was still married. I
think it was pretty clear that I wasn't via your
snapchat story. I don't know, man, Charlie, Yeah, it just don't.
I don't buy it. I'm sorry, Charlie. You know you marry. Look,
I know people get married all the time that probably

(09:56):
shouldn't get married. I know it does happen where it's like, oh,
we're doing it, you know, we committed to this, like
it's playing I know I actually faced. I personally know
someone who got married knowing they didn't want to do it,
but they didn't want to let everybody down. Oh.

Speaker 4 (10:10):
I know a bunch of people who knew walking down
the aisle that like it wasn't right, that's.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
So sad, and they did it anyway because it was like, well,
my parents invested in this and maybe it's just cold feed,
and you know, maybe I'm just feeling the pressure of it.
But like we've got we've gotten this far. You know,
perhaps we'll get married. It will work out. I'm not
saying that doesn't happen, but the timeline here's a little tight. Oh,
Julio and Tarlie. Looking back, I've had thoughts about whether

(10:34):
I should have called off my wedding when I had
cold feed. But that's my thing. When did the cold
feed begin? After you met the man? That myth, the
legend Julio, after you met superstar Julio the commercial fisherman,
is that when the cold feet began.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
Julia put it down.

Speaker 4 (10:50):
Yeah, and our cold feat just like, I don't want
to do this because I feel like she knew she
didn't want to do this, you know, she calling cold
feet anything these days.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
Even if we did meet on that bachelorette trip, we
didn't really speak or communicate. So even if the wedding
got called off after that and there was never a
wedding for him to show up as a guest too,
then we wouldn't have spoken either. I don't think.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
Well, when did you get his snapchat?

Speaker 1 (11:12):
Because I'd like to know him. You didn't talk to him?
Is that the technicality?

Speaker 2 (11:16):
We didn't talk, great, and you invited him to your wedding.
Didn't you have to talk to do that?

Speaker 1 (11:21):
But you if we're snapchatting, is that not talking? I
don't know. And by the way, why are you changing?
Everyone knows what the adults you snapchat for?

Speaker 4 (11:28):
Okay, right, Like she better not have exchanged at her wedding,
which means she exchanged on the bachelorette on the hen night,
I figured this whole thing out.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah, I'm sorry, guys, I'm glad it works out. You
look happy in these pictures, you know, Charlie and Julio forever,
But yeah, of course, you come on over come. Look
at our friends. They got a couple of kids. Now,
look at that. Look at how happy they look like.
Look at this guy then Julio just looked like the
lafe of the party. Yes, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
Oh you too?

Speaker 1 (11:56):
When was there baby born? Is it Cohen? I'd like
to know the math on that too. Yeah. If they
know each other for three years and the kids three,
then we have an issue on our hands. That's a
very good question. And the kids, I don't know. I
just this whole thing is sus to me. I think
that my but that's why I read the first sentence
to you, and I'm like, at which part of the
first sentence would you be concerned? It didn't take me

(12:18):
very many words before. I have a lot of questions
as the as the groom, I'm sorry what you hung
out with a bunch of dudes at your Vechrett party
and now they're coming to the wedding? You know? I
don't Yeah, anyway, I just wanted to start you guys
out with a nice fairy tale, a fable. You know,
it isn't that beautiful though, it's a beautiful story.

Speaker 2 (12:38):
I mean, if they're in love, then I guess they
better be right.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
People make mistakes and and sometimes you know those mistakes.
I'm sure there's some sort of uh, you know, line
about it, but you know the mistake leads you in
the direction that you're supposed to go. You know who
knows you

Speaker 3 (12:55):
Never let your husband stop you from meeting your love
of your life, right right,

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