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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Legs over your head. Yeah, I mean I can do that,
but it looks like your neck.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
And the heads on the floor.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Oh, I hate when they put your legs over. I'm not.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
We're doing right now. We're really focused on the downward
dog plow. I hit the intro. It's the Tangent with
the bread show.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Giving me all the we couldn't talk about on air.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I guess we need the new We need the new
guy to say the thing right, because we got the
math guy. But then now we have this guy or
you know whatever he sounds like.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Should we bleep it again or just keep it?
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
That is a great question that somebody asked me once
upon a time, is why did we bleep the ship
we can't talk about on the air When the Tangent
is the ship we can't talk about it.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
But somebody get miles on this.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
You know. What's funny is is that there is some
voice talent out there, you know, because it's called like
voiceover person that's like a voice actor, you know, who
does the vo for us. Some of them won't cuss.
Some of the really high level ones, like I heard
about one lately that wouldn't do anything about alcohol because
I guess this person was like a recovering alcoholic, so
(01:13):
so they wouldn't say but there they but like you're an.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Actor, right, I mean yeah, Like I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Like, if you're a recovering alcoholic and they cast you
in mad Men, then you drink the fake drink right right,
more don't.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Do it if it's triggering.
Speaker 6 (01:27):
But yeah, I mean it's I don't know, I might
trigger them, right talking a lot about alcohol, though, I guess.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I just like, can you imagine if we came to
work one day and they're like, hey, we need to
talk about this. I'm like, yeah, that's against my principles,
you know, like avocados are against your principles, Like, oh yeah, yeah,
we have no morals. So we've been really obsessed with
what you thought I was lying. But what something that
you didn't know about me?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Guys?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
And it's time that you you know. I'm actually a yogi.
I go to many retreats, many yoga retreats. Always at
a yoga retreat, when you look at me, you can
tell I'm just so limber and in shape. But I
I as a yoga expert yogi am familiar with a
post called the plow the plow, and you guys have
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been telling me for days that I made it up,
it's not real, and then you googled it only to
find that the plow is real and the plow requires
basically your legs over your head. You're on your back
and your legs go over your head, and Paulina, you're
when you first saw it, and I quote, I hate
it when they do that.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Yeah, when you're talking yoga or sex, I didn't know
which one both.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
And by they I met Hovey.
Speaker 7 (02:37):
But you guys are not having the sex with hobby,
so like that's why I said they as in like
the male or female.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Women are putting out your legs for your I don't
know for that.
Speaker 8 (02:48):
Oh okay on that one. Oh yeah, yeah, you like
that home my legs. You're not trying to stretch this
thing out.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
That's something that most people never say, trying to stretch
this thing.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
Out, only put because it's like when dudes do that,
right or women?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
If that's what you guys are into, just is putting
your legs over your neck? Are you I was trying
to figure out where we are. Are we in the studio? No,
we're in the bed. Okay, got it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I'm not much of a an ask play guy, Like
I'm not like, what do they call that? Well, no,
the tongue on the booty.
Speaker 8 (03:29):
As either.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
You're talking about an.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
How do you get there?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Though? Because again I don't do it so like, isn't
that how you would? Well, if you're a guy that
likes that, don't you have to put your legs back
so that you can get there?
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Well, there's other.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Yes, get on all fours and you get behind.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Now that I.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Don't like my man doing. But yeah, no, there's other positions.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
What are they?
Speaker 1 (03:59):
How do you do it?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Well? I'm typically the one receiving, but I know that,
you know, there's men that you can just stand like
can be.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
You can be on your back and lift a little
like with a pillow.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Oh okay, you don't have to, like pretz, I don't
need my man.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I'm just I guess I'm I'm probably missing out, and
I'm really focused on the you know, cleanliness and and
sort of grooming of of all areas down below. But
I'm still concerned that somebody would get down there doing
that and have an unpleasant experience unbeknownst to me. That's
what concerns me.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Well that's the problem, right, that's ext that you're going
to do that. You need to know anything could happen.
It's a wild while last and you just need to exit.
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Well not when you're eating, I mean and not and
hopefully not anything can happen when you're eating an animal.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
You're doubt in someone's asshole, Like anything could.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Happen if eating my ass I have the courtesy to
not have anything happen. Now, the inner, you know, putting
it in is different. But if someone's eating I'm not
gonna like like.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Hard some control.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Maybe you just haven't had it good enough to where
you just can't control what might be happening.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
No, it's great.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
It's a danger zone and anything can happen.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Yeah, which is probably I don't go there.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I'm not.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
So you're saying you farted on Mike while he's fucking
down there.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
No, well he's never done that to.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Me, But.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
No, I mean, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
It's not like you've done it for somebody you.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Seem to like, except that it could happen. You're taking
that risk going down there.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I'm fully I'm fully willing to admit Jason and all
of you that I'm probably missing out, but I'm just not.
I just I'm not willing to.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
Yeah, yeah, I mean for us, like you know, you're
already eating the front.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I mean yeah, it's not too far right, So that's
what that's what's interesting.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
I don't know, I'll do it. No, no, no, no, that's.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I'm already there. Yeah, And you know I'm a huge
fan of that. So like, I that's different. I'm saying
on me.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Yeah no, I'm just saying for us, like the cleaning,
like I think it would be the Some women have
the same anxiety about cleaning the front as we do.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
You probably have for the back.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I gotta also be honest, I don't know what happened,
but I am so much more thoughtful and considerate about
the cleanliness of that region in my grown up life
than I was. Like I can honestly I can remember
a day where I would get up, take a shower,
go to work all day, go to the club all night,
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and then go home with somebody and there was no
time to shower in between. Well, it happens, and stuff
just happens. Now, if I'm going out, I think there's
any possibility we are doing a full thirty point inspection.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
As we appreciate as women. But sometimes you got to
rung it out. You can't shower.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Sometimes you just have Yeah, I mean, but like I
just I think about, like how much more considerate I
am now and how much more paranoid I am now?
And back in the day I was just out here man,
like I was. Got you what happens in a twelve
fourteen hour day, lots of things and then you go
back to the crib and it's just let's.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Go, well, that's when you do it in the shower.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yeah, I wasn't doing that. Oh all right, I'm just
saying and no one ever said anything. I still got
a lot of repeat business.
Speaker 8 (07:13):
Yeah, you know, funky fucking yeah, but it happens.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Right, Yeah, sometimes you have to. You just know what
you can and can't do during that session. If that
makes sense, you.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Know, because you know my theory about if somebody had
a bad experience slash. If you're not very good then
like people can say all day long, like I'm good
in bed. The only way you really know if you're
good in bed is if people are coming back to
you electively to do it again on their own. Yeah,
that's how you know you got it because I don't.
(07:45):
You can say, oh, she loves it, she loves it,
this and that other thing.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
She doesn't.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
She might like it, but like you better right, and
so it's okay, but she really likes you.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Right.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
I've seen dudes like literally argue with women, like when
she's like, no, I didn't orgasm and the guy will
be like, yeah you did. It's like wait, what, Like
how do you know more than I do?
Speaker 4 (08:06):
I have a heart.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
I have a heart, admittedly, and I understand it's not
it isn't always about me, but I have a hard
time with that, Like when I'm with somebody and they're like, no,
I liked it, but I didn't. I didn't go all
the way, Like I feel bad. I feel guilty. Yeah,
because we go every time. It's it's almost impossible.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah I don't.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
I'm say impossible, but most guys are going to finish.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Oh yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
But I don't like.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I don't like the fact that it's not as simple
for me to make you happy every single time because
I'm a pleaser, and like that's what I want. I
don't want you to lie to me. But I also like,
I don't know if I believe you, if half the
time you don't get off and it's like but no,
but that's just how it is. It's okay, it's a
little more complicated, is whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
I still enjoy secks even if I don't finish, and.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
That's great, and I hear that. But for you, right,
I don't like it?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah, I know. I mean I don't love that. I didn't,
but women can still and away that.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
I think if if you're really into a dude and
he's good, what you go every time.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
I think it's more if you're dating someone long term
than you go everywhere.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
But even then, so if you're dating someone long term,
you'll go every time.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Yeah, that's every single time.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
Yeah, that's more likely because then you know what gets
done and you're more honest about like I did, I didn't,
let's do this, let's do that.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
It doesn't make me feel much better.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Oh I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Not that I've been with I haven't been with anyone
for that long.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
But it takes a while, Like it's got to be
more than six months.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I would just like to know that it's you know,
an eight out of ten batting average would be strong. Yeah,
but you're telling me a ten out of ten batting
average is possible.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
That is one of the benefits of long term relationships
is you're busting a nut every time.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
I wish more men felt like you, like more men
cared to make women climax, because I feel like a
lot of men don't even care.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I do not understand that.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Yeah, that's why.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
And I'm not just saying that because this is like
a relatively public form, like I do not understand how
men don't care, like when you care, things usually work
how better? Yes, And also and maybe it's unhealthy. It
probably is unhealthy. I'm sure there's my My psychiatrist could
dig into this, but it's an identity thing for me.
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Like if I don't do well at work, I don't
feel good about myself, Like if I don't do well
in the bedroom, I don't feel good about myself. If
someone's unhappy with me and I don't feel like I
can fix it, I don't feel good about myself like it,
And you could argue, well, that's selfish on I'm being
selfish right because I'm because I require that feedback from
other people. Maybe it is, but like, how selfish is
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it when I'm concerned about ultimately, you know, the top
line here is I'm worried about you being happy in general.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
So is it selfish? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Is it the kind of selfish that most people probably
want to make that they feel bad when you're not
feeling good.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
I actually talked about them therapy yesterday, not specifically about sex,
but I said, like, if for me, like when I'm
feeling down, if like taking care of someone else or
doing something for someone else like makes me feel better,
then does that make it selfish and defeat the purpose
of doing.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Something for them?
Speaker 4 (11:02):
Does it?
Speaker 5 (11:03):
It's deep?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Isn't that deep?
Speaker 6 (11:04):
Because I like, I like get my identity from like
taking care of other people, so it's becomes a selfish
things and then I like feel better from doing that.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
She didn't say it was selfish.
Speaker 6 (11:14):
She said I was fucking nuts for saying that it
was selfish, But she didn't say that in that word.
But I thought it was like tribute to think about,
you know, like if you're getting something out of even
like charity work, it's like, is it selfish or is it?
Speaker 3 (11:27):
You know, it's a common theme though for me, and
I think you and I maybe connect in that way
in that but believe it or not. I'm a people pleaser,
believe it, and that surprises a lot of people because
I kind of don't. I'm not very emotional and I
tend to keep a pretty straight face. A messed up
but ultimately, like, I'm not happy if other people in
my life aren't happy, and it's it's like a continual
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effort for me to realize that it's really not in
my control, like my actions are in Mike, and I
hate that whole hula hoop bullshit. You can only control
what's inside the hoo. Fuck you, No, I can control
out the hula hoop too, like I don't know you
never heard this, no, And my therapist doesn't do it,
which is one of the reasons she's employed. But people
will tell you if it's outside of your hula hoop,
you can't. You can only focus on basically. But it's
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a metaphor for saying I can only control myself, which is.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
True in theory.
Speaker 6 (12:15):
But I always say to my mom when she tells
me because she hates my people pleasing, I'm like, but Mom,
For some people, it's not as easy like as it
is for therapists to say that, yeah, you know, I mean,
I got a big ass hula hoop.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Then if that's the case.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Work is complicated, though, is like I think you and
I think maybe you and my mom are similar calin
in that I just spit everywhere.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
Is that she's constantly.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Giving and giving and giving and giving and giving, and
I know she does it from her heart and she
does it because that's who she is. But if you
miss the boat on the time that she needs something,
you're an asshole. And I'm not saying this like I'm
being really this is overly dramatized, But if you miss
the boat.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Then you're affected by it.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Then then you get she gets she's upset with you.
And what you could argue is, well, I'm sorry that
I miss that, but like the ten things that you
just did for me, I'm so grateful, but I never
asked for them, you know. So it's like, so you
can't you can't be now if it's consistent and you're
constantly taking and never giving. That's one thing and my
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mom and I'm not saying anything that she and I
haven't talked about before, because like we have a really open,
clear relationship and she doesn't do it to me, but
other people she does it too, and they let her
do it and they don't say anything to her about
it because it's like, well I can't reason with her
or whatever. It's no, you can. It's just like, if
you need something from me, I need you to be
more specific so that I don't miss it.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
Yeah, I don't ever tell the other person, but I
do get really down low, thinking like they must not
love me as much as I love them or whatever.
But they never fucking ask for me to like remember
their favorite bagel flavor, you know.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
So it's very well and she.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Never stops, and you're like this too, but she never stops.
Like that's just who she is. I mean, it's just
constant giving. And I could never give as much as
she does. I really couldn't. Like I'm not that I'm
not anywhere near as thoughtful as she is, so I'll
never it'll never be even. Yeah, but I don't know.
That's something she deals with fairly deeply. And again I
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wouldn't say it out loud if or hear if if
it wasn't something that she and I had talked about before.
But it's like I think, sometimes you got to do
stuff because it's what you want to do because you
think it's right, and not necessarily because you're anticipating a reaction,
because I think more often than that you will not
get the reaction that you're looking for.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
It's really hard to learn that. I'm working on that.
My eyes are like even getting wet thinking about that.
But tell her to call me because I feel her.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
Yeah, no, one, And I have a little bit of
it too, where it's like there are there are very
specific times where I really want someone to acknowledge this
thing I did mm and then they don't, and I'm
pissed about it. But it's like why would they don't
have to? You know what I mean, Like, I don't
know how would you know? How would you know this
one thing I really want to acknowledgement and you wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
You couldn't.
Speaker 6 (14:58):
Being pissed as a secondary emotion. Anger is not a
primary emotion. So you're really just hurt, You're just it's
infesting and being angry.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
But yeah, no, And I don't know that people aren't grateful.
They probably are, right, Yeah, yeah, So I don't even
know how we got to that thing.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I know we were doing sex and then we did
deep well deep sex to Jesus.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Yeah, I guess back to the plow.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
I'm surprise you don't like that because I thought, I
thought a lot of people at their head. No, I
thought that, like a lot of women wanted it to
go as far as it could go.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Okay, So yes, in that position, it hurts them. In
that position, it hurts it is going far. There are
walls being hit. This is true, fucking Esophaget Jesus, you're
hitting everything. It's kind of I feel like I'm like
folded and like.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Sort of elephants. That's a long journey, but this is so.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
But you don't you don't really want that.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
I don't want to be folded in half and then
like I can't free that. I already have like a
breathing problem, So I don't want that. I think it's
an them thing. I think it's a guy thing.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
I think they really like getting your fucking ankles by
your ears, like it's a them thing.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
And then just fucking yea, I.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Will say, as a man, you guys are everybody knows
that the female is the female brain is a labyrinth.
It can be very it can be very complicated. Amaze, amazed,
you knew that. I think there's Pauline is the one
that said hunt no, no, no, I know. I think
it's I think that's like an Indiana Jones reference. So
that's why you know, Taylor, Oh there you go. Well.
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I think something that women have to understand is that,
like there's a standard set of tools that we think
we've got and we think, I don't know. I think
porn has a lot to do with it. I think
there's a lot of stuff where like we think that
that's what you want because that's what we see, or
because no one's told us that you don't, or because
the last person did and the next person doesn't. And
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so I think I think sometimes, you know, as elementary
as it is, I think sometimes you actually have to say,
like I don't want it this way. I want it
this way, and if you don't, then you really can't
be mad if a dude keeps going back to the
same tricks, because we're not all that smart. I mean,
we you know. And and to your point of what
I'm learning is a lot of guys don't even give
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a ship.
Speaker 7 (17:14):
No.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
I can't believe, I truly cannot believe that. Why do
you keep fucking guys that don't give a ship is
what I want to know.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Because he lives at her house.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
I'm he's very much a pleaser. Can you imagine her
with that?
Speaker 8 (17:35):
Maybe all is hard work. I'm hot, you hot? My
wig is like no, no, if we're doing it, we're
doing it how I like it.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
Yeah, that doesn't surprise me at all.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
That's amazing.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I just I don't understand why, because if it's that common.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
Because I'm a people pleaser, I'm I'm working on it.
Speaker 4 (17:52):
I've broken up with people who don't put in any
effort towards me. You know.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
It's like like I'm putting it. I'm trying to make
you happy, and then you don't to give a ship.
Like I've dated women like that where it's like I'm
hot enough. I guess just being here naked is good enough,
and it's like no, but if if.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
I get their approval, like that's what I get stuck on.
You know what I mean, it's fun. I'm fucked up.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Well, and we're the same in that regard because if
you didn't come, then it's like I still had a
great time, and I'm like that's impossible.
Speaker 6 (18:17):
And I'm like that's great. Well, but I'm like, that's
great for me though he had a good time. Yeah,
it's really sad.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
No, I need to get to a point where I
just accept that that the satisfaction level is what it
is and everyone's happy to be there. I guess I
haven't been with someone long enough to really know what
that's like.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Try it. It's fulfilling.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Maybe I don't know. Maybe Yeah, so are there? You go?
Speaker 3 (18:39):
So Caitlyn and I have that in common. Oh yeah,
we gotta make everybody happy.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I'm fucked up.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
Yeah I am too.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
Yeah, it's bad, It's real bad.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
That's our new single, Kaylyn and I.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
We're gonna get the questioning.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Yeah, brought to you by Lexipro.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Hell yeah, or any of them is mine?
Speaker 1 (18:57):
So shot?
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Sure, whatever, any I'll take a new spot ship. It's fine. Hey,
how you doing. It's Fred for psychiatry, all of.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
It, all of it, every single dream, endoorment.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
Hey, it's Fred for Pfizer. I take it all. Whatever
they make I take it. Blood pressure, sure, cholesterol, you
got it, brain shit fine, dick hard, you got it.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
What's interesting? I didn't never consider you a people pleaser?
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Really, No, I can't. Oh, I can see why people don't.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
It's internal. I think for his that was gonna say
like I.
Speaker 7 (19:24):
For me, what I've observed is like, yeah, you don't
like when people are like upset with you, or you
think they're upset or whatever. But I've never sat and
been like, oh, he's people pleasing again. I never saw that.
But you're right, it's an internal battle for you for sure.
And I can kind of that we talked about it.
I can kind of see a little more.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
Yeah, it's just And then there are certain people in
life that you're never it doesn't matter what you do,
you're really never gonna please them never. And I think
people use that as a cop out for their own behavior.
But I think if you really did the self awareness
and like you really looked at it and talked it through,
there are certain people who it does not matter what
you do, they're going to be shitty to you.
Speaker 4 (20:00):
And at some point people just give up.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
And they're gone forever.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
And the funny thing is, and then the person who
you're trying to please is piss Oh well that person
just doesn't care anymore.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (20:13):
Is? Why?
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Come? Why?
Speaker 3 (20:14):
But the common theme though, and I again I don't
mean to project into other people because I tend to
just make it. It's got to be my fault. But
the truth is some people don't have the self awareness
to realize they're the problem. And what's amazing to me
are the people that can say, I don't like this person,
this person, this person, this person, I don't like anybody.
(20:36):
It's always I got fired because of this person. I
got fired because of that person. I got fired because
this person sucks. That person sucks. Wait a minute, what's
the common denominator dancing again?
Speaker 1 (20:45):
And we have no idea how.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
Everybody else fucked you? Everybody else sucks.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
Everybody right, look in the mirror and take that finger
and go right in the mirror.
Speaker 4 (20:55):
Everybody. It's everybody else that did it. Wait a minute,
there's one singing comments.
Speaker 5 (21:02):
As a word.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
That's a whole word. Don't plow Paulina hashtags.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Do not plow me, do not plow me loose. I
will run, I'll run and be upside down at the
same time.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
All right, So no downward dog plow for her? Okay,
no ankle said, you've been extremely quiet during this What
do you consider yourself are you? Are you a selfish lover,
and well you kind of you kind of said you are.
Speaker 6 (21:30):
Are you so much as either you don't go downtown
Charlie Brown, which that's a mistake.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
Jess deserves that. I do.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
I do try to please my wife. You know, you
know I love that. Obviously I get off and I
try to make sure.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
Obviously obviously.
Speaker 3 (21:49):
Right, I.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
Love that though that says it all right there.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
I mean, obviously you know, whatever happens otherwise watch out.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
I'm steal your girl today. I'm gonna see it.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
I'm just so surprised because I see you with your
wife and your and your son, and your an incredible
husband and father and and and I don't mean to
ex so surprise, because it's not like you're not an
incredible friend, but uh, it surprises me that you put
so much effort into accommodating your family and then in
bed you don't go downtown. That that really surprises me.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I mean, I like, I'm a provider. You know what
I'm saying. You have to be a provider.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Well you should provide some tongue.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
How am I going to.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
See down there? You don't need to see something?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Tells me will pay the phone bill on your head
tells me that the electric bill still gets paid. Oh yeah,
if you go intowntown all the time. This guy, all right,
there's the Tan. Thanks for there you go, and I'm
sorry we've been shitty about it, but there you go.
And then hopefully that was worth it, and we'll do
(23:01):
another one in the next twelve to eighteen months
Legs over your head. Yeah, I mean I can do that,
but it looks like your neck.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
And the heads on the floor.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Oh, I hate when they put your legs over. I'm not.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
We're doing right now. We're really focused on the downward
dog plow. I hit the intro. It's the Tangent with
the bread show.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Giving me all the we couldn't talk about on air.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I guess we need the new We need the new
guy to say the thing right, because we got the
math guy. But then now we have this guy or
you know whatever he sounds like.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Should we bleep it again or just keep it?
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
That is a great question that somebody asked me once
upon a time, is why did we bleep the ship
we can't talk about on the air When the Tangent
is the ship we can't talk about it.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
But somebody get miles on this.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
You know. What's funny is is that there is some
voice talent out there, you know, because it's called like
voiceover person that's like a voice actor, you know, who
does the vo for us. Some of them won't cuss.
Some of the really high level ones, like I heard
about one lately that wouldn't do anything about alcohol because
I guess this person was like a recovering alcoholic, so
(01:13):
so they wouldn't say but there they but like you're an.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Actor, right, I mean yeah, Like I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Like, if you're a recovering alcoholic and they cast you
in mad Men, then you drink the fake drink right right,
more don't.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Do it if it's triggering.
Speaker 6 (01:27):
But yeah, I mean it's I don't know, I might
trigger them, right talking a lot about alcohol, though, I guess.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I just like, can you imagine if we came to
work one day and they're like, hey, we need to
talk about this. I'm like, yeah, that's against my principles,
you know, like avocados are against your principles, Like, oh yeah, yeah,
we have no morals. So we've been really obsessed with
what you thought I was lying. But what something that
you didn't know about me?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Guys?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
And it's time that you you know. I'm actually a yogi.
I go to many retreats, many yoga retreats. Always at
a yoga retreat, when you look at me, you can
tell I'm just so limber and in shape. But I
I as a yoga expert yogi am familiar with a
post called the plow the plow, and you guys have
(02:12):
been telling me for days that I made it up,
it's not real, and then you googled it only to
find that the plow is real and the plow requires
basically your legs over your head. You're on your back
and your legs go over your head, and Paulina, you're
when you first saw it, and I quote, I hate
it when they do that.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Yeah, when you're talking yoga or sex, I didn't know
which one both.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
And by they I met Hovey.
Speaker 7 (02:37):
But you guys are not having the sex with hobby,
so like that's why I said they as in like
the male or female.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Women are putting out your legs for your I don't
know for that.
Speaker 8 (02:48):
Oh okay on that one. Oh yeah, yeah, you like
that home my legs. You're not trying to stretch this
thing out.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
That's something that most people never say, trying to stretch
this thing.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
Out, only put because it's like when dudes do that,
right or women?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
If that's what you guys are into, just is putting
your legs over your neck? Are you I was trying
to figure out where we are. Are we in the studio? No,
we're in the bed. Okay, got it.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I'm not much of a an ask play guy, Like
I'm not like, what do they call that? Well, no,
the tongue on the booty.
Speaker 8 (03:29):
As either.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
You're talking about an.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
How do you get there?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Though? Because again I don't do it so like, isn't
that how you would? Well, if you're a guy that
likes that, don't you have to put your legs back
so that you can get there?
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Well, there's other.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Yes, get on all fours and you get behind.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Now that I.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Don't like my man doing. But yeah, no, there's other positions.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
What are they?
Speaker 1 (03:59):
How do you do it?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Well? I'm typically the one receiving, but I know that,
you know, there's men that you can just stand like
can be.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
You can be on your back and lift a little
like with a pillow.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Oh okay, you don't have to, like pretz, I don't
need my man.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I'm just I guess I'm I'm probably missing out, and
I'm really focused on the you know, cleanliness and and
sort of grooming of of all areas down below. But
I'm still concerned that somebody would get down there doing
that and have an unpleasant experience unbeknownst to me. That's
what concerns me.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Well that's the problem, right, that's ext that you're going
to do that. You need to know anything could happen.
It's a wild while last and you just need to exit.
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Well not when you're eating, I mean and not and
hopefully not anything can happen when you're eating an animal.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
You're doubt in someone's asshole, Like anything could.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Happen if eating my ass I have the courtesy to
not have anything happen. Now, the inner, you know, putting
it in is different. But if someone's eating I'm not
gonna like like.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Hard some control.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Maybe you just haven't had it good enough to where
you just can't control what might be happening.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
No, it's great.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
It's a danger zone and anything can happen.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Yeah, which is probably I don't go there.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I'm not.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
So you're saying you farted on Mike while he's fucking
down there.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
No, well he's never done that to.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Me, But.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
No, I mean, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
It's not like you've done it for somebody you.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Seem to like, except that it could happen. You're taking
that risk going down there.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I'm fully I'm fully willing to admit Jason and all
of you that I'm probably missing out, but I'm just not.
I just I'm not willing to.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
Yeah, yeah, I mean for us, like you know, you're
already eating the front.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I mean yeah, it's not too far right, So that's
what that's what's interesting.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
I don't know, I'll do it. No, no, no, no, that's.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I'm already there. Yeah, And you know I'm a huge
fan of that. So like, I that's different. I'm saying
on me.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Yeah no, I'm just saying for us, like the cleaning,
like I think it would be the Some women have
the same anxiety about cleaning the front as we do.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
You probably have for the back.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I gotta also be honest, I don't know what happened,
but I am so much more thoughtful and considerate about
the cleanliness of that region in my grown up life
than I was. Like I can honestly I can remember
a day where I would get up, take a shower,
go to work all day, go to the club all night,
(06:34):
and then go home with somebody and there was no
time to shower in between. Well, it happens, and stuff
just happens. Now, if I'm going out, I think there's
any possibility we are doing a full thirty point inspection.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
As we appreciate as women. But sometimes you got to
rung it out. You can't shower.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Sometimes you just have Yeah, I mean, but like I
just I think about, like how much more considerate I
am now and how much more paranoid I am now?
And back in the day I was just out here man,
like I was. Got you what happens in a twelve
fourteen hour day, lots of things and then you go
back to the crib and it's just let's.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Go, well, that's when you do it in the shower.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yeah, I wasn't doing that. Oh all right, I'm just
saying and no one ever said anything. I still got
a lot of repeat business.
Speaker 8 (07:13):
Yeah, you know, funky fucking yeah, but it happens.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Right, Yeah, sometimes you have to. You just know what
you can and can't do during that session. If that
makes sense, you.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Know, because you know my theory about if somebody had
a bad experience slash. If you're not very good then
like people can say all day long, like I'm good
in bed. The only way you really know if you're
good in bed is if people are coming back to
you electively to do it again on their own. Yeah,
that's how you know you got it because I don't.
(07:45):
You can say, oh, she loves it, she loves it,
this and that other thing.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
She doesn't.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
She might like it, but like you better right, and
so it's okay, but she really likes you.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Right.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
I've seen dudes like literally argue with women, like when
she's like, no, I didn't orgasm and the guy will
be like, yeah you did. It's like wait, what, Like
how do you know more than I do?
Speaker 4 (08:06):
I have a heart.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
I have a heart, admittedly, and I understand it's not
it isn't always about me, but I have a hard
time with that, Like when I'm with somebody and they're like, no,
I liked it, but I didn't. I didn't go all
the way, Like I feel bad. I feel guilty. Yeah,
because we go every time. It's it's almost impossible.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah I don't.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
I'm say impossible, but most guys are going to finish.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Oh yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
But I don't like.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I don't like the fact that it's not as simple
for me to make you happy every single time because
I'm a pleaser, and like that's what I want. I
don't want you to lie to me. But I also like,
I don't know if I believe you, if half the
time you don't get off and it's like but no,
but that's just how it is. It's okay, it's a
little more complicated, is whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
I still enjoy secks even if I don't finish, and.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
That's great, and I hear that. But for you, right,
I don't like it?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah, I know. I mean I don't love that. I didn't,
but women can still and away that.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
I think if if you're really into a dude and
he's good, what you go every time.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
I think it's more if you're dating someone long term
than you go everywhere.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
But even then, so if you're dating someone long term,
you'll go every time.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Yeah, that's every single time.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
Yeah, that's more likely because then you know what gets
done and you're more honest about like I did, I didn't,
let's do this, let's do that.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
It doesn't make me feel much better.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Oh I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Not that I've been with I haven't been with anyone
for that long.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
But it takes a while, Like it's got to be
more than six months.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I would just like to know that it's you know,
an eight out of ten batting average would be strong. Yeah,
but you're telling me a ten out of ten batting
average is possible.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
That is one of the benefits of long term relationships
is you're busting a nut every time.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
I wish more men felt like you, like more men
cared to make women climax, because I feel like a
lot of men don't even care.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I do not understand that.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Yeah, that's why.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
And I'm not just saying that because this is like
a relatively public form, like I do not understand how
men don't care, like when you care, things usually work
how better? Yes, And also and maybe it's unhealthy. It
probably is unhealthy. I'm sure there's my My psychiatrist could
dig into this, but it's an identity thing for me.
(10:11):
Like if I don't do well at work, I don't
feel good about myself, Like if I don't do well
in the bedroom, I don't feel good about myself. If
someone's unhappy with me and I don't feel like I
can fix it, I don't feel good about myself like it,
And you could argue, well, that's selfish on I'm being
selfish right because I'm because I require that feedback from
other people. Maybe it is, but like, how selfish is
(10:33):
it when I'm concerned about ultimately, you know, the top
line here is I'm worried about you being happy in general.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
So is it selfish? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Is it the kind of selfish that most people probably
want to make that they feel bad when you're not
feeling good.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
I actually talked about them therapy yesterday, not specifically about sex,
but I said, like, if for me, like when I'm
feeling down, if like taking care of someone else or
doing something for someone else like makes me feel better,
then does that make it selfish and defeat the purpose
of doing.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Something for them?
Speaker 4 (11:02):
Does it?
Speaker 5 (11:03):
It's deep?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Isn't that deep?
Speaker 6 (11:04):
Because I like, I like get my identity from like
taking care of other people, so it's becomes a selfish
things and then I like feel better from doing that.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
She didn't say it was selfish.
Speaker 6 (11:14):
She said I was fucking nuts for saying that it
was selfish, But she didn't say that in that word.
But I thought it was like tribute to think about,
you know, like if you're getting something out of even
like charity work, it's like, is it selfish or is it?
Speaker 3 (11:27):
You know, it's a common theme though for me, and
I think you and I maybe connect in that way
in that but believe it or not. I'm a people pleaser,
believe it, and that surprises a lot of people because
I kind of don't. I'm not very emotional and I
tend to keep a pretty straight face. A messed up
but ultimately, like, I'm not happy if other people in
my life aren't happy, and it's it's like a continual
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effort for me to realize that it's really not in
my control, like my actions are in Mike, and I
hate that whole hula hoop bullshit. You can only control
what's inside the hoo. Fuck you, No, I can control
out the hula hoop too, like I don't know you
never heard this, no, And my therapist doesn't do it,
which is one of the reasons she's employed. But people
will tell you if it's outside of your hula hoop,
you can't. You can only focus on basically. But it's
(12:11):
a metaphor for saying I can only control myself, which is.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
True in theory.
Speaker 6 (12:15):
But I always say to my mom when she tells
me because she hates my people pleasing, I'm like, but Mom,
For some people, it's not as easy like as it
is for therapists to say that, yeah, you know, I mean,
I got a big ass hula hoop.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Then if that's the case.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Work is complicated, though, is like I think you and
I think maybe you and my mom are similar calin
in that I just spit everywhere.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
Is that she's constantly.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Giving and giving and giving and giving and giving, and
I know she does it from her heart and she
does it because that's who she is. But if you
miss the boat on the time that she needs something,
you're an asshole. And I'm not saying this like I'm
being really this is overly dramatized, But if you miss
the boat.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Then you're affected by it.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Then then you get she gets she's upset with you.
And what you could argue is, well, I'm sorry that
I miss that, but like the ten things that you
just did for me, I'm so grateful, but I never
asked for them, you know. So it's like, so you
can't you can't be now if it's consistent and you're
constantly taking and never giving. That's one thing and my
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mom and I'm not saying anything that she and I
haven't talked about before, because like we have a really open,
clear relationship and she doesn't do it to me, but
other people she does it too, and they let her
do it and they don't say anything to her about
it because it's like, well I can't reason with her
or whatever. It's no, you can. It's just like, if
you need something from me, I need you to be
more specific so that I don't miss it.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
Yeah, I don't ever tell the other person, but I
do get really down low, thinking like they must not
love me as much as I love them or whatever.
But they never fucking ask for me to like remember
their favorite bagel flavor, you know.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
So it's very well and she.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Never stops, and you're like this too, but she never stops.
Like that's just who she is. I mean, it's just
constant giving. And I could never give as much as
she does. I really couldn't. Like I'm not that I'm
not anywhere near as thoughtful as she is, so I'll
never it'll never be even. Yeah, but I don't know.
That's something she deals with fairly deeply. And again I
(14:14):
wouldn't say it out loud if or hear if if
it wasn't something that she and I had talked about before.
But it's like I think, sometimes you got to do
stuff because it's what you want to do because you
think it's right, and not necessarily because you're anticipating a reaction,
because I think more often than that you will not
get the reaction that you're looking for.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
It's really hard to learn that. I'm working on that.
My eyes are like even getting wet thinking about that.
But tell her to call me because I feel her.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
Yeah, no, one, And I have a little bit of
it too, where it's like there are there are very
specific times where I really want someone to acknowledge this
thing I did mm and then they don't, and I'm
pissed about it. But it's like why would they don't
have to? You know what I mean, Like, I don't
know how would you know? How would you know this
one thing I really want to acknowledgement and you wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
You couldn't.
Speaker 6 (14:58):
Being pissed as a secondary emotion. Anger is not a
primary emotion. So you're really just hurt, You're just it's
infesting and being angry.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
But yeah, no, And I don't know that people aren't grateful.
They probably are, right, Yeah, yeah, So I don't even
know how we got to that thing.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I know we were doing sex and then we did
deep well deep sex to Jesus.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Yeah, I guess back to the plow.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
I'm surprise you don't like that because I thought, I
thought a lot of people at their head. No, I
thought that, like a lot of women wanted it to
go as far as it could go.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Okay, So yes, in that position, it hurts them. In
that position, it hurts it is going far. There are
walls being hit. This is true, fucking Esophaget Jesus, you're
hitting everything. It's kind of I feel like I'm like
folded and like.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Sort of elephants. That's a long journey, but this is so.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
But you don't you don't really want that.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
I don't want to be folded in half and then
like I can't free that. I already have like a
breathing problem, So I don't want that. I think it's
an them thing. I think it's a guy thing.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
I think they really like getting your fucking ankles by
your ears, like it's a them thing.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
And then just fucking yea, I.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Will say, as a man, you guys are everybody knows
that the female is the female brain is a labyrinth.
It can be very it can be very complicated. Amaze, amazed,
you knew that. I think there's Pauline is the one
that said hunt no, no, no, I know. I think
it's I think that's like an Indiana Jones reference. So
that's why you know, Taylor, Oh there you go. Well.
(16:31):
I think something that women have to understand is that,
like there's a standard set of tools that we think
we've got and we think, I don't know. I think
porn has a lot to do with it. I think
there's a lot of stuff where like we think that
that's what you want because that's what we see, or
because no one's told us that you don't, or because
the last person did and the next person doesn't. And
(16:52):
so I think I think sometimes, you know, as elementary
as it is, I think sometimes you actually have to say,
like I don't want it this way. I want it
this way, and if you don't, then you really can't
be mad if a dude keeps going back to the
same tricks, because we're not all that smart. I mean,
we you know. And and to your point of what
I'm learning is a lot of guys don't even give
(17:13):
a ship.
Speaker 7 (17:14):
No.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
I can't believe, I truly cannot believe that. Why do
you keep fucking guys that don't give a ship is
what I want to know.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Because he lives at her house.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
I'm he's very much a pleaser. Can you imagine her
with that?
Speaker 8 (17:35):
Maybe all is hard work. I'm hot, you hot? My
wig is like no, no, if we're doing it, we're
doing it how I like it.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
Yeah, that doesn't surprise me at all.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
That's amazing.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
I just I don't understand why, because if it's that common.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
Because I'm a people pleaser, I'm I'm working on it.
Speaker 4 (17:52):
I've broken up with people who don't put in any
effort towards me. You know.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
It's like like I'm putting it. I'm trying to make
you happy, and then you don't to give a ship.
Like I've dated women like that where it's like I'm
hot enough. I guess just being here naked is good enough,
and it's like no, but if if.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
I get their approval, like that's what I get stuck on.
You know what I mean, it's fun. I'm fucked up.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Well, and we're the same in that regard because if
you didn't come, then it's like I still had a
great time, and I'm like that's impossible.
Speaker 6 (18:17):
And I'm like that's great. Well, but I'm like, that's
great for me though he had a good time. Yeah,
it's really sad.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
No, I need to get to a point where I
just accept that that the satisfaction level is what it
is and everyone's happy to be there. I guess I
haven't been with someone long enough to really know what
that's like.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Try it. It's fulfilling.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
Maybe I don't know. Maybe Yeah, so are there? You go?
Speaker 3 (18:39):
So Caitlyn and I have that in common. Oh yeah,
we gotta make everybody happy.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I'm fucked up.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
Yeah I am too.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
Yeah, it's bad, It's real bad.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
That's our new single, Kaylyn and I.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
We're gonna get the questioning.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Yeah, brought to you by Lexipro.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Hell yeah, or any of them is mine?
Speaker 1 (18:57):
So shot?
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Sure, whatever, any I'll take a new spot ship. It's fine. Hey,
how you doing. It's Fred for psychiatry, all of.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
It, all of it, every single dream, endoorment.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
Hey, it's Fred for Pfizer. I take it all. Whatever
they make I take it. Blood pressure, sure, cholesterol, you
got it, brain shit fine, dick hard, you got it.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
What's interesting? I didn't never consider you a people pleaser?
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Really, No, I can't. Oh, I can see why people don't.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
It's internal. I think for his that was gonna say
like I.
Speaker 7 (19:24):
For me, what I've observed is like, yeah, you don't
like when people are like upset with you, or you
think they're upset or whatever. But I've never sat and
been like, oh, he's people pleasing again. I never saw that.
But you're right, it's an internal battle for you for sure.
And I can kind of that we talked about it.
I can kind of see a little more.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
Yeah, it's just And then there are certain people in
life that you're never it doesn't matter what you do,
you're really never gonna please them never. And I think
people use that as a cop out for their own behavior.
But I think if you really did the self awareness
and like you really looked at it and talked it through,
there are certain people who it does not matter what
you do, they're going to be shitty to you.
Speaker 4 (20:00):
And at some point people just give up.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
And they're gone forever.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
And the funny thing is, and then the person who
you're trying to please is piss Oh well that person
just doesn't care anymore.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (20:13):
Is? Why?
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Come? Why?
Speaker 3 (20:14):
But the common theme though, and I again I don't
mean to project into other people because I tend to
just make it. It's got to be my fault. But
the truth is some people don't have the self awareness
to realize they're the problem. And what's amazing to me
are the people that can say, I don't like this person,
this person, this person, this person, I don't like anybody.
(20:36):
It's always I got fired because of this person. I
got fired because of that person. I got fired because
this person sucks. That person sucks. Wait a minute, what's
the common denominator dancing again?
Speaker 1 (20:45):
And we have no idea how.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
Everybody else fucked you? Everybody else sucks.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
Everybody right, look in the mirror and take that finger
and go right in the mirror.
Speaker 4 (20:55):
Everybody. It's everybody else that did it. Wait a minute,
there's one singing comments.
Speaker 5 (21:02):
As a word.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
That's a whole word. Don't plow Paulina hashtags.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
Do not plow me, do not plow me loose. I
will run, I'll run and be upside down at the
same time.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
All right, So no downward dog plow for her? Okay,
no ankle said, you've been extremely quiet during this What
do you consider yourself are you? Are you a selfish lover,
and well you kind of you kind of said you are.
Speaker 6 (21:30):
Are you so much as either you don't go downtown
Charlie Brown, which that's a mistake.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
Jess deserves that. I do.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
I do try to please my wife. You know, you
know I love that. Obviously I get off and I
try to make sure.
Speaker 4 (21:43):
Obviously obviously.
Speaker 3 (21:49):
Right, I.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
Love that though that says it all right there.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
I mean, obviously you know, whatever happens otherwise watch out.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
I'm steal your girl today. I'm gonna see it.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
I'm just so surprised because I see you with your
wife and your and your son, and your an incredible
husband and father and and and I don't mean to
ex so surprise, because it's not like you're not an
incredible friend, but uh, it surprises me that you put
so much effort into accommodating your family and then in
bed you don't go downtown. That that really surprises me.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I mean, I like, I'm a provider. You know what
I'm saying. You have to be a provider.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Well you should provide some tongue.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
How am I going to.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
See down there? You don't need to see something?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Tells me will pay the phone bill on your head
tells me that the electric bill still gets paid. Oh yeah,
if you go intowntown all the time. This guy, all right,
there's the Tan. Thanks for there you go, and I'm
sorry we've been shitty about it, but there you go.
And then hopefully that was worth it, and we'll do
(23:01):
another one in the next twelve to eighteen months
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