Guyset

How do you become more interesting, especially on dates, at work, or when you feel stuck in your 20s?

This episode started with a simple question I was asked about dating: How do I become more interesting? But the more I thought about it, the more I realized this question applies to everything. Confidence. Career. Friendships. ...

There's a moment that hits after work when you sit in your car, open LinkedIn, or scroll job boards and think, what am I actually doing? Not because you're failing. Not because things are falling apart. But because something just doesn't feel right.

In this episode, I talk honestly about career uncertainty, burnout, comparison, and the pressure to feel fulfilled by your job. I share the thoughts I've bee...

Every year, we tell ourselves this is the year we finally change things.

We reset on January 1st. We make big promises. We swear this time will be different. And then life happens. A day gets missed. A habit slips. Motivation fades. And suddenly the goal that mattered so much feels heavy, frustrating, or out of reach.

In this ep...

Almost 50% of guys ages 18–25 have never asked someone out in person.
Not because they do not want to, but because they hesitate.

In this episode of Guyset, I break down why asking someone out feels so nerve-wracking now, where the fear actually comes from, and why the usual advice like "ju...

In this Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys actually search for but rarely say out loud.

I start with a big one: how to handle farting in a relationship, especially early on when you are trying to avoid making things awkward. Then I get into commitment anxiety and the re...

Feeling jealous of a friend and not sure what that says about you? In this episode, I break down what jealousy actually means, why it shows up, and how it can reveal way more about your life than you think.

This question came straight from a listener who asked, Is it bad to be jealous of my friend? My short answer is no. My real answer needed a full episode. A lot of guys wonder the same thing and also a...

Ever wanted to borrow someone's confidence? Well now you can. In this episode, I break down the mindset shift that helped me stop overthinking, start taking action, and actually feel more confident in situations I used to avoid altogether. If you've ever looked at someone and wondered how they walk into a room like they belong there, or how they talk to people so e...

In this episode, I talk about what actually happens when you feel stuck in life, why motivation disappears, and how to rebuild momentum when you feel burnt out or unsure of yourself. I walk through the moments where you lose belief in your abilities, the pressure guys put on themselves, the end-of-year slump, and the thoughts that make you question what you're doing.

I also break down the mindset shifts ...

Dating should be simple, but somehow it never is. In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm answering the questions guys actually deal with every week. How long should you wait after she cancels a date? What do you text after getting her number at a bar? And what are you supposed to do when someone you like suddenly starts pulling back or straight up ghosts you?

I talk th...

Ever had a conversation go so badly that you replay it in your head for days? In this episode, I'm sharing my most awkward networking moment yet: approaching a successful movie producer and completely fumbling the interaction. From forgetting everything I planned to say to asking cringe-worthy questions, this is a masterclass in what NOT to do when introducing yourself to someone successful.

In this episode, I talk with Simon Gervais, a former counterterrorism agent who once protected presidents like Barack Obama and Queen Elizabeth II, and Ryan Steck, founder of The Real Book Spy. Together, they co-wrote the new book, The Second Son coming December 1st.

What happens when you leave a life of danger for a life of storytelling? Simon opens up about trading high-stakes operations for high-stake...

I've been on both sides of the hiring table recently, and I'm sharing exactly what makes candidates stand out (and what makes them forgettable) in today's virtual interview world.

This isn't your typical "straighten your tie and walk into a high-rise" interview advice. This is real talk about going from your bathroom to your Zoom call and still landing the job. I'm breaking down the interview turn-ons an...