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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Especially in the Jamin Morn Show, Foreign and Santi When
you need to Know, No, we got you Three things
you need to Know on Boston's Number one for hip
Hop and the best Throwbags.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
She Haven't any More vives.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Wednesday, March twenty six, And I guess you could say
Ben got a little candid yeah for GQ.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
More than he has in the past relationship.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Even the fact that he's speaking on it, even a tad,
is a little more than we usually get from him.
I think mainly too, because he said, listen, I was embarrassed.
So it's a divorce, it's a breakup. It's embarrassing. He
really wants to talk about that.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
He said.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
There's no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue. When people
ask me what happened, I'm like, this is what happened.
There's no story. It's just two people trying to figure
out their lives and relationships in ways that we all
sort of normally do as you get older. This is
true for me, I assume it's true for most people.
There is no so and so did this or this
was a big event. Now. He did go on to say,
and I think this is important. Jen's better with the
(00:57):
spotlight than I am. She likes it more I don't.
I'm private. But that is not the reason that we
broke up, because remember their whole relationship. The big joke
was Ben looked miserable. Ben looked miserable at award shows.
Ben looked miserable. When they were getting in the car,
Ben looked miserable, when they were eating dinner. Everywhere we
saw Ben out in public with her, he looked miserable.
(01:17):
And is it that he doesn't want to give the
paparazzis the picture. Is he actually miserable? We'll never know,
but he is making it very clear. Just because she
loves the spotlight and he doesn't, that's not the reason.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
They broke up.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Okay, Ben, it's not the reason why. But I guarantee
if you take it away, it would have made the
relationship a lot better and you probably could have fixed
what was broken.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Played a small part for Shure.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah, I mean, how does that not like your two
polo opposites? And it's not like in private, it's in public.
You like the private the private life. She likes to
be outside all the time.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
And I actually forgot well, she had that documentary that
came out, and you know a lot of people were
putting were saying that that really put a wedge between
the two of them because it was a doc and
he didn't want to be a part of it.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
But then he was.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
And that comes up in the interview and he talks
about it, and there was a clip in it and
I remember this specifically where she was writing a song
for him on her new album because remember it was
called like do your Bed and he's like, we have
this relationship, this amazing relationship that's super private and that's
the way I want it to be, and now it's
the best kept secret that you are telling. And I
(02:19):
don't think he really liked that, but he was probably Okay,
that's what you want to do.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
That's fine.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
I mean the bigger problem is that she didn't understand
that and like kind of respect that part of him.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
There's a part of it.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Remember she's in a room with all of the people
that she works with on the dock and she's reading
them his love letters. If I'm bad, I'm like, are
you serious with those?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Like what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
So?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Yeah, I mean listen it. Then we also add in
this whole other layer of does he still have feelings
for Jennifer Garner.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I mean, I don't know they are. But she has
a boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 6 (02:55):
I don't think they come off and I think they
co parent well and they're.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Good they have.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
If you were paintballing with your ex who is santi
nice friend, and we saw a photo of you with
your arms like hugged up around her, you don't think
we're going to say, like, what, like would.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You do that?
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Tool you a message? So obviously would you do that?
I could text them and you y'all could be bugging,
but it is different. But yeah, I wouldn't be I
wouldn't be tripping.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
That wouldn't be weird to you to go up and
hug her from behind.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
No, we could stand.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
We could stand next to each other and be hugged
up and there's no problem because we're cool. It's called
the friendship. Okay, bro, we share two children that we
raised for twenty some audience.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
But I don't want not to get in the wrong
idea that he can be hugged hugged up on me
from behind and this is what friend.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
But y'all don't got no connection like that, you know,
I mean, but again.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
But you do actually, because y'all came up through the
trenches together, so I wouldn't be mad.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
No, kids, but we do have a connection.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Trenches. You're gonna hug me from behind, and like the.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Trenches, trench, just let the trenches happen. All right.
Speaker 7 (04:01):
We got good news and Fox where people are very excited.
The pass are signing a veteran wide receivers to Von
Diggs to a three year, sixty nine million dollar contract
with twenty six milk guaranteed.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
People are pumped, especially for Drake May. He deserves this.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
It's pretty clear you need to spend money in order
to win more than four games.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
It's that simple guy.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah, he had a few stops Minnesota, Buffalo, Houston. Obviously
there's some question marks around him because he's coming off
an ACL injury, but he's a vet and he always
played well.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Against the Patriots. I'll be happy to have him on
our side.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Anything's better than four guys, that's a fact.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
All right.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
And lastly, Nelly detailing why him and Ashanti decided to
tie the Knot if I'm a shanty, I don't really
necessarily love the way. Nelly's very matter of fact about it.
I think I would want a little bit more lovey
dovey when explaining. But here's Nelly on the bootleg keV
podcast just being like, well, you got pregnant.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
We were like, we gotta get this done.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Though.
Speaker 8 (04:58):
Once we found out that she was pregnant, it was
just like, I didn't want this to be.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
I don't want to say like child exactly.
Speaker 8 (05:05):
We hadn't talked about any of that yet, you know,
but I was like, Yo, you know what, let's just
knock this out because we're going to be doing so
much and everything's moving so fast.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (05:15):
I didn't want her to be, you know, a baby mama,
because we already knew where we were in life and
if we're back like this, this must be what this
supposed to be.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Didn't want her to be a baby mama, so we
said I'm gonna put a ring on it, which, by
the way, Foreren told us he did naked after they.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
Had they had sexuals, and then he proposed naked. She
was wearing his boxes and a T shirt. Another fun fact, right,
most relationship people who get back together, they usually start
mingling here and there. They might message tax I think
even with Jalo and bend. They kind of like were
talking a little bit. Then they were they Nelly was
on stage at a Versus. Remember versus back in the
road if they were on stage at a Versus and
(05:53):
that's and Ashanti said, this is the first time we
had seen each other in years. She was like, I
didn't hate him, but I hated him, like they were
not cool exes. And she's they saw each other across
the stage. He came across the stage, said hello, and
they felt a spark again. She was like, wow, this
doesn't feel that bad. She expected it to be a
little animosity, you know, And she was like, wow, this
(06:13):
doesn't feel bad.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
And from there you God.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
The versus that was a COVID thing too, wasn't it?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
Yes, Wow, it wasn't It wasn't it wasn't. No, you know, Oh,
let me let me highlight you.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
It was were emailing, I think while she was on
location for a movie.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
She was, yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
They slowly got back, slowly got back and saw each
other across the stage.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
He kissed on the cheek. She felt the vibe and
it was on.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
From now we have little baby Cake.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
With another on the way. At some point too.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
The club, he does Hoorn wanted to give her somebody
she moved had.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
His best I'm finding another club you need.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
To know for Wednesday, March twenty six, let's do round
two of that giveaway.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Speaking of Nelly, maybe he'll ring her Shanty and the Babes.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
He's gonna be hanging out with jo Rule, Eve Chingy
and Jermaine Prix at the Xtinity Center. That show is
August the third, six, one seven, nine, three one one
nine four five Collars twenty five.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
We're hooking you up. Good luck and as always, be
the odds beaver in your favor
Especially in the Jamin Morn Show, Foreign and Santi When
you need to Know, No, we got you Three things
you need to Know on Boston's Number one for hip
Hop and the best Throwbags.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
She Haven't any More vives.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Wednesday, March twenty six, And I guess you could say
Ben got a little candid yeah for GQ.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
More than he has in the past relationship.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Even the fact that he's speaking on it, even a tad,
is a little more than we usually get from him.
I think mainly too, because he said, listen, I was embarrassed.
So it's a divorce, it's a breakup. It's embarrassing. He
really wants to talk about that.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
He said.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
There's no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue. When people
ask me what happened, I'm like, this is what happened.
There's no story. It's just two people trying to figure
out their lives and relationships in ways that we all
sort of normally do as you get older. This is
true for me, I assume it's true for most people.
There is no so and so did this or this
was a big event. Now. He did go on to say,
and I think this is important. Jen's better with the
(00:57):
spotlight than I am. She likes it more I don't.
I'm private. But that is not the reason that we
broke up, because remember their whole relationship. The big joke
was Ben looked miserable. Ben looked miserable at award shows.
Ben looked miserable. When they were getting in the car,
Ben looked miserable, when they were eating dinner. Everywhere we
saw Ben out in public with her, he looked miserable.
(01:17):
And is it that he doesn't want to give the
paparazzis the picture. Is he actually miserable? We'll never know,
but he is making it very clear. Just because she
loves the spotlight and he doesn't, that's not the reason.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
They broke up.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Okay, Ben, it's not the reason why. But I guarantee
if you take it away, it would have made the
relationship a lot better and you probably could have fixed
what was broken.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Played a small part for Shure.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah, I mean, how does that not like your two
polo opposites? And it's not like in private, it's in public.
You like the private the private life. She likes to
be outside all the time.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
And I actually forgot well, she had that documentary that
came out, and you know a lot of people were
putting were saying that that really put a wedge between
the two of them because it was a doc and
he didn't want to be a part of it.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
But then he was.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
And that comes up in the interview and he talks
about it, and there was a clip in it and
I remember this specifically where she was writing a song
for him on her new album because remember it was
called like do your Bed and he's like, we have
this relationship, this amazing relationship that's super private and that's
the way I want it to be, and now it's
the best kept secret that you are telling. And I
(02:19):
don't think he really liked that, but he was probably Okay,
that's what you want to do.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
That's fine.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
I mean the bigger problem is that she didn't understand
that and like kind of respect that part of him.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
There's a part of it.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Remember she's in a room with all of the people
that she works with on the dock and she's reading
them his love letters. If I'm bad, I'm like, are
you serious with those?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Like what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
So?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Yeah, I mean listen it. Then we also add in
this whole other layer of does he still have feelings
for Jennifer Garner.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I mean, I don't know they are. But she has
a boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 6 (02:55):
I don't think they come off and I think they
co parent well and they're.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Good they have.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
If you were paintballing with your ex who is santi
nice friend, and we saw a photo of you with
your arms like hugged up around her, you don't think
we're going to say, like, what, like would.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You do that?
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Tool you a message? So obviously would you do that?
I could text them and you y'all could be bugging,
but it is different. But yeah, I wouldn't be I
wouldn't be tripping.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
That wouldn't be weird to you to go up and
hug her from behind.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
No, we could stand.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
We could stand next to each other and be hugged
up and there's no problem because we're cool. It's called
the friendship. Okay, bro, we share two children that we
raised for twenty some audience.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
But I don't want not to get in the wrong
idea that he can be hugged hugged up on me
from behind and this is what friend.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
But y'all don't got no connection like that, you know,
I mean, but again.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
But you do actually, because y'all came up through the
trenches together, so I wouldn't be mad.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
No, kids, but we do have a connection.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Trenches. You're gonna hug me from behind, and like the.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Trenches, trench, just let the trenches happen. All right.
Speaker 7 (04:01):
We got good news and Fox where people are very excited.
The pass are signing a veteran wide receivers to Von
Diggs to a three year, sixty nine million dollar contract
with twenty six milk guaranteed.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
People are pumped, especially for Drake May. He deserves this.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
It's pretty clear you need to spend money in order
to win more than four games.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
It's that simple guy.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah, he had a few stops Minnesota, Buffalo, Houston. Obviously
there's some question marks around him because he's coming off
an ACL injury, but he's a vet and he always
played well.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Against the Patriots. I'll be happy to have him on
our side.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Anything's better than four guys, that's a fact.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
All right.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
And lastly, Nelly detailing why him and Ashanti decided to
tie the Knot if I'm a shanty, I don't really
necessarily love the way. Nelly's very matter of fact about it.
I think I would want a little bit more lovey
dovey when explaining. But here's Nelly on the bootleg keV
podcast just being like, well, you got pregnant.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
We were like, we gotta get this done.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Though.
Speaker 8 (04:58):
Once we found out that she was pregnant, it was
just like, I didn't want this to be.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
I don't want to say like child exactly.
Speaker 8 (05:05):
We hadn't talked about any of that yet, you know,
but I was like, Yo, you know what, let's just
knock this out because we're going to be doing so
much and everything's moving so fast.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (05:15):
I didn't want her to be, you know, a baby mama,
because we already knew where we were in life and
if we're back like this, this must be what this
supposed to be.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Didn't want her to be a baby mama, so we
said I'm gonna put a ring on it, which, by
the way, Foreren told us he did naked after they.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
Had they had sexuals, and then he proposed naked. She
was wearing his boxes and a T shirt. Another fun fact, right,
most relationship people who get back together, they usually start
mingling here and there. They might message tax I think
even with Jalo and bend. They kind of like were
talking a little bit. Then they were they Nelly was
on stage at a Versus. Remember versus back in the
road if they were on stage at a Versus and
(05:53):
that's and Ashanti said, this is the first time we
had seen each other in years. She was like, I
didn't hate him, but I hated him, like they were
not cool exes. And she's they saw each other across
the stage. He came across the stage, said hello, and
they felt a spark again. She was like, wow, this
doesn't feel that bad. She expected it to be a
little animosity, you know, And she was like, wow, this
(06:13):
doesn't feel bad.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
And from there you God.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
The versus that was a COVID thing too, wasn't it?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
Yes, Wow, it wasn't It wasn't it wasn't. No, you know, Oh,
let me let me highlight you.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
It was were emailing, I think while she was on
location for a movie.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
She was, yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
They slowly got back, slowly got back and saw each
other across the stage.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
He kissed on the cheek. She felt the vibe and
it was on.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
From now we have little baby Cake.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
With another on the way. At some point too.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
The club, he does Hoorn wanted to give her somebody
she moved had.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
His best I'm finding another club you need.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
To know for Wednesday, March twenty six, let's do round
two of that giveaway.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Speaking of Nelly, maybe he'll ring her Shanty and the Babes.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
He's gonna be hanging out with jo Rule, Eve Chingy
and Jermaine Prix at the Xtinity Center. That show is
August the third, six, one seven, nine, three one one
nine four five Collars twenty five.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
We're hooking you up. Good luck and as always, be
the odds beaver in your favor
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