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November 11, 2025 41 mins

It’s Ashlee’s birthday! The team celebrates as she feels the love from listeners and callers — but things get emotional when she plays a few old voicemails from her grandparents who’ve since passed. Every year, she listens to them on her birthday to remember their love and the memories that shaped her. ❤️

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Speaker 1 (00:09):
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Speaker 1 (01:27):
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Speaker 6 (01:33):
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Speaker 3 (01:44):
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Speaker 6 (02:00):
Well, well well, everybody, wake it up. Number one for
the veterans.

Speaker 7 (02:06):
Let's give the veterans their time, because we certainly don't
want to get lost in that. Today is eleven eleven
Today's Veterans Day, a day that I never went to
school because we always had off, so I never got
to walk into the class with cupcakes and tell everybody
it's also my birthday.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Oh that's right for you guys. Was it always on
a Tuesday, because I feel like I remember Veterans Day
being on Monday, Monday off.

Speaker 8 (02:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (02:33):
I think it just all depends, like calendar wise, you know.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yeah, but yes, thank you for our freedom. I think
a lot of people don't understand because they're born here.
When you come from someplace else, like in other countries,
freedom is like it's not as special as it is here.

Speaker 6 (02:47):
Yeah, and it takes a special human to, you know,
give it all up and go and protect.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
So we love the Vets. Yeah, we do love the Vets.
At the very least, we could take the Vets last
name as hours.

Speaker 7 (03:01):
Saying that on my birthday, that's one of the first
things you're saying, the way, Yeah, that's wildly absurd.

Speaker 6 (03:08):
So anyways, thirty nine.

Speaker 7 (03:11):
Yeah, it's funny because it was only my dad and
my friend Bonnie who said to me, hey, you still
got a three in their girlfriend, like, live it up,
like you still have a three. I know my dad
said it because it's hard for him to imagine the
day that he has.

Speaker 6 (03:29):
A thirty nine year old. Yeah, that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
It's funny because I think I met you in your
twenties still right, and those years went by really quick,
they really did. But now being in my mid forties,
like these years go even faster. I think because of
the kids. I think they like timestamp things a lot quicker.

Speaker 7 (03:46):
I know, I couldn't agree more. I feel like even
like the last five years was a blur. Yeah, it's
so funny too, because I got home yesterday and the
fireman had had gone out, and I think, just done,
like all the birthday prep. He's gonna make like a
big steak dinner tonight and all the things. I didn't
even have a toe in that door yesterday, and Layla was.

Speaker 6 (04:08):
Like, do you want to see the cake? Daddy got you?

Speaker 7 (04:11):
And I just hear him go, Laila. So she walked
me through the cake, what he had bought.

Speaker 6 (04:17):
She didn't know where he hid.

Speaker 7 (04:18):
The candles, but she told me there will also be
candles tonight. Just absolutely snitched out. Yeah, I have to
assume it's a carvel cake, So of course a layup
it's a Carvell ice cream cake because I have respect
for myself and to me, there is no better ice
cream cake in the world than the Carvel with those
little black crunchies and there.

Speaker 6 (04:34):
I don't know what kind of crack cocaine they're putting
in those, but those things are delicious.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
How does it feel to be thirty nine? Because for
a lot of people, like thirty nine is a big
number and they really start freaking out about it.

Speaker 6 (04:45):
I don't. I have no freak out in me right now.
I feel okay.

Speaker 7 (04:49):
I think I'm young at heart, and I think that
that's gotta be like a testament to the kids. But
I've always felt like I was never like afraid of
getting older. I think it saddens me a little bit
when it comes to the kids and thinking about their
age and what my age was, because I'm an old mom.

(05:11):
I'm gonna beat when Layla is in kindergarten, I'm gonna
be forty, just like I.

Speaker 6 (05:17):
Will need a cane, you know what I mean.

Speaker 7 (05:19):
It's crazy, but that's the only part where I hear, Okay,
I'm thirty nine when I do the math, and when
she's twenty.

Speaker 6 (05:26):
That's where you start to do it, I'm gonna start.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
Yeah, WHOA. I think back to my parents. My mother
when she had my sister was like forty three, so
she's always been an old parent on that end of things.
For me, we're ten years apart. So but again, my
wife too, she was in her forties and Carter was
in kindergarten garten.

Speaker 7 (05:42):
I know, it's just so crazy to think about that
when you think of it that way, because I'll be
rolling up to kindergarten as a nana.

Speaker 6 (05:48):
Well, there'll be some twenty year olds up in there.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
What I remember you most about your birthdays? This would
have been a huge event where you went out and
partied and had a night.

Speaker 6 (05:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
Well not on a Tuesday, well on a Tuesday, but
around the weekends you would have all out.

Speaker 7 (06:00):
I know, and I feel I think it's mainly because
and that's why I was happy that my friend Bonnie
said that, because I was kind of like, thirty nine,
forty is the big one, and she was like, honey,
you still have a three in there, like you can
celebrate that, and so that that is exciting.

Speaker 6 (06:13):
I'm still technically in my thirties. Don't sleep on yes, and.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
I'm gonna pay you a compliment. I think you're prettier
and a well rounded person much more than you were
ten like ten years ago.

Speaker 7 (06:24):
I'll definitely give you the more well rounded for sure,
and I think that's grown up.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
I will show some pictures. It's like, let's let's compare.
I'll take Oh, you're aging nicely.

Speaker 6 (06:35):
No, I'll take it.

Speaker 7 (06:36):
It's also so strange that on my birthday, this video
of the girls is like I don't even know can
we say the vieword yet? Like, what's what when a
video goes viral? How many views does it have to happen?

Speaker 2 (06:46):
I don't know what's about. If it's about the amount
of views, it's how quick you get to these views.
So the last few days it's starting to really pick
up steam, so I would say it's starting to go
viral for sure.

Speaker 7 (06:55):
And the video is getting looks of people from people
that don't necessarily follow me.

Speaker 6 (07:01):
They're like outsiders that don't know me. I am getting
bashed online, which.

Speaker 7 (07:07):
Is so funny to me because I never thought that
people would watch it and think I was a bad mother.

Speaker 6 (07:12):
Bro, I'm getting dragged out there.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
But they're they're doing it based off one video they
don't know the context of anything that's kind of happening. Yeah,
but yeah, the internet moms are probably the worst group
of people.

Speaker 6 (07:23):
Absolute bitches.

Speaker 7 (07:25):
So there you have, at thirty nine years old, going
semi viral and getting.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
Bashed thousand shares fifty oh my god.

Speaker 7 (07:36):
Thousand shares and all of them are like this woman
is the worst mother ever.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Happy birthday of my especial morning show.

Speaker 9 (07:44):
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Speaker 7 (07:55):
This one gives me the legit creeps. Tuesday, November eleventh,
Veterans Day and a three.

Speaker 6 (08:01):
Day sting netted fifty.

Speaker 7 (08:04):
Six arrests five six across mass last week. We had
a press conference yesterday from State Police Lieutenant Colonel Daniel Tucker,
who said authorities launched the quote Operation Firewall to address
the exploitation of children via the Internet.

Speaker 6 (08:22):
Listen to this, guys.

Speaker 7 (08:23):
Over the course of three days last week, they arrested
fifty six people, seized two hundred and twenty nine electronic devices,
and executed thirty four residential search warrants.

Speaker 6 (08:36):
This is the part about this that sticks out to me.

Speaker 7 (08:39):
Tucker said that all but one of the suspects are men.
They range from the age of eighteen to seventy five
years old. And this is the quote. If you think
you may know the type of person who commits these
types of crimes, I can assure you there is no
priate profile when it comes to child exploitation. We have

(09:01):
arrested successful business people, homeowners, spouses, and parents of children.

Speaker 6 (09:12):
These suspects could be your neighbors.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
It's scary. There are a few accounts on TikTok where
people will bait them and then beat the crap out
of them and stores in. The consistency is you cannot
profile them. You never never know most of them. Sometimes
they also make them call like their wives and tell
them politicians.

Speaker 6 (09:33):
Yeah, they genuinely don't know.

Speaker 7 (09:35):
And I think for an officer of the law whose
job is to lock these people up to say there's
no profile. And when you hear the word profile, you
think like when you have a serial killer, right, a
lot of them fit in the profile. You can kind
of like go down the checklist. What he's saying is,
we can't even make a profile for somebody who does
child exploitation because they range it varies.

Speaker 2 (09:58):
Yeah, and these guys too, like they have such a
need to follow through with what they're feeling that they
don't even care if they get arrested, because more times
than none, they're tracking who's online with all these things.
But they're like drive is so bad that they keep
falling through.

Speaker 6 (10:13):
These are the type of people that go to jail,
and I just hope bad things happen to them while
they're while they're there, because this is like these are babies.

Speaker 2 (10:21):
Well they say the experience of them in prisoners and
that's a good thing. Good.

Speaker 7 (10:25):
Absolutely, they should have the worst experience in there. By
the way, nineteen of them were accused of trying to
arrange for sex online by communicating with an undercover officer
as part of the sting. Seven of them had outstanding
warrants for failing to register as a sex offender, and
five had warrants for rape, assault, and battery on a
baby on a child. So, I mean, fifty six arrests

(10:48):
across mass is great, but you know there's others hiding. Yeah,
let's dig deeper too, for sure, This one I can
stand on all right. Monday Night Roll last night at
the Garden and it was on you mental people. He said, farewell.
It was John Cena's last nights in Boston.

Speaker 6 (11:06):
As a wrestler, and gentlemen, for your hometown hero, for
the one, for the old man, the.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Rights of all time.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
John.

Speaker 6 (11:26):
I gotta be honest with you, guys. This means nothing
to me because I'm not a wrestler, but the music
hypes me up. Yeah, and I know how iconic he is.

Speaker 7 (11:34):
I saw it all over my timeline friends of mine
that I didn't even realize.

Speaker 6 (11:39):
We're into this. We're at Monday night raw in John
Cena merch.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah, because John was a big deal. Like obviously he
took some time off, but now that he came back
for his farewell toward it's been amazing. And also he
turned heel, which was a major move, which means a
bad guy.

Speaker 6 (11:52):
I was gonna say, explain this to people.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Yeah, so there are faces and heels. The faces are
the good guys and the heels the bad guys.

Speaker 6 (11:57):
It's like soap opera for men.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
It is, but the physicality part of is very true
though every single note I know.

Speaker 6 (12:04):
I know that to be true.

Speaker 7 (12:06):
John has three shows remaining until he retires from a wrestler,
I'll leave it.

Speaker 6 (12:12):
With you can't see me.

Speaker 7 (12:16):
Right, and lastly, re leaving the babies at home for
a little mama's night out. She went to see the
Brandy and Monica tour in La Riri was backstage. You
can see a ton of photos of her kicking it
with Brandy and Monica. By the way, the celebs are
showing up for this tour, Rihanna is not the only one.
Beyonce has been there, Jay Z, Queen Latifa, Sus the Entertainer,

(12:38):
just to name a few. People are excited to go
see this show.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yeah, if you're about the age of thirty, then you
know their music.

Speaker 7 (12:43):
Yeah, and remember they had a little like thing that
happened where Brandy kind of ran off stage.

Speaker 6 (12:51):
Well, yeah, a lot of people think she had to poop.
I mean that that could actually happen to people. But
either way, I think there was something messed up with
her with her mic I don't.

Speaker 5 (12:59):
Think you're like, I I need peto immediately.

Speaker 6 (13:04):
I don't think that's what happened.

Speaker 7 (13:06):
But either way, this is I mean, I think back
to my like being younger and listening to this song
the Boy Is Mine, The the Brandy Monica Drama.

Speaker 6 (13:17):
I loved it.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
One of the first concerts I ever went to was
she was opening up for Boys to Man When she
first came out, she was really good.

Speaker 6 (13:23):
Voice of an angel and she played Cinderella.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
I do ah, she got pipes.

Speaker 6 (13:27):
Her Brandy were very close. I'm hurt sorry her and
Whitney Houston.

Speaker 2 (13:30):
Yes, And then Whitney died. And then Whitney actually dated
her brother. Do you remember that?

Speaker 6 (13:35):
Oh my god? Which is crazy and awards family tree
by the way, Uh, just a little fun fact for
you guys. Brandy and her brother Raja, who dated with
They were not good.

Speaker 7 (13:46):
They just had a kiss and make up and she
brought ray Ja out on tour when they were in La.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
He is he must have game because he bagged Whitney
and then he also bagged Kim K too. So that's
what's even.

Speaker 6 (13:58):
Crazy about that. We all got to see. Yeah, not bad,
not bad.

Speaker 7 (14:02):
I don't think I wasn't bored wait bad, I just
in general I didn't think it was. You know, that's
raighting need to over. Tuesday, November eleventh.

Speaker 10 (14:12):
Saddy Morning Show, Good Morning Bustin's number one for hip
hop jam In ninety four or five.

Speaker 7 (14:21):
Hi, everybody, Good morning, eleven eleven. I don't know what
time I was born at. I have no idea. I
do know that I was due around Halloween, which makes
so much sense as to why I love it so.

Speaker 6 (14:37):
But I was late and I came today thirty nine
years ago. Thirty nine.

Speaker 7 (14:44):
I can't I actually really can't believe. Even when I
say it, I can't believe it. I'm sure I'll be
in even more shock next year when I'm fote.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
You were born in nineteen eighty seven eighty six. In
eighty six.

Speaker 7 (14:54):
Eighty six, baby, I share a birthday with Leonardo DiCaprio,
which I feel warm here, like it's comfortable and soft.

Speaker 6 (15:00):
So that's cool. I like that. But I was saying,
it's so typical of me.

Speaker 7 (15:05):
We all know I'm a crier and I get emotional
quick and six forty in the morning and I have
already cried.

Speaker 6 (15:12):
Not because the Internet is saying that I'm a bad.

Speaker 7 (15:14):
Mother, but because I always the first thing I do
on my birth I'm literally getting joked up as I
say this is I always go to my voicemails because
forever ago, I want to say this one from my
grandmother's from twenty seventeen or twenty eighteen. I would delete
all my other voicemails, but I would always keep the

(15:34):
birthday ones because you never know, and I knew I
wasn't going to have my grandparents around for forever, especially
turning thirty nine years old. I now, at this point
in my life, have no living grandparents left.

Speaker 6 (15:48):
But I love.

Speaker 7 (15:50):
Hearing these voicemails and it makes me feel like a
little bit closer to them. So here's one from I
believe twenty eighteen from the very famous on this show Nana.

Speaker 6 (16:03):
Well, I've called twice, and I guess you're out somewhere,
but I called.

Speaker 4 (16:08):
The same Happy birthday.

Speaker 8 (16:10):
I'll try later on today.

Speaker 11 (16:12):
But I just wanted to say happy birthday.

Speaker 10 (16:15):
I love you.

Speaker 7 (16:16):
Oh I can't handle it to you, because, like though
that's the times like she in the end, she didn't
sound like that on the phone. So that is like
old school Nana, like putting a little jab in there
to me. I've called twice. Yeah, you're not answering, but
I just want to say I love you.

Speaker 6 (16:35):
I love hearing stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (16:37):
Yeah, I can imagine it must be emotional. I have
nothing like that from mine.

Speaker 7 (16:40):
So ye, I'm so I'm so happy that I had
the wherewithal in those moments to keep those. I also
have one from my grandfather, and this one's different because
you can tell it in this one my grandfather was
nearing like the end of his life. But here's one
from this is twenty eighteen. And this is from my

(17:00):
mom's dad, my pop up.

Speaker 8 (17:03):
Hey, happy birthday baby, it's just your grandfather. Uh didn't
send them the card for God and eight age I
had anyway, Okay, I have a gold kid.

Speaker 6 (17:23):
I love you, ok Like legit cry every time I
hear it.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
Again, I have no relation to have an emotion like
that based off here and one of my grandparents on
a phone call like.

Speaker 6 (17:34):
That, but yes, because it's like.

Speaker 7 (17:38):
They're not here, but it feels so real, right, yeah,
it was, and it feel it makes it feel very close.
So it's it's strange. But I don't listen to them
all year long. I literally only listened to them.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Do you keep those just on your phone?

Speaker 6 (17:50):
Just on my phone? I have them, yes, So I
have them in my voicemail saved, but I also have
them saved on my phone, yes, because I listened to
them I don't listen to them throughout the year.

Speaker 2 (18:01):
I don't because cut that way. I'm sure that's the
type of stuff you'll be listening to when you're at
the end of your life too. You'll be thinking back
to your entire life and thinking back to memories like that.
It's really nice.

Speaker 6 (18:12):
I know, it's so nice.

Speaker 7 (18:14):
And I saw, uh, I saw somebody post this toy
that you can get or like an ornament or something
for your Christmas tree, and it's your it's this person
did their parents' voice saying like Merry Christmas, Jen, like
have a great day or something like that, like those things.
Hearing the voice that that's a they those last.

Speaker 2 (18:35):
Yeah. I mean if you combine something like that with
like the AI pictures of your kid, of just your grandparents,
I can imagine what emotions that would you know.

Speaker 7 (18:43):
Yeah, yeah, Well, let's think of something that will make
me not cry because I'm emotional.

Speaker 6 (18:48):
Let's go to line one. This, this is this is
gonna be sure to just snap me right on out
of it, Katie. You can just hit it right on
the board there, Hi, Katie, good morning.

Speaker 12 (19:00):
Happy birthday to our queen. Your grandparents would be so
proud of you and we love you. You make us
laugh every day and you are the only women country
host in New England and you are the vast and
you deserve your job and they would be so proud
of you. You're amazing. I can't stay enough about you.

Speaker 7 (19:18):
Wow, Katie, that's very nice. Thank you so much for
the call. I appreciate it. And just hit the hit
the red.

Speaker 2 (19:24):
We gotta hit the red.

Speaker 8 (19:25):
Ka.

Speaker 6 (19:27):
I'm like hit the.

Speaker 2 (19:28):
Red because sounds good. Though she was yelling at me
like five like five minutes ago.

Speaker 6 (19:34):
The only mishap was that she said I was a
country but she does like country music too, and yeah,
well then you know there you have it. Well anyways,
crying it's it's very fitting for me on my birthday.
And uh, I see all the messages. I appreciate them.

Speaker 7 (19:50):
Of course you can call six one seven nine three
one one nine four five.

Speaker 6 (19:54):
Good morning everybody, and thanks for the birthday.

Speaker 1 (19:56):
Love Morning show.

Speaker 9 (19:59):
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Speaker 7 (20:06):
You haven't any more fires, all right, everybody, Tuesday, November eleventh,
It's Veterans Day and at least I can say, we're
getting these guys off the street, but hang him there
through this because it's pretty sickening. A three day sting
that in fifty six arrests across mass last week. We
learned about this yesterday from State Police Lieutenant Colonel Daniel Tucker,

(20:28):
who said that the authorities launched Operation Firewall to address
the exploitation of children via the Internet.

Speaker 6 (20:37):
Took three days.

Speaker 7 (20:38):
They arrested fifty six people, seize two hundred and twenty
nine electric devices, and executed thirty four residential search warrants.
The biggest thing to me, the most outstanding in every
article that I've read, is when they asked him about
like the profile. He said, if you think you may
know the type of person who commits these types of crimes,

(20:58):
I can assure you there is no profile when it
comes to child exploitation.

Speaker 6 (21:03):
He said.

Speaker 7 (21:04):
We have arrested business people, we have arrested homeowners, we
have arrested spouses, and wait for it, we have arrested
parents of children.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
It's scary to think that your could be this person's,
we said.

Speaker 6 (21:18):
He said, it could literally be your neighbor.

Speaker 7 (21:19):
And a lot of these people guys, by the way,
that they got, thank god, had failed to register as
a sex offender.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
You mean that they were supposed to but they just
didn't exactly, of course, Yes.

Speaker 6 (21:30):
Yeah, because you can. There are websites you can go to.

Speaker 7 (21:32):
I did it once, because you can look up where
you live and see, you know, I don't.

Speaker 6 (21:36):
It doesn't it doesn't feel good, but you can do it.

Speaker 2 (21:39):
It also tells you where they work. And then the
scarier part is when you started like going in deep
on what their crime was. It's, oh god, it's so scary.

Speaker 6 (21:46):
It's it's a lot.

Speaker 7 (21:47):
I mean, I am very happy to know that they
got fifty six of these guys. By the way, I
think it was like fifty five men and one woman
one woman.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
The closest one from my house was like three point
three miles away. I passed it like every day in
my home.

Speaker 6 (21:59):
Mine about the same, about five five miles. Anyways, we'll
take fifty six getting off the streets for sure. And
those guys they don't. They don't fare well in jail. Nope,
and they shouldn't, all right.

Speaker 7 (22:12):
Starbucks has had to issue an apology, an apology.

Speaker 6 (22:18):
For the rollout of the barrista cup apology. When I
when it was my birthday. What did I ask you for?

Speaker 7 (22:26):
I thought the Barrista cup was gonna be an easy layup,
and they rolled it out with their holiday menu.

Speaker 6 (22:31):
But several several customers got in full.

Speaker 2 (22:35):
On for the bear CP.

Speaker 7 (22:39):
Go out, get a little bit of honey from that
little bear honey that they put.

Speaker 6 (22:43):
Out, and drake in.

Speaker 7 (22:48):
They didn't make enough of them, they said, the excitement
for our merchandise exceeded even our biggest expectations, and despite
shipping more Barrista cups to coffee houses than almost any
other merchandise items is holiday season, the Barrista cup and
some other items sold out too fast. We understand many
customers were excited about the Barrysti cup, and we apologize
for the disappointment it may have caused. What they're really
saying is we didn't make enough, and how people are

(23:09):
fighting over them. Guys, they're being resold. It's like a
hot pair of sneakers. Okay, they're getting resold.

Speaker 6 (23:17):
For five hundred.

Speaker 2 (23:18):
Dollars for the bear cops.

Speaker 6 (23:19):
For the bear cop. With the five hundred dollars, you
can get one on eBay.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
I understand it's fun to have and it's cool to
have your coffee in that, but it's not worth five
hundred bucks. The other thing is why Starbucks apologizing? Isn't
this what you want? To create more demand than supply.

Speaker 7 (23:33):
They're apologizing because people are trying to just get their
morning cup of Joe and moms are fist fighting over
a cup in the shape of a bear. The thing's
probably plastic. I would be better.

Speaker 6 (23:44):
I'd feel better about the fights of it with glass.

Speaker 2 (23:46):
Maybe there's somebody listening that works at Starbucks, like we
can get the hook up with.

Speaker 7 (23:50):
So I didn't want to say this, but since you've
brought it up, where do you go every morning?

Speaker 2 (23:54):
Starbucks?

Speaker 6 (23:55):
Who do you have a relationship with with Alex? Okay?
Have you maybe one driven him and giving him a
ride somewhere? Yes?

Speaker 7 (24:03):
You did, right, Okay, so you know I had asked
for that cup. You don't think like this is why waities.
No no no no, no, no, no no no. This is
why us wives girlfriends like we always say you guys
don't think two steps ahead in what world? Like I
said to him last week, Oh, Starbucks is dropping this

(24:23):
barrista cup? How much more, guys can I do? He
has a literal plug at Starbars. He could have gone
there the next day because he was there, got my
coffee and said, hey, guys, could you hold a bear resticcup?
Actually his birthday is coming up and she really wants it,
but no surface thinker.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
So two minutes ago I was on the surface. Now
I'm deep in the water.

Speaker 6 (24:41):
I'm thinking deep.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
Now I'm gonna be like, hey, Alex, can you guys.

Speaker 6 (24:44):
Get the reup on the bear stick up? Can I
snag one for Ashley?

Speaker 7 (24:49):
I don't know if they're going to restock, but if
they do, but you know what, let me also add
in there is something I will give it. I'm not
I'm a grown woman. I'm thirty nine years old today.
I'm not fist fighting for a for a novelty cup.
But there is something fun about getting a drink in it.
Over the weekend at the Snowport, I got one drink
and a snowflake cup. Beautiful loved it. My next drink

(25:10):
was in Santa's boot. Novelty cups are fun. They're expensive,
but they're fine all right. And lastly, I'm addressing it
just because if in fact it comes to fruition, I
don't want to hear from you that I didn't address it,
but it pains me to address it because if in
fact it's true, I will be lost and I won't
believe in love anymore. No is more invested in Timothy

(25:30):
Shallomey and Kylie Gender. I love this relationship. Anytime I
see a.

Speaker 6 (25:35):
Photo, I'm so sound. So on look, look, look.

Speaker 7 (25:38):
He recently did an interview with Vogue, and in it,
in the interview, he was asked about Kylie and his
relationship and he said, quote, and I don't say that
with any fear.

Speaker 6 (25:49):
I just don't have anything to say about it.

Speaker 7 (25:53):
Rumor has it that response didn't sit well with Kylie.
She this is what the this is what the quote
sources are saying. She feels like they're past the point
of hiding. They've done red carpets, They've been seen hugging, kissing,
all of the things. So supposedly she felt slighted by
that response. And I guess they are not together anymore.
Rumor rumor, I don't believe that. I don't either, and

(26:14):
I I mainly because I just don't want to. But
he's booked and busy dude. Marty Supreum comes out next month.

Speaker 6 (26:20):
He's filming dune. You know.

Speaker 7 (26:22):
I think there's these big moments, like Kendall just had
her big birthday party and they all went away, and
Chris just celebrated her seventieth and he was nowhere to
be found.

Speaker 6 (26:29):
But he's busy.

Speaker 7 (26:30):
I mean, dare I say he's one of the biggest
actors absolutely in the moment right now, and he's filming
one of the biggest series currently out right now.

Speaker 2 (26:37):
And it's also he's in Turkey right Yeah, it's an
easy flight to come back and forth. Like booh, it's
not so it's a rumor.

Speaker 7 (26:44):
It's everywhere. It's everywhere. So I just want you guys
to be hip just in case. I'm praying it's not true.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
Now, if she does have an issue with that, then
she needs the girl up. Yeah, right, like come on.
Their relationship should be private, and that's fine.

Speaker 7 (26:56):
He was just a couple of months ago in New
York doing some pop ups to show people's peaks of
Marty Supreme.

Speaker 6 (27:01):
She was there by his side the whole time.

Speaker 7 (27:02):
I can only hope when it comes out in December
and he's walking red carpets, she's by his side.

Speaker 6 (27:06):
Because he also said he was thinking about kids. Oh,
all right, let's get her pregnant.

Speaker 10 (27:11):
Sashy Morning Show, Good Morning, Bustin's number one for hip
hop jam In ninety four five.

Speaker 6 (27:20):
Hi, everybody, good morning. It Sashling the jam In Morning Show.
We're doing Beyond the Swipe here, formerly Tender Tuesday, which
is why I said that. Been saying enough for years,
but we changed it some months back because it just
turned into something so much more than just a straight
up I have a tender story. It was I'm going
through something in my relationship. Oh my god, you would

(27:41):
never believe what happened on this date. The streets are tough,
it's not good out there all the things. So if
you want to talk dating, love relationship with us six
one seven nine three one one nine four five, that
is six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
We're gonna start out with a DM, an anonymous DM.

Speaker 7 (27:58):
She said, I tried dating. It was a fail. I
just don't want to call. I met this guy literally
at my door. He came to my neighbor's house for
a gathering. He saw me outside with my dogs, couldn't
let go and talk to me. We started talking. The
first month I was resistant. I've been single way too long. Anyways,
I gave in and we've been dating for about two
and a half months. He recently left me, though, because

(28:21):
I don't want to have kids. He is forty four,
he has never had kids. I am forty one and
I have two kids, two big kids. At that he
still dreams of becoming a dad. We couldn't agree on that,
so we ended things. I'm better now, but it was
really really hard at first.

Speaker 6 (28:37):
Is it me? Or is it crazy?

Speaker 7 (28:39):
At forty four soon to be forty five still dreaming
of daddy land. I mean, I definitely won't have another kid.
So I was like, okay, but we were doing good,
and I was just truly in a shade am I okay?
State of shocked kinda that a man that's about to
be forty five was still holding onto the family dream.
What were you doing in your twenties, sir? I thought

(29:00):
maybe you guys could discuss this.

Speaker 2 (29:02):
I don't think that's it. I mean, that's not crazy
because if I didn't have kids, because I'm forty five
and I would still want kids, So I think it's okay.
It's also different from guys than it is for females too,
But she has two kids, so she already has that.

Speaker 7 (29:13):
That's the big standout I think. I mean, if we
could use Robert de Niro as an example, I mean,
these guys are having kids in their eighties.

Speaker 6 (29:22):
Because men can do that.

Speaker 7 (29:24):
I mean us women, and we hit a certain point
and I hate it so much, but our biological clock
starts ticking, it gets much harder. You're at higher risk
for things to happen. They call it geriatric pregnancies. Like
trust me, I went through two of them. It's just different,
Like the female body is just different. So for her

(29:45):
at forty one, she's like, I'm good, look I had
my babies. But for him, I don't think it's fair
for him to give up that dream either. I can
see both sides.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
I think for a way for her to comprehend this,
she should look at it like as if she was
thirty and didn't have kids, and she meant again, in
his forties with kids. It's the same dynamic, just on
opposite ends.

Speaker 7 (30:04):
I know, I know, yeah, yeah, I don't blame him
for being like I want kids of my own.

Speaker 6 (30:09):
But I also completely back her because I know what
it would be like if I I mean, I'm damn
near forty. Yeah, and I know how hard it would
be for me.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
As much as it would hurt me, especially if I
have feelings for this girl, I would have to let
it go because I want kids. So I understand.

Speaker 7 (30:24):
Yeah, he's gonna have to find somebody who's in you know,
maybe the.

Speaker 6 (30:28):
Earlier thirties, mid thirties, mid thirties. Yeah, even thirty five,
we could do it. But yeah, unfortunately it's just different.
Would you're forty five, you have no kids, you're single,
you probably still want.

Speaker 2 (30:42):
I absolutely will, because at forty five you can still
have kids and still be like a viable parent in
their lives for the next like thirty years really right, right,
So yes, I would definitely be looking for somebody who
will still want kids. But it is old though, Like
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 7 (30:55):
Yeah, like I said, I'm gonna be They're gonna be like, oh,
whose grandma is that?

Speaker 6 (30:59):
At kindergarten? Just nannut's my man? Who all right?

Speaker 7 (31:04):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
He is adamant that he wants to have kids. She's like,
I already have kids, they're grown ups now, and I'm
I'm all set.

Speaker 6 (31:14):
So they called it quit.

Speaker 7 (31:16):
She said, it wasn't easy as first at first, but
she's starting to like slowly get over it. You're on
the stance of, like, what was this man doing in
his twenties and his thirties?

Speaker 13 (31:26):
Yeah, because I had a son, right and I'm thirty
one now, I had him four years ago. So I'm
trying to say, what was he doing in his twenties
and thirties? Why does he want to have forty five?
That's kind of too late, man, You got it, you know, Yeah,
I'm already forty forty five.

Speaker 6 (31:41):
Well, listen, it's too late for some.

Speaker 7 (31:43):
But then we can think of some of these like
old heads out here just having kids with twenty and
thirty year old women and it's just wild. But yeah, listen,
I think to reach their own And like I said,
it's I wish, I totally wish that it was as
easy for US females to just have kids in our
in our forties as it is for guys to have
kids in their forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties.

Speaker 6 (32:04):
But it's just not biologically, it's it's it's just not.
But it's funny that you say that. Lewis because she
messaged me again and she said the same thing. She goes.
I thought to myself, what was this man doing in
his thirties, Like, what was happening?

Speaker 13 (32:16):
He has a kid now, right, this kid's gonna turn
ten years old and he's gonna be fifty five. That
age doesn't match up, you know what I mean.

Speaker 7 (32:22):
Listen, I do the ma. I'm thirty nine today, Lewis.
Today is my birthday, Okay, And I have thank you bib.
And I have a three and a half. I have
a four year old pretty much she's gonna be four
next month. And I have a one and a half
year old. And it's just like, I do the math
on that, and it's it's spooky for even me. So yeah,
I mean, that's it's crazy to think about. But I
appreciate you calling. Thanks for your input. All right, Kayla

(32:49):
is in Boston. Kayla, talk to me about dating out there?

Speaker 6 (32:56):
Girl? Yeah, a mass such.

Speaker 7 (33:00):
This is what all of my girlfriends say that are
single out there. They're like, ash, it's spooky.

Speaker 6 (33:05):
Give me. Give me a couple of reasons as to
why you believe the streets are just an absolute mess.

Speaker 11 (33:10):
If you are a single, way, you can't trust your friends.

Speaker 6 (33:14):
You can't trust your man, you can't trust.

Speaker 11 (33:16):
Your anybody anyone.

Speaker 8 (33:20):
It's just crazy.

Speaker 7 (33:21):
And I hope that everybody is living life safely, honestly.

Speaker 6 (33:25):
What happened to you? Yeah? Who are you? And who
wasn't being safe? Because I want I want answers.

Speaker 11 (33:33):
I'm just saying, you know, people take life for granted
and they definitely should practice safe SAgs.

Speaker 4 (33:40):
And did yep, we're with you now.

Speaker 7 (33:43):
Yeah that's all yeah, yeah, uncurable.

Speaker 11 (33:49):
No, it's it's definitely terrible.

Speaker 6 (33:52):
Oh god, okay, it's not something.

Speaker 7 (33:55):
Yeah, no, listen, it's uh, you know, it's it's it's
crazy out there.

Speaker 6 (33:59):
I hope, I hope you find love.

Speaker 8 (34:03):
Yes, I will, thank you.

Speaker 6 (34:05):
You're welcome, babe, God speed. No, it's that's tough.

Speaker 2 (34:07):
Even when you think they look fine.

Speaker 6 (34:11):
May here's the thing.

Speaker 7 (34:12):
We all do the look test, and we're like, looks clean,
looks safe. Yeah, definitely, no crap like that.

Speaker 2 (34:20):
But but sometimes you just don't know.

Speaker 6 (34:22):
It's called the roll of the dice. You got to you,
you must, you must wrap it up that.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
I was young, I roll the dice too much, too.

Speaker 6 (34:29):
Much, But be I wouldn't be screaming that from the rooftops.
You're married, now, yeah, I said when I was.

Speaker 2 (34:34):
Young, I'm married and things are good, so you know, okay,
all good? Oh clean?

Speaker 6 (34:40):
Hey, Well there you have it.

Speaker 7 (34:42):
Six one seven uh nine three one one nine four five.

Speaker 6 (34:47):
We call it beyond the swipe, and we call it
that specifically because you really never know what you're gonna get.
It used to be it was I went on this
bumbl day, and I went on this tender day, and
this happened. But now we get talkbacks like this, and
that's why the conversation, you know, can always go all
over the place. I have a question, what's type of
car does AJ drive? Because this can play a big

(35:09):
role on why she's probably single because she gives me
the vibes that she drives a Chevy spark lime green.
I'm gonna be honest with you, that is the most
accurate she really like. I watch her in her videos.

Speaker 7 (35:21):
She does give the vibe that she drives like a
small Neon green or honestly, like purple car.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
I don't know sssarifically what kind of car it is,
but it is very small.

Speaker 6 (35:31):
I thought you would know the type of car that
I think.

Speaker 2 (35:33):
I think it's a Toyota CenTra. I could be making
that up, but it's something small like that.

Speaker 6 (35:37):
Oh, yes, she's a small person.

Speaker 2 (35:40):
I understand that. But can I also say she's thirty
seven now she should have more of an adult car.

Speaker 8 (35:45):
Yea?

Speaker 2 (35:45):
And that also being said that, I would not date
somebody based off the kind of car they drove too. No, yeah,
because I feel like if you above the age of
thirty five to forty, you need to drive a more
mature car. You can't have like this tiny thing that's
beat up too. That's a way.

Speaker 6 (36:00):
Is that a real thing?

Speaker 2 (36:01):
It is for me?

Speaker 6 (36:02):
Yes, yes, you would judge somebody off of what kind.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
Of CenTra, tiny like Selica or something like this. I
wouldn't date them. They would have to drive like a
mid size like suv something that's like again portrays professional.

Speaker 6 (36:17):
Are you hearing this? They'd have to drive a mid
size suv? What if they're alone? Why do they need
a mid size suv?

Speaker 2 (36:23):
Because they've probably cost the same price as a tiny car.
Why drive the tiny car like the Jeep is fine?

Speaker 6 (36:29):
That's thanks, thanks, I'm glad I would make it.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
That's teetering on like not middle age.

Speaker 6 (36:36):
Are you serious? Yes?

Speaker 2 (36:38):
I know it sounds crazy.

Speaker 6 (36:39):
I am middle aged now, which is that pill for
a couple more years.

Speaker 7 (36:44):
Yes, I'm thirty nine years old. I drive a Jeep Wrangler.
That's a turn off.

Speaker 2 (36:49):
You're you're pushing it with me. I would like to
see this song.

Speaker 6 (36:55):
I need one man to co sign this. Is this
a real thing?

Speaker 7 (36:59):
I am third years old, I'm employed, I make my
own money.

Speaker 6 (37:04):
Me and you are gonna have.

Speaker 7 (37:05):
A date and I pull up in my white Jeep Wrangler.
Are you disgusted? Is that six one seven nine three
four five. I'm about to slap this man. It's like
it's my birthday. The man mentioned the last name thing
immediately at six oh one. Now he's telling me that
middle aged women like myself, calling me middle aged on

(37:27):
my birthday also shouldn't be driving certain cars, like specifically,
I shouldn't be in a Jeep Wrangler anymore.

Speaker 5 (37:35):
Unless it's your second car though, okay, my fun car,
like how Billy Costa has like his fun car and
his Okay, well I don't have Billy cost of money.

Speaker 7 (37:45):
I wish I did so. No, the g Wrangler is
my car. Six one seven nine three one one four five.
Hannah is in Dorchester, Annah, I'm thirty nine years old.
I've I feel good in my white Geep Wrangler, shout
out to Central where I got it.

Speaker 6 (38:02):
But now all of a sudden, it's a turn off.
I guess.

Speaker 11 (38:08):
First of all, I feel like a Jeep Wrangler is
like a completely acceptable like I'm not even gonna share
what kind of car I have, because I feel like
the guys are gonna hang, I'm not.

Speaker 3 (38:19):
We have.

Speaker 6 (38:21):
We have to stand on this.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
The car.

Speaker 6 (38:24):
The car doesn't make the woman tell us what kind
I'm shake.

Speaker 11 (38:30):
This is my biggest fear. I literally made up in
my head. I've had this car for five years. I
never owned a car before, and I was like, is
it embarrassing that I have a pre It? Okay, it's
great on gas. I got it for a great deal.

Speaker 5 (38:47):
I know.

Speaker 11 (38:47):
Please don't hang up.

Speaker 6 (38:48):
No, I will need.

Speaker 11 (38:49):
To add girl now, I just I can't. I don't
even gonna sell it.

Speaker 6 (38:52):
I don't even know. I don't even know cars like that.
But I'm looking at a preous peak.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
Did you say?

Speaker 11 (39:00):
Okay, I'm like, I wish it was Princess Peach. It's
a presc like candy.

Speaker 6 (39:05):
Oh, like candy. I got it I got it, I
got it, I got I.

Speaker 2 (39:08):
Think it also depends on how old you are, like,
how old are you?

Speaker 6 (39:12):
Noda?

Speaker 2 (39:18):
You have to like this is me. No, you don't
have to be in every relationship with me. You'll find somebody.

Speaker 6 (39:24):
Like I'm not having sex with you, and someone will
somebody on Max ad.

Speaker 7 (39:28):
Will It's fine, listen, it's fine, Hannah. I'm over here
in my head, like, do I look like a loosa
in my car?

Speaker 6 (39:37):
I got this is crazy. I did not know that
men thought this way. But you know what not all do, Hannah.

Speaker 7 (39:42):
Thank you for the call. Eric is in Brockton. Eric,
you and I are getting ready to go on a date.
I pull up to the restaurant. I'm in my white
jeep Wrangler. I'm thirty nine years old. Is that are you?

Speaker 9 (39:53):
Like?

Speaker 6 (39:53):
Is your penis shriveling at that? Where are we at
with that? Thank you? Thank you?

Speaker 7 (39:59):
Eric, You're a man, because I'm dealing with this boy
over here. I mean, listen, if I pulled up and
the car was like smoking down the block and the
tires were bold like I used to have I used
to be that way, I can understand.

Speaker 6 (40:14):
But I have my stuff together. The car can go
up like mountains.

Speaker 2 (40:20):
Yeah, the car don't make a person, you know.

Speaker 13 (40:21):
I mean I know people who are very well off.
You know, they have a nice house, but they have
a decent car or you know, compact car.

Speaker 8 (40:28):
I mean cars.

Speaker 13 (40:29):
Just appreciating as that nobody cares about it.

Speaker 7 (40:31):
Thank you, Eric, And here's the thing that we have
to also keep in mind. Thanks for the call. You
don't buy, but anything you don't, you don't shop. You
do like you're going on Santia can be going on
the vacation of his life. The man is he's still
gonna go to Old Navy. That's just the way he is.

Speaker 6 (40:46):
You spend money on cars, absolutely, so cars are your specific.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
It is my thing. But I think a lot of
people are taking this that it has to be a
luxury car. That's not what I mean. It just has
to be more of a car that portrays adultness.

Speaker 6 (40:58):
Like my car doesn't portray adultness.

Speaker 2 (41:03):
I don't want to say it, no, say it no, say.

Speaker 7 (41:05):
It now, it's your birthday.

Speaker 2 (41:06):
Say it what it portrays mid twenties to me.

Speaker 6 (41:11):
To me, mid twenties forty, What do you do it now?
You are pushing it? Can I like I'm in my
in my thirties, okay,
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